How can you check girls out without being creepy?

Woujo · 2017-05-09T14:24:44+00:00

You don't need to check out girls. Just approach.

NotMyBestEffort · 2017-05-09T07:36:09+00:00

When you look at a girl, find her attractive, then look quickly away when she makes eye contact - this may feel like true feelings causing you to flinch... It isn't. It is clearly a lie. You know it. She knows it. You are attracted to her look. When you look away it it isn't what you want to do. looking away isn't what you would do if you were being truthful.

Unless of course, you don't feel worthy of looking at an attractive girl. If you believe that, it shows as the truth. You cant hold her gaze because it makes you feel weak and undeserving.

Nature however, compels you to look at, notice and appreciate members of the opposite sex. You cant resist your nature - you are attracted to these women. You can however resist the false thinking that causes you to not hold eye contact with or approach a girl you are attracted to.

Ask yourself, why I am fighting my own nature. The truth is, you are worthy of being attracted to any woman on the planet just by being a male human. What women feel about you - is mostly up to your own assessment. If you think, "hey, she likes me because A,B, and C", your chances of a good outcome if you talk to her is significantly higher than if think "I am not sure she likes me because there are not enough obvious signs - and I don't want to offend her by showing her I like her."

2017-05-09T08:05:10+00:00

gym can be kind of intimidating since it's daytime or so, everyone is sober, it's a respectable business somewhat, and it's crowded. at a bar you can say "i saw ye eye holes pointed in me direction, yea? do ye fancy a chat?" or if you're in australia "looking my way dear? what say we throw another shrimp on the barbie". if you're in texas just pull your gun out and start shooting she's probably trying to rob you.

2017-05-09T05:12:47+00:00

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2017-05-09T14:23:07+00:00

Didn't approach because ~~gym~~ I'm unwilling to approach and I'd rather just continue posting

My last three approaches were all in the gym, and all of them went well.

is it needed for cold approaches?

What's needed for cold approaches is actually doing anything.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-05-09T18:50:54+00:00

I've been preconditioned to simply not check girls out as it's disrespectful as I was told my countless people growing up.

Look, if you realize that this idea is ridiculous, good. Because it IS effing ridiculous. It's not disrespectful to notice a beautiful person.

What's disrespectful might be to stare at someone non-stop and even take it to where you aren't meeting their eyes when they look at you after noticing that you're been staring at them.

a girl quickly checked me out at the gym (quick non of the head, and brief eye contact, but didn't approach since it's the gym), so how can guys do that, without being creepy, and is it needed for cold approaches?

You just look around. Humans are social creatures. And we have eyes. We look around with them. Just do that. If you make eye contact, you can smile or nod or whatever.

steezmonster99 · 2017-05-09T21:52:16+00:00

The key is to not be a sneaky fuck. The creepy guy is watching her. The normal guy sees her, notices her, likes what he sees and is okay with that. He can go up and say hello or not, but he's okay with himself. The creepy guy knows he can't approach her and is watching her for as long as he can get away with.

I will add, its creepy to spend too much time staring at her regardless of your mindset. You don't know each other and to be so personally invested in her that you would look at her for the next 10 minutes is weird.

2017-05-09T23:37:33+00:00

Never be afraid to check out a girl, you're a man. Don't be embarassed about having a Y-chromosome. Just don't make animal noises, sucking sounds or pucker faces.

Title	How can you check girls out without being creepy?
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Date	May 9, 2017 4:12 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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