This may come off as pretentious but I don't have any trouble with getting with girls or meeting them. However, for me it seems like I can never find someone to keep something lasting. I seem to get short flings ( month long) then they lose interest. It's started to irk me and I don't know if it's just something with the girls my age or what (I'm going into sophomore year of college)

I know you can't force anything but it seems like I haven't made that reciprocated connection yet.

So any advice is appreciated, thanks