If you cold approached a girl or got her number from a dating app, chances are that she likes you enough to go on a date with you. Of course, women will often give their numbers away to men just to be polite and not have to deal with their temper tantrums, but if that's the case, no big deal, you'll most likely just get ghosted, and on to the text.

The Purpose Of Texting Women

  • The purpose of texting women is to schedule dates
  • discuss logistics
  • message her back when she messages you first (reward good behavior)

You should not text women with the following intentions

  • Getting to know her better
  • building comfort and rapport prior to your date
  • so she doesn't forget about you
  • having full blown out conversations

Building attraction with a woman should happen in person. When you get their number, your goal should be to schedule a date and go radio silent until the day of the date. All texting does is cause you to reveal far too much information about yourself, reducing mystery, and making you appear like every other guy messaging her.

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Why you get ghosted after scheduling dates

Most guys get ghosted after scheduling dates with women because they texted too much before the date, revealing far too much information about themselves, the women learn too much about the guy, and they decide there's no need to any longer go on a date because she knows all she needs to and has deemed you as unworthy. Men essentially talk themselves out of dates.

What to message them

Ask what there availability to go on a date is, once they provide you a time frame, give them a set location and time. That's it. No more small talk, no comfort building, no rapport building, she's comfortable enough with you to agree to a date, no need for more talking.

"What if she thinks I don't want to go out anymore because I never messaged her/forgets"

This is nonsense and a common rebuttal from men. She is not going to forget that she scheduled a date with a guy, especially one she perceives as high value, because you haven't been messaging her. As men, our word is our bond, what we say is what we do, so if you say you're going to do something, that means you will, and she has no reason to think otherwise unless you have done something to indicate so.

In the off chance she does say that she thought the date was off because she hasn't heard from you, just say no and that you keep your word.

They don't want you to text them

Women love mystery. They want to be wondering what you're doing and why you aren't texting them like all of the other dudes in their inbox. If you are regularly messaging them, especially if you are revealing information about yourself. Schedule the date, and only message them if they message you first after scheduling the date.

If they do text you prior to the date

Always respond when they message you because that is good behavior that should be rewarded. With that being said, you should always respond in a way that doesn't provoke a response out of them and does not push the conversation forward. Leave building attraction to in person. Women texting you first is a very good sign of interest, it just doesn't normally occur until after some emotional impact has been made on them, namely sex. Once you have sex with a girl, you will normally notice her initiating the messaging more regularly.

Stop Using Emojis

Emojis are incredibly feminine and should never be used by men.

This article goes into more detail about how you are supposed to text women:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/what-to-do-after-getting-a-girls?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web