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We all make posts like this when we first start to get it. Like "get it" get it. Do what you want. Strive to get what you want, and be who you want to be. Don't be an asshole. Help others get what they want if it helps you get what you want. Care very, very little about what others think of you. And if you do care what someone else thinks, be able to sum up in 10 words or less why they are the most awesome person you know. "He is the richest person I've met" / "He gave his kidney to save his sis…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:23 AM
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"Warning signs" is not the right phrase. "Nothing more than plate material" is more appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:13 AM
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Of course you should. And drop anyone from your life, male or female, who isn't a faithful friend.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:10 AM
2

Calling a woman out on her past accomplishes nothing. Just move on.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:06 AM
0

You need to actually take the red pill. Then you won't even need to comment on how women aren't as logical and rational as men. You also don't go around excusing cows for not being able to fly? Men and women aren't the same. You don't need to apologize for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:04 AM
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I have to disagree. If you want to have a child, the only way is to have married parents. Look at the incarceration rate for children of single mothers. They are fucking terrible at raising kids on their own. They need a father around. Having a kid is the only reason I got married. There is simply no other reason.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 08:57 AM
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I can not imagine moving in with a woman unless the explicit goal is to get married and have children together. I've moved in with a woman twice, first time she ended up crazy (dodged before marriage, she is certified manic depressive) and the second we are married and have a kid. You think a marriage certificate means she will stick by you if the chips are down and she has a better branch to swing to? Don't fucking kid yourself. There is no upside for you. None. Spin plates unless kids/marriage…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 08:50 AM
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The best we fools who marry can hope for is to only be taken for half what we have built.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 08:37 AM
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This was a glorious response. You have your shit dialed in. What's your end game? Do you ever see yourself settling down? If so, I imagine you scoring a hottie of child bearing age, and then looking forward to her as she ages. I envy you, sir.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 06:05 AM
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Sounds like that's the point of the essay. Come up with a hypothesis and see if you can back it up with data. Not sure how this is asktrp material. Try a homework help forum?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:29 PM
1

You gave her all the stuff of a relationship without her giving up sex. That's called being a friend, and that's what you are to her now. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:22 PM
2

"yes you do. I'm only free sat noon-2. bring beer and take out"
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:39 PM
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I kinda surprised you have such a position of responsibility when you seem completely unable to set your priorities.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 12:50 AM
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Just out of the blue broke up with him? It doesn't sound like there was closure. Like something has been left undone, unfinished. The lack of understanding holds us back from moving on. Time will help. If you want, you might look into it a bit. See if you can figure out what happened. Ask some mutual friends on Facebook? I wouldn't go Full Sherlock.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:06 PM
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It's never too late. It could be 6 months from now, just say "hey what ever happened to that one chick from that party? I thought I'd see her again but never did. Got her number?" Own it like it ain't no thang. Don't be creepy if she doesn't immediately respond, just like any other girl.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 11:23 PM
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Do not even validate she said it with A&A. Ignore.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:11 PM
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Have you guys never had this happen before? Talk to the mutual friend and say "I had a great time with X, I forgot to get her number. Can you give it to me?" If no, "Ok, well give her my number and tell her to call me." It's not rocket science. You want to see her again, make it happen.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:25 PM
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She has very high standards. She's still trying to decide if you make the cut. And it appears you're not even boob-worthy..
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:18 PM
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When she asks you a question like "what are you doing" she's pulling you into her frame. Don't answer directly, especially if you are doing something boring like watching tv. Text her back "busy". That's all. She'll say "busy doing what?". Don't respond immediately, if at all. Play the game.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:43 PM
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You will never make someone else happy unless you are happy. Go do something that makes you happy. Don't apologize for it, just do it. Don't just try to be alpha, do the things that an alpha would do. Don't feel guilty for looking out for yourself first. You don't have to squash someone else to do it either. Your success raises up everyone else around you. When you find people who are jealous of your success and try to drag you down, drop them from your life. Go be awesome.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:39 PM
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Very well said.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:30 PM
1

"k" and no contact.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:07 PM
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You need to handle it by getting her to a gynecologist immediately. Unless she is menstruating, women aren't supposed to bleed during sex. This is serious. Life threatening possibly, reproductively probably.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 10:08 PM
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You are trying waaaay to hard. You are completely in her frame, doing nothing but answering her questions. She's leading the conversation the whole time.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 08:08 PM
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AskTRP is going downhill. I know we aren't supposed to disparage the n00bs, but this reeks of troll. In case you're serious "FedoraTipper", yes, you drop her from your life.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:31 PM
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No shit. I understand Fake It Till You Make It, but these guys are getting ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:18 PM
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You are asking us how to seduce your ex? You know her far better than we do. What turns her on? Do that. Better would be to go 100% no contact with an ex. Move on.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:23 PM
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You are NOT going to want to hear this, but you may have selected a woman who is simply not suited for marriage. If she works herself up into a shitfit for literally days every time she doesn't immediately get her way, you need to seriously consider leaving her. Of course your family will be disappointed, of course hers will. Your village may shun you. But think about what kind of life you will have. Everyday in dread. What kind of kids will you have? Is that was you want to leave the world as y…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 10:19 AM
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You're not getting it. You don't give her a chance to "hit back" because you're not speaking with her until she cools off. There is no possible way she can say anything to you because you have cut off contact. She says you are the one that makes her angry? The next time she gets angry, you go radio silent. You don't want to anger her further do you? End the conversation by politely saying "you are acting like a child, I will talk to you when you calm down." She says nothing after that because yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 11:16 PM
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Stop talking to her when she is like that. Tell her she is acting like a child, and you will spend time with her when she can act mature. And then do not talk to her until she simmers down. I too love my own wife, and my wife too can be a petulant child sometimes. I don't like her when she is like that, so I don't deal with her when she's like that. Hung up, go out in the garage, go work out, whatever. I just simply do not be around her. Don't argue with her, don't agree, or mollify, just quit g…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 10:51 PM
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You both were virgins before this? ** ONEITIS ALERT ** Do not knock her up or get married. She might be the one, but odds are that she's just one of many.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:29 PM
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http://www.alohaland.com/whats-new/gunner-girls They are sold out of course. And you're gonna have to get in line behind me! They call it "Astronaut fabric" lol
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:25 PM
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Who the fuck tugs on someone else hair? I would expect that would be met by an immediate fist in the face. Anyways, if that is progress for you, then good, keep it up. And stop calling yourself unmanly for liking a certain kind of music. You can sing Frozen tunes in a falsetto if you own that shit. Likewise if you want to sport long hair, then take care of it and make it look great. I mean make the chicks around you jealous. If you want dreds, make Bob Marley stop and say damn dude, that's some …
/r/becomeaman19/12/14 01:06 AM
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living children :(
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:36 PM
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"I'll let you go first, just pull right around me." Why be confrontational? Learn to frame things as if you are the one being magnanimous and give permission for someone else to cause you less hassle. It's a fun mental exercise.
/r/becomeaman17/12/14 09:28 PM
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Maybe can also mean you're asking too early. It might really mean "It's maybe right now. If you continue to prove yourself, then it will be a yes."
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:45 PM
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And every couple weeks, I offer to do the laundry. I haven't washed anything of hers since before we got married.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 09:13 PM
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I hate all these sappy love songs. I don't follow pop music as close as you young pups, but every other song in my gym is some shitty love ballad. Heard one last week that was some pussball just repeating "I'm gonna marry that girl" over and over for 3 1/2 minutes. Christ. Why don't gyms just play wordless techno?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:34 PM
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"Because of the sensitive nature of Jackie's story, we decided to honor her request not to contact the man she claimed orchestrated the attack on her nor any of the men she claimed participated in the attack for fear of retaliation against her." How does not contacting the attackers help the victim, when you then publish a 10,000 word essay detailing the attack?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 05:16 PM
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Just as a shitty carpenter blames his hammer, a shitty boss blames his employees. If you are getting paid twice what other places pay, there must be a reason. Part of your unwritten job description includes taking a beating every once in a while. Actual advice: Start calling out your successes every time your boss walks by. Do it with a smile and over the top braggadocio, like you are having the time of your life. "Bam! Just sold two stereos before lunch, including installation!" Or "Got that en…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:14 PM
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It's not advertising, so much as marketing. Don't tell everyone you are awesome, show them. Throw the best parties. Be the most fun at parties you go to. Be entertaining without being the class clown. Be passionate about all things important. Work out.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:45 AM
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Adjust your alcohol intake. Are you drinking too much? Too little? A few shots can help reduce the nervousness. A few too many and the little guy won't stand at attention. I've had both happen to me. I played it off with "I'm pretty nervous about being with such a hottie" then I gave her a full naked body massage. That did the trick. Or "woops got too drunk. Let's work on you for a while" then ate pussy like a madman. That didn't work, so I passed out and was able to get it up the next morning. …
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:39 AM
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You're washing dishes dude. Abundance mentality is more than just about women. You can wash dishes anywhere.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:29 AM
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A fine approach. Next time you see her, be sure not to wig out. Never tell pretty girls they are pretty. They have heard that a million times before, and you just put yourself into a category of being just like the last million guys who told her the same thing. You want to stand out.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:24 AM
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Don't be lazy. Read the sidebars.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:59 AM
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You need to be honest with these girls up front, both by telling them you aren't looking for a LTR, and acting like it. Are you dating her exclusively? Does she know you are dating other girls? How many night a week do you spend together? Does she have things at your place / you have things at her place? If you two are seeing each other exclusively for 3 months, spending 3+ nights / week together, guess what buddy, you have a girlfriend. What she heard you say was "I want to pretend I'm too cool…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 07:56 PM
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Women should boycott that place! That'll show 'em.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:51 PM
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I don't think "Dan" posted that to validate the ladies, he posted it to get validation from them. There's no way to say anything but nice things about messages like that, or you come off as a 100% grade-A douchebag. So, he gets to bask in the glory of upvotes and accolades.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:27 PM
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She's already broken up with you and you haven't got the hint yet. Sorry dude, not all relationships work out. You need to come to terms with it and move on.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:53 PM
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You've met your match. She sounds cool.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 12:30 AM
2

Some people have to play life on hard mode. It sounds like you need the advice of a thoracic surgeon and a certified personal trainer. I will say that no matter what your station in life, old or young, rich or poor, white or black, Adonis or hunchbacked; being muscled and fit is better than flabby.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:32 PM
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She's crazy. Next.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:22 PM
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..then you better be setting dates with 9 other girls at the same time or you are going to be alone a lot.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:18 PM
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I don't understand what the problem is. More women go to college than men. Why would anyone push young women into careers they don't want? However, by 2012, females outpaced males in college enrollment, especially among Hispanics and blacks. The share of young women enrollees increased to 71 percent, but the number of men stayed at 61 percent. - See more at: http://highlandstoday.com/hi/local-news/females-outpace-males-in-college-enrollment-20140607/#sthash.wpXKZA9B.dpuf
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:03 PM
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What do you mean how do you act? Act like a fucking adult at a funeral. Polite, reserved. Don't start any drama, nor allow any to be started with you. Pay your respects, give your condolences. If you are in the habit of "owning" every room you walk in to, I'd dial it back a bit. Cool, calm, collected, quiet. It's funeral, not a class reunion. No place to be flexing your newly found SMV.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:59 PM
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These are fine, but the real problem is OP doesn't already know how to handle it. OP, you need to internalize TRP truths. Your happiness can NOT depend on others. You can not value yourself by the woman who is with you. You've just seen how fickle they are, they can and do leave at any time. Invest in yourself, you are the only one you can trust. A car analogy: Your battery is dead, you don't have time to deal with it now because you have an important meeting to get to. You call a cab immediatel…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 08:03 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Honor the memory of your mother by going out and being awesome. Leave your mark on the world. Get goals and ruthlessly pursue them. Have fun, work hard, play hard. It's got to be hard at 19, and if you need professional help then go get it.
/r/ThankTRP19/11/14 07:47 PM
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You have little grasp of human nature if you think that women are only sleeping around in your lifetime. We have the anonymity of the internet and the social stigma of talking about has been lifted; that's the only difference.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:42 PM
1

Nobody likes a smarty-pants. Women don't appreciate intelligence on it's own, and only some men do. But if you can translate those smarts into something practical, then you have a win. Things like witty banter, a rewarding career, helping others achieve their goals while attaining your own. All of those require brains, and will make you stand out to both men and women.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:32 PM
1

lol thanks. There's no way in hell I would have come up with that at 17, or even had the balls to say it if I did. Remember that "cocky-funny" was the first attitude that the original PUA's could identify that worked. Here at TRP we get deeper into the why it works, and how to internalize it so it's natural. It's a manifestation of confidence, being at ease when in command of situation, shows intelligence by being witty, and challenges others to try to "keep up" with you.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:27 PM
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You're 17? Don't dwell on it man. The best of us said cringe worthy shit at your age. "I can hold my own" is not terrible. The "I'm strong" bit at the end is kinda. The marble table comment would have been really needy. I guarantee she does not give a shit how many flights of stairs you can carry anything. You made the mistake of trying to validate yourself to her, when you need to move for the opposite. You are the prize. All of those responses are her pulling you into her frame though. When yo…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:53 PM
2

Unclear on circumstances. Are you going to be the only person at the entire place that is solo? Is this a romantic event specifically for couples? Might want to skip it. If you mean some of your friends are going solo also, that's cool. Be ready for the "so where's your date?" type questions. Have a reply ready, but don't make it seem like you stayed up all night working on it. Something like "I came here to steal you / your date" with a wink.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:37 PM
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I hate this study because it ignores two critical factors; counter-party risk and their cultural acceptability of greed. The child has to trust the scientist with the marshmallows will follow through with 2 more later. If this child has grown up in an unstable environment where delaying gratification has led to complete disappointment, the rational choice is to take the marshmallow now. This could happen because the child's parents were unreliable providers. They may be from an area with societa…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:46 PM
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I looked online for more pics of her. She isn't supermodel bodytype, she's playmate bodytype. Sexy as hell if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:43 PM
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witty comments =/= class clown The class clown is the guy with the horse head mask, wearing a polka dot bow tie with board shorts, and gets his laughs by making strange noises with his mouth and walking weird, maybe adding "that what she said!" at the end of someone else's sentence. Witty banter shows a keen mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:28 PM
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Has anyone mentioned that she walked around New York and didn't get harassed for 9 hours and 58 minutes? Also, she is explicitly telling us she is not offended by "winks, whistles, etc." Winks are even in the universe of things that can be offensive? I want to know what the "etc" is. I bet dollars to donuts she would say "well I knew what he was thinking.."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:02 PM
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Walk away laughing and shaking your head. When chicks do their crazy chick shit, I find this is the only way I can deal with it. It's like a Mexican game show: silly, amusing, and impossible to understand. And hopefully laced with gratuitous cleavage.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:04 PM
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OP has terminal oneitis. Two years and he's still not over her. Sounds like the current gf is a jealous, insecure, drama hound. Treat the ex like a coworker that you don't know well and don't want to know better. Polite but brief. "Hi, nice to see you again. Have you tried the crab puffs? They're great. Well, catch ya later."
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:00 PM
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41 here. I wish I would have learned these things 20 years ago. It's never too late.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:44 PM
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If they didn't care about you before, they don't deserve you now. Incorrect. Any loser who has no desire to improve their lot does not deserve my time. But if that loser goes out and improves themselves by shear force of will, they cease to be a loser.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:56 PM
2

ketogenic nutrition plan I don't even know what the fuck that is, but if anyone ever said it to me they would instantly become the most boring person in the room. In what possible scenario can you not lift and go out? Your schedule must be so incredibly packed with awesomeness that you can't do both. You need to take yourself a little more lightly.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:53 PM
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If she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:22 PM
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In high school I hanged out with bullies much bigger than me. I actually had them looking out for me and stuff. You don't intimidate me. No man, however big or strong intimidates me. Girls, on the other hand... Then treat girls like guys. Flip them shit. Tease them. Own them like you do men. You're afraid of a person because they have breasts and a vagina?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 11:19 PM
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I've found that looks do not correspond to how good a girl is in the sack at all. I've fooled around with a few hotties that were so self conscious and nervous and uncomfortable with themselves that I didn't even bother having sex with them. I've been with some gals that weren't much to look at, but were so confident and enthusiastic and comfortable in their own skin that I've had the time of my life with them. On the other hand, some hotties are awesome in bed and some plain janes are worthless…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 05:50 PM
1

You are having a lot of fun with the texts. I know it's fun, but it is counter productive. You can't have sex with her by texting. You want to have fun with her in person, so you can close. You sound like a really cool dude, don't give away your awesomeness so cheap. As in for free, over text. Be brief, use only to set up the next date. Also, you are being very attentive to her texts. Make her wait a little longer, you are busy working remember?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:14 AM
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You are embarrassed by being in med school? You hide the fact you're going into a field that will put your comfortably in the top 1% income bracket? So you lie about it? Are we taking crazy pills around here?
/r/askTRP23/10/14 11:20 PM
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No. Chicks are already crazy. You not want one that's actually crazy. I broke up with my fiancee because she was bipolar. Last I spoke to her, she hinted she was on meds and doing better. But jeez, what if she goes off her meds? What if you have kids? Will that gene be passed on? Are you ready to deal with someone who has a serious illness for the rest of your life? One that might cause her to harm herself, your kids, or you. One that will most assuredly be a daily challenge to deal with, foreve…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 11:14 PM
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No masks. You don't want to be fumbling around with your headgear when you're trying to do a shot, get a phone number, eat a crab puff, or kiss the gal. (depending on what kind of party you're at)
/r/askTRP23/10/14 10:28 PM
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If she's not jumping your bones after a month of hanging out and you've already had sex once, she just doesn't see you like that. Don't get angry or feel bad about yourself: Just like you aren't into every girl, well not every girl will be into you. Wish her well and send her on her way. "It just didn't work out" is a perfectly reasonable way to file it away in your mind or to your friends.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 10:45 PM
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I thought cockblocking was when you were trying to get laid, and someone was preventing that.. sounds like you got the exact opposite of cock-blocked. Did you in fact leave and give her what she wanted?
/r/askTRP17/10/14 05:00 PM
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Agreed. The wife was arguing with our 16 year old about some damn thing the other night. (You can imagine how logical and calm that was going!) My wife kept trying to suck me in to the argument. I just kept eating dinner, smiling and asking the occasional pointed question there to show I was involved. My wife then tried to turn the tables and accuse me of siding with the boy against her. I most decidedly did NOT take that stink bait. I kept smiling, eating, asking a question here and there. My w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/14 04:52 PM
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While the best case scenario is the same for a non-cop date, the downside is unimaginably worse. What if she decides she wants to make your life a little uncomfortable because of relationship problems? What if she felt like she had just been used for sex?
/r/askTRP15/10/14 11:08 PM
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I checked, I don't see any context. With so little to go on, here's a reply: Do or say something that fits the situation.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 08:23 PM
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Are you trying to hook up with this gal? Because you sure aren't acting like it. You are 100% inside her frame, being one of her girlfriends. Your platitudes and life hacks are not what she wants. Her world is boring her right now, she's practically begging you to invite her out of hers and into your world. Be awesome, and be awesome immediately. Play it like this: Her: I'm having a so- so day Me: grab a 6 pack and come on over. I'll make sure you have a great night
/r/askTRP15/10/14 08:19 PM
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Sounds like she might be high maintenance. lol understatement of the year.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 08:12 PM
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I was engaged to a woman who later was diagnosed bi-polar after I ended it. I had moved in with her thinking our pretty good relationship would get better, but it got worse. I keep thinking how I dodged a bullet there, because I remember selfishly thinking if I wanted to spend the rest of my life taking care of this woman and dealing with all her crazy. (not the good kind of crazy, the laughing and tears kind) It messed me up for a while, because I thought I was a bad person for leaving her. Loo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/14 06:20 PM
0

Stop whining. Start lifting.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:18 PM
4

Imagine how much having a shitty attorney would cost. Are you the sole breadwinner? Kids? Assets? You could very easily pay that several times over per year for many years if you don't have someone competent defending your rights.. Have you met with several to compare prices? Got recommendations? If you were buying a $7500 car, how many would you test drive before selecting one? And with a car, you could resell and recoup most of a bad decision. Anything you pay a lawyer is sunk cost, and could …
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:18 PM
1

Never be the last one to send the text in a convo. And if you ever find yourself being the last one sending a text, for goodness sake, do NOT send another.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:13 AM
1

High school? Just have fun. Text her a ? and think nothing more of it. High school is about making friends. Don't fuck it up by being an asshole and ruin your chances with all the other girls she knows and can gossip with.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:11 AM
1

If you are shy, and I am a shy guy, get this in to your vocabulary: "Wanna come in for a bottle of water before you drive home?" Or a nightcap (make sure you have booze), or use the bathroom (if it's a long drive) or whatever the fuck excuse they can use so it doesn't sound like you just asked "hey wann come in an let me fuck you?" I'm a huge fan of the sideways close. Don't slam the door if they aren't into it right now, leave the door cracked in case they change their mind.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:08 AM
1

And if she pressures you for an answer beyond "I've been busy" then turn the tables and ask her why she hasn't been busy. It's the end of summer, you have been out there enjoying the sunshine, what has she been doing with her time?
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:01 AM
0

Lol, what is wrong with you that you are 22, in the suburbs, making 6 figures, and you aren't drowning in tail? Seriously man, you got to work on yourself outside of work. Hit the gym, get some hobbies outside. And I mean outside the computer, with actual people.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:58 AM
2

You are in high school? You want to grow up to be a MAN? You tell her parents that she is drinking herself into an early grave. And you be there to tell her this is high school shit and it's no big deal. You don't have to take care of her, that's her parents' job. You don't have to dedicate your life to her be any means, but you don't just cast aside a friend, male or female, if they are in a fragile state. I wish I would have done this at your age. :(
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:54 AM
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Mistake: I'm pissed, and she knows it. You are never pissed. Nothing a woman EVAR does gets you pissed. Amused mastery Mr. BMOC. Oh my, pissed because a woman is trying to make you jealous.. and you fall for it?!?! aspo8avskjlnew I think I'm having a stroke. Mistake: Entering a LTR Good Lord man, you are in The FUCKING Red Pill here. You have not even slept with this girl, you've chatted with her for a month, she settles for spending no-sex nights with some beta instead of you... and you want to…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:48 AM
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OK, let's presume, just for a moment, that there was an actual woman who wasn't in the marketing dep't for the other site, on the other end of that conversation.. You got all serious waaaaaay to fast. Honestly answering her question like it's a survey? gaak. Your answer is "I hook up on all websites, in person, at the dmv, even coffee shops. everywhere. I'm a sexy dude. let's meet for coffee. or the dmv"
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:37 AM
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How exactly do you know she only slept with you and 1 other guy? Could that be a pretty little lie she told you because that's what you wanted to hear? Don't get caught up on a number. It's nothing magic even if you could know with 100% certainty. And you can't. Every girl is different. Look at how she treats you. Does she give off any warning signs to stay away? Is she flirty? Crazy? If you are looking for an LTR be vigilant and don't get oneitis.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:31 AM
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This post reeks of trollbait. But if not, here it goes. I want a woman who finds me attractive and wants to have sex with me on a regular basis. You can not imagine how important this is. I want a woman who supports me. Not financially, emotionally. Tell me I'm sexy after I come home from the gym all sweaty sometimes. Tell me it's awesome that I'm starting a side business to better our lot in life. Actually that's all I got. Those are the only two things that I have to complain about in my marri…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:23 AM
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Are you in high school? It sounds like you are in high school. Don't be a damned asshole and devote your life to wrecking some innocent religious girl. There are, believe it or not, tons of girls out there who don't come with the baggage of laying guilt on you regarding sexual intercourse. What if you do pressure this girl into fucking you? She is going to want to marry you to make things right with God. Do you want that on your conscience? I'm a deeply religious man who does not believe that Go…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:13 AM
1

I was once at a point in my life where I didn't feel like shit was working, on any level. No great job, no great hobbies, no relationship nor desire to chase tail, going through the motions when I worked out just barely keeping the interview suit to fit, no defined goals. Sounds like you need a purpose. Close your eyes and imagine you just got fired, dumped, evicted, and a rich relative died and left you $200k all on the same day. But the will stated the money was spread out so you only got $40k…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:55 AM
1

Holy circlejerks Batman! This replies in this thread were hilarious.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:45 AM
3

Shit. Setting an example for the kids. I don't know how I completely missed using this to show her the bad behavior she exhibits. Thanks man. That sounds sarcastic, but it never occurred to me before. Even this sounds sounds sarcastic lol, but I'm serious.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/14 07:42 AM
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I really feel a brother is in pain here, but I'm not sure that you're doing everything you can. I don't think the relationship is doomed, unless she really does have legitimate doctor-certified mental issues in which case you should not have got in a relationship in the first place and certainly not carried on this gene by having kids. Ask yourself what you bring to the table, from her side. You make half what she does. OK, do you pick up the slack by doing more housework? By your own words, you…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:20 AM
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You say these words, and if you can start living them, your life will improve. I'm going to take a leap and say that because your wife makes 2x what you do, it's in a fairly stressful industry. Stressful (and highly paid) industries are dominated by men. She is surrounded by alpha males all day, and has to go toe to toe with them. She comes home after a brutal day and a terrible commute, steaming with these thoughts in her head: 1) why isn't my husband alpha like these guys at work? 2) why can't…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:05 AM
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There are plenty of men in healthy relationships with women who make more than they do. It's 2014 dude. Do you work out? Are you bettering yourself? Learning new things, getting involved with your community, hell anything? Sure, there's no time. There will be plenty of time after she kicks you out.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:55 AM
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So why are you with her? And don't tell me for one damn minute "for the kids". If you want your kids to grow up believing that a normal relationship is a dominating emotionally abusive wife and a submissive whiny passive-aggressive husband, you are in the wrong forum.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:50 AM
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I simply meant it's off the table for me. Then welcome to your life. If you are not willing to walk away, then she is the boss. Period. Don't believe me? She treats you like shit, and you just said that no matter what you will not leave her. That means she calls all the shots. That's what being in control means; you get to treat the other person however you want and they won't do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:48 AM
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"You can't take me seriously? Meeting me was the most important day of your life." Say it with a smirk. Once you get offended or butthurt or tongue tied, you lost. She's practically begging you to pick her up. To throw your best game at her and show her what you're made of. Never be surprised or take too seriously anything a woman says to you. Have fun with it. Not every line has to be gold, but it does have to show that nothing gets under your skin.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 06:37 AM
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You need a hobby. Why do you want to work so much? Are you working out? Meeting new people, both male and female? Do you have an addiction that is sucking up all your money? You don't want another job, you don't want to be bored. Get out and do something fascinating.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 06:22 AM
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This is true. Women can handle a lot. Like A LOT of shit. But I've realized that they still flip their shit over little things sometimes, just to give you a chance to step in and handle stuff too. So much more so in a LTR. Think of it in a caveman/cavewoman scenario: Cavewoman think "if I get eaten by saber tooth tiger, will husband be able to care for cavekid?" You need to reassure her. Seriously, practice a smirk in the mirror that looks like it says "oh wife, this is not a big problem. don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/14 05:48 AM
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She is not a stay at home mom. She works full time just like I do. She likes to cook, but it's not her responsibility to do so. If she wants to cook, she does. If not, I do. If neither of do, we order take away. She was upset because.. well I guess because nobody likes to ruin dinner.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/14 06:29 PM
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Let us know how it goes. Either way. You only get better with practice.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:20 PM
2

This comes up a lot. And if you have to ask, you are an orbiter. Another great way to tell is ask her to put in a good word for you with one of her hot friends. If she does it, honestly tries to help you hook up, then you have a rare bird indeed; the wing-chick. I've heard of them, read about them in the hallowed tomes, but never met one in the wild. Cherish her and don't fuck it up. She is far more valuable than any LTR or FWB; she is a drinkin' buddy. Usually you get sarcasm, disgust and sabot…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 11:27 PM
2

Lots of problems can be solved by simply talking to the other person.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 11:25 PM
2

You have a LOT of reading in front of you if anything that women do still "boils your blood".
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:41 PM
1

So you're not a good texter. Skip it. Go for the meetup earlier.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:37 PM
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Don't ask her directly, if she says no you will lose your favorite cup of coffee. Ask sideways; tell her you are going to do x, invite her along. Something simple, low pressure. No movies or ball games, not even dinner. Like you want to grab a sandwich at the new place down the street for lunch, or check out some other new thing in the area. If she is in to you she will accept, or immediately suggest an alternative. If she says no and doesn't offer to resched, then say "Cool, I'll let you know h…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:30 PM
2

Same boat, brother. Feels good.
/r/ThankTRP10/10/14 04:40 PM
1

You are in control of your own life. Decide if the tail is worth it. If so, continue. If not, next. Easy game.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 03:43 AM
5

Some people talk a lot when they are nervous. Sounds like you landed a chatterbox. Remember, why do guys like blow jobs so much? 5 minutes of peace and quiet.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 03:34 AM
2

Agreed. Everybody in college is discovering themselves, and you want to be the guy the chicks discover themselves with. Play hard, study hard.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 03:30 AM
5

This one sounds like a lot of work. The whole reason for an LTR is so you can slow down and coast a little.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:09 AM
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I'm in the worst position possible. I'm a stepfather to a young girl. She's my buddy, a great kid. I do my best to make sure she is growing up with high self esteem and a good sense of worth. I encourage her in her interests, not shit like pretty clothes or makeup, but real interests that will make her a worthwhile adult. I treat her like I treat anyone else, I don't take shit from her. When she has a fit, I tell her why she is being silly then give her space until she realizes it and comes arou…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:12 PM
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And no raindrop feels responsible for the flood.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:08 PM
5

SJW is what? Can we add this to the glossary on the right?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:45 PM
2

Good lord you sound like a Disney special. Don't ask her out! Tell her you are going to do something and invite her along. If she's into you, she will jump at the chance. "I'm going to check out my friend's art gallery tonight. Want to meet there at 7?"
/r/askTRP03/10/14 09:20 PM
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This. 1000x. Your first time will be messy, awkward, embarrassing, and probably a little scary. Trust me, it gets better. It seriously is the best thing going, don't give up. Have a dozen condoms on hand. You will use more than you think you will need. They fall off if you get a little soft (don't worry about this). They tear (use more lube!). You need to grab a new one if you are switching holes (back to front). Do not, even for a second, believe that she is "on the pill", "the shot", "IUD", "c…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:54 AM
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And if you have to ask, you are an orbiter. Another great way to tell is ask her to put in a good word for you with one of her hot friends. If she does it, honestly tries to help you hook up, then you have a rare bird indeed; the wing-chick. I've heard of them, read about them in the hallowed tomes, but never met one in the wild. Cherish her and don't fuck it up. She is far more valuable than any LTR or FWB; she is a drinkin' buddy. Usually you get sarcasm, disgust and sabotage. That's all I've …
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:42 AM
2

Just like learning anything in this day and age, go find a message board or forum, read, read, read, then join and ask questions.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 11:50 PM
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It just hit me, our phones already have this app. It's called the "camera". Just video her begging you for the D.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:59 PM
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Wow passive aggressive. With the I just sent you an email lady, that's just the way she is and you aren't going to change her. Don't even try. Sometimes we have to learn to deal with shit, spend as little time and mental energy on it as you can. Every time she does this, simply give her an emotionless "ok", do not stop what you are doing. With singer guy, ask him to stop. What is this, third grade? You can mix it up with a little humor. "hey bob!" "yeah?" "who sings that song?" "the beatles!" "l…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 07:07 PM
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I don't think it's a shit-test with hidden agenda, some girls are simply more needy than others. I would let her know that I was busy, I don't have time to coordinate calendars right now, and I would hate to make a date only to have to break it later. Will text when things slow down. Then ignore further texts until I had time to make plans.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 06:39 AM
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Rub one out earlier in the day? That slows me down pretty good. Condoms don't work? Sometimes I can't finish at all if I'm wearing one. If the normal stuff like this doesn't work, get yourself to that urologist. That's why we have experts and specialists; they can know everything about something so we don't have to guess and take advice from random strangers on the internet.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:44 PM
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Sounds good to me. My guess is she was missing her usual flock of girlfriends and orbiters. She wasn't used to so much alpha and needed her old emotional support routine back. I have lots of people in my life who I love to see and spend a little time with, and would miss them dearly if they were gone for good. But it's nice when we part ways so I get to look forward to seeing them again. Spending 24/7 with them would be more than I could handle. It surely doesn't mean that she's not still into y…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:44 PM
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It means don't reveal too much of yourself over text or try to build an entire relationship before you meet up and see if things click. In this case, OP says his text game sucks, so what he should do is NOT text. Immediately focus on getting face to face.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:07 PM
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Moral of the story? Don't live for the past. Letting go is hard. But worth it.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 10:59 PM
8

"you know what really pisses me off? getting blowjobs. be here at 8, bring taco bell"
/r/askTRP25/09/14 10:57 PM
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What are you going to do, ask her if she wants to go steady after homeroom? Just start spending more time with her, do couple stuff. See if you like it.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:54 PM
1

lol what? Girls consistently give sex after you've made them a gf? And if you are just going to next her the first time she doesn't put out, I don't think you understand what a long term relationship is.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:52 PM
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Any text that runs over the 140 character limit, let alone twice, reeks of drama. In that novel she texted you, she has self-diagnosed as an untreated bipolar. It is up to you if you want to invest your time, money and resources into "fixing" her. If she's a plate, keep her that way, lighthearted and fun. I would text her back "hit me up when you're super happy and want to hang". And stop dealing with her crap, she's toxic. Also, why would you call her out for brushing you off and ignoring you? …
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:46 PM
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You sound like a misogynist of the worst kind. You want to be the breadwinner, but you don't earn enough bread. You want to financial leader of our household, and the only way you can do it is to hold back your wife. You want her to support you in your career while you actively sabotage hers. You moved her away from her successful career to a cheaper place to live so you could afford to be the earner for no other perceivable reason than to subjugate her. My bet is she leaves you. Not because you…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:03 PM
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It's called busting your chops. It's a way that guys help each other prepare for the harsher realities of the world. If you get bent out of shape over your buddy calling you ugly or fat or driving a crappy car, then a woman is going to absolutely destroy your fucking soul. Learn to address the 'test' by ignoring it or just saying something silly to show the group you can't be fazed. Be sure to flip it back on the guys who give it to you. Don't escalate, keep it at the same level. The guys who ca…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 07:27 PM
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You sound well spoken and sincere. I'd wish you good luck, but it just doesn't sound like you need it. So, keep it up! Check in and let us know how things are going.
/r/ThankTRP19/09/14 07:21 PM
1

I'll disagree it's too much effort. He's going to fix dinner for himself and watch tv at home anyways. He doesn't need to put in any extra effort at all over an evening alone, except maybe taking a shower before she comes over. She should be thrilled to be able to hang with this confident guy who has his shit sorted, doesn't need a mommy to take care of him, and doesn't go overboard trying to impress a woman.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:23 PM
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What are you doing to make her feel at ease? A walk in the dog park? She wants to feel protected, and alone in a park at night with a strange dog and a guy she just met isn't doing it for her. I'm in a romantic mood tonite for no good reason so I'd play it this way: Tell her you just walked the dog and get her back to your place pronto. Make sure it's clean, but not OCD clean. Open a bottle of wine, just something you like to do while making a feast. Cook dinner, whatever the hell you want that …
/r/askTRP19/09/14 09:11 AM
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I wouldn't consider making out with a hottie for half an hour to be a waste of time. Get a bj at least.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:36 PM
2

You should write romance novels. lol
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:32 PM
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Being Red Pill is being the good guy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 11:49 PM
1

Am I in the minority that I gravitate away from people that I can't affect? I dislike it intensely if I'm excited about something and the other person remains bored. If I'm sad I want someone to commiserate not someone who doesn't care. If I'm happy I want to share my happiness and make others happy. If I need to concentrate I want the other person to shut up, not keep talking and distracting me. If I'm concerned and they are blasé.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:37 PM
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You have flowery language. You might be a good romance novel writer. If you want to be more manly, and I highly recommend it, go do manly activities. Lift heavy things. Hunt, fish, eat what you kill. Get a hobby like fixing old cars, working wood, shooting. Camp with nothing that you can't carry on your back. Get some goals, and pursue them ruthlessly. Learn to operate a fast conveyance (race car, sportbike, speedboat, downhill skiing, any airplane) where a slip could kill you. Drink alcohol fla…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:43 PM
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You are young, you have plenty of time to get it right. You are bold enough to walk up and talk to the girl, so you are way out in front of the pack here. Beta sits at home, waiting for the girl to call. Alpha goes out and talks to them. Good job! Keep working on your game. You don't want to get into relationships (either social or romantic, with male or female) where you end up constantly doing things for the other person. That is called being a doormat. You did her a favor, hold it over her he…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:30 PM
1

Delete her number, move on. Things are hopeless here. This relationship is unfixable.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:20 PM
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Your post is unclear. What are you trying to get of this relationship? If you don't want to hook up with her, is she going to be a wingchick and help you score at a club? She paying for dinner? Is she fascinating to talk to, when the goal afterwards is not sex? Do you want to just catch up on old times? Does she have mutually beneficial business to discuss? You're the man, define what you want and get it.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:49 PM
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Couldn't leave? I've heard of cult-religious ceremonies where the doors are literally locked, your clothes and personal effects taken, and you really can't leave. Short of that, yes you can leave. Why would you stay at an awkward event of a total stranger (the friend of a girl you sometimes sleep with?) where you felt completely out of place? There is a very easy way to excuse yourself. Tell her the truth! Shocking, but what the hell. "I do not share their religious beliefs, and wanted to leave …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:43 PM
1

You need to work on your confidence. Practice everything else TRP has to offer; work out, get some goals and work toward them, stop being a doormat for every helpless needy schmuck that comes along, organize some fun activities with your friends, be able to hold a conversation. You are dreaming of running a marathon while you are still in diapers sitting in your Johnny Jump Up. All of us were awkward and scared and bumbling with girls before we'd done it a few times. They are just as nervous abo…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:17 PM
2

You have two choices; continue with what you have and try to enjoy it, or go find what you really want.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:07 PM
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You are going to suck it up for 4 months just to go on a month long vacation with a girl who isn't really in to you? If you can't see how absurd this is, I don't think we can help.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:05 PM
2

There is nothing beta at all about standing up for what you believe in. The opposite in fact. Alpha is when your actions demonstrate your inner goals and values, without regard to what others think of you.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:55 PM
2

It's boring. It takes no creativity. Maybe you could just hand out a questionnaire and use an algorithm to establish suitability for a mate.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:26 PM
3

Sad to see racism in TRP. But to answer the question with a question; haven't you ever got into rapid fire Q&A with a chick when sex is in the air? On our first date over dinner, I asked my wife if she had ever been with a black guy, had a threesome, farted in bed, sustained sex related injuries, flashed boobs at random truckers on the highway, tossed salad. She asked all the same of me. We had fun. Don't fucking sit her down on the couch like and intervention and say "listen dear, I have a very…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 06:01 AM
1

Or more foreplay. Enjoy kissing, playing with boobs, getting a backrub.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 08:07 PM
7

She's embarrassed because the only thing her body is supposed to do, didn't work right. My wife and I went through the same thing. I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:26 PM
3

I'm not sure of the nature of your relationship. Talking to a girl for a few weeks, doing fun things, I can't even tell if you're sleeping with her. Do you have an exclusive agreement? Seems very fast if so. Or very controlling of you if not. If "buying alcohol" is a big thing, I'm guessing you are in high school or just out. Relax, have fun, you're young. She should not be your only gal.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:16 PM
1

Expecting a woman to behave rationally or logically or without hypocrisy.. that is foolish of you. If you expect a woman to do exactly as she said she would do, when she had a whole different set of emotions then vs now, you will be disappointed. They are wired completely differently from us, and expecting them to act like a man is going to lead you to a life of frustration.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 08:39 PM
1

"lol" This is about as IDGAF as I can come up with.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 07:31 AM
1

I'd start with a line that doesn't sound like you spent all day dreaming about the nookie you hope to get, which you are clearly doing. Something like "have to work late tonite, can't make it over till 8".
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:39 PM
5

Holy shit you two are toxic for each other. Break it off. You both need to get your heads in order, and seek happiness elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:13 PM
3

Does not have to be cowardice. Just a completely different thought train. She doesn't want to break your heart. Even though she's done with you, she doesn't want to reduce you to a bucket of blubbering jello. She's telegraphing all the signals she can to let you know that you two are done. Or, she was just giving you a play-by-play of her new romance. Letting you know that new tingles are heading her way, and maybe wants you to step up your game and give her the tingles like you used to when you…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:11 PM
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Because you are browsing TRP and not literally banging a hottie right this second, I can you that you are no Brad Pitt. So what? Only 1 out of 10 people is in the top 10% in the looks dep't. Next time, you be the one to not make eye contact. Bash right the fuck into her. Knock the latte out of her hand. Look shocked and say "oh! I didn't even notice you there!" That should throw her for a loop.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:03 PM
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Why would you worry about anyone "catching" you doing anything? I don't want people "catching" me burying a dead hooker, aside from that, don't do things that you are ashamed of. You should not be ashamed of reading to improve your life. Do you really think any woman is going to investigate this sub because they saw you reading it? If so, please tell me your secrets of mind control that you can change women's behavior by the websites you visit. "Curiosity" is not a trait women possess, more than…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:57 PM
3

They had better be stylish glasses. It's like a suit, a shitty one will make you look worse than faded jeans and soiled Tshirt. But a nice suit will turn heads. If you want to be appreciated and respected for your looks, it's going to take some time, money, and advice from experts.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:56 PM
1

We used to argue about chores. Sometimes I would argue her into doing things, sometimes she would argue me into doing them. I didn't realize how much of our daily interactions were simply shit tests. Once she realized that I am holding my frame so well, she no longer argues with me. She just throws chores my way and walks away, and I haven't yet learned to duck them. I need next level frame control school or whatever.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 07:05 AM
1

Yes, I know. I'm asking how to fix this situation.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 07:00 AM
1

Oh hell I would take on shit tests like that all day long. If all I had to do around here was open jars of pickles, get shit off the top shelf, and kill spiders I would be in heaven.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:59 AM
1

Well that was a simple explanation. I guess I just aced freshman level frame school, then got tossed right into postgrad. I skipped a few grades and am a little out of my league. I didn't really expect it to be so easy, and work so well, once I got the hang of it.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:57 AM
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You do NOT "deal with it". Get out there and MAKE something of yourself. Affirmations are by definition feel-good bullshit. Stop dealing with it by waiting for something to happen. Be good looking. You can't change your face, but you can improve your complexion if that's a problem, contacts or stylish glasses if you have bad eyes. Spend $50 on a haircut, just to see how it improves your looks. Get fashion advice. Stop "being your own you" or whatever bullshit keeps you in camo cargo pants and ir…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 07:42 AM
7

Hey dude, it sounds like you are super angry at your uncle because he hasn't jumped on the same bandwagon you are on. You need to work on not being so in your face, especially with family. Just politely decline the next lunch invite, unless you pick the place (and pay). Talk, don't brag, about your success. Never say anything that starts with something like "you need to.." Just don't. You can't tell people what to do, you can only show them. If they wise up, great. If not, you can not worry abou…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:42 AM
5

You never worked out hard and partied hard in your early 20's. Two hours in the gym and four hours drinking at the bar, 5 or 6 times a week, still gained muscle. Oh, to be young again.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:08 PM
3

Good on ya, bro. Don't get oneitis, hold frame. blah blah blah The only thing that pisses me off about the red pill is that no one taught it to me 25 years ago.
/r/ThankTRP15/08/14 07:15 PM
15

Be willing to walk away. I can't believe how empowering this is. Be willing to walk away from anything, or you are a slave to it. Do not be a slave. I'm still swallowing the pill, but as I realize the times in my life that were best, it was when I was willing to walk. Sometimes I did. Sometimes I landed on my feet running, sometimes I landed in a pothole of shit. But dammit, I'm still here fighting. And it feels great.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 09:39 AM
2

Yep, don't be afraid to make mistakes and post them up. I wasn't trying to knock you down, just show you how you might have handled it better (and got laid). Frame is awesome when you get it. I still lose it regularly here and there, but when I hold it, it feels so good. It's just amazing how much people will help you get what you want when you keep your cool, can make them laugh or at least smile a bit, and calm them with your confidence by showing them that there is no other way than your way.
/r/ThankTRP14/08/14 10:06 PM
1

Holy shit this really put in perspective how ridiculous that article was.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:35 PM
4

Seems like opportunity lost. Why not keep playing the game, let her hamster run on its own? Agree and amplify. "Of course we won't have sex! I don't even know you! I just got a new red blue Magik deck that I want to show you. But just in case, bring your toothbrush." Be sarcastic, don't let up. She wants to think that going in she's not going to sleep with you because she's no slut. The next morning could have been "I don't know what happened, I went over just to meet him and all of a sudden we …
/r/ThankTRP14/08/14 08:16 PM
16

I have a friend with a son in prison for rape. He gives me parenting advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:09 PM
8

Because you care about the outcome. Stop. You are not going to sleep with that girl so put it out of your mind. Talk to her like you would someone you work with but don't know very well. Remember not to get all beta and actually do stuff for her; no buying drinks, no giving rides, no holding her purse, or walking her to her car or any other damn thing. If you are truly just shy, and do not have a serious physiological problem that requires treatment, start with forced interaction. Go to the groc…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:37 PM
2

I'm with you dude. I have passed up the opportunity many a time to nail some random if she didn't hold something worthwhile. No shame in that. Remember the whole premise of this forum is to be your own man, do what you what, stand up for what you believe in, and don't be ashamed of it. I have never slept with a woman that I would not want to be the mother of my children. At least at the time. Meaning if the girl was a trainwreck, I didn't sink it, or if she proved herself one then I moved on. Th…
/r/askTRP10/08/14 08:53 AM
2

Why the fuck would you bring a girl that is in to you to a party where they might meet better guys? Jeebus, even in my bluest pill days if a chick was in to me enough to want to see me again after meeting me the first time, the next thing I would do is get her alone. Alone with me. No other choices. Alone. Make out at least, mebbe sexy. Take her to a party? wtf? Does not compute. Why would you take a chick to a party?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:44 AM
5

I have never (knowingly) been with a gal that had implants. I always thought you could instantly tell, even before the bra came off. If you are a normal male, I presume there has been plenty of boobie play, was it not obvious? I am now curious as hell.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 10:39 AM
3

Are you doing interesting things? If yes, talk about them. If not, stop trying to pick up women until you have interesting things to talk about. When you talk, speak with passion and conviction. Steer clear of any story that requires "oh you had to be there" or "you need to know about xxx". Bring them there in your telling. Don't talk too much about other people lest you get them more interested in meeting that other person than you. Finally, what's wrong with the same old boring shit? Learn to …
/r/askTRP09/08/14 10:29 AM
14

Damn that is a great piece of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:36 AM
1

Jesus Christ. I'm 40. For example I know what "hook up" means, but at my age the only thing I hook up is stereo equipment. I want to know if you kids use the word cuddle the same way we did or if it's some new thing I haven't tried.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:17 AM
2

Continued trying is not needy. Asking "Oh Sweetie Pie whatever can I do to please you" is. As long as she is not saying no, pushing you away, doing anything physical or verbal to tell you STOP, you are good. The moment you hold her down or in any way keep her from leaving or breaking contact, that's where you cross the line. "oh no I could never" while you are grabbing a handfull of boob or she has her hand your your junk does not count. How many times to try is completely up to you. I have left…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 07:30 AM
0

I was thinking this sounds like a thinly veiled brag. "dood I'm banging this hot slut who says I'm the best she's ever had! She even wants to set up a 3 way with her hot sister!"
/r/askTRP01/08/14 09:58 PM
2

Until you want to stop. Try different things. She could be thinking "if he just does that one special thing, I'm going to tear off his clothes and give him a proper fucking". But she won't tell you what it is, you just have to guess, because that's how she will know you are "worthy". Be a little confrontational, but keep it fun. Next time she stops you, look her right in the eye and say "hey I'm getting mixed signals here. I want to move to the part where we are both naked. How about you?" She w…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 09:46 PM
4

Men don't slink around and avoid confrontation. Stand up, have the talk, tell her the way things will be. She accepts or not; do not let your happiness depend on her answer.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:34 PM
62

Wow, looking for any way to puss out and not hit the gym.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 11:21 PM
-8

Worry less about what others think of you, this includes your wife. But at the same time, be a man of good character. Don't even entertain the notion that you would cheat, not to yourself and not to her. Don't beg and plead for her to believe the truth: No: "oh honey I swear I would never cheat on you, please believe me! let's go car shopping tomorrow, you deserve a new convertible!"
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:44 AM
17

If you pick up girls in clubs, don't be surprised that they liked to go to clubs before they met you, and they will like to go to clubs after you are together. If you want a girl who doesn't hang out in clubs, start looking in places that aren't clubs.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 08:37 AM
4

I would go strait for the kill. Text her "it's time we slept together". Make sure she knows the only way you two will see each other is if there is sex. She will give you the "I thought you were different from other guys" or some such, wanting her orbiter back. Don't let up. Most likely that will be enough to send her away for good (and that's ok), but there's a chance she will go for it.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 10:57 PM
12

Validation. She wants you to know that she has moved on and is living her life just fine without you. No chance for a relationship, maybe fwb, but I wouldn't spend too much time on it. Move on, don't get oneitis over the one that got away.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 11:34 PM
1

What is this supposed to be?
/r/askTRP14/07/14 11:29 PM
6

Even though it's your parents, it's still not your relationship. You don't get a say. Be supportive, make sure you let them know that you love them both, and you'll be there for them if they need you. You can't take sides, you can't fix their marriage. You have a duty to be the rock for everyone around you. It sucks sometimes, but we are men. It's what we must do.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:17 PM
2

You two are childhood friends; play nice. I don't know what "haribos" is, but I'd text her back and ask "if I get haribos for you, what's in it for me?" Game from there.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:01 PM
7

If you get all worked up because a girl turned you down, you are in for a very sad life. Get off the computer right now and go to the mall and ask 10 girls out. Get turned down 10 times. Get over it. Repeat. You are worth enough to at least be flirted with by the hottie at work so I don't think you're a total loser. And I've seen plenty of total losers snag girls above their level. How do you proceed? Keep flirting with her, but keep it in check. Nothing that is over the line, nothing that will …
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:06 AM
2

The best, and most difficult, thing you can do is cut toxic people out of your life. Get away, break contact, find friends.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 07:20 PM
5

Sounds like her best friend has the hots for you. Why would someone tell the boyfriend of her "best friend" how many blowjobs she has given? Ask this best friend how many dicks she has sucked.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 07:16 PM
11

The problem of course is that you feel the situation is "so volatile". It is not. This sounds like high school drama. I read this twice and still can't make sense of it, we need a scorecard or diagram or something. You are so obsessed with not blowing it with any of these girls, that you are going to screw it up with all of them. You are not taking the red pill right now. Stop caring so much. Girls will come and go. Do what you want. Ask out whoever you want, to do whatever you want, whenever yo…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 07:09 PM
8

No one else is counting your hugs. There's some deep philosophical shit in this forum.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 06:01 PM
2

That's a bit assholeish. Just say "hot chicks" and carry on.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:52 PM
16

I hate to quote Game of Thrones, but seriously "Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." You gotta take shit a little less serious. Laugh it off. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 10:17 AM
14

It sounds like OP got an extremely cheap lesson on who to trust. Most of us end up losing a savings account, car, house, job or otherwise. There are just as many men as women that will take and not give. OP you don't have a gender issue, you have a people issue. You did a solid, you didn't get a return. You are blessed with saving all the time and money never having to wonder if you should advance anything to this mooch for the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 10:11 AM
2

N.E.X.T. Get out of there. Either she really does have an abusive alcoholic boyfriend, then she is damaged goods because what kind of worthwhile woman gets into and stays in this relationship. Or she is lying about her bf, in which case she is damaged goods because what kind of woman libels her man by saying these horrible things. Just get away from her. There are plenty of better 7's out there.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 07:42 AM
2

Do you have any hobbies, or just "movies, parties and bars"? Boring job, doing everything around the house.. Seriously, you need to take some damn time for you. We only get one life. Enjoy it. Go do something that you want to do, not for anyone else, not with anyone else. Come back bursting with excitement about what you did, you can't wait to share. Don't wait for her to ask what you did, launch right into it as soon as you see her. Tell her all about it, how awesome it was, how great you were …
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:49 PM
1

Telling you not to be red pill, whether they use that term or not, is a shit test. If you are so easily swayed from your desired path, you would make a horrible provider. Imagine a cavewoman who says to her caveman "Don't go fishing today. Let's just sit here and enjoy this new 'fire' invention". You both starve if you stay. She wanders over to the alpha caveman's fire who has a bounty of brontosaurus burgers..
/r/ThankTRP02/07/14 11:22 PM
0

Stop being boring. Do you complain, or even mention, to your gf that your biz is drowning? No one wants to hear that shit.. except a bartender on a slow night when you are tipping well. Only if you have a specific problem (that doesn't really matter), ask her advice; "I need new carpet in my office, come help me pick some out". Why is it impossible to hang w/ friends? Working late at your business that isn't making money? Next time you think you need to work late, don't. Invite some friends over…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 11:11 PM
1

Really? He said he was looking for ideas. $10 is overboard?
/r/askTRP28/06/14 06:21 PM
-2

Don't make the mistake of trying to impress this foreign gal with all your American money by taking her to the most expensive place in town. It's summer. Go for a picnic. Block of cheese, salami, crackers, bottle of wine, blanket, condoms.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 09:42 PM
1

Just like looks and smarts, people are all over the board with how they are in the sack. You hooked up with a 10 in bed, good for you! But now she's gone, and you had to settle for a couple of 6's. If your ex was a 2 or 3, and you just bagged back to back 6's, you'd be here bragging your ass off. heh
/r/askTRP27/06/14 09:03 PM
2

lol
/r/ThankTRP27/06/14 05:21 PM
3

Everyone grows weary of boring and predictable. For the same reason we don't play tic-tac-toe or watch children's tv shows anymore, we enjoy chess and poker and Martin Scorsese movies. Be interesting by being a unpredictable, challenging, hard to figure out. Go back and think how your night would have turned out if you had responded with "me? a slut? oh my heavens no! I'm a one woman kinda guy! that's just my friend messing around. he's always doing whacky stuff like that." Congratulations, you …
/r/ThankTRP27/06/14 05:08 PM
3

Keep kicking ass!
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:31 PM
3

Glad we could help. Don't stop, keep fighting!
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:16 PM
7

First, let's look at a couple places you feel confident that most people do not. You have a great job. Lots of people are too scared to even apply for a new job, let alone an interview, or all the college it takes to be a contender. You hit the gym. Do you rent the whole place out for an hour so no one looks at you while you work out? Or do you go whenever you want, damned be anyone else? You don't have to be Schwarzenegger, just hit your goals and improve. Now, were you nervous on your first da…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:14 PM
3

Agreed. Seems very risky to let it run its course. Get your ass on a date with her immediately. Nothing fancy, burger and a movie would be fine. Split the check. Make sure she drives, picks you up from your place. Let her down quickly and gently the next time you see her. Why spend time with a chick that isn't totally in to you? If (and this is worst case scenario) this were to end up in court because her friends slut shamed her into reporting this, you do not want to risk a made up date rape co…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:34 PM
14

"Are you actually throwing a temper tantrum because you think I treat you like a child..?" with a look of amused disbelief on your face.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:58 PM
8

Sending gifts back is beta as fuck. It says "I can't control my feelings when I look at these objects, and I want you to know it." Just toss the stuff in the dumpster. Clothes? Underwear? What in the world would would she do with these things? Next time, get your things back before you dump her. Go buy new stuff. Nobody wants to see you at home alone crying into a stew in that crock pot thinking about all the times you chopped carrots with the girl that got away.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:46 PM
2

Aha! Way to young to be in an LTR anyways.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 09:42 PM
4

Financial soundness was one of the top must-have's for a woman before I got married. My wife has a great job when we met, did not quit when we got married or after she had our son. She also came with a paid-for house. I can not for the life of me why, in this day and age, a man would marry a woman and not expect her to work. It's not the 1950's anymore. I want a partner, not another mouth to feed. You sound like a catch, as long as you are a responsible homeowner and don't mortgage the house to …
/r/askTRP18/06/14 06:45 PM
5

Here's some questions: Why would you want to listen to a woman talk for 2+ hours about "gossip and whatnot" and "stupid shit" then retain it all? Why do you want to listen to anyone talk for 2+ hours about anything? Why would you want to comprehend what a woman expects? Who knows what they are thinking or why? Why do you want to be in a relationship with women who give you a 2 hour monolog with a quiz at the end? And if you fail this quiz it starts a pointless argument? I think this woman places…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 09:13 PM
15

1) Be more interesting than the phone. 2) Say "we'll get together when you're not so busy" and leave.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:43 PM
0

My wife has had 7 different center managers in the 12 years she's been there. They each had ~20 years experience to get there, then either been fired, or promoted and had to move cross country. No thank you. I've never worked in the corporate world, always small companies with no real place to go up. Either working directly for the owner or one manager separated. I work for a few years, get bored, move on. I'm a programmer and hate managing people so this works fine for me. Decent money and I do…
/r/askTRP13/06/14 10:12 PM
6

We were all geekly, gangly, awkward teenagers. I don't have many old pictures of me during those years because they make me cringe. Just remember everyone else was too. That hot blonde? Buckteeth and pimples before the orthodontics and accutane. That smokin brunette? Cross eyed, fat and a limp before the surgeries. Your athletic boss who always has his shit together? Curved spine, BO and ADD before the back brace, Axe and ritalin. Forget about it, make jokes about it. I was scrawny, friendless, …
/r/askTRP13/06/14 10:01 PM
1

You're never going to win fighting a pig in the mud. Don't try to match their shit flinging because you won't. Anyone who is starting shit has way more experience than you. Make them come into your frame.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:47 PM
2

I have everything I want in life except financial independence. I hate having to work to make someone else rich. And it creeps on my every day, like a disease. I could be perfectly content, my household is in the top 1/5 income for the US. But I'm not content and it gnaws at me. It plagues me and is my only source of insecurity. I'm working on it. I will have my side business up and running by the end of the month, and it will be a comfortable supplement by the end of the year. And just thinking…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:32 PM
6

her: come to bar him: want to chill at home her: pleeeeeeeeeeeeeze him: ok whare r u? her: moes him: be there in 10 He gets there, girl has gone bar hopping with friends or hooked up with cute guy, does not respond to further texts. Hell, it happened to me once.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:20 PM
21

What makes me happy about this story is that everyone's rights are being upheld. This is how positive change is effected. Kate Kelly has the right to speak freely about religion and her beliefs; the LDS has the right to define its own belief system and restrict membership in its ranks. Unlike litigious "religions" such as Sc**ntology which would rather just sue you in to the poorhouse to shut you up.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:02 PM
11

Agreed. Presuming she had insurance, she just turned routine paperwork into a felony.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:54 PM
2

It's a lot less about insulting the guy, and a lot more about insulting the mentally handicapped. By using the term "downs syndrome" as a stand-in for ugly, you equate the two. That's not nice because we simply don't make fun of the handicapped. What if the guy at the bar had a big nose and OP had said "you look like a jew", or if he had tight curly hair and OP said "you like a negro". And said it in a way that was clearly derisive. Any self respecting jew or negro at the table or not would take…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:47 PM
5

She is a beautiful, fit, black woman. As a white male, having her body is something I can never attain. So it's unattainable! Next we are going to start banning pictures of Albert Einstein so we don't offend stupid people.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:53 PM
2

A reschedule is different from being stood up. I've always dated busy women, and needing to change date night was never a problem. Things come up. Set a specific time & place; if she gives you a vague "I'll call sometime next week" that means she isn't in to you. No big, move on. But I've also been stood up a few times. As in waiting outside a movie theater or sitting in a restaurant, alone. Next time I see her, I make sure she is ok (not in a car wreck or mom in the hospital type of thing), the…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:07 PM
33

Women are actually people too. We all want the best deal we can get. Your gal wanted some action last nite, but a LTR too. So she made you an offer; LTR for sexytime. You countered with no sexytime, no LTR, and being alone on a Thursday nite. She re-countered with sexytime now, will put LTR request on hold for another time. Good field report, fun read.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 11:31 PM
-2

There is a chance that the second half of that sentence was going to be "... and now I have Hep C". We all have a need to be validated as sexually attractive by the opposite sex, your date included. Once she got that validation, she just had too much humanity to blindly expose you to a disease. She should be treated kindly if you run into her again but she should be crossed off your list. If she presses for an explanation, you should easily be able to maintain frame while explaining to her that …
/r/askTRP06/06/14 10:17 PM
3

This will end badly. I'm not telling you not to go for it, but just remember that you have 10 extra years of pent up hormones screaming for release over the rest of us. Even a wallflower like me had french kissed a girl by 14. Don't feel bad bro. Just know that you are going to have feelings for her, she for you, and you both will do some weird shit that a year from now you will look back and say Holy Hell that was cringeworthy. All I can say is that for the love of all you hold dear, please ple…
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:58 PM
2

Most people complain just because they want to complain, not because they want help or a way out of their misery. I constantly forget this because I never do it. The only time I'm bitching it's because I'm actively looking to get out of a tight spot and I need advice and ideas.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:30 PM
2

He said a ridiculous thing. I once had a child tell me "it would be so funny if the sky was green and plants were blue." I like kids, so I countered with "what else would be different colors?" to encourage their creativity. I don't think I would like this guy as much, so I would give him a "hrmph" to let him know I heard him (I don't need him to repeat himself) but decided it didn't deserve an actual word as a response. This guy does not sound like a high worth person; is effeminate, scrawny, da…
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:03 PM
4

I am getting a huge amount of traction in my own interactions using the words "That's not how we behave." and then explaining very briefly what the offending action was. I use it on my kids, my wife, and I've sprinkled it in with other people. It's a fucking soul crusher, so make damn sure you are perfectly calm and unassailably correct, and do not over use it. Also, it's been a few years since I've been to the gym, but standard procedure when I worked out is you never spoke to someone that was …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:43 PM
2

Where did the 3rd date go? You went from 2 dates to the 4th. It's possible that she was trying to figure out how to reply to you, got herself all worked up because she really likes you and didn't want to blow it, and by the time she collected herself she figured it was too late to respond so she let it go. Even in my blue pill days I nexted a girl on their first flake out. I have never had time to be stood up or ignored.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:41 PM
3

c) "I thought we had some chemistry, but I'm not interested in playing games." Then walk away and pay her no more mind. I trust you weren't footing the bill while wining and dining her across romantic Paris..
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:28 PM
6

The best thing we can do is cut toxic people out of our lives. It is also the hardest. I know she's your sister man, but jeez, you don't need to be around that. Do you both live at home? You are transferring schools, get in the dorms, get a roommate, get away from her. She's still your sister, so see her on family occasions, don't ignore her birthday (just send a card), but don't spend more time with her than needed. When she calls you out on not spending time with her, look her right in the eye…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:31 PM
1

Are all girls the same? Of course not. But the truths in this forum are right a lot more then they are wrong. It's pretty simple, she got comfortable that you weren't going anywhere so she stopped putting as much effort into it. She saw you starting to drift away, realized she doesn't want to lose you, so she's clinging trying to keep you around. Also, people change. You guys were all lovey-dovey and rainbows and fluffy puppies, then she got bored of it and started blowing you off. Then you too …
/r/askTRP08/05/14 11:16 PM
3

You are getting sucked into her drama. Let me guess, she is good looking, had rich parents, never had to work for anything in her life? Her hobbies are shopping, parties, and makeup. No one has ever challenged her on anything because of her looks and money. She's bored with getting everything handed to her without any trouble, so she creating drama to entertain herself. Everyone in her life falls all over themselves apologizing so as not to offend this delicate little flower. I've found girls li…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 10:11 PM
3

So this article says don't start your sentences with that word. Aside from filling in gaps while you are with "um", what other crutch words do you guys avoid?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:38 PM
2

I can't imagine being married to a dumb woman. I dated one for a few months and simply could not stand it; she was hot, sex was great, fun to hang out with for short periods of time. But to literally have to make every decision about everything for the rest of your life because your gal is borderline retarded sounds exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:53 PM
6

Nothing wrong with "doing coke and dropping acid and fucking" but this? "drinking beyond wasted and sleeping with random guys left and right on the fly whenever she planned to slide (meaning slip into self-destructive fits)" I would not wife her.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:40 PM
13

Listen to your mother, but make your own damn decisions.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:08 PM
10

Romeo and Juliet is the ultimate story of oneitis, is it not?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:03 PM
13

Some people are mentally ill, the chemistry in their heads doesn't work quite right, like that dude with a thyroid condition. Depression isn't something you can say "snap out of it, get to a gym, go talk to chicks" any more than you can tell an oncology patent "snap out of it and kick that cancer out of your bones". These people need our sympathy, and treatment from professionals. However I have little patience for fat lazy slobs who do it to themselves. I think I've found the magic keywords "pe…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:03 PM
2

No matter who you are or what you look like or what you do, there is someone with a kink that will be in to you. A blissful perfect marriage till death do you part? Maybe not. But a weekend shagfest? Sure.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:45 PM
1

Sounds like she has already moved on. If she is willing to spend the night with another guy so easily, she does not value your relationship as much as you do. Plus, you seem to not trust her very much in the first place, what with all the text messages on her phone that you keep accidentally seeing while she is sleeping..
/r/askTRP30/04/14 09:10 PM
4

I've never met a cop who wasn't at least trying to fake being an alpha. If he is like that on the job, my bet is ends up trying to sweet talk a druggie or gang banger and gets shot. Sad.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:48 PM
2

"All the men in my family are fat and most of them have wives/girlfriend that are skinny and attractive." So you grew up with male role models who were fat and have skinny wives. You learned how to act in order to attract skinny women who were attracted to fat guys. You've got your niche sewn up. This sub is for guys who weren't born alpha and did not have alpha role models growing up, and are trying to figure it out. As a rule, being in shape, clean, rich, focused, drama-free, and able to maint…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:39 PM
4

I never used online dating. I usually just went after girls that were in class together, some big group activity, or friends of friends of friends. Online is just supposed to be one tool in a toolbox of many techniques if you want to hook up, right? Like the street approach, bar / club scene, etc..
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:27 PM
2

I have to ask, even though the mom asks a useful question, does the mom have a job? A husband who works? Or does she stay at home, living off child support and alimony, SSI, or disability? Kids aren't raised in a vacuum. They do as their parents did.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:23 PM
1

I haven't dated a ton of women, but I have dated a number of different kinds. Lookers, career oriented, crazy in bed, just plain crazy, social butterfly, home bodies. I decided I wanted a gal who would be a good mother to my children, so that became my top criteria.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:03 PM
16

There are more women than men in college these days! We are the minority now, we need the special scholarships to keep our numbers up.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:54 PM
1

lol
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:47 PM
2

I can't imagine an office full of women is going to lead to a lot of career prospects. No way a female manager promotes a man over a woman when there are so many other women with more experience and seniority. If you need a job to feed yourself, of course take it. But look to jump to a better opportunity immediately.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:42 PM
3

Somebody do some research if the risk of a surrogate backing out of the arrangement is more probable than a marriage ending in divorce with crippling child support and alimony.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 09:57 PM
3

I just heard this gem on TRP, probably will never have a chance to use it being married and all: "Let's just be friends." "I have enough friends. I want to sleep with you."
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:30 PM
1

I was geeking out playing a game on my phone a few nights ago, my wife started getting pissy and said "you'd rather play with your phone than pay attention to me." I told her "well try to be more interesting than a video game." She called me an asshole and stormed off to bed.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:15 PM
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We can learn a lot studying the game of poker. If raise on a bluff and get re-raised, you better back it up with an all-in. If you fold; you lose your chips, and no one respects future bluffs from you. Bluffs are part of the game, but you have to live with the consequences. Or, don't bluff. If you threaten to leave her if she doesn't stop bitching, and she doesn't stop and you stay, do you think the bitching will decrease or increase?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:11 PM
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We put up with more shit in a relationship for two reasons. One, there is a sunk cost we don't want to have to pay again. You don't ditch your Mercedes because it got a flat tire. The other is that we hate to admit we are wrong. A guy I work with bought a Katrina car; one that had been swamped and soaked in flood water after the hurricane. He got a good, not great, price on it. First the transmission went out, he replaced it. Then the wheel bearings, fixed them. Then the electrical system, every…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:04 PM
1

I've said it before I'll say it again about these rant posts. I have no idea what kind of comments or threads upset you without specific examples. I could guess, but what if I guess wrong? Reread this post and think about it? I did, and all I got out of it was "don't be an asshole". Well the internet is equally flooded with people being assholes, and others telling them not to be assholes.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:15 PM
1

OK good. I've started doing this. I didn't know that was the term for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:01 PM
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I actually appreciate the honesty. I would have picked up the check, kissed her on the cheek and told her thank you. I wish all chicks came with a warning sticker on their foreheads. It's better than the girl I spent 3 months with before she told me she was a recovering heroin addict with a soon to be homeless alcoholic mother and a family history of schizophrenia.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:51 AM
2

I was living with a girl, we broke up before the lease was up. We told the landlord we were moving out, he relisted it and told us we were on the hook for the rent until it was rented again. It rented right away, he kept a big part of the security deposit for "cleaning". My ex and I figured he was entitled to it because we did break the lease after all. Landlords have only 2 fears: a) you will trash the place, b) you will stop paying rent, squat, and tie the whole thing up in court. They are pre…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:31 AM
2

Holy shit those women are hideous, before and after. Pretty sure several are (or were) men.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:19 AM
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I'm having a hard time believing this story because even the bluest of my blue pill days I would have flipped the fuck out if the girl I was dating told another guy that she would sleep with him right in front of me like that. If true, you are right not to bother espousing RP theory to this uber beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:12 AM
4

"replace doubt words like "if" and "I think" with power phrases" Power phrases are..? Examples please.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:53 AM
28

A woman brings her large diamond in to have it appraised. The jeweler looks it over and says "I'm sorry ma'am, this is cubic zirconia." She says "Oh my God! I've been raped!" :(
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:02 PM
1

"Bring a sixpack and Chinese food."
/r/askTRP28/04/14 08:20 PM
1

You still haven't found "it". The hottest chick I ever dated, I liked hanging out with her, the sex was amazing, but she was just so dumb I had to end it. Just being hot was not my "it", I needed more. Don't compromise, keep looking.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:11 AM
1

Of course it's hard. If it was easy, we would all be happily married right out of highschool with 2.5 children and a nice house in the suburbs. And there would be no need for this forum.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:05 AM
1

I've always gone for girls with some meat on their bones. What's it like to sleep with a waif like this? I imagine they're all knees and elbows.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:54 AM
1

Came here to post this quote. Golden.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:52 AM
1

Yep. Played right into it immediately. Started prancing around, over the top lisp, grabbed every guy's butt I could catch. I've never been the least bit homophobic or questioned my heterosexuality. I even have a hard time understanding the gay friends I've had who weren't "out" at work or to their parents. It's like being ashamed of (or teased about) your eye color.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 12:04 AM
1

Nothing. You are not ready for a relationship. So what? Don't get in one. If you honestly feel like something is missing from your life because you aren't in a relationship, then take some time to introspect and find out what's going on with your head and heart. If you are ok with you, keep doing what you feel is important with your life. And at the risk of sounding touchy-feely, when the right gal comes along, you'll know.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 11:53 PM
2

Either do things that you would enjoy even if you don't meet women, or learn to fake enjoying things you don't like specifically to meet women. I preferred the former because I'm not a very good actor, but if you can pull of the latter that's ok too I guess.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 11:42 PM
1

This. Above all else.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 11:37 PM
7

Change your goals. Don't try to impress her, or get her into bed, or even a good night kiss. Make it about you. Make your goal "to stop being nervous around pretty girls". Exposure will get you used to it. Walk in front of her, walk behind her, walk next to her. Pay attention to her, ignore her. Talk about yourself, talk about her. Stare at her, look around the room. Pour her a glass of wine, ask her to pour you a glass of wine. Don't be a fidgety wierdo, just do different things to get comforta…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:32 PM
1

Sounds like a typical college party. Tell bro no big, thanks for saving me from wasting any more time on that tramp. Then look him right in the eye and say And if you ever touch a girl I'm dating again, we fight until one of us can no longer stand.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:54 PM
3

I grabbed a beer with a 8/9 one time. I paid for the first round without even thinking about it; I've never been afraid to pick up a tab to get the conversation started. But I was pretty broke at the time so when we finished I said "I got the first round, you grab the second." She all of a sudden got real busy and left. I called her a few times after that but she never returned my calls. She saved me a ton of money because I had the bad habit to try to spend my way into a girl's pants.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:45 PM
1

Well when he's on the Daily Show he knows it's a massively liberal audience, and he's always there to sell a book. Don't needlessly anger the people giving you a paycheck.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:36 PM
1

Feels good, don't it? Once you can get over the BP guilt, it's the only way to roll.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:25 PM
3

My wife and I did our entire wedding for $2k, we paid cash. No pro DJ or photog, hot food was catered, cold food we picked up from Costco. Fancy looking but cheap wine and champagne from Trader Joes. Cases of beer and flowers from Costco. Centerpieces cobbled together from shit my wife found at a discount craft store. We rented an entire church for ceremony and reception, my wife wheeled and dealed 25% off their asking price somehow. We even had a professional magician walk table to table and en…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:21 PM
3

Why should I care who editors of a magazine I never read think are hot? Where's the commentary on the AARP Swimsuit Issue?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:40 PM
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Sleeping with a co-worker and the bartender at your favorite pub? Sounds like you are about to be unemployed and have no where to drown your troubles on wednesday nights.. You will be boss alpha if you keep your job and your bar after these plates stop spinning. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:05 PM
5

Make yourself scarce. It takes effort. Don't always answer the phone when she calls. Don't linger on the phone when you do talk. Don't immediately return a text, if you do at all. Don't just sit around the house with her hanging out all the time. If she can't make some kind of meetup (drinks, sex, ball game, whatever), do not reschedule for her or immediately suggest an alternative. This is the hardest one for me too, brother. I'm married. I'm supposed to spend every moment with my lovely bride,…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:43 PM
2

Testify! I can absolutely confirm that in my BP days I have been a hard core, long-term orbiter that turned into a boyfriend. Terrible thing to have happen. It gives confirmation to the advice "just be a nice guy and eventually she will see how wonderful you are!" So many girls I wasted time on who were never in to me, and ignored probably great girls because I was blinded by oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:06 PM
2

Reflect. At the end of the day, then no more. Decide how you would live the day over if you could. Figure out what you are going to work on tomorrow. Plan on how you are going to act next time a similar situation comes up. Do not dwell. Think of anything else. A success is a nice thing to switch your mind to. Make sure you have at least one real success everyday to look back on that evening. If not, try harder tomorrow. It's hard. I still think about my first girlfriend 25 years ago, she was a k…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:01 PM
4

Wife's lawyers are the dark side of Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:42 PM
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In another world: A friend of mine is an accountant. She was pro for a while, tons of clients. She did it all; bookkeeping, tax audits, retirement planning. She even helped clients move income offshore. Then she found a nice company with a great benefits package. So she settled in and was really enjoying it. Anyways an old client called her up and asked if she could help with a quarterly filing. “So I was like sure. It’s just a quarterly filing.” Of course, being the good employee she was, she t…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:29 PM
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I don't see ditching, I don't see ballistic. I see two people who know what they want. One who knows when she wants it, another who knows how much it will cost. Not a damn thing wrong with either one of you. Maintain frame. Treat it like any other business transaction. Tell her for $10k prepaid you will drop everything else and start immediately. Otherwise, get in line. And be sure to mention that you have "a line" because your product/service is a bargain even at that price and wait time.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:12 PM
3

Stop asking, start telling. No more "honey, is it ok if I go fishing today?" then a pointless argument with whoever complains loudest decides if I go fishing or not. Now it's "I'm going fishing, I'll be back by sundown." She said "what? and leave me here with all these kids?" I said "Yep, you'll have fun. Go shopping, play with the kids. I'll help get them to bed when I get home." And she did, and I did. I took charge, told her how things were going to be for the day, I did what I said I was goi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:35 PM
7

There are often good excuses for murder, none for pedophilia.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:41 PM
4

I've only been RP for a month now, and it's turned my marriage around. I have not said the word "sorry" in weeks. I no longer ask, I command. I still say please and thank you of course, my momma raised me right. A month ago I would have said at the dinner table "sorry, could you pass the salt please?" Now I just say "pass the salt please". Small changes. I am not sorry for my wants. It's adds to the overall package.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:55 PM
1

Go to a mall. I have a tough time just talking to talk, but there's a million things to talk about at the mall. Make fun of other people, the crappy food court food. Go buy a shirt for yourself, ask her opinion if you think it matters. Go to the toy store and play with toys, go to the pet shop and play with a puppy. So many chances to shoot her down and maintain frame when she wants you to buy her shit. And if you end up funding her shopping spree, well you got what you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:32 PM
4

Welp, now I want to go to Ft. Lauderdale. lol I especially like the meet first time early in the day, reconnect later that night after work. So simple it's genius level. She has worked an entire day, ate a meal or two, went home, petted the cat and called a girlfriend, showered and changed clothes.. it's been like totally forever since she saw you last. Very easy to hamster that as "it's not a first date" in her mind. Especially when you hang a lampshade on it by saying it's you that doesn't put…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:11 PM
5

I agree that men's and women's goals are different. But I will never agree that they must be mutually exclusive. A man's success does not depend on a woman failing any more than woman's success depends on a man failing. I don't know if we can look at our parents, but certainly our grandparent's generation. My Grandfather was as Red Pill as they come. Not fuckin bitches to scratch itches kind of way, but as a confident man doing what needed to get done to provide for himself and his family. He we…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:37 PM
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WTF? I thought this was Red Pill. Take responsibility for your actions. Does he not know how is babby formed? He ejaculates into the womb of a woman of known fertility, without he himself using protection, when she even had the decency to tell him she wanted another child, and he should be surprised when she winds up pregnant? C'mon.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:14 PM
4

"I have no time for people that have no time for me." I don't remember where I heard it, and I often forget it in my own life. But when I live it, I get a lot more done.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:06 PM
1

I've been picking up hobbies at the rate of 1 or 2 per year for the last few years. I find something that interests me, gorge myself learning, get good enough to enjoy the activity at my skill level, and be able to appreciate how good the guys are that dedicate their lives to it. Then I can put that skill in my toolbox before I get bored and frustrated and tired of it, and come back and enjoy it at my pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:01 PM
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I'd rather have swagger than be moody and shameful. Johnny Depp as Cap'n Jack vs. William H Macy as anything. Pride is a sin, confidence is a virtue. Think of the last time you saw a guy bee bonkin down the street with a big proud grin on his face. Why was he smiling? Probably just had his biggest most solid bowel movement in a month. The guy with the quiet confident half-grin who looks like he knows everyone and everything that's going on? Probably because he does.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:48 PM
14

I wish there was a "Red Pill Factor" for the husband in their study; a sliding scale of 0-10 that we could correlate to happiness of both parties and rate of divorce. But I think we all know what the results would be. I'm 40 and have been married 4 years, I've only been incorporating RP into my marriage for the last month and I have noticed a marked improvement in my happiness and that of my wife as well. Arguments stopped, sex way better, everybody getting along better. Too early to tell for th…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:35 PM
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Jews used to be discriminated against on Wall Street, non-Jews simply would not hire them, or if they did, they would not be promoted. So Jews started their own companies. Money finds a way. How many affirmative action policies and other minority protections were in place in 1850? That's the year Lehman Bros. was founded. How about 1869? Goldman Sachs founded. If a woman wanted to start a company with only female investors and hire only women to work there, I would absolutely defend their right …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:36 PM
0

I found a 263 page pdf, is this the one? There's also a very short pdf, just a few pages.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 11:30 PM
5

Had a vaguely similar thing happen to me back in college. I raised my eyebrows with a slightly surprised look on my face and said to her "oh, I didn't know we weren't going out anymore" and walked away. Not convinced that's a bad play here. Turns out we weren't going out anymore, as she never talked to me after that and I never tried to talk to her again either. By far the gentlest breakup I ever had.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:40 PM
10

Cool story bro. What do you want out of life now that you have extracted this single act of revenge sex? Figure out what kind of man you need to be get it, become him, go out and take what's yours.
/r/ThankTRP22/04/14 08:09 PM
2

If you want to be a better man, don't be vague. Be direct. Do not say "At least two of the current submissions.." Instead, actually link to the posts and tell us why they are wrong for this forum. Do not be afraid of hurting feelings. I too want to be a worthwhile contributor here, but making me guess what you are talking about does not help.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:45 PM
1

He rewrote the OP's words as if a woman had said the same thing but as a woman. He changed "That tinder post" from the original post to examiner (a newspaper) article. I had to look up tinder, I didn't know what it was.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:20 PM
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A thousand times this. Sometimes I did get a girl that I was pining for, turned it into an LTR, and discovered she was never worth the time invested. Would have been better to date more girls for shorter amounts of time.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 11:03 PM
3

Significant bias in this study. Before you accept that 1 in 4 chicks are certifiably insane, ask yourself if that really makes sense. American women are not unique in their brain chemistry, how could any human society even function with all that crazy? Were the tests to determine "mental illness" created by men? Were they administered by men? Holding women to the same standards as men is ludicrous. I don't mean higher or lower standards, I mean equal but different. What constitutes normal health…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:18 PM
56

He doesn't have the stones to do this or he would never have got himself in this position in the first place. He's broken. He allowed himself to be treated this way, and got what he deserved. Can he fix his marriage? No. Can he fix himself? Absolutely. Will he? Probably not.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:12 PM
2

It's not a grand conspiracy to keep us down so much as it is society has created the path of least resistance for us to occupy our time from birth to death. TV, video games, movies, work a semi-boring job, drive an alright car home to a reasonable house. As our ancestors scraped a living out of the land, every day a fight for survival, only the men who could pull together a plenty, an excess for lean times, got to reproduce. We've damn near lost what made us great. Don't just follow your dreams,…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:56 PM
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If the guy really is so self-deluded, I hope he does stay and raise the child. Better him that willingly blinds himself to the truth and can fool himself into thinking he is happy, than my tax dollars.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:40 PM
7

The child has both a mother and a father, and they need to raise it. This guy needs the GTFO and let them.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:38 PM
35

In the same boat, married plus 3 kids, just had one of those horrible birthdays that end in a zero. Made me examine my life and decide I wasn't really happy with me, found this place. I'm making myself a little more scarce around the house. Not hanging around her constantly, hovering, pestering, just making my presence seem less valuable. I work on projects that I've been putting off. My wife seems to really value the time we do spend together so much more. Instead of spending 3 hours hanging ar…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:33 PM
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Then they weren't that close.. We've always made choices about who we spend our time with. Y'know that guy with bad breath who's always scratching and coughing on you while he complains about feeling sick? You never spent time with him because you considered him toxic to your health. You have just redefined what you consider toxic.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 09:49 PM
2

Let's say you have an island with 1000 families on it, all married couples with 2 kids each; 4000 people. If only the fathers/husbands work, then that is a workforce of 1000, with a demand from 4000 people counting women and children for all goods and services. If all of a sudden all the women start working, then you have a labor force of 2000, but with still a demand from only 4000 people. Presume some kind of income stratification, and sure the poor could consume more (better food, an iPhone f…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 09:43 PM
13

I live in the suburbs with an office job, but I still like working with my hands; the feeling of accomplishment. So I'm out mending my fence. I'm really in the groove, about 2/3 done with the fence, it's going smooth. My wife comes out holding the baby and says "can you take the baby so I can have a break?" Before I would have whined "honey I'm right in the middle of something here" and she would have fired back a whine "I've been watching him since I got home" and back and forth bitching and mo…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:18 PM
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Holy shit this. A couple weeks ago I told my wife I'm going fishing, gonna be out all day. She says "what? and leave me here with all these kids?" Before I would have argued with her, not knock down drag out fight, just a whining argument, and whoever whined loudest would have got their way. Maybe I would have gone fishing, maybe not. I was never a complete laydown, but I definitely wasn't completely standing up either. This time I said "yes, I'll be home by sundown" and left. I came back, by su…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:07 PM
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