How does one maintain frame when a girl is apologizing to you for no reason?

tombreck2 · 2014-10-07T13:58:37+00:00

Insecurity bores me

fyseaking · 2014-10-07T14:13:27+00:00

Remember that you always have something better to do than chicks. If something starts bothering you shut that shit down. Remember to treat women like children. @Tombreck2 knows whats up

oldredder · 2014-10-08T02:52:24+00:00

Is she Canadian? Meaning... sometimes you can write off personal habit and/or culture for apologies. I'm Canadian. We really do this without noticing. Sorry.

:)

If you feel you can pull it off, add some sarcastic humour, fun dig not actually being mean, like "well, you should be!"

If Canadian & cultural "You should be! You could have got me a double double on your way here".

barzerobar · 2014-10-07T16:15:23+00:00

I've started to use this on my wife with success.

"Your insecurity is unattractive" and dismiss.

The way I read it, apologies for no reason = validate me. And such conditions can become tiresome to deal with.

My advice is to punish this type of behavior (excessive validation) and reward sincere apologies (maintain frame).

Title	How does one maintain frame when a girl is apologizing to you for no reason?
Author	rohpatem
Upvotes	14
Comments	7
Date	October 7, 2014 1:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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