Yesterday I went day gaming for one hour or so and on the way home I approached one cute girl and had a decent/good platonic conversation. She lives semi-near me and has a common field as me. I thought it could be easier to date her, plus I was kinda in a hurry. So I ended the interaction with "Let's meet sometime" and took her number.

A few hours after the interaction, I sensed that she would flake on me or something. Later that night I dm'd her with a pretty direct opener. She hasn't responded till now.

I know I could have done more in the interaction, like build specific date plans, have emotional connection and been less platonic overall. But she flaking affected me. I thought I could handle the rejection infield, which I can. But I wasn't ready for flaking at all. I shouldn't attach my ego to it but somewhat I'm.

This is been happening to my wingmen as well, its kinda frustrating to experience.