I've changed quite a lot recently. I'm actually good at getting to know people. However I've been noticing that a lot of the times I'm not actually nervous speaking to new people, but speaking to people I've already met and talked a while with. Even with some of my best friends, I have trouble finding topics that don't have to do with current events or common hobbies (of which there don't tend to be many). I mean when I'm with someone new, I'll get to know them, but eventually I run out of things to ask.