I dated a seemingly sweet girl for about 8 months. I was a typical beta prince charming. The relationship started to sour. She was flaky, unappreciative, passive aggressive and chose others feelings above mine. Anyway, I was not happy with the mutual respect in the relationship. I discovered /TheRedPill through /NoFab so I tried to gently but assertively reformat the relationship all the while remaining frame. TL;DR It didn't work. She was not accepting of the new terms of our social contract so I had to put myself on the pedestal and dump her. How should I proceeded? I already participate in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, bicycling, and have a good social network but more lifting wouldn't kill me. I've already deleted her number and have never been on any creepy social media sites. I was planning on sending her all your belongings and gifts back including clothes and underwear. Is sending gifts back petty? I don't want them but am overall indifferent about the gifts. How can I get my things back from her? I don't care about the PS3 but I will miss my slow cooker and that expensive car wax I left at her house. But those things are easily replaceable. Sorry if this topic has been covered ad nauseam. Thanks /asktrp