2nd date resistance

sparta126 · 2014-10-20T16:41:17+00:00

You want it to be there on the second date. It's the sign of a good woman. If it was easy it would be not a suitable girl for ltr. What your looking for isn't so much comfort as it is rapport. You need to show that you are a sex worthy man. Build rapport is best do e through isolation and esculation. She needs to feel good about being alone with you. I would suggest after the first date talking a walk around to get intimate personal time.

tombreck2 · 2014-10-20T15:59:56+00:00

Do you kino escalate on the first date? That should be #1 priority

kingofpoplives · 2014-10-20T18:23:16+00:00

I've experience similar stuff, and really, it's hard to say what exactly is going on.

In some cases, girls will be horny and want to have sex, but will feel that you aren't "boyfriend material" and quickly flake. So it may be a sort of reversal of values created by modern cock carousel culture. Many girls these days will effectively pump and dump dudes.

Haptic_Affinity · 2014-10-20T18:24:09+00:00

I honestly don't know if this is the right way, but if I want to see a girl again, nothing changes up front before sex, but afterwards I will always hang with them a bit and perhaps grab some food or something. Or if it was a ONS send them a positive text the day after, and later plan the next date at a location still near my place but something simple like a walk.

Title	2nd date resistance
Author	TRPAltAcct
Upvotes	9
Comments	12
Date	October 20, 2014 3:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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