Not sure if this is a Red Pill-appropriate question, but almost every time I meet some guy at a social event the first thing out of his mouth is some sort of put down. Especially if there are girls in the group.

It's usually about the way I look or that I must be a ditz who has nothing of value to say. Like some ugly-ass dude will walk by, and it's like, "Wow that guy looks a lot like you!" Or I'll say what's up and they just ignore me. Girls seem in tune w/this and tell me other guys can be jealous, but girls just say stuff to not hurt your feelings, so I don't know.

It's either that or the other end of the spectrum where I get lots of respect.