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Red Pill Theoryfyseaking/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:30 AM
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fyseaking/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:46 PM
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I see your point but I don't see much alternative besides refusing doing a favor for someone who isn't being grateful for your effort and time.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:50 AM
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LMFAO! This comment is amazing. Made my day completely.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:44 PM
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Keep working on it. Without actual statistics of you meeting several women, don't worry about any "what ifs" because you'd just hamstering about more what ifs. Get out there and be yourself in an RP way.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:51 PM
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I like this one but in the off-chance she really genuinely thinks it's fine I stay away from this answer.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:49 PM
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You need to dare to say things you're not always comfortable saying. Though this only works in person since body language has a lot to do with it. And is your best weapon. Try to experiment with how far you can push their comfort. Challenge yourself and them with witty questions and or scenarios. For example the other day I was flirting with a new chick I met. I had hung out a bit with her before I got her number so she knew I was pretty carefree and said outrageous shit. All I was thinking the …
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:07 PM
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Ugh, I used to say that to my friends but when anyone else asked me I blanked out. Damn you brain.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:56 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree, he can go for it. I'm just playing the devils advocate. It already sounds like he made up his mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:28 PM
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Not if she ends up hiring a private investigator or circumstances beyond your control. The point is you can never see coming when/how you get caught. That's why cheaters are found all the time.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:03 PM
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Because she'll most likely leave you the moment she finds out you're cheating on her. Then your kids will have no mother. Is it amoral for your kids to end up without their mother present? Or without their father if she gains custody?...
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:54 PM
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IF you really don't give a fuck then tell your girl you want an open relationship. If she doesn't want to then tell her you weren't asking for an opinion and you're going to do it anyway. She can either stay or leave. Cheating is pretty cowardly and a captain shouldn't behave as such. Just lead the way to where you want to go and if she doesn't want to sail with you she can abort your ship while others board it and enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:47 PM
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Like I said at night it should be easier. Most people have plans during the daytime. If you can find somewhere to escalate / kino during the day go for it. Some girls could be willing to drop whatever they're doing if they're into you. At night it's where it's at though, you can feel the vibe from girls wanting to party, drink and have fun so it's a totally different atmosphere. I'm sure you can make more than one catch there at night. Scout the hotel floors for parties you can crash and girls a…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 06:59 AM
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Just don't give in or apologize no matter how pissed she may seem. Amused mastery & hold frame!
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:32 PM
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Out of curiosity, can we see your mask?
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:30 PM
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Hey there breck. I had success picking up a chick at a convention. I never realized some of these pro cosplayer girls do it full time. Who knew you could make a full time job out of that? Anyway, approaching them daytime while they're working is kinda iffy since they're in the work mindset. The conventions I usually frequent are hosted by hotels. I don't personally like dressing up, I only go to hang with friends, get smashed and have a good time overall. At night you'll see people coming in and…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:23 PM
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That explains aloooooooooot. Made this girl orgasm a few times last time we saw each other and now she's avoiding me. I've been wondering what I did wrong because we've had amazing times every time.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:39 PM
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You're putting too much value on them. It seems like you don't value yourself at all. Lurk TRP for some manly hobbies that you may be able to do. Or look for some of your own. Depend on yourself more than depending on other people to make you happy. You'll stop giving a shit once you have better shit to do than sit there and wallow about people that aren't worth your time or effort. This is where you can let the negative energy drive you deeper into agony or turn that negative energy into positi…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:45 PM
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Be resourceful. Live near any lakes or hunting grounds? Go fish, or hunt for your own food, no joke. It'll make for some good stories for the ladies/friends/etc. All you mostly need is protein, I don't spend much on food except chicken, avocado & lettuce. It's a little over a handful bucks but lasts me for some days. Not the best but it's getting me to where I want to be.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:39 PM
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No, but maybe the person you meet with could possibly doxx you
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:56 PM
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I think he worded it wrong. He probably means he just wants a wingman.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:38 PM
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You could but at the risk of being doxxed.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:37 PM
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Another follow up/break down to my previous post. I was too busy not giving a fuck and making a lot of advances. Which she liked but I didn't do a lot of push/pull now that I think about it. I think this is where I fucked up and I didn't give her enough room for her to chase. Only less than a handful of chances for her to do that, which she took and totally did but I don't think that was enough. This is what I mean when I pushed too fast in my previous post. So she might've been a little put off…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 01:33 PM
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Damn, thanks a lot for this. Sometimes I fail when they start being a bitch it just puts me off so damn fucking much that it just kills my attraction to her. It's a reflex that comes up every now and then that I need more practice controlling I think. Just gotta remind myself not to take these hoes seriously.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:20 PM
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Agreed. Something like putting your arm around her is a bad idea after she tells you she has a boyfriend. Talking to her to figure out if it's a shit test is perfectly fine. If she's really not interested you can tell within a few moments right after she mentions it. Then you move on. Thanks for articulating this better than I could.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:54 AM
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I've read field reports here that would argue the contrary. TRP also mentions it's a shit test to get rid of 99% of betas. There's plenty of girls that give their numbers to guys. If you'd like an example I can link you. Though I don't support pressuring into her giving out her number, if you get along and she does end up giving you her number how is that your problem? This subject comes up often and I've seen it mostly labeled as an amoral decision and therefore up to the person to pursue. Funn…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:41 AM
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You're assuming the boyfriend is there though. The point is when the woman is most likely alone and bullshitting through her teeth. You can't tell if she's telling the truth or not if she's alone. This isn't really the best advice for women that are alone. Obviously you don't try to hit on a girl when her boyfriend is right next to her.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:37 AM
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All right Mr. badass, how do you propose to get around her shit test without getting your shit kicked?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:57 AM
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Another confirmation for women absorbing other's interests. I'd be out and about doing my own shit. Pre-trp I was relatively alpha so I didn't care if she put up a fit if I went to my usual heavy bass electronic music. She didn't want me to go (jealous type) but since she saw I didn't give in. She actually didn't stay home and went to the concert with me last minute. She listened to mainstream radio and I knew she was super up-tight about the shit I liked at first. She didn't like it when I'd pu…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 09:59 PM
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These are the kinds of girls you want in an LTR too. Considering how difficult it was for me to get her through her anti-slut hamster, she'd be a great candidate. However, I think I pushed too fast (even though she ate it up at the time) so I'm getting backslash from her hamster now. Gonna soft next her, not much else I can do I think. I recommend you do the same. If they can't find a better alpha they'll come crawling back. If not then good for them, since I don't exactly want an LTR with her a…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 09:36 PM
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Damn, this happened to me just yesterday. Considering it's one of my friends I seduced and we fooled around every time we saw each other after I first initiated intimacy. She gave me some hard LMR until the 3rd time we fooled around when she gave into having sex. I can tell she wants me bad but her hamster is in hyperdrive. I wonder if she'll come around... If not oh well.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:08 PM
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Lmfao. Love that last line. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 04:06 PM
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I get the point you're trying to make dude, no bs. But that kind of ego/pride isn't alpha. Don't let your feelings get to you. You failed the shit test indirectly. She tested you and you failed because you let those feelings of her previous rejection get to you. Which means she won. She filtered you out just as any other beta would be. Shit tests are called shit tests for a reason. You didn't hold frame at all in the end.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:29 PM
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Good for the newbies though
/r/askTRP17/10/14 12:28 AM
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It's a little weak since it's a question and leaves it more vulnerable for a negative answer since you might sound unsure if you will or not. Plus that depends also depends on your SMV and body language. Better chances would be something like approaching a woman with a little more risk. Sitting down and saying: "This is what's going to happen. You're going to buy me a drink. We're going to have a great time and you're going to give me your number." Lock eyes, hold frame. See what happens. This w…
/r/askTRP16/10/14 07:45 PM
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Once you believe that you're a cocky shit, they'll believe you're a cocky shit. And there won't be a hint of twat. If your body language doesn't back that up either then you're setting yourself up for failure. Funny how we have to become actors to a certain extent. Only after practicing do we actually have confidence to pull it off.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 07:35 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 02:57 PM
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Because then everyone would move to the 30+ sub asking for advice for the more experienced.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:37 PM
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An issue as far as him deciding what to do next. Since TRP is only a guideline it's really up to him as to what he wants to do. I don't actually mean make an issue out of it with her and talk about it. I probably wasn't clear on that part.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:30 PM
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Alphas are supposed to be solid as rock. You never take what a woman says seriously. So no. Making an issue out of it actually breaks your frame and you enter hers. Not giving a fuck is masculine. Because you have abundance mentality and if she fucks up you next her, because you don't want someone like that in an LTR.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 12:09 PM
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"Ok" Then go to the gym and lift. Act outcome independent. If she doesn't want to go she won't go. She's just only using it as an excuse to shit test you. If she does end up going then you might have another issue but don't get ahead of yourself yet until you make this step. Hold frame the whole time. Even if she ends up going. Option 2: You can tell her "nah, I want you for something that day" If she asks "what?" just say "to fuck you good" Shit test passed and you answer the question. Though I…
/r/askTRP16/10/14 05:42 AM
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Still need more context. The general advice is to never correct a woman. I know as men we have the urge to correct dumb people women or not. But with women if you want to get in their pants just let it go. If you disapprove of something they've said just say "ok", ignore the subject or change it. You're wasting your time and energy and you're breaking frame if you're letting it bother you. Be more aloof, cool. It should be you who doesn't care what they think, and they love that.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:28 PM
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AWALT bro lol. Really I'm proud enough that you're able to dump her. Not many guys have the balls. Plus don't take her back no matter how much she may beg or she'll lose all respect for you.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:17 PM
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Actually, same here bro. It's a combination of your mannerisms and your voice. Also what you talk about matters too. I've been super hyper all my life I've conditioned my voice to be high pitched. Just take some vocal lessons on how to speak with power and you should be good. Of course, work on your body language as well. Maybe some speech lessons. Some tips: http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_how_to_speak_so_that_people_want_to_listen You don't have to, but it's a very valuable optional t…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:01 AM
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Ignore her and don't initiate conversations. Only respond if it's work related and shrug off anything she says that's shitty. People here don't tell you to treat women like children for nothing. Would you give a 5 year old the time of day? Nope. Start treating her like one. Most importantly you don't have to explain yourself. Don't answer to anything she tries to ask you. It's bait to get you.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 10:59 PM
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No one will want you if you think low of yourself. Stop trying to get a quick fix because it doesn't exist. Improve yourself and then all of your worries will melt away.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 10:54 PM
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Disregard it. Say something like "Cool." My mother has baited the exact same thing my whole life and I never feed her.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:25 PM
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It's ok to fail. You get experience by failing many times. Go ahead and orgasm the first 20 seconds. You'll be able to get it back up in no time and try again if you hadn't had sex before. Undoubtedly you'll be horny as fuck if you just think about her and not think about your insecurities and the more you fuck her the better your stamina will be. If you fail just move on and move forward.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:24 PM
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Why can't you just be indifferent? Something neutral like "Didn't work out". Keeping it simple and saying it this way makes you sound better than some verbose beta explanation.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:17 PM
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Let me share my experience: I feel like natural alphas don't go through the 5 stages since they've always know they're RP but could never articulate it. I remember being MGTOW after high school up until I ended up in an unexpected relationship. At first I was RP as fuck, didn't give a shit about the chick thought. I'd do whatever I want by myself or friends (tons of hobbies) she'd just awkwardly orbit around me and I'd only let her since she was the fiance of my friend that had died at the time …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:04 PM
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Make your word absolute. Next time she really does start crying do kick her out like you said you would. Your words will hold more weight if you back them up with actions.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:44 PM
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I think it's fine to try an LTR if you ever wanted since you seem to have her in check. The moment you can't handle her LTR is over. Whatever you do, don't live together. and what /u/A_Thousand said.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:40 PM
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She tried talking to me again and I told her to go away. When she asked why I told her I don't talk to flakes. After hamstering quite a few excuses. I told her, "I'm done with you and your crap" and went to sleep. Next day I wake up to messages of her asking to hang out, saying that I was right that she was being a bitch. I reluctantly accepted and explained to me in person she hasn't told anyone that she doesn't go to the fair because she found guy she fell in love with, with another girl at th…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:34 PM
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Right on, not everyone has the willpower to get new friends. Good job.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:04 PM
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You said it yourself, doesn't matter what she says. You can treat it as hanging out and if you played your cards right she'd still fuck you. TL;DR: Never take a woman seriously.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:56 PM
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Let me tell you quiet man is really, really hard to pull off. Don't worry about being yourself and don't take back any stupid shit you say because you'll lose frame. You can always hit the restart button when you find another girl.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:54 PM
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Check this out... http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/11/21/she-felt-unloved/ Basically what /u/LiveFromLiberia said. He was able to articulate the words better than I. Saying "I love you" to a woman does nothing for her.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:34 PM
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LMFAO!!! I love the part where he's all: "what's going on over here?"
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:54 PM
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It's not drama if you're just teasing her. Sounds like she was just being overdramatic imo. (go figure)
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:41 PM
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Sounds like you need to keep working on yourself. Once you take her back it'll be back to beta mode. Do yourself a favor and start talking to other girls. That's the TRP thing to do and the best thing got you since you sound inexperienced. She'll most likely do it again if you get back together. You're right about the part where you said she doesn't know what she wants. That's because you're not being dominant enough and she sounds like she's in charge of the relationship by the way you talk to …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:10 PM
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You can but you can never tell her or show her. Don't get oneitis or put her on the pedestal and you should be fine. Be alpha most of the time with a dash of beta. (LTRS only).
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:02 PM
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That's a great start actually. Getting numbers is a big deal, some guys can't even get to that part. I'd say baby steps but that's pretty significant. You're probably taking more than you can chew right now, getting the number is very critical. I'll try to help as much as I can, now... I really do need you to be more specific or all we can give is general advice, which is also on the sidebar. If you get the girl's number what part of the process does she reject you? Do you get to the meeting par…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 05:45 AM
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Man up and act as if it didn't phaze you. Alphas don't show vulnerability with emotions. Read the sidebar and play some dread game. She wants to lose 30 pounds to gain SMV over you in which she could theoretically dump you for any other guy. More on this on the sidebar. Bring more value to the relationship than her, lift, pick up a hobby... oh and also, have you finished reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP14/10/14 02:34 AM
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YOU'RE DOING GREAT. Text for logistics only next time you tard. No random conversations, no asking her WHEN just command the next time you'll be somewhere. If she shows up, great. If she doesn't then pick up another girl. Please tell me you've read all of the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:28 AM
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Be more specific, what exactly do you fail at? How many girls have you approached in the last month? Otherwise the general advice is to keep failing. Getting rejected by women is like getting calluses from playing a guitar. You won't get desensitized from pain if you don't keep practicing. Go out there and keep getting rejected until you don't give a fuck. You'll have a lot more experience on what works and what doesn't then.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:40 PM
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I actually wish I could talk less. Quiet guys give girls the tingles because it makes them more mysterious for them. You lucky S.O.B.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:01 PM
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I've always thought the same about Millan. Incredible that RP works on animals.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:50 PM
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I like this.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:49 PM
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You need to finish reading the sidebar before you ask anymore. You're slowly converting you'll change nothing with the blue pill attitude you have still. As long as you have the same mentality nothing will change put in the work to finish reading the sidebar and execute it. Keep us up to date with field reports on how you've tried to applied RP knowledge and how you probably fucked up but we'll be here to guide you so you won't make the same mistake twice.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:20 PM
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I did this myself but instead of asking questions I said "Ok, we're done here. Leave." Without a word after that I got under the covers and pretended to go to sleep. She stood there for a few minutes seeing if I'd cave. Fucking nope. Then she was like "You're an asshole." She got in the sheets again and we banged. You failed her shit test but lesson learned. Though in the end you did the right choice, bro. Next time don't give girls a ride though, tell her she needs to leave and find her own rid…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:58 PM
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I don't think it's something you should keep on your mind 24/7. But rather the occasional "I'd like to fuck her again" then proceed to hit her up while following these rules.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:11 PM
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No. People can relate to women but can't relate to TRP because it's too radical for the BP raised Disney zombies.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:47 AM
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Yeah, you messed up that's not even funny even if you "get" the sarcasm bro :P Also like I said sarcasm doesn't work unless it's ridiculous. That was totally believable. Haha. That was still salvageable though I'd say "haha I've never met someone who doesn't understand sarcasm" Girls love saving face, just need to get more tools under your belt. Different bait for different types of fish (situations). When you fucked up don't try to convince them what you're saying is true. Change the subject or…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:33 AM
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I've never really had a problem with that, I do it all the time. Sarcasm doesn't work if you aren't being ridiculous enough. I texted a girl on tinder a while back. "are we bf and gf now?" She's like "r u srs?" I agree & amplify. "Hell yeah, how else can I get an army of babies to take over the world with cuteness?". she laughed and I told her to give me her number so we can hang and she did. Several lessons here, keep doing your sarcasm thing if its part of your personality and you think you ca…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:48 AM
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Eh, you can have tons of awkward moments as long as you have frame. The one who caves is the one with the broken frame. Make sure yours is stronger, who ever speaks first loses.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:12 AM
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Context, my man. HE has no text game. If he's good in person he needs to stick to not texting anything but logistics. When he starts building more experience/confidence that should translate over to text game I'm sure.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:04 AM
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I had this happen to me with a girl. I wanted to drink that night so I took a cab out. So I'm there being awesome, pick the girl I want then I take her to a nearby hotel since I was more horny than usual that night. So everything's going well up until the point she freezes me out. I was like "Ok, we're done. Leave." She's stunned. She says "are you fucking serious?" I said. "Yep" Even then she offered me to take me to my place since she's the one that drove me there. Then I said "No, don't need …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:01 AM
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BRO! There's no such thing as text game. You don't text her AT ALL but for logistics only. No "hello, how are you?" etc. Stay with what you're good at. Only text to set up dates or see her in general. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:37 AM
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Frame, frame, frame. You can do and SAY the stupidest shit and as long as you don't cave to the awkwardness or whatever BP feeling you're getting will make you look like a badass for not giving a shit. If you get a "are you freaking serious...", agree & amplify. "Hell yeah I am." Sometimes I like to add "bitch" or "you gonna do something about it? No? That's what I thought." Though a few chicks have been offended and left, most will just laugh from nervousness, because it's funny or whatever sin…
/r/askTRP12/10/14 10:55 PM
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Or use it in her defense and say she was looking for friends but it just "happened"
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:42 PM
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Plus gets the beta/clueless guys to skip on them. Alphas will ignore this and contact them anyway
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:41 PM
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Practice locking eyes without looking away in complete silence maybe add a little bit of cockyness. She WILL cave and do what you did instead. Let the hamster do the work, you kind of went BP when you caved into her after the silence. That plus add all the good tips you receive from this thread.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:39 PM
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If he wasn't paranoid about being RP he'd probably be paranoid about something else. Hamster tries to find any place you feel insecure.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:16 PM
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I like your advice best
/r/askTRP11/10/14 05:02 AM
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Cool, thanks for this perspective.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:25 AM
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I love fire vs fire too. I always feel like I'm in control because I'm only pretending while the other is being an emotional wreck. Fun times.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:22 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2ivwsa/what_are_the_differences_between_an_orbiter_and_a/ Relevant.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:21 AM
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Or it's a trap.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:20 AM
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I like this answer. LOL.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:19 AM
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Seriously though, part of being an alpha is not to let these children acts get to you. DO NOT bring it up. This is a shit test and she'll know that you can cave to her petty guilt trips. Really, ignore it. Yes, it's hard but don't stoop to her level and the reward is far greater. (Experience, you get to keep the girl, etc). UNLESS she brings it up (and I mean it) just say something like "I think it's cute when you throw your little fits". Just dismiss it completely and she'll feel like she lost …
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:08 AM
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Probably to do with something about not validating them because it's "beta" since any guy would probably say the same thing.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 12:02 AM
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Hell yeah you should. How else do you expect to gain experience? Some tips (these are on the sidebar so read that shit if you haven't already but alas): The first and foremost most important part of cold approaching is to become desensitized to rejection. Go out there and enjoy the failure. Really. You aren't going to learn that by reading, and there's nothing wrong with going solo. The worst that could happen is some girl going "eww, no". To which you picture her as a child (remember, treat wom…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:45 PM
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Dude, have you read the sidebar at all on /r/TheRedPill? No, don't contact her at all. Go ahead and finish reading the sidebar on /r/TheRedPill and then you can ask questions because this is answered indirectly.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:59 PM
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This plus don't forget outcome independence /u/seanlikecrazy
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:52 PM
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"Luck doesn't exist. Grow up." I love messing with 'em.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:48 PM
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I like this one the best. Just because it puts you in a more dominant position.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:46 PM
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I had similar experience with different results with a friend of 5 years. The only different part is that she was average which at the time I didn't know it was great because I didn't put her on the pedestal. I started practicing TRP new found knowledge just cuz but like you she would dismiss it and say I'm joking. I started doing shit outcome independent. I'd keep making get laugh and making sexual jokes to make her used to the idea of me talking about sex in general. I stopped treating her lik…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:33 PM
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lmfao, talk about being oblivious bro! Good story.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:52 PM
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When slaps happen to me I usually say "damn baby that was hot, do my other cheek" amplify & amused mastery plus I turn it into a sexual thing. In large group situations this dissipates the tension and everyone will laugh. This works well for me and they usually can never go past the first one. I'm not a masochist but damn I find it fun lol Though if they do get a second one you can say "all right, enough fun for you, it's my turn. Turn around and let me smack that ass." :D
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:40 PM
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I told her "I'm not at liberty to say; you know, secret government stuff". She kept asking and I kept amplifying. "If I told you, you'd have to go into protective custody". Until it got so ridiculous and she gave up. I had fun coming up with this stuff so don't feel pressured to answer, have some fun with it. Though she still hinted at what I did for work the next day, but since she didn't ask directly I didn't acknowledge the comment. Hasn't come up since.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:14 AM
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Surprising to hear considering you give some great answers on questions yourself. Though I have to admit sometimes you can forget to take your own advice. I hate it when this happens but practice makes perfect I suppose...
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:56 PM
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In the theoretical sense alphas and poly women don't exist. TRP is not a law so use what they say here as a guideline and make your own decisions. So yes, different strokes for different folks.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:50 PM
1

Same, and I got to this point within a couple of days. Though I did shut her down hard so figures. I wonder if this kills their interest though.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:24 PM
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LMFAO. That's gold. Amazing read, thanks.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:29 PM
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Just spin other plates until she comes around. If she doesn't, then no big deal you're already with other plates. I'd radio silence her until/if she's like "why won't you talk to me anymore?" Just say "I don't talk to people that I don't hang out with". If she doesn't then she's just attention/validation whoring. I tried this some time ago and it worked like a charm. She even offered to pick me up so I didn't have to move a muscle. haha.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:24 PM
1

take and take and take should I take that literally as 3 drinks? :P
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:06 PM
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I wouldn't, but you're asking The Red Pill. Even more if you're attractive you'd be surprised how much shit guys would put up with. (Specially betas). If you can spot a beta, you're set with all those things you want because they'll do things "because they love you unconditionally" which doesn't exist in TRP.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:04 PM
1

lolwut?
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:56 PM
1

I agree with her not flaking, she stood you up. I heard texting "pfft" dismisses it like you don't care and some TRPers have had success with flakes afterwards. You can try it to see what happens but I wouldn't make any plans with her anymore.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:59 PM
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If you don't mind being the 'other' guy you can pass that like any other shit test. You can respond with, "It's just coffee, I'm not asking you to marry me." Girls that aren't being fulfilled or are dating a beta will give you their number.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:08 PM
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Let me know how that goes!
/r/askTRP09/10/14 05:33 AM
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Good for you man, lesson learned.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:18 PM
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"Some other day then" and shrug it off like nothing. If you don't already have her number, "some other day then, write down your number on my phone". See? No questions Then try again a week or two after. If she doesn't put the effort reschedule with you by the second time you ask her, just next her. She's not interested in you. Now don't just sit there and wait for her, try to spin other plates while you put her on the back burner. If she doesn't come around then no big deal, you'll be looking f…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:05 PM
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Holy shit dude. If she's at your place kick her out. If you're at her place, leave. Have some some self respect man.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 03:37 AM
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Don't buy her anything. It's beta enough to apologize, don't make her lose respect for you more by being more submissive.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:45 AM
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Prolly got traumatized as a kid. Fucking nosy moms make you hate anyone that checks your shit SO or not, secret or not.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:27 AM
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Usually you never ask for someone out for coffee or anything the same day (unless it's at a mall or somewhere they obviously have free time). It doesn't matter when she's free. You have to get the word out ASAP. Just do it when YOU have free time then see what she responds. Example: "Lets get some coffee tomorrow". The point of TRP is to be the alpha lead. Lead the woman around your world. This is why you make yourself the most important in any relationship. This is why you're supposed to lift, …
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:02 AM
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I agree and I'm in my mid 20s
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:48 AM
2

Worse part is if you do this she'll probably want you more. LOL.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:33 AM
1

Yeah but nothing prevents him from using it to his benefit for other reasons :P
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:28 AM
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This. It's true when they say to keep busy. But they don't know that this serves another greater purpose. Not to just get over her/forget, but to improve yourself. Once you're happy with yourself you don't need a chick to keep making you happy. You'll be self-sustained emotionally.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:53 PM
2

The title does say LTR lol
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:37 PM
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She's only right if you let it get to you, whether it's true or not. She could be pulling shit out of her ass and if you believe it that's when you lose. Shit tests everywhere man. You ARE alpha the moment you pass her shit tests that one including. You will become the pussy she says you are once you acknowledge or believe what she's saying. Don't fall into her frame bro.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:33 PM
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It's called escalating for a reason. You start out small like @tom's examples, then comes kissing then maybe some fondling, then you ask her back to your place. If you get to fondling specially you can escalate to sex from there. Once you're comfortable with some body contact, initiating the kiss will get you where you want. If your kiss gets rejected then that's fine too, you'll gain experience. Go out there and get rejected! You'll learn from it more than thinking about it theoretically.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 02:25 PM
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Remember that you always have something better to do than chicks. If something starts bothering you shut that shit down. Remember to treat women like children. @Tombreck2 knows whats up
/r/askTRP07/10/14 02:13 PM
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The easiest way to learn is to get rejected. So go talk to random girls on the street. Start out with something funny or interesting and hold frame. Ask for their numbers and practice being desensitized to rejection. I like to link these as examples, check these out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6OnbrraIGg Look how in this vid he just says stupid shit and doesn't even matter what he's really saying. As long as he's holding frame he gets their numbers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxcH5gdR…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 02:08 PM
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With your inexperience I wouldn't risk it since you have to work with them and it'll be easier to bring you down since you just started TRP. You need to learn a lot it seems. Have you read the sidebar yet?
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:17 PM
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Several choices: 1.)Silence is powerful. (Though I'd set a safe word beforehand.) 2.)I know you think it's rude, but their hamsters will be sent spinning if you tell her to leave or go do something else. I didn't believe this at first but damn. 3.)Keep trying to escalate. Had a kinky night once from 3am 'till 11am of pretty much everything but sex. She didn't put out until 12pm because I kept getting her hornier and hornier until she broke and just said "fuck it". (Saw similar advice on this thr…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:04 PM
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If you look at the title that's part 3. I'd search for the remaining two parts before asking more questions. Though I think your next questions should be for a new thread if you can't find the answers there.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:52 PM
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Coming from a guy not everyone is looking for a fling. Some people want LTR and holding for a few dates is not bad. It filters out the guys who want a fun night vs those looking for something more.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 07:39 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1uandf/ltr_game_part_3_unicorn_hunter_checklist/ Oh hey, lurked a bit there and found this super relevant post. :)
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:32 PM
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This seems a bit more appropriate on /r/RedPillWomen but I guess hearing opinions from the guys would help too
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:29 PM
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Eh, I guess I have no complaints about that lol. Will do.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:18 PM
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Don't forget under the back of their ears!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 04:02 PM
0

Great point, I'll try this later.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:45 PM
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Lol, women would go that far for an orbiter?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:40 AM
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Phones, earphones, surgical masks, books. Whatever. Just go for it. You won't know until you speak. Though whatever you're about to say should make them laugh, open their eyes wider or answer with "面白いです" If you made them laugh ask them out for coffee on the spot or if they're busy ask for their number. You'd be surprised how fast you can get someone's number.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:38 AM
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lmfao, great story
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:29 AM
1

If you know how to dance, you should dance.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:28 AM
2

Damn it, /u/tombreck2 is killing it around this sub. Every time I want to answer a question he has already answered it :P I agree though "keeping it alive thing" is all in your head. Plus if you read the sidebar material you show know texting is only for logistics, never for chatting about random stuff.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:26 AM
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This is the answer, OP.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:22 AM
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Another thing, the other part where you messed up is the stalling. Be outcome independent and don't let her reactions change what you're going to do. You played into her frame if she noticed you were giving her hints or waiting for her to do something. When you say you're leaving just leave and keep frame. Just a thought.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:17 AM
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"Which you answer" implies she's asking the question. Edited the question anyway for noobs like you :p
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:08 AM
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You already know. Don't shit where you eat bro. Leads to all sorts of drama since you have to keep seeing each other. Specially if you're spinning plates.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:06 AM
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Suck it up and go for the kiss. Worst that can happen is you get rejected. Which is something you probably need to experience since it gets better with time. If she doesn't want to then stop what you're doing and get out of there. Usually this shocks them and ask you to come back and initiate on you instead. Or if they want you to stay then you can try again and if it doesn't work then repeat. But if she doesn't initiate the second try after you're about to leave then just leave don't even argue…
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:04 AM
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Act as if it was nothing. If somehow she asks if you left because you were mad just say "no, I just had better things to do". But you shouldn't bring it up and it shouldn't come up in conversation. Radio silence her and spin some other plate. When she realizes she needs you more than you need her she'll contact you. If she doesn't, then she doesn't. But I have a feeling she might since besides that it sounds to me like she has fun with you. Don't be the first to contact her at this point though.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 06:57 AM
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Sorry dude, I usually like to be the devil's advocate for the rest of the guys here at TRP but I just don't see her working out as a plate. You killed all the mystery and tension as /u/tombreck2 said. There probably isn't any more tension for her when she flat out ignored you for asking her to taking her out to eat. Literally the only way it could work out is if she asks YOU to hang out. Go complete radio silence from now on. Don't answer to snapchats ever. Only answer texts and only answer in t…
/r/askTRP05/10/14 06:48 AM
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Honestly... that you know of. She could use this card on just about anyone and you'd be gullible to believe it. You can only tell someone's not interested in you by her actions, not words. Plus the fact that she went out on a date with you in the first place says otherwise. Just can respond something like "I'm the one who decides that. I'll be at x at x o clock" Then radio silence her. Don't reply no matter what she says, not even a question. If she doesn't show up she's not interested and you p…
/r/askTRP05/10/14 06:31 AM
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Was going to say the same about /u/tombreck2. For the most part girls sound super serious but that's just her hamster talking. You may even consider this a shit test. For example. I had an extreme case where I had a girl that would only let me kiss her. The second night I got to fingering but that's it. The third night damn she put up a TOUGH wall. We did everything but sex. The whole night we were up from 3am - something in the morning to 11am just fooling around / having fun. Around 12pm I sta…
/r/askTRP05/10/14 06:21 AM
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Too verbose and slightly BP sounding. Be direct. Something like "No, I don't hang out with people that waste my time." Followed by radio silence. Her hamster will probably spin out control if she has a shred of interest in you. If she doesn't come around by this time just next her. Way too many chances but at least you can practice some RP with the latter example. Though I do agree with the others that gaining plates takes priority over old plates. Good luck out there.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 06:08 AM
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Scarcity mentality man. Your BP is showing. Just ignore it next time. If she loses interest then no big deal, just next her.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 05:56 AM
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Damn, this guy put it better than what I was about to submit. Though to answer on how to draw the line without seeming insecure and weak. Don't mention the specifics (coworkers texting). Just tell her to put her phone down when she's spending time with you. If she asks why just say "because you're spending time with me". But basically what /u/Soultrane9 said. Additionally since she already knows/senses your insecurity... In case she shit tests you be ready for it and prepare some witty responses
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:46 AM
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Too much theory and not enough action plus too many naysayers so here's what I say. If you really want something you just gotta work with what you got. Though I would at LEAST recommend to making it short. Just say something funny or interesting followed by "I need to get get back to my workout. Lets have coffee later." If she agrees then get her number & leave. Girls will give you the time of day if you make it worthwhile for them :)
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:18 AM
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You're the leader, draw the line wherever the fuck you wanna draw the line. If you want her to stop, tell her to stop. If she doesn't comply then you don't need someone like her.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:06 AM
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What you say doesn't fucking matter. It's when you lose frame that they lose interest in you. You could literally say nonsensical things and still get their numbers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6OnbrraIGg Here's my point.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:01 AM
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I like this interpretation better than others. /u/unmitigatedbadassery you're really pushing it though, man. You need more practice with your game talk and better improvisation. Keep a tab on this but don't worry about it too much. Keep finding new plates so don't get hung up on this.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:55 AM
1

When you get awkward silences make eye contact and don't back down. Maintain frame and they're the one's that'll feel nervous and they'll actually put some work instead of you. Put those hamsters to work! I've always had trouble maintain eye contact but just yesterday I tried it on someone and I could tell how bad she couldn't keep eye contact. I was amused because it was pretty bad which made me remember myself at that point. That boosted my confidence and actually made me talk about different …
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:46 AM
1

The rule of thumb is if something she says makes you feel uncomfortable it's probably a shit test. If you can't agree & amplify then just completely ignore it and maintain frame. If she sees a shred of you being bothered by it or something she does is phazing you she'll sense weakness and probably leave you for someone else then for sure. And if you don't have oneitis for her then just next her/spin plates/etc if you can't deal with her shit.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:38 AM
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We can't predict what will happen either, only guide
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:33 AM
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Once your hamster stops running you'll be able to get her. Remember never to believe what women say, only what they do. And what is she doing? Flirting, touching you, etc. Timing is of the essence so just ask her out. If she pulls out the "but I have a boyfriend card/purity ring..." then you can say "nothing wrong with hanging out". Treat her like a fling because it seems your putting her on a pedestal. She'll lose respect/interest of you once she notices this. Not to mention it sounds like you'…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:28 AM
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Looks like she needs some radio silence. If she's interested in you she'll whine and complain why you won't talk to her. Then you can say "Because I don't tolerate flakes." You could try one last time after this if she 'promises' or 'tries to make up for it'. But if she goes as far as delaying it for a few hours because "she needs to do something" then just next her, man.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:17 AM
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She's a plate, she's probably banging other people as you are. You did the right thing except for the kiss. Just leave her ass there to let her know that your time is incredibly valuable to you and you don't tolerate anyone wasting your time. To add a cherry at the top you can also say you don't like repeating yourself to add to your frame.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:12 AM
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Eh, was thinking of some good replies but I'm out of improvisation today. Here's a good rule, KISS. (Keep it simple stupid). Good off the shelf responses: "Ok" "Nah" or you could ignore the question then next time she brings it up again or complains why you won't answer use either of above because you don't give a fuck, right? She's expecting a reaction out of you, don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:05 AM
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Definitely looks like you need to next her. Don't get hung up on her, don't clear your schedule up the whole day for someone. If she's doesn't hang out with you by the time you agreed just do other productive shit. If she never gets back at you then nothing was lost because you were lifting/spinning plates/etc. If she does and you're busy tell her that you can't now. This will make you seem more important than her and could be played as a tad bit of dread. Bonus points if you never actually get …
/r/askTRP04/10/14 06:43 AM
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Less talking more dread. Read the sidebar, you're the leader so lead her to do what you want her to do.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 05:18 AM
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If you're not strong enough for both of you now, how do you expect to ever be strong to get/be with other girls?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:57 AM
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If you're fat you'll generally come off as creepy unless you're alpha as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:18 AM
2

I agree but just about all dread is in some form is manipulative.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:20 PM
2

Good point, but that depends on the job opportunities in her area which we have no idea about.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:56 PM
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I agree with this the most but /u/tombreck2 /u/mistajaymes advice combined with this seals the deal.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:52 PM
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I'm going to be the devil's advocate here and say they don't care as much about the mom than they care about the kid she's looking out for.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:21 PM
2

I have a similar dilemma, down to this day. However I have managed to have it turned down considerably. At first there was someone from my group of friends who started to get out of hand with me. He'd constantly harass me and like you, I wouldn't do anything. One day however, I had enough of his shit and honestly this dude is bulky so I couldn't exactly fight him. I decided to fight fire with fire with him. Every time he'd say something emotional or vague or specially something serious like "Not…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 07:20 PM
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Yes it works, but it can also have unintended effects. I did this and ended up sleeping with my best friends sister after she had friend zoned me since the day I first met her. We're pretty much FWB now but don't expect this if you do end up applying it. Read up on outcome independence, might help your case I think. If you just want respect it'll work great. If you want more it might backfire so careful now for what you wish for...
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:27 AM
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Going to be the devil advocates here but... I'm just repeating what I heard. Try to keep back the smileys. I KNOW IT'S HARD BECAUSE I'M A HORRIBLE ABUSER, which is why I'm telling you. Try to use them mostly when you say something that sounds serious so that it can give more context. Too many of those may make you seem not as 'manly/alpha'.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:24 AM
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I'd give both advices. Don't look her up right away it's better if she contacts you then you ask for her number. But if she's taking a while to contact you (a week or two at most) just nonchalantly tell her you forgot to get her number on FB. Also from the sounds of it I have a feeling you might go a bit beta on her if you don't agree with everything here. If something doesn't work out, don't chase her. If she bails more than a couple of times on you or some stupid bs just next her. Less texting…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:05 AM
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Similar things to say about this guy. I practice with everyone and anyone. I flirt even with 3-4s even though I know nothing's going to happen. A blue piller might think that's fucked up but in reality you need to start somewhere and gain experience. You will have a lot of failed first dates, perhaps this one included. But every date will be a stepping stone and one day you'll stop giving a fuck and just do what you want. Because women want what YOU want. If you believe it (even if you pretend) …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:53 AM
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Comment deleted, what did that say?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:04 PM
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Dude same exact situation with me last weekend. With the exact same outcome. Had this same exact post in mind while it was happening! THANKS!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:54 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luJJBeCFeM0 There's a song about hamstering. They give out this song for free btw. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2UJ_Zyd8C2M Another song cuz ...well see for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:24 AM
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Why not both? Could be both validation seaking and great examples.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:44 AM
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Dude, yes thanks. I've been wondering about this myself.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:11 AM
1

Honestly I think the lesson here is that you can never have 100% control. It might have happened just like she said. This hits home because the same happened to me. Maybe some girls are just purple pill because she said "I love you both" just like she did to you. Then again a true alpha would dump her on the spot, if you let her cheat once she'll keep cheating on you.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:59 AM
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Right?! I really like this perspective :)
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:53 AM
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