Been married 12 years to a great girl. Three kids 2, 4, 6. Been blue pill for most of my life.

I started reading and understanding TRP about a year ago, and soon after started taking it to heart. Lifting, started martial arts in a sparring gym, a little more of a DGAF attitude at home and elsewhere.

Without a clear goal on my part, she started feeling a bit of dread. She noticed the changes in me. I had lifting and martial arts time that was my own. I'd joked around with her before, but now I'd say more sexual things like how my female coworkers keep harassing me, etc.

So last Sunday afternoon, in bed after one of the great sex sessions we now have (she's rekt, in a good way).

Her: What's this bruise on your shoulder? Is it from your girlfriend? Or fighting?

Me: [looks over] Hmm, I don't think it's from my girlfriend.

Her: What? C'mon, tell me it's from fighting.

Me: [joking tone] Well, I can't say for sure what it's from.

Her: [getting a little upset]

Me: Okay, I don't know what it's from, but it's not from another girl.

Few minutes later:

Her: [not exact words, but to this effect]: If there was ever another girl, you'd have to tell me. The lying would be much worse. If you lied, then we'd be over.

Me: Okay.

We fuck again less than half an hour after. And a third time that night.

She's always been a good wife and a good mother to my kids - sometimes I feel it's not fair to do that to her. Note, though, that she brought up my "girlfriend."

TRP's thoughts or suggestions?

(Also, thanks TRP!)