This last weekend, some of my other wingmen went to a neighbouring city to game. We reached there by afternoon. Our plan was to day game for a bit for warmup and hit a club by night time.

My intention for the day game session was to get close to inviting a girl to the club with me. As a couple entry for the clubs is usually cheaper or free most of the time. I didn't do enough approach for me to get into the flow but I did get into conversations with girls. Logical conversations mind you. We were on a busy road near to a University. There were many university girls, who would've been interested in going to club. The best interaction we had was with a double set but we weren't attracted to them. The interaction was logical, to say the least. Not the best start but we can recover for a night game.

The thing I hate is asking women to tag along with them to enter the club. I feel it's like begging, and super low value. Just to save money, we are begging. So we tried to ask around to some groups to could let us enter together. We all tried it 3-4 times and got rejected. For some reason, this rejection stung me. We lost hope after wasting 1 hour or so and headed to a different club in a different area. At that point, If we got into the club was a win in my books. The different club had couple entries only and no female parties were around outside the club. We felt defeated at that point. We almost tried to cut our losses and sit down at a local pub have some drinks and call it a night.

But we decided to go back to the first club and give it another try. I decided to be more social this time around and opened up to a few groups on the way to the club. Luckily we approached a big group and accepted our proposition to enter the club. Finally, we entered the club. But the defeat and rejection earlier that night were heavy on my conscious. Inside the club, I tried to enjoy the music but couldn't. I had good eye contact with the girls. But everyone was in groups. I only talked to the group of girls with whom we entered. Apart from that, I didn't take any action. It was like I am a beginner at this. I have been day gaming for more than one and a half years at this point. I have only night game once before. I think I have different anxiety regarding night game and have less experience overall. Night game is a different game compared to day game. The more I do night game, I will feel calmer and perform better.

The things I should do better next time:

  • Approached more girls before the night to be in a flow state.
  • Avoid logical conversation.
  • Night game rejections are just rejections. Don't take it personally.
  • Don't get intimidated by gorgeous women. Be excited.
  • Eye contact means to go in for an approach.
  • Have fun first of all. Give that fun energy to everyone.
  • Laugh it off and try again.

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Any night game tips/mindsets or suggestions are highly appreciated. Thanks for reading!

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