Many girls have told me "you are adorable, cute, funny, and good looking but we shouldn't date" What am I doing wrong? What can I do to fix this?

whatnololyea · 2017-04-21T08:09:09+00:00

Shit test, IMO. There are countless ways to deal with this, but I personally, would say something along the lines of agreeing that we shouldn't date, because I am TOO cute, charming, humble, etc for them. Say something that's congruent to your personality though!

n7-Jutsu · 2017-04-21T01:09:46+00:00

Maybe you aren't adorable, cute, funny, and good looking and they're just being nice.

ChelseaDagger14 · 2017-04-21T01:12:54+00:00

They see you more as a friend, you should be more direct about your intentions so they see you as someone they could be with.

norwegianmorningw00d · 2017-04-21T02:53:08+00:00

Do you consider yourself a nice guy?

DaygameCoach · 2017-04-21T04:32:04+00:00

Really hard to interpret without context. Could be shit tests, which are covered in the sidebar help, and mean you are doing WELL. Or could be "Let's Just Be Friends" which means you are a "nice guy" and not running attraction or being clear in your intent.

2017-04-21T06:32:21+00:00

You are not looked at as a possible sexual partner. Masculinity, you really have to make sure that you act like a MAN. That doesn't mean smoke, wear a leather jacket and spit, it means be decisive, be assertive, and be traditional (aka old school cool, hold the door for women and such). Do you think actor Michael Cera exudes masculinity and sexual prowess? http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0148418/ You and him may have a lot more in common than you think.

Woujo · 2017-04-21T04:43:36+00:00

no way to tell. my guess? you act corny and needy.

durthar · 2017-04-21T17:19:13+00:00

You don't make her wet. You're a spec-sheet, but she's not buying your sales pitch. So either she's not in your target market, or you're a bad salesman.

savior100 · 2017-04-21T03:54:27+00:00

shit test... they want to see if you a bad boy. Next time escalate anyways.

Title	Many girls have told me "you are adorable, cute, funny, and good looking but we shouldn't date" What am I doing wrong? What can I do to fix this?
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Upvotes	6
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Date	April 21, 2017 1:03 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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