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Hey guys so lately I've been meeting women online, mainly POF since I live in a small town. I'm 27 and just moved back to my hometown after spending the past 2-3 years road tripping (which is a story in itself), made arrangements to live with my parents until I paid off students & got out of debt.

Here is how I've been using POF, what I want is a long term relationship (which i say on my profile) but also open to friends with benefits. In the app for the past two days I've used the 'meet me' feature within the mobile version. I swipe right on everyone, message those who was a mutual match and message those that viewed me organically.

Using a simple, open ended question "Hey how are you doing?" or "Hey how are you?" as an ice breaker. Then lead the conversation, if she (normally women do) answers with a fine or i'm good you, with "what are you watching on Netflix? or what is your favorite show" since most people have a favorite or might be watching something interesting I'd like to watch. Then ask "what are you looking for relationship wise" to qualify and disqualify them, which then leads organically to "what do you like in bed" and after sharing each others likes and dislikes I usually get here number between the 1st and the 3rd conversation on POF message system.

Last night I met one of them for fast food. We're about the same age and she has a kid (i don't) and even though she wanted to meet earlier (a day or 2 before) I kept pushing that we should meet because we don't know when we will in the future. After we ate and learned more about each other, we made our way out to our cars, since like nobody was there I grabbed (hugging) her with a joking roar from behind for a second as we walked out and then as we were saying goodbye we hugged. At the very last moment, I wasn't sure whether to kiss her or not, so I just did it and kissed her (short peck on the lips). Then on my way home let her know I had a fun time and hope to see her again. (I didn't schedule another date because I'm busy) She replied that she was shocked about the kiss and said next time would be more fun.

Any feedback or anything is much appreciated!