How to respond to "I don't care", or similar answers with attitude?

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T16:49:14+00:00

I didn't pay attention in charm school either

enticingasthatmaybe · 2014-10-15T17:00:20+00:00

People who truly don't care don't use the words "I don't care".

Don't correct her over menial shit. If she says something absurd just pat her on the head and tell her she's cute.

If she says the same thing about something important to you, and you have an investment in her, respond with something like "I know" and give her a little silence for a while. If she is just some random broad, ignore it and move on.

fyseaking · 2014-10-15T19:28:56+00:00

Still need more context. The general advice is to never correct a woman.

I know as men we have the urge to correct dumb people women or not.

But with women if you want to get in their pants just let it go.

If you disapprove of something they've said just say "ok", ignore the subject or change it.

You're wasting your time and energy and you're breaking frame if you're letting it bother you.

Be more aloof, cool.

It should be you who doesn't care what they think, and they love that.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2014-10-15T16:41:44+00:00

Need some context

oldredder · 2014-10-16T05:17:29+00:00

Stop correcting her about stuff. Just don't let her do things which de-stabilize your life. That will give her no reason to respond with "I don't care" unless she's being really disrespectful to you about your boundaries in which case you either hold her to your alpha frame or drop her because she's now devalued herself to a level that she's not worth your time but other women still are.

Title	How to respond to "I don't care", or similar answers with attitude?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	October 15, 2014 4:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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