This is the problem I have achieving true abundance mentality. If I am dating many women and I find one of them especially likeable then I can't help getting one-itis for her. I do not overtly show how much I want her, and I still date the other girls, but the one-itis girl takes up way too much of my head space. Especially relative to the other women. Even when I go out with the other girls I hope that the one-itis girl sees us and gets jealous.

This is a nagging problem I have that I am having a lot of trouble getting over, and it has happened with multiple girls. Has anyone else suffered from this and how can I be rid of it?