I started dating a new kind of girl for me. I didn't meet her at the bar or some other common locations, which probably implies she's like 2 standard deviations different than average. OK, she's not tall and not like hot Latina kinda looking girl, but extremely attractive with blue eyes. She's extremely smart (lol freshman in college got internship at KPMG). I went on a few dates 3 days in a row lol (first was actual long ass date, next were just continuation of study together in form of dinner and walk). And she's not ghosting and not rejecting. She's finally when I ask her out, but she's extremely shy. When we first met she mentioned bad experiences with guys. I kinda got used to hugs and when I say hi and tryna hug - she's like looking at me with expression: dude wtf??? Or she feels weird when you open her a door. She never say a word unless you make her by asking a ton of questions. I know she's kind, caring, and amazing girl inside, but how can I make her to open up a bit. I wanna try to be with her, but at the same I don't want it to he cure walks after like 8+ dates.