How do I keep her talking without it looking like an interview?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-04-12T15:53:26+00:00

Whenever I'm talking to a girl and she asks something about me I notice I get carried away answering - because it gets me engaged on the conversation.

Actually, when you get carried away answering, you're no longer "engaged" in the conversation. You're engaged in talking about yourself.

So, how do I keep her talking about herself without having that interview vibe?

Simple. Interview Mode, as it's called, is when you ask a question, get an answer, and then you move on to a completely unrelated topic soon after.

Instead, you ask a question, and then actively listen. Then when she finishes answering, you think for a second about what she just said, and then your response should be related to that.

Preferably, you want to dig deeper into her motivations and emotions regarding whatever she just said. Overall, aim to get deeper into what makes her tick.

Then it's not interviewing.

2017-04-12T14:56:40+00:00

Use OSA Observe Share Ask. Observe something she is doing or something about where you are. Share your own experience about that thing Ask her sometihng about it.

Much more natural conversation.

passionr · 2017-04-12T15:55:22+00:00

Say open ended statements, not questions

trump2016au · 2017-04-12T15:20:24+00:00

^this

Title	How do I keep her talking without it looking like an interview?
Author	Hidebehind
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	April 12, 2017 2:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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