Im chinese, but i speak fluent english.

looking to improve my game, i was into game during my teenage years but i fell off and want to get back on now. im approaching my 30s and feel rather insecure these days

Friday Night

Currently only running night game or dating apps, my job demands a lot from me (14 hours or more per day)

i also have two other chinese friends tagging along, im kinda introducing them to game, but their english is very broken so language barrier is an issue

im very good at approaching, i can hype myself up and just constantly approach girls, i do have bad days or tired days but i will power it through.

very good at self amusment, i can force myself to laugh and during that process it just becomes funny to me.

i can open girls, make them laugh, but i dont know how to continue, i eject myself out of sets very often because i feel energy is dropping and dont know what to do, therefore to leave on a high note i just eject and open another set, this just happens on repeat i guess, i eject as soon as it gets uncomfortable for me.

i approached a bunch, but here are some ones that i kind of remember: (these were all inside the club)

OPEN: hey we look different but that's ok, we bow in our culture,

tease her for being racist, do some push pull. say hi to the whole group, they all laughing, but i dont know if im the dancing monkey.

then the girl kind of scoots over to let me sit down, but i wanted to sit next to the more receptive girl, i pat her on her knee to indicate i want to be next to the other girl, but she refuses so i just sit in the spot which was given. make some small talk, but then the group just leaves.

i do a lot of, "oh why she hate me?, is it my face?"

anyway i will try going out again tonight, there is only one club in my town, so still figuring it out.

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