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| 1 | What do you use for birth control?I have been using nuvaring for over 10 years with no issues | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/19 04:15 PM |
| 13 | Skills and past-times for self-improvement?This is going to sound like a load of hogwash, but it worked for me: cross-stitch and crochet. It was almost like a kind of therapy, forcing me to concentrate on a small thing and in creating things. I've even sold a bunch but now I give them away to family and friends. Growing veg: start with growing herbs like basil and oregano, you can use them for cokking and they'll grow inside all year. They're fairly easy to care for too Cooking: definitely start with youtube, where you can pause, follow … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/18 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Congratulations, Fortnite has been successfully uninstalled.I keep coming back to this: http://www.returnofkings.com/74685/20-things-you-can-do-instead-of-playing-video-games Also, you seem to like shooting games. Go to a gun range and learn proper shooting. You'll probably like it and it may come in useful sometime | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 08:26 AM |
| 1 | How to dressI do, very thin and nude tights, I think they make my legs look great, and they prevent my thighs from getting sticky with the heat | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/18 12:00 PM |
| 3 | How to dressStretchy dresses are the answer for you! I personally prefer longer dresses with nude tights, as I think it looks fancier, but still VERY comfy. People who diss tights are either wearing a wrong size or have never tried them :) I think comfy ballet flats are hard to find, but other flat styles or even low heels can work too. A little secret is to go to the old lady section of a shoe shop, where all the ugly ultra comfy shoes are, and look periodically. A non ugly model may pop up and then you ha… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/18 10:07 AM |
| 6 | How to dressI've gotten good results with casual dresses. Usually at knee length, sometimes slightly above. I have a lot of them in many patterns but only in comfy stretchy fabrics, kinda like thick sweatpants or that almost-neoprene thing. I buy them fitted but not tight and wear tights and flats. I'm very comfy, almost like wearing sweats and if we're going somewhere nice, I can just put on heels and some jewelry. I usually just wear ballerina flats and plain earrings for my normal days. I will also wear … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/18 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What Are Your Favorite (Or Most Lusted After) Cookbooks?I've seen a great idea online which is in any big occasion that joins the whole family (a wedding, Christmas, etc) ask every guest to bring their favourite recipe and collate those into a neat collection of loved favourites. You can even share the final product with the same people too | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/18 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Illiberal children's storiesSophie's Troubles or Misfortunes (I've seen both titles) by the Countess of Segur. I loved these as a kid, they're not fairy tales but normal adventures of a little mischievous girl and her cousins. I remember every time Sophie got in trouble with the adults for her wild ideas. Nothing too wild though, she's like 5 and they're tiny adventures around the house. She learns her lessons and grows from story to story (book has many small stories) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/18 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Finding a community of RPWs?Do you know of any other mom network in your area? Look online and there may be a group. It's unlikely you'll like all of them, but maybe one or two women there will be what you're looking for in a friend | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/18 05:53 PM |
| 13 | And that's the gospel truth.Definitely. But from what I've seen, men are more than willing to lower their standards on the face and go for a plain-er looking girl who is sweeter and fit, rather than a preetier girl who's less fit or less nice | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/18 11:46 PM |
| 17 | And that's the gospel truth.The tweet mentions long and shiny. That is definitely attainable for all hair types if you take good care of it | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | "The Tyranny of the Home-Cooked Family Dinner" - thoughts??I definitely like your basic equipment but I'll go even further and say you can get by with a dollar store cutting board, one knife, one pan and one oven tray. You can then add stuff and upgrade as you save up I definitely agree on the fast food part. Any food is better homemade, even if it take you a few tries to "get it" | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/18 10:04 AM |
| 3 | "The Tyranny of the Home-Cooked Family Dinner" - thoughts??Check out budgetbytes.com they have some neat advice for cooking without much equipment or money. I used the website when I first started living alone, to spend as little as possible before my first paycheck | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/18 10:00 AM |
| 5 | I quit my job teaching yesterday. Without leadership or integrity, mediocrity rises to the top.Are you me? I now teach math privately (parents are allowed to sign a paper excusing kids from class if they take an end-of-year exam to prove they're being taught elsewhere, I provide this service) to make ends meet until I graduate. The kids are so poorly taught it really makes me sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Healthy fighting styleI have no clue how actually healthy this is but, for us, we head to the bedroom (just for the big flat space) and literally wrestle for who wins. It's a relatively fair fight, we don't actually get hurt (the moves are fake) it ends up being quite funny and through strategic locks, I have a decent chance of winning half the time. Of course, this is only viable for arguments where it bothers you to do things his way but it would be possible, like telling a friend of ours that his girlfriend was ch… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/18 03:56 PM |
| 17 | Spending winters apart to escape the dreaded coldI know it sounds odd: talk to your doctor about this. I had a friend with this problem and she had her blood tested and had something important at low levels, and also low vitamin D. Th doctor gave her vit D pills and other pill for the other thing (iron? I don't remember) and it made a world of difference. She still dislikes winter, but combined with a little holiday, it had become very bearable for her | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/18 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Romantic Victories!A basket full of little things he mentioned he'd like but didn't buy like fancy underwear and pricy magazines and fancy chocolates and snacks | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/18 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Romantic Victories!My christmas gift to my man was lauded as "very caring and thoughtful". I was over the moon as I put a lot of work into it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meYour blazer is not ruined, just take it to a cleaners place and explain what happened. They should be able to fix the stains | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I will never be Chad. And that's ok.You may like Rosetta Stone. It's a software for learning foreign languages (it's expensive but easy to find on P2P) that is built in a very simple manner. In fact, I've seen 4 year olds use it without a hitch, so it may be easy enough to use with a foggy brain. I've tried it sick and hungover and the whole thing is built around simple clicks so give it a try | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Table Ettiquette with Gloria StarrAll of Gloria Starr's videos on etiquette have good tips. The ones where she talks about looks are not so great for me because she only discusses looks leaning to formal, business-y, corporate, although very elegant | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Why Marriage - Part 2 - For the ChildrenThe piece of paper helps in a lot of scenarios. In this telenovela that I saw, there was an unmarried couple where one of them had an adopted child (long story). The adoptive parent was murdered and the other one, because they weren't married (despite living together happily for years raising this child) was not allowed to visit in the hospital or say goodbye as the guy was dying (family only), and was not allowed custody of the child. In the story it all goes well as the child's custody is gran… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Why Marriage - Part 2 - For the ChildrenFunny enough I'm very lucky because my boyfriend says that it's kind of pointless to marry because we're not religious. But he does want to get married precisely for the grand gesture of commitment of gathering/fusing both our families | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 11:10 PM |
| 12 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeI personally like the "this is tough but I'm tougher". A bit longer, but positive | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:33 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread December 13Thank you for the link and the suggestion, I don't think it'll arrive in time for christmas, but it sounds like it'll be a great gift regardless | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:12 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread December 13Only tangentially related to TRP but I figured you guys would have the best suggestions: do you know any good books to help with negotiations tips/techniques/etc? My boyfriend has been promoted and he sometimes mentions difficult negotiations on this new role, I want to help (but have no clue) | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 01:04 AM |
| 7 | [NSFW] Well duh!For me that is definitely the key to a good relationship. People always act very impressed at how my boyfriend treats me so well, or how I treat him so well. It's no sacrifice at all, we make each other want to do the sort of things other people would consider "a sacrifice" | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?The best gift my parents ever got and still rave about was a decorated cardboard box with some "odd" groceries in it. The stuff we wouldn't buy for ourselves like fancy flavoured salt, pasta sauces, fancy tinned goods etc So simple and so genius | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?I usually get most shopping done in the summer, since I have the most free time | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?I've already sorted a good chunk of the presents, it's much easier now than in December. You can also get started in trying out any new recipes you'd be planning to debut. I wouldn't dare bake/cook for such a special occasion without a trial run. Trying it out now leave enough "space" to not feel repetitive. Just so you know, I'm planning on gifting homemade cookies to those "should I get a gift or not" people. I figure cookies will be more appreciated than "more stuff". I've started trying out … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeI help out some families to make ends meet as a college student and some things kids say will just break your heart | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Get Pregnant at 25 If You Want a High-Powered Career!Even the 1% can't have it all. They can have the illusion of having it all, but they pay someone else to raise their kids, cook their meals, etc. It's just not the same :p I help out with some families in that situation and it broke my heart one day when a kid asked me if I could be his mom. No baby, you have a mom, but she only comes home around your bedtime :( | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Get Pregnant at 25 If You Want a High-Powered Career!This is definitely what I want to do. I want to work as an engineer, but also have a family and kids. I can still have a career at 45, but I cant have kids at 45 My mom always told me it just makes more sense to have kids soon while you still have the most energy to lose sleep and run around with them. Then as you get older, the kids demand less physical effort from your part, and less and less time as they grow into their teens and so on. And that's a good time to be more dedicated at work | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 05:45 PM |
| 4 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!While I agree that being married is an acomplishment, getting married is the "easiest" step, if you're not concerned about the quality of the groom Definitely! The women who marry "inferior" men just for the sake of being married are often quick to divorce, from what I've seen. I think a lot of these people just want the attention of their friends and family and being oo-ed and aa-d over: a proposal, being engaged and ultimately the wedding. The groom/husband seems to be an afterthought. Unsurpr… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 06:53 AM |
| 1 | [F] How to get away from unwanted advances?Jesus... See, this is the kind of reaction I didn't want to get from someone. It sounds like you'd be really pissed if this happened to you, which is precisely what I'm trying to avoid | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:40 PM |
| 14 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Getting married, in an of itself, is no acomplishment, any idiot can get married. It is quite difficult and quite the acomplishment however to: find a good worthy man to share your life with get said man to marry you work on staying married and happy And that difference in "groom quality" is hard to grasp for these people as they see a husband as a sort of fashion accessory to play "keep up with Linda/Stacy/etc". They see him as an inferior being, and in that sense, yes, getting a shmuck to marr… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | [F] How to get away from unwanted advances?If it matters any, I was in a suit, like a proper corporate suit. It should not be wide or baggy but also not sexy, just professional. I understand that on a night out, or if you're dressed to call attention, you shouldn't be surprised to get attention. That's along the lines of what I said, but it felt so awkward and clunky that I thought there must be some kind of expected/standard procedure. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [F] How to get away from unwanted advances?Not really. Sorry if it wasn't clear | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Girl Game: Encouraging Your Captain To Lead - This has helped me a lotThis has changed my life. It's always good to remember to let your man lead: you picked him. YOU PICKED HIM. It must have been for a reason, you must, deep down, trust his judgement. While "letting go" is difficult, in time, as you encourage your man, you'll start getting positive surprises. Give him space to lead, in a world that doesn't like giving men like him space to lead. It may actually take some practice, depending on some life experiences that may make him shy away from taking full cont… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/17 07:51 PM |
| 0 | What RP tenet made the most difference to you and your relationship?http://theredpillroom.blogspot.co.uk/2014/09/girl-game-encouraging-your-captain-to.html | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/17 05:09 AM |
| 6 | What RP tenet made the most difference to you and your relationship?YIELD! I'm the oldest of my sisters and very organized and type A. My man is the youngest of many brothers and his mom babies him a little. I used to have trouble with letting him do things, thinking I'll be better at it and save us a lot of trouble, like planning our vacations and such I eventually realised he'll never "get good" if he doesn't do things. I've been more encouraging and not trying to control everything. He went from being nervous to book us table to surprising me with a nearly fu… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/17 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 19Being friends with a couple will give you some good insights, if they are actually good friends and "up to your level" if you know what I mean. No beta chumps here, a good man at least equal to yourself, but preferably someone you admire and his woman should be some good company for double dates (in case your girl sucks) and a woman who has already secured a good man will often be aware of RP truths (and call it some other name possibly) Edit: also, any single girls will think you're just dying … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Too much time on my handsTry FSI language courses to learn a new language. Choose one that excites you to learn on your own and the courses are free online with audio tapes and whatnot. You can even start a class with similarly minded friends out of your room. I did that and now, years later, I make a little extra cash anytime I need/can by teaching spanish :) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Fat White Girl SyndromeI've always heard that as "a fat chick bragging about her big tits is like an unemployed person bragging about sleeping in on mondays" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Tired of living like this - Tomorrow is Day oneTutor rich highschoolers, their parents will spare no expense. Whatever you're good at, teach it for 30$ an hour or more | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Women are taking on substantial more debt than men to get objectively useless degrees. Patriarchy is blamed.Not just that, but they won't buy "normal" supermarket women's shampoo, they'll buy fancy hairdresser shit and then complain | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/17 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I want to have kids eventually but I'm just not there yet. Fortunately my bf and I see eye to eye about it and intend to have them as soon as practical (when we marry and move in together) I work with children part time and really enjoy it and I love it when we talk about those kids and he says I'll make a good mom. It just sends me over the moon :) I'll be reading attentively and try to learn something. The advice I got here has probably saved (or at least helped a lot) my relationship when we … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 06:46 PM |
| 3 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Why are women's feet smaller than men's? So they can stand closer to the kitchen sink | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Telling women not to drink during pregnancy 'sexist'thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Telling women not to drink during pregnancy 'sexist'And this is why I see so many people with Fetal Alcohol Sindrome. It's just very telling in the face of people whether their moms drank while pregnant. Once I found out how it looked like, I was shocked at how many people have this "alcohol fetus" face. The main features are thin and flat upper lip with no "wavy-bit-between-mouth-and-nose" (help) and it's almost unsettling how normal it looks. You'll start seeing it everywhere: http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/pediatrics/136/5/e1395… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Telling women not to drink during pregnancy 'sexist'You'd be surprised at how many self proclaimed feminists wear the label because they're "supposed to" and when it comes to what they actually believe, they are much more reasonable. I've had friends say that to me and I know it not to be true in the feminazi sense. These are people who think not being a feminist means being a chauvanistic ass and that feminism just means a basic belief that women are people too. When confronted with some other, more radical feminist ideas, they are quick to reco… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 08:26 PM |
| 3 | [Homemaking] Tips and Tricks!Scent: if you have an electric plate stove you can leave apple skins on hot-ish plates (after cooking, when you turn it off). The skins curl up and may charr slightly, but your house will smell like apple pie, and it dies out on its own as the stove plate cools. My mum always did this after frying anything. Now with the ceramic plates, I'm not sure it's safe. A cap dull of vanilla extract in a cooling oven after baking anything, with the door open is also nice (and CAP, not CUP - your neighbours… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/17 10:24 PM |
| 8 | EMILY POST’S ETIQUETTE, 19TH EDITIONAlso, if you don't want to buy the book, her website has lots and lots of free advice on many fronts, from weddings to business life | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Success with Women Cliff Notes For Quick ReferenceUniversity is a whole new world, I was picturing more the younger end of 13-19 but I agree, college kids need to tread very carefully | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/17 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Success with Women Cliff Notes For Quick ReferenceFucking your rep as a teenager can be hell at the time but it's inconsequential in the grand scheme of things | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/17 04:34 PM |
| 18 | Success with Women Cliff Notes For Quick ReferenceI think this is more specific to women, so ask girls out at school and get rejected as often as necessary. It's good practice and mitigates the fear of rejection. Teenagers can date girls and do stupid things to learn their lessons, as the consequences are very small. When grown men make mistakes with women, they can be expensive and come with disastruous social consequences. Failing in this regard as a kid gives you some "jadedness" that is necessary for protecting yourself down the road | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 11:00 AM |
| 4 | There's this one girl...I'll tell you the same thing I tell all my friends: does she shoot rainbows out of her pussy? Unless she does, she is not special and should be treated accordingly. Would you allow any other girl to do this to your plans? Note: shooting cheeseburgers/ gold nuggets/ diamonds/ [your favourite thing] are acceptable substitutes to rainbows. If this is the case, you've got a magical pussy in hands and all regular advice goes out the window | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/17 10:33 PM |
| 6 | What NOT to say to your man – ever. -Shaunti Feldhahn BlogI used to say it a lot and he explained how scary it sounded. I never realized that, I'm just a very talkative person and he always has the most interesting things to say so I tended to text this if I wanted us to chat about something. I have since learned he needs more details. "I want your opinion on something I read", "I want to go for a walk and talk, just because I like talking to you", etc etc Giving specifics defuses what I never thought was "a scary thing" :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignThat doesn't worry me at all. It seems like you should be finding better uses for your time, though | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/17 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignI'm definitely out of her league, if that's what you're asking | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/17 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignAlso, with the amount of mixed race people in America, those lines get blurred a little as a half-asian or half-latina girl can be as appealing to white men as white girls because they don't look all that different | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/17 08:02 AM |
| 22 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignIf you check the categories on the article, there is at least one non-white girl in every category. I'm not good at picking out races unless they are quite obvious, but a fair amount of those girls look mixed, with black, hispanic/latina and asian Young and thin, yup. White, I think was just inserted to add shock value. Just because a lot of them are white, doesn't mean they all are. And besides, if they didn't want these winners, they could vote. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/17 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignThere is a saying in my country: "During war times, any hole is a trench". Unless you are facing some tough times yourself, you can get much better holes than that lardass | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/17 11:10 PM |
| 9 | For newbies: If you feel the need to ask for sex, it's time to break up.Other things can happen, but like he said, she should make up for it soon and with interest. At the top of my head I can think of genuinely sick/weak (not headache, more stomach flu or post surgery), death or similar tragedy in the family or close friends, and I'm pretty sure there are others. Point being, it should be incredibly rare, but it's not as impossible as you make it seem | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Drake University Expels Male Student Despite Female Admitting She Forced Him Into Sex ActI don't know that many girls at uni (engineering) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 06:24 PM |
| -2 | Drake University Expels Male Student Despite Female Admitting She Forced Him Into Sex ActIf this happened in my school I would advise the guy to "cry rape". he was too drunk, unable to consent and was assaulted. I would then go after the school, suing for damages. Supposedly, any two bit lawyer could help contest the explusion if there is no actual conviction. On the other hand, it makes me want to tell my sister to cry assault on every asshole I dislike at our uni | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Ltr's are hard and the female hamster amazes me sometimes. A tale of shit and comfort tests.These seem like tests to determine if you're still your old self or have turned into a blue beta mushy chump. Hold frame and comfort/fuck as needed | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017Yeah, like that. Also, around here Mirena is the name of a pill, in the US it's an IUD? I've also heard of intra uterines similar to nuvarings, soft and bendy, but T-shaped and bigger, and need doctors to put them in/take them out. Those also last longer as cervical rings need replacements often compared to IUDs | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017Mine doesn't have a string, but it's a slightly different product than the IUD, it sits outside the uterus and the material is somewhat silicone-y. It does the same thing, of releasing hormones into the area/bloodstream. You can even take it out and wash it (I only do it during my period and I'm aware it's an exercise in futility) and put it back in | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017ok, I'm assuming "the coil" is the copper IUD devices. I've never had one of those, but I have the kind that releases birth control hormones, and is made of soft bendy plastic instead of metal. Cheap, easy to use, un-noticeable during sex, a definite winner for us :) About the tests, maybe you can work with a lab or doctor that will walk you through the sample collection at home and you can just drop the samples off at the lab/doctor later. Our local lab is ok with it, but includes a note to the… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017I'd like to help but given the thred... Are you serious? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldThe way I see it, a man too busy doing laundry is too busy to give you a good backrub :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldI've always heard it as a feminist quote as in "look at any great man, and there must be a great woman behind him" as in, someone behind the curtains doing grunt-work that never gets proper recognition. But that isn't mandatory at all, and a sign that the man in question is an entitled jerk. I do think that great men become so, because of their great support systems, of which I would highlight good mothers and good wives. And unlike what feminists may think, there is great honour and pride in be… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldReminds me of that comic: my worst: who the fuck is Jennaaaaaa? (house on fire) my best: I made you pasta but burned it, so now you get to take me out http://i.imgur.com/DAw4lty.jpg | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 11:52 AM |
| 15 | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldI think that this is what the feminist quote "Behind every great man, there is a great woman" is all about. I'm speculating here, but I don't think anyone could go as far as he did without a strong home-base and support. I think this form of support allows men to fullfill their potencial greatness instead of being bogged down with details. A great woman gives great suport, structure and all he could need to become a great man | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 11:50 AM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Check youtube for tutorials. Also start trying with no force at all, just like a backrub-cuddle mashup for practice. My bf will fall right asleep if i do that :) and then introduce force, bit by bit. You will, with your hands, learn more about your man's body like where he carries tension or likes or dislikes pressure. A bit like makeup, a professional needs to know how to work with anyone, you just need to find what you/he like/s. And in the same way, practice makes perfect | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/17 02:35 AM |
| 9 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?I totally feel you :) I also do (and those are totally for him) "manly-manis" because he's afraid the lady at a salon will do something sissy. I cut and file his nails, push the cuticles back and use my fancy cuticle oils and creams. All the pampering, but you can watch football in the meantime :) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 12:57 PM |
| 13 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?back rubs and footrubs | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumI think people tend to forget the value of the labour of a stay-at-home-mom, even in cash-value terms. Make a list of all the things a sahm does, and wouldn't be able to do if she were at work, and then tally it up considering what you'd have to pay someone else to do it. I distinctively remember a friend of my mom's quitting work and I was confused (nearly all women I knew worked outside the home). And my mom explained that with the salary cuts her friend has, said salary no longer even covered… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 11:40 AM |
| 4 | If you're under 5'6 you are condemned to Beta status by women, forever.If you have a loser attitude, you are condemned to Beta status by women, forever. That's it. I'm tired of hearing this shit from indian guys, short guys, balding guys, asian guys, etc. Your only problem is your freaking loser attitude, and that scares chicks away. No one want to be around a loser, much less kiss, or, god forbid, fuck one. You're presenting yourself as a loser, and getting treated as one because of that. Also, women can't really explain themselves with logic. You failed to give t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 12:02 AM |
| 3 | If you're under 5'6 you are condemned to Beta status by women, forever.If you have a loser attitude, you are condemned to Beta status by women, forever. That's it | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Half The Fun Of Being A Parent Is Trolling Your ChildrenMy mom used to tell me that when women give birth, they will grow eyes in the back of their head, but they are covered with hair. She'd never let me look and said she was afraid I'd poke her | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/17 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - Ladies who knit and crochet: what are your current projects and/or favorite patterns?I mostly work with free patterns off of pinterest or youtube (college student budget) but I'll tell you about my current projects: two crocheted granny squares put back to back make a great pot holder. I'm negotiating with a local store to start selling them baby shoes. These are the only two things I know how to crochet, so I make multiples, and give the baby shoes to charity | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/17 01:53 AM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - March 11, 2017Here's hoping :) Also, who posts a photo with a baby when looking for hookups? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/17 12:08 PM |
| 6 | Why am I an intelligent, funny 10 and unable to get guys?You're either lying or leaving out some key factors | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 10:48 AM |
| 4 | How do you make your SO look good in your community (family, neighborhood, colleagues, friends)? Let's discuss!I try my best to look good and be nice when I am invited to his family events. I also do my best to host friends for dinner as often as possible. My bf is quite shy and does appreciate it: in his words, if it weren't for me, he wouldn't have a social life. I'm looking forward to seeing great ideas here! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 11:03 PM |
| 5 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéI'm sorry if I sounded a little judgy. Reading back I understand I completely forgot not all offices are the same :p The advice still stands, emulating your bosses in a work setting pays off. Also, definitely keep up the romance, but in a covert way (I bet you can even make that more fun) so as to keep your personal and unprofessional side only for those who deserve it (your friends and sweetheart) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 11:24 PM |
| 4 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéAh ok, I've never been to such a place, I guess all office cultures are different. You've probably heard the advice "dress for the job you want, not the job you have", The same is true for behaviours. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Black knighted these white women for being racist and bigotted toward Indians.As a wise man said, the only thing women care about is fucking winners, not whiners. And you are clearly a whiner | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 10:08 PM |
| 37 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéIt is definitely unprofessional behaviour and plain inappropriate for the office. Although I must say the other women's response is also unprofessional. I'd say keep it to outside the office only. For example, I would be very unconfortable working in an office with a couple with such behaviour. Not out of jealousy, but it's just too personal, especially given that the other co-workers aren't your friends. It's highly unprofessional and keep in mind other people may be very unconfortable with dis… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Battle of the Boobs: Feminists defend freedom – but only for the right kind of women.Fortunately that may come sooner than later, at the rate that they rip on each other for not being "true feminists". Most people I meet aren't ok with labelling themselves as anti-feminists, instead calling themselves "anti-feminazi feminists" These people usually mean well, and are simply misguided. In my dad's words "these are people with waaaay too much time on their hands. If they had it that tough, they'd be at work, or resting at home, instead of complaining" | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 09:30 PM |
| 2 | [Strange Question] What is the consensus on crying in front of your woman, but NOT in a breakdown sense?I guess it would really depend on the context and the women. It's quite different some tears due to a film (likely to be seen as wussy), than crying at a friend's funeral (normal, even expected) | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | how can I invest the little money I save into my smv?I'd say that for a lot of areas, invetsing in your SMV is mostly free through educated effort and the help of the internet. Example: style wise, if you educate yourself, you can get bargains on ebay or a thrift store. You can do bodyweight exercise at home with r/bodyweightfitness. You can get better educated, cultured and learn humour online for free too. There are free dance classes on youtube. Invest in your future, not on girls. I heard a good rule of thumb that the price of a bag of skittle… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 07:37 PM |
| 13 | Battle of the Boobs: Feminists defend freedom – but only for the right kind of women.I bet if Lena Dunham did it, she'd be a hero. Crabs in a bucket | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 07:13 PM |
| 17 | I think TRP only works for white men, not Indian/South Asian men like myselfRidiculous. Your race is not the problem, your weak mind is. You can blame anything on your failures: your race, your height, your hair or shoes. Or you can own up to your failures and improve. Your call | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 12:36 AM |
| 7 | 'A Day Without a Woman' is a strike for privileged protestersThese people are absolutely ridiculous. But, to look on the bright side, employers will know exactly who are the weirdos they need to keep an eye on :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 12:22 AM |
| 17 | 'A Day Without a Woman' is a strike for privileged protestersI wonder if they see the irony in that, because childcare and household chores are usually shuffled to other less priviledged women | /r/RedPillWives | 06/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | 'tell your plate you have a tinder or I will'Oh no, she's probably somewhat donut too :) | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | 'tell your plate you have a tinder or I will'I happen to think that entitles fatties and helps them hamster away their worries by thinking guys are attracted to her but then [insert lame excuse here]. I've heard weird things from these types of girls (namely a couple of cousins), like "oh this guy was totally attracted to me but then was super intimidated by my smarts"... You wouldn't believe the stupid bullshit that comes out of their mouths. If you tell them guys do what you do, they'll go nezerk on how I'm a liar and I feel threatened b… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 03:47 AM |
| 5 | 'tell your plate you have a tinder or I will'Chill, don't do anything. If there is anything to piss of a fat chick is not giving them the time of day. If she tells your plate something, meh, you'll be fine. Also, stop swiping right on fatties, it entitles them like you wouldn't believe | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?I wonder how many couples started out unhappy and then just flat out gave up and divorced, instead | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 10:33 PM |
| 22 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?Could it be that the fact that people are willing to stick it out and work on their problems ultimately gives them the tools to make their marriages better and happier? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Jobs are like Women."I don't know if that's really motherfucking stupid, or really motherfucking smart" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How to not spread diseases between your girls?Protect yourself, done | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Mexican Red Pillers, help with the word CornudoIt means the guy os being cheated on, regardless of whether he knows of it. It also works as a hand signal by lifting your pointer and pinky and point the hand at the cuck in question:the left hand would look like this: ImL | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 04:58 AM |
| 5 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?I think those people may be projecting what they would want their SOs to do... I would be annoyed if I got texts every other second and I know that visiting more means less money for our holidays and so on Edit: I just wanna say "I don't you shut the fuck up and go pester your boyfriend for a change?" but it's usually the single people that pester me with this stuff | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 09:23 PM |
| 9 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?Definitely. My boyfriend of 6 years is overseas a lot and girls used to take it as an invitation to invite me clubbing and poke me on how he's probably cheating on me and so on. I have since cut contact with that sort of people and surround myself with more understanding and happy-minded friends. Notice when someone makes those sorts of snide comments, they're usually not very happy themselves? I do :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How would someone who's swallowed the red pill go about raising his daughter?http://www.returnofkings.com/79806/10-things-you-must-teach-your-future-daughter | /r/askTRP | 15/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Anglicisation of my Eastern European name? Raised in England.If it helps, I have seen EE coworkers in the UK using their given name, in your case Ylli, in all official documents and so on, but go by an English version of their name casually to make things easier for them, as if it were a nickname. This allows people have both benefits: to keep their original name but also avoid butchered pronunciations or questions when not necessary Examples: Andrei/Andy, Alexei/Alex, Zsofia/Sophie It's also pretty common with other "difficult" names, like Chinese. Try i… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!Damn straight. I can be informed and have my opinion on it, but that should also come with some notion that asides from select people, nobody gives a flying fuck. Hint: those select people include maybe my mom and a couple friends, tops I assume that if anyone cares about my take on this whole thing, they'll ask. It's like that quote that goes "never look in your neighbour's bowl unless it is to check that they have enough". Your country, your system, your election, your president. As long as it… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/01/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | How to help my Roomate?Don't | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 07:59 PM |
| 2 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitLook into Sugar Mama on youtube. I hear she has some nice tips but I stopped wtching because it's very US centered | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!I guess it's an office culture thing. It just screams childish and unprofessional to me, and I wouldn't want anyone at work to have that impression. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!And you have to find an artist who works WITH your body. Instead of plopping a bumper sticker on you. Hot damn, I'm saving this one. I've never been able to put into words why I hate tatoos so much, but think some are ok and I've never been able to figure out why. I guess this would be it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!Gosh is this acceptable for an adult? In what I'm assuming is her (or worse, his) office? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyMy mom taught me this way as weel, that it shows respect for myself, and for my professors and colleagues :) It also helped that both she and my dad drilled the "There is no ugly, only lazy" into me | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyI don't have any, but from what I hear from my parents it would be because parents tend to care more about their kids than about themselves and would be quick to make these small sacrifices like changing the way they dress if they think it will bring any benefit to the child | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyI also find it telling in guys, especially as they tend to go more conservative in the first couple years after finishing school (I'm in engineering). They are quickly regarded as "sellouts" to the corporate world, but those who refuse to change, quickly find themselves in a job that will allows adults to wear t-shirts and scruffy beards, but getting paid half as much. Those people have the nerve to complain that the "pretty boys" have it easy, when they were so similar only a couple years ago, … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | For some reason you're married to a girl, and she posts this on your Facebook wallI would take it as a comfort test, ignore | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyI might also add that as far as I can tell, these pretty conservative women are surrounded by good examples, like their own parents and boyfriends/husbands and so on. I've also watched friends and aquaintances of mine change the way they dress and groom according to their political opinions, in both directions. I find that especially in college, it is easy to determine their convictions by how they dress. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!TRends that I would love to never see again would be nose rings (I can't get over how much it looks like cattle), wearing sneakers with everything (I know they're comfy, but come on), posting bullshit sunsets with inspirational quotes (oh god how I hate those) and replacing babies with pets like giving a dog a human name, calling it "your baby" and dressing it up. Those women are mentally ill! I could also do without all the brouhaha on american politics. People commenting on this bullshit have … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Do You Live In A Bubble Quiz?I got 34: A first-generation upper-middle-class person with middle-class parents. I may have an odd score from not knowing all that much about the US, but I tried to answer comparatively as best I could and I would definitely say it's completely accurate. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 06:03 PM |
| 3 | RPW and Interracial DatingI think that culture and class matter FAR more than race, and that the inter-racial dating issues can come up in areas where the race and class/culture are heavily correlated, otherwise I see no issue. That said, I think my perspective on this would have to do with my upbringing in a 99% white-ish town (I say this because in other countries people refuse to believe I am white, I not sure what the protocol is here, mediterranean? I digress). People from other races and even countries were few and… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I increase my SMV as a female?http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html Read this carefully and work on every single point | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Power of the BoobiesThis happened to me once. My neighbours asked me to hold their fussy baby to fetch a pacifier and he kid just cozied up to my boobs and calmed right down. It was a bit awkward but at least the kid was quiet :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 05:38 PM |
| 8 | "No don't lift me, i'm too heavy"Do lift them (if you have enough rapport to be saying this you can). As a girl, I would only say that if I were either fishing for compliments towards my figure or genuinely concerned I've been putting on weight and would be extremely embarrassed if a man couldn't lift me. I would then blame that on my weight gain, not on his weakness. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 12:57 PM |
| 3 | x-post from r/wholesomememes- 2017 Mood! Ladies, what are your New Years Resolutions?I hope it won't but think it will. People just love to complain | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 09:04 AM |
| 7 | x-post from r/wholesomememes- 2017 Mood! Ladies, what are your New Years Resolutions?I think it may have to do with a general fad/trend since January 2016 to complain about everything and how terrible this year would be, especially since Bowie's death. Thereafter, all events on the news just added kindle to the "this has been a horrible year" fire. I think in this context it would be because it's so positive and uplifting, rather than compain-y, it's a 2017 mood, as opposed to a 2016 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I want kids but I also want to protect my financial assets. Anything I can do to prevent future loss (from divorce/nullified prenup) to minimize potential fallout?Adopt. It may be harder for singles vs couples but it can be done | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Any tips and tricks on how to make Christmas special for little ones!Think about the things you loved as a child. I mostly loved being allowed to help in the kitchen with the "gorwn women", even for something as simple as tossing salad or arranging pre cut appetizers to make a good looking platter. One year when we had more kids/cousin we decided to do a Christmas contest with a category "made" for each person to get a prize, without feeling like we were handing them over easy, so one thing that each person is very good at and with jury and everything. Examples: … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Paranoid about pregnancy.While you are probably fine, just stop doing that. If for no other reason, do it for your peace of mind and always wear a condom. Pull-out doesn't work (full stop, it just doesn't). Know that even planned pregnancies have a very high failure rate, but the only way to rest assured it to always use condoms, using the pill as a failsafe just it case it breaks/rips etc | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 11:38 PM |
| 5 | How to have fun like a king?It's never too late if the goal is to have fun | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Ex I haven't spoken with in a year messagesDon't | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | What sort of flags would you want to check before choosing to work for a female boss?It should be fairly straightforward to detect: what would be good is a woman with no reason to fuck up your life, usually this will mean older than you, with an already well established carreer and professional reputation, a calm demeanor, definitely not flirty or angry/agressive. There are good female bosses out there, mine is one such example: happily married, fawns over her two little boys (who are high-school aged now), incredibly respected in the industry and very calm/modest demeanor. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 11:58 AM |
| 7 | Free With Purchase Pins Prove Too Sharp To HandleI'll be honest, I don't like them. They look tacky and I wouldn't go out of the house with any of those messages pinned on my person. But to be offended and to care that much is such a stretch, it's almost confusing to me. Don't like it, don't buy it, move on. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 07:47 AM |
| 3 | [Insanity] Barefoot Contessa's latest book focuses on cooking meals that her husband enjoys...apparently this undermines her career and reputationDefinitely do, she is always so nice, calm and cheerful. Her recipes are very simple to make and turn out very good (the ones I've tried at least) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/16 05:49 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a woman starts looking down to the ground when she passes near you?She doesn't want any eye contact or approach, in fact she is likely scared of you even if just a little. Depending on context of course | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Advice? She shoved me during an argumentJust next her, no contact, no nothing, but save e-mails or text messages she has sent you, don't delete anything if you can help it. Worst case scenario she'll try to charge you with rape or pin a random baby on you. I know this may sound extreme but if she's so out of it that she tried to shove you (even if she was too weak), she has poor decision making skills and poor impulse control so on, so forth, so any level of craziness would be plausible | /r/askTRP | 04/07/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone plated your EX ? If so , how do you not care that she is fucking another dude ? I have several plates that I don't care, how do I do the same with her?If you still care, you're not ready to plate her. There are so many other girls out there who will do the exact same things to you, so why bother? I'd go "no contact" if I were in your shoes | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Practicing Good ConsentSomething better you can do if it makes you unconfortable is telling her to ask for it. A lot of people find it sexy, so it's common enough not to be weird, and it doesn't kill them mood. "Do you want me to kiss you? Ask for it" The way you phrase it kills the mood by reminding people of these weird lectures about rapists and such | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 04:38 PM |
| 6 | I want to treat women well and enjoy their company, but it seems that treating them badly is TRP way of handling thisThat's the sort of dichotomy that keeps people from moving forward. Try to see this as a grid. You're in a square. Where would you put a woman? Not in the square above or beneath you, but a collumn to the side. It's not comparable, so it cant be equal. Its like trying to say one apple is equal to one orange because they're both one, and fruit. Ever tried to eat an orange with the peel still on, or make apple juica by hand at home? Doesnt mean they arent both good for you, but they cant be treate… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | I want to treat women well and enjoy their company, but it seems that treating them badly is TRP way of handling thisWhy must different mean below? You cant treat a woman the way you'd treat yourself, thats not how it works, we're not the same | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | "I'm allergic to condoms." How should I react?Either she's allergic to latex and agrees to latex-free condoms (get them at any pharmacy), which is fairly common... Or she's baby crazy or otherwise regular-crazy and you need to run for the hills. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Remind me, why do I need a woman other than for biological reasons?It like having a small fund so that you won't subject yourself to terrible job conditions. If you have a fund and your boss treats you horribly or expects you to do too much for too little pay, you can quit because you don't need it. You kinda do, but can go elsewhere. Same with women, you should kinda need it so you can go elsewhere | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Does/did the pill influence your behaviour?I thought you meant the red pill :) I used to take a small dosage pill but had to go back to the doctor after three months. My breasts hurt when I moved and I was insufferably cranky. My mom thought was normal teenage bitching at the time but I was worried as while I usually slightly cranky and sour (context depending) this was so out of proportion it wasn't even funny. The doctor suggested I change to this plastic ring, with the added benefit that I don't need to remember to take it daily. I'm … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/16 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Remind me, why do I need a woman other than for biological reasons?I think the whole opint is that you shouldn't need a woman for anything. Then you can only be with them when it's good for you, like if a particular girl is good to you or make you happy, you'll want to stick around. But you can avoid being stuck with a subpar woman, because you don't need one. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Ive broken frame, overinvested and but she wont walk awayNo. It is possible, but that fact that you want to salvage it ruins your chances. And why would you want to do it? What is so amazing about this string-along-liar that you can't get from another girl? I know this is hard to see now, but there is nothing special about her. She doesn't shoot rainbows or cheeseburgers out of anywhere, any other girl, there are billions in the world, could do better than not put out. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Messages in music and young womenthank you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/16 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Messages in music and young womenI completely understand you. When my friends are surprised that I mostly don't watch TV, I ask them for recommendations. Nothing useful or inspiring ever comes up, unsurprisingly. I'll look up the song, thank you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How would you reform the Divorce System?Around here everyone has these cards that can only be used to buy food. Usually they are part of the salary, because the companies aren't taxed on this card. So a salary is part cash, part meal-card. This is used as a debit card, but can only be used to purchase food. It's no garantee the mom will give it to the child, but it stops some of the worst mis-use of money. Also common in divorce cases around here is instead of alimony, shared expenses. The court allots the father what he needs to pay,… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when women you are not trying to game start treating you as a "friend"?Proceed carefully. Is this a woman you don't want to game , why? If you work with this girl, it's good that she trusts you, but don't be gamed into being her "work bitch" If you know this girl in another way but don't find her attractive beware, it is unlikely that she has good looking friends, but may still be worth the shot to be introduced to her friends. If she trusts you but doesn't seem interested, maybe she likes you enough to introduce you to her single friends (try it out) If there is n… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Keep This In MindThat could work :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/05/16 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Keep This In MindI think maybe it would be possible to separate all off-topic submissions, maybe even as another sub, to keep this one on topic. It is hard to find a place on the internet where you can discuss beauty, homemaking, and all that without coming into some feminist-oriented advice like in some magazines or other forums. So it is easy material to make/discuss and people like it. A place where I can talk about hair without being suggested I shave the left side or something silly like that I completely a… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/05/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How do I explain to people I don't want to get married?Pretend. These are probably married people asking this and would resent feeling like you think you know better than them. Give them a vague answer that helps them think you approve of their decision to get married. Something like "I haven't found the one yet" and possibly a positive comment about their relationship like "You guys are so lucky to have found each other" depending on your contact or need to play nice (like say a corporate manager and his wife at a company event) | /r/askTRP | 28/05/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is 'want to travel' a red flag?You can gauge how much of a red flag it is by asking about her latest travels. If she went to Rome with her parents to see the Vatican, it's much different than going with her (single) best friend to Ibiza | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | So what happens when I don't have a date for prom?You can always gather a group (3 to 5) other guys who didn't get a date and go as a group. Don't keep to that group while at the party though, mingle with everyone. A lot of things can happen: just have fun, dressed all nice and being with your schoolmates. You never know who breaks-up or shows up alone as well. Also, you can just have fun and dance with everyone, which frees up even more possibilities | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are men over 30 automatically considered creeps?Your age is not the problem, there must be something else at play. You mentioned you live in a small town, word spreads quickly and you may become "that guy" who no one wants to date or even be seen with because their firends will talk. Consider moving your "hunting ground" to a couple miles away from where you live, you may be in luck | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How big of a red flag is this?Teenagers make stupid decisions all the time, it's normal. And it's very easy for an older guy to convince a younger girl to do stuff. However, be aware that this girl has made a bad/wreckless decision before and hence will most likely do it again. Also, if you are religious, do you think her personal values will be a good fit with yours? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 03:44 PM |
| 14 | Examples of Red Pill Wives and Red Pill Husbands in MediaI would say Morticia and Gomez from the Addams family, that love each other so much and make an effort to let each other know constantly (despite being a little weird). Also great is Vito's wife in "The Godfather" (at least the book). She is the respected matriarch of a powerful family but seldom appears, to confort her children and husband and trust her man and not ask prying questions | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 10:31 PM |
| 6 | 50% is a Failing Grade.No, he's refering to how 50% of everything in a marriage is beyond your control, not money, but a whole 'nother person | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I have worked in an office for almost 6 months, apparently all the girls thought I was gay, what do I do?This is good: avoid drama at work and the interest of any women there. Just keep at it, this is the ideal outcome for any guy who doesn't want trouble at work | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to softly introduce RP concepts to children/pre-teens?Thank you :) | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to softly introduce RP concepts to children/pre-teens?Thank you :) | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 06:58 PM |
| 3 | What can I do to softly introduce RP concepts to children/pre-teens?I am a woman, but I get the point. Any suggestions of activities we can do together? I'm thinking about teaching him stuff about gardening: it gets him in contact with nature, it's healthy and it gets him doing things with his own hands. I'll take any other ideas you may have | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 12:43 PM |
| 7 | Ending the date firstI believe the idea is a good one on some form, but the execution is off. It is more than fine (by me) to end dates as not to intrude too much on his life or yours when things aren't too serious. This assuming you have other things going on, like a class to get to or something. I haven't dated since the 9th grade but I've heard of a great "tactic" for the first few dates: setting up something else with a friend, a couple hours after. For example, you two go for lunch, but you'll meet a friend at … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Tootle time!While fat and obese women (probably) have more problems, anyone can have digestive problems or one particular meal that doesn't agree with them. That said, with regard to the fat and obese, losing weight for any reason is a good idea: for vanity, for improved digestion, for your SO and so on | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Tootle time!OMG YES! Also, what is a chaser of water? A certain amount? How much? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:14 PM |
| -1 | LTR wants to travel. Should I demote?As I girl who would enjoy volunteering overseas, consider the chance she may want/expect you to come too and going by herself didn't even cross her mind The question: Tell her on your terms something like "I don't want a girlfriend who does this, if you want to do it, you're not my girlfriend". If you demote her, it's important that she knows it, and why. Especially a girl approaching 30, if a relationship ends, she'll be very very worried about the reason why. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | I'm a virgin and I hear that sex is not like porn?Remember: things you enjoy watching and things you enjoy doing are different in other contexts, and the same will be true of sex | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend cheated on me and I took it very personal and made some big mistakes. What's the worst case scenario here?You get shit about it because you care so much about it. If you were sensitive about a skin problem or something, people would pick on that instead | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend cheated on me and I took it very personal and made some big mistakes. What's the worst case scenario here?You're seeing a problem where there isn't one. The issue is in your head. You can for example turn to asian girls who tend to be shorter. My boyfriend is between 5'2 and 5'3 and I've never heard him complain. He's the perfect height for me (I'm 5'0) and I've heard taller guys complain to him they can'y get any girls. Your height is not an issue, everything else is. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with the "I'm too drunk" shit test?Yes. Refusing a chick that says that is the smart move for there are two scenarios: She really is "soooo drunk" and there is no good to come out of it: barfing in your home, trying to hang around while hungover (ew) and not being very good at pleasing you She's sober and shit-testing you. You then become the "guy who take advantage of drunk girls" which best case scenario will make every girl she knows avoid you. I think you know the worst case scenario | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Is PMS Just Another Excuse to be a Bitch?I think the pain is much much worse than regular period cramps and it would make sense that someone in a lot of pain would have trouble sleeping, prone to crying and so on | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Is PMS Just Another Excuse to be a Bitch?As far as I'm concerned, yes, claiming PMS is just an excuse for being a bitch. I am far more simpathetic and willing to help if someone being grumpy to me says something like "sorry I was rude, I just have this wicked headache and I just wanna go home" I'd give them a pill from my purse or something. I for example realize I have a fair amount of painful cramping on my lower belly before my period. Maybe I'll be more withdrawn and feel more like taking a long bath and going to bed early but it's… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 09:18 PM |
| 2 | So I heard you ladies can cookFor a last minute desert: 4 iogurts juice and zest if 4 limes 1 can (350 to 400 mL) of condensed milk: dulce de leche, not the powdery kind Mix and freeze. That's it! Lime ice cream | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 09:12 PM |
| 7 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI'v always wanted to make baby shoes and stuff like that in crochet but I didn't have any babies to make things for. I just found out our local hospital makes clothing/diapers/supplies packs for families in need so I've started crocheting like crazy and have a big pile of baby shoes on my desk! I'll drop them off at the hospital once this yarnball is over | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 06:15 PM |
| 4 | The Happy Wives ClubCrabs in a bucket. But this goes for men as well. There are very few people out there who are good friends, encouraging you to be your best possible self. Others want to see you succeed, sure, as long as it's less than they do | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 09:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm a nurse. I work with mainly females - everyone at the office is getting uncomfortably touchy with me.It depends on how you say it. But I guess it would also depend on where OP is | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman on TwoX finds out her work crush is a pedophile. Refuses to believe it because "he's a very attractive and fit guy and not at all the kind of guy you would expect to have such habits".It's just jealousy because I know that while I look young I definitely don't look like a little kid | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 06:41 PM |
| 8 | Woman on TwoX finds out her work crush is a pedophile. Refuses to believe it because "he's a very attractive and fit guy and not at all the kind of guy you would expect to have such habits".They don't even need to be 18. I'm 23 and I've heard nasty comments about how my boyfriend must be a pedo. I'm small (5ft) and have a "baby face" but I'm most definitely an adult | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 03:59 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Love it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 03:24 PM |
| 4 | The Happy Wives ClubPeople are usually defensive about their ways but if you can calmly show them the benefits they'll end up agreeing. For example, I've had people make fun of me for making my boyfriend little snack-packs for his business trips. We both know it's silly but I started doing it after he complained about an upset stomach after having had a dubious burrito. I take pride in making these tiny cups with the cutest muffin liners I can find and pack snacks. It's usually one square of chocolate and the rest … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | How much do you tailor your appearance/dress to suit your spouse?We fortunately have similar/matching tastes, so the challenge for me is to dress up for him. My outfits for school, while nice looking (and sometimes I do go meet him and have dinner in "school clothes") are just too dressed down. I have fun in making a special effort for him by going home to change, even if just a little, for when we have dates or dinner with friends, because I know he likes it when I'm "gussied up" and I also enjoy it. Just trading the bottom half of my outfit (jeans and flats… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 02:21 PM |
| 8 | I'm a nurse. I work with mainly females - everyone at the office is getting uncomfortably touchy with me.Treat it as a business etiquette isuue. Whenever you're unconforatble you can just take a step back and say "excuse me" calmly. Most people of average intellingence will realise you didn't like that. You can add to this starting to talk and such, slightly farther away than usual from people. This will make touching you cumbersome and unnatural, so it should taper off. If pushed/pressed you can say things like "I don't like being touched" or "You're in my personal space" while taking a step back.… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Suggested Reading - Bella Grace MagazineI'll go to the UK soon, I can try it out :) Currently reading online, delightful! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Suggested Reading - Bella Grace MagazineThank you! I've been looking for a good magazine for ages! Vogue is the epitome of "classy magazine" but it's been extremely trashy lately, from the pictures to the actual writing. Marie Claire and Elle are supposed to be more high-brow and thinking-woman, in fact I used to love MC for shining light on important issues. Now it's all slutty clothing ads and silly makeup tips I'll never use. There is a need for a woman's magazine that caters to the mind, that brings lovely stories and help people … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Are girls with hair dyed unnatural colours a red flag for you?Yes. These are people with poor impulse control and a constant need for attention (hint: yours will never suffice) | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 07:28 PM |
| -1 | "if you dont pay for rent im gone"Some thoughts: You're staying there too often/long to not be considered a resident and should pay rent (you wouldn't have asked if you agreed) She's pressuring you into moving in with her because she wants the relationship to move forward (proceed with caution, she may think she's wearing the pants) She sees you as a little boy and has to nag you into doing the right thing. In this scenario, moving in and paying up (unredeemable, next) | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Feminine Beauty Is Highly ControllableIt has been helpful to me to start seeing beauty in the same way as brains. I may not have the very best on earth but I'm putting what I do have to very good use and it's plenty for my needs :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 07:00 AM |
| 7 | Feminine Beauty Is Highly ControllableThis is one of my favorite things ever written. I refer to it from time to time to ensure I am working to maximize my looks and recommend it to everyone I know. Looking good isn't limited to looking sexy. With the exception of the "nakedness" point, everything else applies to every other walk of life where better looking people are given an advantage such as school, work, making friends and generally getting things your way. Everyone is nicer to a good looking person than to a schlub | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Pregnancy?It's understandable but image how much more relaxing it will be to know which sources are vetted by a professional you trust. You can also ask your mom or aunts if they have any such books, recommended or gifted by doctors. You can also check your local pharmacy. Around here lots of baby product brands produce small advice leaflets (of course they'll also recommend their products, often offering a tiny tub of cream or a mini soap) and said leaflets are often reviewed/approved by a board of docto… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Pregnancy?You can ask your doctor for a good book or website he/she trusts as a good source for the million little questions you're bound to have and knowing that you have a trustworthy source of info is invaluable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Any thoughts of a young woman that has a tattoo behind the neck?Yes. She is either a slut or a slut-in-the-making. Plus this usually means she knows/admire other people with similar tattoos, which usually means a bunch of sluts trying to out-slut each other | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 09:00 PM |
| 5 | There's this PR chick at work I can't stand and its driving me nuts. Anyone else have a situation like this? How do you deal with it?Talk to your boss, but don't frame it as a complaint. Say customers mention it when on the phone and that you think makes the company/business look extremely unprofessional | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | 20 years old. got a girl pregnant.Get a lawyer NOW. If unable to get one, go straight for your nearest Law professor and beg for help/guidance. This has the potential to dictate the rest of your whole life | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Where to make high-quality, RPW-minded girl friendsTry health related classes. I've met great people by taking vegetarian cooking workshops (offered for free at a green-foods-store). Most attendees are health conscious and nice to talk to. Funny enough I am yet to meet a vegan/vegetarian at this sort of event, though. It's mostly "regular" people just wanting to learn new and different foods | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a clean car?My car is comercial-grade clean :) I often give a ride to my boyfriend and my father and would be embarrassed to let them see a dirty car | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Friendships with non-red pill womenHelp yourself. She is a grown woman and capable of asking for help if she wants some. It would be quite sad to see you slowly becoming bitter and angry like they are when you just wanted to help | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Friendships with non-red pill womenI know couples are harder to befriend but it's worth it. Try to befriend women you wouldn't mind (or even enjoy) trading lives with. This tip alone has me pursuing friendships with people whose advice I can trust :) I suggest slowly fading out of this single girl group and try to befriend those older couples and perhaps some locals. Why befriend other expats only? A good way of doing this would be to invite one family over for dinner. (here is a quick option: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWzD… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Is #Slack Joining the SJW Bandwagon?Think positive: maybe some of them are actually just like you but putting on an act for the public, behaving like the herd to avoid reprecussions | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 12:20 AM |
| 13 | Symbols of SuccessMy symbol of success is a medal I won for second place in a comedy contest. I am the least funny person I know of, but I worked hard, prepared jokes, rehearsed the act and so on. To me it's a symbol of me achieving what I didn't think was me and how hard work trumps "natural knack". I have it pinned to the corkboard in my office. I also have a box in my nightsatnd with random hex nuts I collect at important times. I have one taken from a traffic signal from my hometown, one taken from my first c… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.I guess it depends on how you're paid | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.I guess it would be unfair for healthy people to let those sick days go to waste | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 05:27 PM |
| 14 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.I was coming to say the same thing. Most women with a sliver of common sense will deal with that without any help and while getting paid for those supplies would be nice, it's definitely not necessary. I guess it would be the same as since you require men to come to work clean shaven, chip in for the razors or something silly like that. The workforce is supposed to be made up of adults, who can take care of themselves | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 05:26 PM |
| 9 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.I haven't laughed out loud at comments in a long time, thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsMy boyfriend is joining the workforce soon and I was thinking of giving him a fancy edition of a book that would have good advice for him. He already has the "standarts" of 48Laws and "No more Mr. Nice Guy". Does anyone have ideas? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Brother-In-Law Preparing To Black-Knight His Radical Feminist BossThis is serious: if ANYONE finds out he had this information and didn't give it to whoever needs to know (financial guys, CEO, whatever) he could be in BIG trouble and accused of being an acomplice. Get the info out NOW | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Why dads need to #ShareTheLoad according to Sheryl Sandberg (cuckification of men everywhere)I just don't see how are these people failing to understand basic home-steading concepts. There is supposed to be task sharing, but not the exact same tasks. I'm quite happy not taking the trash out at night 50% of the time, fixing dishwashers, caring for the car, etc. If a man wants to share vaccuuming duties with me, he can be my maid, not my husband. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Why dads need to #ShareTheLoad according to Sheryl Sandberg (cuckification of men everywhere)When a normal woman is paired with a normal man there is a load-sharing implicit already: the man defends the home if something goes bump in the night, starts the fire, fixes things, etc These are just examples. My point is that sharing the load is only effective and useful when both people are doing what they are best at to contribute to the home as a whole. This usually means the woman will be better at "home chores" because that's the way it is most effective. Imagine a guy vaccuuming the pla… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 12:56 PM |
| 3 | There is no need for more women in STEMThis! Also, when another girl whines to me that she was treated unfairly it makes my blood boil. And when a teacher makes a big show of having a giiiiiirl in the class or in the top ranks. I once even got the best grade of the year and people made a big show of how a girl got it instead of what was actually praisable (I struggle with most subjects and worked my butt off on this one, after having failed it before) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 10:24 AM |
| 3 | The real reason for the "wage gap"Yes. I am currently getting a masters in engineering and the propaganda is soooo annoying. Also, the younger girls complain a lot about discrimination and such when, in my experience, it's non-existant. Nobody gives a ****. There's a lot of slut shaming though, and some girls can't tell the difference | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/16 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm 28/f and black. Do I even have a chance at finding love?I must recomend http://elegantblackwoman.blogspot.com/ as they have great advice on femininity in general and also insight about problems black women encounter in America when trying to become more feminine or dating. Explore their archives as they have better insights than I could give for your case. I've heard online dating isn't very good to black women, who face different problems in a US dating world | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About Height, And How to Game the System.I'm a 5'0 woman in a LTR with a 5'2 man. Short guys just need to go for even shorter girls and not even mention it. If everything else about you is fine, worthwhile girls won't care about height. I wouldn't know about ONSs though. I find it funny when my co-workers rant about how lucky I am to have a great man (handsome, great job, smart, good family, etc) but then will snicker at short men who approach them or even sneer at the idea of dating a shorter guy. Funny how these girls want a rich Ado… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Had a sex meet with a 37 year old woman Online. She has now messaged me saying she is pregnant. (Advice)Not sure either and I disagree. It's too big a decision to make on a hot head. Maybe that can be considered after the dust settles | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Had a sex meet with a 37 year old woman Online. She has now messaged me saying she is pregnant. (Advice)Talk to a lawyer. It's very difficult to establish pregnancy at such an early stage (3 weeks) so it's most likely not yours You buy a pregnancy test and ask her to take it (it's super easy to buy positive ones from someone else) Ask for a paternity test Talk to a lawyer (yes, this bears repeating) Do not "run away" Do not panic Most likely she is lying to get you to have unprotected sex and get knocked for real (at 37 it's hard to concieve) Do not have more contact with her than strictly necessa… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Ever wondered why women act entitled and as if they were princesses? Rule 34, be royal in your own fashion.A couple years back I was talking to a cousin who used to get with multiple girls and he said something like "You'll probably think less of me, most girls say I'm a pig. But these are people who are in a club with their butts out, getting pounded every week. If that's how they want to be treated, who am I to say no? I don't see anyone treating you like a club ho" Before I started going "but but but" he says "You show people how you want to be treated. If a girl is disrespectful to her own body, … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk nicknames/petnames!He plays this computer game where you pretend to run a country as a dictator (he's really doing quite well) so whenever we use pet names (rarely) he's "El Presidente" and I'm "La Primera Dama" | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I get my mother to back down?About your mom's attitude towards your dad: None of your beeswax, they're both grown ups and will work it out themselves About your mom's attitude towards you: You can't change other people, you can only change yourself. If she's unhappy with how you're doing but you're not, it's her problem. Just smile, be nice and rant to a diary or loving friend About you in general: do your best to move out. Apply for every job you can, every flat-share, whatever it takes to move out. This may seem harsh but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [Video] The 14 Red Flags of Dating (for men) and a Cautionary Video for Women!I was laughing and loving every bit until I realised how sad it was that these women seemed almost too real | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 06:46 PM |
| 11 | Is Google honoring Beatrice Hill Tinsley blue pill?I don't think her personal life has anything to do with scientific achievement. It was a shitty thing to do, but unrelated to the breakthrough. I think you're making issues where they don't exist | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Early 20s. Insecure about make up. How do I start?I feel you completely. I am 22yo nerdy girl, would never wear makeup as my little sister wears way too much and I dislike nearly everything she does (typical girl glued to her phone and such). Putting on makeup would not make me a stuck up bitch anymore than eating the same food as her would... I now put on a minimal amount of makeup for work as I consider it part of a grooming routine, mostly out of respect for myself and others, that I cared enough about the ocasion to put some makeup on. I'm … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Meditate, It's Never too Late: Setting Aside 10 Minutes of Peace to Reduce StressTry calm.com or search youtube for guided meditation videos. I found that while some are cheesy, others are really good at guiding your breaths and so on so you won't think about anything else | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Cooking for a man who doesn't like vegetables?Talk to him about this. It isn't tricking if you are catering to his tastes. I'll use my own example: I hate the texture of cauliflower, I can't get past the fact that they look like brains. I still know that they are an important part of any diet. Hence my mom will put them into soups or mix them pureed with mash potatoes. She'll tell me it has cauliflower and I'll eat it as it is just the texture I don't like. Be open with your man and if he does want to include more veggies try to discuss wha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | muslims and feministsYou can just wear it again, right? I don't know about the US but here a very covered up headscarf usually means cancer patient, as there aren't any muslims. Some people will wear them just for fashionable purposes or to support a friend who has lost her hair | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/16 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Almost 25 and single for almost 3 years straight, need adviceThis website should serve you well: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html This article is my favorite but the sidebar of the site (on the right) has tons of useful stuff for single girls too | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Really like this guy but feel obligated to do things I don't want toI just want to reinfornce what everyone else has said: just say "no thanks" and keep to a nice smiling persona and no one should care. You're not being a prude, it's only bad if having people drinking or smoking around you bothers you. Just asking nicely for a smoker to trade places with you to flee the smoke shouldn't be a big deal. I don't smoke and rarely drink, just be nice and keep conversation going and no one will notice or care | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What about your relationship are you proud of?Are you me? I love being silly with my man, we've been dating for five years, I'm almost done with my engineering degree and love pearls! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Being feminine with a shorter man.Dainty can be communicated through your choice of clothes and accessories. If it isn't in your natural personality it will just look kind of weird. Example: pastel colors, tiny jewelry, ruffles and scalloped edges, etc. I'm personally not very dainty in that discreet and mousy way so I just adapt the look to my person. Louder colors, but I try to keep to feminine pinks and purples; Ruffles, but for example a big one at the neck instead of lots of smaller ones and so on. Let me know if I can help… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Being feminine with a shorter man.I have a short boyfriend (5'2) and he is amazing in every way: smart, caring, gentlemanly and all that. I'm shorter than him in flats, but taller in heels. I just ignore that, knowing that the only thing that matters is that I don't emasculate him, so just be nice and work on your feminine side: be gently, kind, let him take care of you and take care of him too (different ways, he's your rock, you're his cotton-puff: soft and relaxing to be with) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Tips and tricks for the home.The walnut trick works wonders. Whoever made my home wasn't very smart: when my closet is open, the door to the room must remain closed or it'll get all scratched in the door handles of the closet. In the morning my mom comes to check if I'm up or say good morning or whatever and if I'm getting dressed, it's another scratch. So I keep walnut pieces in an old Tic Tac box and repair ding. It looks like new now! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Tips and tricks for the home.I'm often short on time at lunch and my mother usually takes care of dinner (I live at home) so I've bought a bunch of glass tupperware that can go in the microwave. Whenever I'm in the mood for cooking I'll make a huge batch of something, then portion it in the individual containers. When the food cools down, into the freezer they go! Whenever I need something to eat, just thaw one portion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take paternity of children against their will, decides Poruguese Constitutional Court, but woman decide on abortin without men consent.WHOA! Stop the tracks right there. As a woman trying to have a baby this is just WRONG. The baby was made by both, it's as much hers as it is his. Facts and nature is that a baby needs TWO parents While I agree the burden of acrrying the baby around while pregnant is hers, raising the baby is a job for both. Are you some sort of bitter divorcee? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take paternity of children against their will, decides Poruguese Constitutional Court, but woman decide on abortin without men consent.The body is hers but what about the baby? Doesn't the baby "belong" to both? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Men have to take paternity of children against their will, decides Poruguese Constitutional Court, but woman decide on abortin without men consent.Shouldn't abortion also need consent from both parents? I understand some situations may be prone to exception (rape comes to mind) but what if the guy wants to keep the baby, a woman just goes ahead and aborts it? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Making friends and going out alone.Do you have co-workers you could ask? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/15 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Making friends and going out alone.Maybe you could try suggetsing to some of the ladies you already know if they would like to join in your hobbies. I also live in a place where the popular "hobby" is bar-hopping and I would be delighted to be asked to go fishing with a potential new friend! I've had success in looking for the more discreet girls who seem unhappy with their lack of fun things to do rather than "go grab a drink" and started a small embroidering circle. We meet up, pitch in a part of dinner (one brings desert, the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Natural Beauty/Health AdviceThere are a lot of ebooks over at amazon for free on these subjects. Just make sure to patch test or google a recipe, some can be quite the disaster | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/15 11:28 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: My unicorn betrayed meShe wants to split custody and she says she doesn't want child support. Yeah, okay... I believe you. /s Get this in writing or recorded as soon as you can. Also check if the girl really is yours (if you can get your hands on the money, a private lab will do it fairly fast, but I'm unsure whether it'll hold up in court) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What's your workout routine? Gym or home? Why did you choose it over other options?Workout videos at home on youtube with small dumbbells or body weight. Free, convenient, flexible (one day may be 10 min, another 1 hour) and I can vary the trainers so I don't get bored. There are also non-video, poster stle routines that are awsome to try while watching a movie or just surfing youtube for fun | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/15 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value ManA lot of things for this list will come down to personal preference. Also know that while there is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing your dealbreakers and not compromising on that, doing it too much (putting too many conditions) greatly reduces your dating pool and the chances that the man that fits your criteria is single. So I would choose one to three traits that I find of the utmost importance and only worry about those non-negotiables. For me those would be: being intelligent (and undo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/15 09:37 AM |
| 11 | Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value ManI think that it will come down to personal preferences and I understand where OP is coming from in regards of smoking. Its is not a hobby or leisure activity, it is the mark of a man who will put a vice before his health. While some people are ok with it, its a deal breaker to me. For friends it's alright but for my man I want someone who looks after his health, not someone who is tied down by any vice (similar example: seldom drinking is ok with me, regularly "needing a drink" is not, smoking a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/15 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Being Interviewed By WomenThey sat in on group dynamics to choose who would pass to individual interviews. Frankly the whole system in this company sucks, but the incompetent CEO is a friend of my boyfriend's so I took the job as a favor | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Being Interviewed By WomenAs a temporary director of HR catering to the dumb wishes of women directors in other departments (namely sales, shudder) I've been "forced" to hire candidates I thought were weak just because they liked them. I also made sure the candidates I wanted to poach for myself in HR would seem "unfit" for the other departments muahahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Collection of some TRP audio books and PDFsThis can sound a bit weird but removable paper sleeves are very easy to find in home decor places in solid colors or even blank so some idiot can have his bookshelves looking like a home catalog. It may come in handy to "hide" some covers you find too conspicuous | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 08:40 PM |
| 5 | "Women only gain weight in a relationship if she's REALLY comfortable with the person she's with"This annoys me to no end. If you don't even love YOURSELF enough to keep up basic grooming, why should anyone else? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/15 08:08 PM |
| 3 | [ArousalScience] I run a research blog, recently I did a study on Tinder using biometric instruments such as Eye Tracking, EDA, heart rate, EEG, and Webcam feed. I've found out what constitutes a perfect profile picture on Tinder.This made me curious as to what the effect would be if there were kids in the picture, like a little sister getting a piggyback ride or something | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Regarding Subreddit BansYou can also check out voat, even though the RPW voat is still very young | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/15 09:48 AM |
| 3 | How do I accept the things about my looks that I can't change?Just some quick notes: Compression socks are soooo warm! I wear a pair a couple sizes too big in winter under pants and regular stockings for warmth Body makeup is made for taking a harsh treatment, a good brand will hold up to anything Take a photo of the vein or stare at it for a while and try to figure out something it looks like so you can face it better like if it looks like lightening or a tree or (I'm not sure what kinds of patterns they make) if it has a shape like a star. Right now I'm … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/15 11:25 PM |
| 3 | How do I accept the things about my looks that I can't change?I don't know if this goes with that you'd like to hear but if it makes you feel that bad, you can fix the way it looks with body makeup, moslty used to cover up tatoos in movies or weddings. Ask in a big makeup shop or tattoo shop for a good brand. Depending on the brand you smear the goo with a sponge, set with a powder, wait a couple minutes to dry and the goo again if you can still see stuff, then more powder and so on. EDIT: Depending on it's color intensity you can try regular foundation fi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | RPW Version of the RedPill HandbookThose are books, available on paperback for relatively cheap on amazon or, my favorite, as audiobooks to listen while hiking or exercising at home | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/15 10:45 PM |
| 8 | RPW Version of the RedPill HandbookAnother thing that would be useful is a recommended reading list, with "The Surrendered Wife" and "Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" as my top choices | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/15 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Reddit is banning subs now, and TRP could be next - and maybe RPW? What are other sites we can use if RPW is banned?I'm sure it will if it the need comes | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | RPW/RPW friendly blog/vlog recommendations?I havents but she has tooons of free material i've skimmed it but it's taking a while to apply | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/15 01:21 AM |
| 7 | RPW/RPW friendly blog/vlog recommendations?These websites don't post often but they do have good content: http://modernretrowoman.com/2011/08/31/secrets-of-mid-century-charm-get-real-with-yourself/ http://www.theproperlady.com/ http://www.elegantwoman.org/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ladies know other RP style women who you can hang out with?Not really. My boyfriend has some friends who lean red but their girlfriends are always come and go (and it's no wonder why, the basic bitch, annoying and entitled type). The few that do manage to stay are pretty good. I've made one good friend so far in this method. Another is to look into older people you may know, especially young married couples. Haven't found much yet | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Regular Recipe Thread?Thank you :) Those are great! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/15 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Regular Recipe Thread?Can you give some dressing ideas? The only one I know how to make is the basic oil-vinegar, along with various mayos | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/15 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Question to the women here. What made you choose the red pillI found TRP first so I may be biased. I checked out both subs and one was all sorts of diet, lifting and reading tips, the other was just people bitching about others. The whole philosophy of "Whatever is less than great in my life, I have the power to get up and fix it" looked much better to me than just complaining about the patriarchy. I lurked in TRP for a couple of weeks until I started reading the sidebar and found RPW | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle conflict/issues gracefully? How do you know when you should address something and when you should let it go?This is what I came to say. Gradually think how long the issue would bother you for. Will this issue matter tomorrow? In a week? Month? Year? According to your responses you can gauge if your level of upset is on par with the seriousness of the issue. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 05:08 PM |
| 4 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMAI completely get what you're saying. I can only know the best for me, he knows the best for him better than I possibly could (not for lack of trying), even if it feels the reverse. I'm starting to get better at this but sometimes slip. I want one thing (to be happy with my man) and sometimes can self sabotage thinking I'm doing good stuff. I see other women doing it too, shooting themselves in the foot when they had good intentions to start with. Thank you for such a thoughtful response :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 11:35 PM |
| 6 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMAThank you for coming here :) I have a question. My boyfriend of 4 years and I are both in school but while he is finishing a very demanding course, I am waiting to change majors so I'm less busy at the moment. I want to help out in taking charge and planning the things he doesn't have the time to do like a vacation for us to the last detail and so on. He also wants a very competitive internship but I know he doesn't have the time or energy to prepare adequately to write a good CV and cover lette… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Regular Recipe Thread?Today in particular the weather sucks but it's been very hot and sunny here | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 08:25 AM |
| 8 | Regular Recipe Thread?That sounds like it would be a load of fun! For this month I would suggest hearty salads because no-one's in the mood to turn on the oven with all this heat and regular salads get boring fast | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 08:08 AM |
| – | Laura M Doyle, of Surrendered Wife and Surrendered Single, is doing an AMA on RPW June 3rd, and we're giving away her new book: "First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern Day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished and Adored for Life?"This is the best! I can't wait! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/15 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Week of 5/25: Weekly Goal Thread!Study, cook nice and healthy freezer meals to diminish temptation of making/buying unhealthy stuff when I'm tired dress up make cross-stitched stuff (currently finishng blue towel) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/15 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Question... what do I do when my man cries and throws fits like a child about things? ie: tooth pain, spending time all day with him but then guilt trip about having other personal obligations?How long has this been an issue? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/15 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Had a breakup, feeling a little lost and just need to vent I guess.If this is a dealbreaker for you, good for finding it now rather than after you're married or with kids. You can work hard on yourself and surely find a man you'd be proud (not embarrassed) to present to your friends and have a family with. You can ask anyone around here for help bettering yourself, I believe most will be able to help you. Also try subreddits devoted to the problems you wish to solve like /r/xxfitness or /r/getmotivated and so on | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/15 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Your favorite RPW-type podcasts?Dr. Laura has audiobooks s well as regular books. I like to listen to the audio kind while exercising :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/15 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Indoctrination in our schoolsYou can be there for him and help mitigate, reverse most of the damage if you pay attention and spend time with him. I have a god-daughter in 4th grade and i'm trying my best to make sure she doesn't become a basic bitch but the things she's "taught at school" sometimes sicken me, I try to teach her good stuff at home. Children are curious, take advantage of it | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 07:59 AM |
| 7 | Your SO's favourite meals?A think steak with pepper salad. After doing the steak, cook some red and green pepper strips in the sauce. It's done in 10 to 15 minutes and comes in quite cheap Let us know more about yours/his taste, preference and so on, to help more productively. a good sub for this is /r/eatcheapandhealthy | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/15 07:53 AM |
| 6 | Building a Playbook of Excellent Captain Family Activities for Nights and Weekends.The interenet or locals from a few towns over can give you some neat ideas for a day trip not too far from home, of things you can do that are fun and cheap | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Taking husband's last name. Feminists say no. What's your take on it?Olá :) I used to be mocked in school because my name was too short so I will absolutely take my husband's name when I marry. The biggest downside to a bigger name is taking ages to sign everything :) I think that even when it comes to children's names, it's nice to have your name tell a story | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/15 07:10 PM |
| 12 | 1 yr anniversary helpIn my experience, men would rather DO something than GET something. Try doing something fun and in line with his interests, of course, not forgetting your usual gifts (wink-wink) ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!Purple goes well as a liner/smudgy shade near the lashline and it just looks intense, not purple-y, so you can wear any color with it | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!2) Try a pink/purple smoky eye. It still gives you a special look but it's softer/cuter. Just make sure you're doing with a tutorial or something the first time because when I tried to "freestyle it" I ended up looking like I'd been punched nd had to start over | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!Study! I've been lagging behind and really need it for finals next month Cross-stitch: My tiny business has been a success. I find it very relaxing and the people I have gifted my crafts to have been very impressed and grateful, I'll keep it up Boyfriend: He seems to be having a workload extra heavier than usual. I've taken care of doing fun stuff at night every now and again and buy tickets to stuff he'll like but I think I might up the game and make him meals to take to school too Health: drin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!If you like the genre you've probably read these but I loved Brave new world (it has a sequel I haven't read), 1984 and Farenheit 451 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.It's mostly prepared speeches and improvised speeches, and the subjects can be about anything you'd like (I'd stay away from sensitive stuff) from sports to humor to science to whatever you can think about. The flirting thing was a one time thing, There is an annual conference for your area and the best speakers from that area sign up for workshops. The conference atendees then choose which workshops they want to go to and I tried a flirting workshop, it was fun :) | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Taking husband's last name. Feminists say no. What's your take on it?Yes! But I think our solution is pretty good, we take the husband's name but keep all the names the parents give us. I think it's kinds special, like they have built your history and now it's your turn to add something to it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 09:54 AM |
| 5 | I invited a girl I met on Saturday afternoon to go out with me tonight (Monday). She responds with "we'll see, I may be busy monday." She fishes for an invite to join me last night in my plans & then texts at 5pm asking me what I'm doing tonight. Do I go out with her today?No. If you're not a high enough priority for her then she shouldn't be a priority for you. Of course, you can make exceptions if whatever happened is acceptable at this stage to be a higher priority and unplanned (like someone died or a friend just had a baby). How to handle it? Ignore her for a while, and then, if you think she's worth another shot, invite her along to plans you already have, as if you didn't care if she actually came, like meeting you at a bar with some friends. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/15 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Taking husband's last name. Feminists say no. What's your take on it?This is a very odd discussion to me. In my country, not taking the husband's name is like telling the world you're not planned on staying married or hate his family somehow. On the other hand, we also keep our own names. No hyphens, just an extra name, which isn't odd given most people already have about 4 to 6 names. So imagine if Miss Ana Maria Pilar Gonçalves Silva married Pedro Francisco Gomes Lopes, she would be Ana Maria Pilar Gonçalves Silva Lopes and would go by either Ana Silva or Ana L… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.Sure, let me know if I can help more. If you don't like it, try out a different club, if there is one near you before giivng up, or in a couple month's time. It would be a shame to lose all the benefits just because of one bad apple | /r/askTRP | 18/05/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.I'm a member and practicing speeches with increasing difficulty has been very useful in the rest of my life. The skills learned like projecting confidence, making others feel at ease and so on are good for public speaking and personal life. I was just at a conference and we had a workshop on how to flirt. But those only happen once a year, so you can just ask a more experienced member for tips, everyone will want to tell you what they've learned so far At my club the age group is 30 to 50, mostl… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/15 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.Their goal is public speaking but thd tips are good to use in general, like how not to look nervous and how to improvise | /r/askTRP | 18/05/15 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.Just ask after a meeting or something like that. You'll usuaklly find most member are or want be very social people. It becomes very easy to make friends and arrange to meet outside of club sessions, which would ultimately give you confidence to go out more and make friends in other contexts | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Can I get in person help (at age 27 somehow)? I would move to any city if it meant real help.Toastmasters could be a good start. You get a chance to go out and be social and these people will evaluate your posture, speaking voice and etc and give you honest feedback on how you can improve those things and tips on how to connect with an audience. Make sure you tell your evaluator to not be afraid to point out the things that are flat out wrong, they can be a bit soft on new member until they get to know you and really start telling you everything you're doing wrong. It's geared to public… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 10:17 PM |
| 3 | What are the most important things a woman should be able to do in the kitchen?The things that have served me best: at least one sweet to bring to parties, like a simple pound cake at least one salty dish to offer anyone who has you over, I like making rolls of puff pastry with ham and mustard if I'm in a hurry Making pasta and then tossing it in a pan with a bunch of other stuff like vegetables and leftover chicken or something These three have allowed me to "fake" being a knowledgeable cook since I was about 15. The starting summer is a good oportunity to start simple, l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/15 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Laura M Doyle, of Surrendered Wife and Surrendered Single, of NY best seller fame, is doing an AMA on RPW June 3rd!I jumped in my seat, how exciting! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/15 09:36 AM |
| 5 | Week of 5/10: Weekly Goal Thread!That could be nice. Maybe she would also like to discuss fancy liquors? Also, this is a bit of a long shot, but ask about her tumblr (lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/15 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Week of 5/10: Weekly Goal Thread!Better yet, try to find something where she's better than you. In my case, she took a cake decorating course so I asked her about it and she's been more friendly to me ever since and it's a great way to divert conversation because she can't get enough of talking about it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/15 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Week of 5/10: Weekly Goal Thread!I feel you on number 5 and have the same problem as you! I found good results by asking around for stuff she likes and redirecting conversation to that. Everybody loves to talk about themselves and their passions so she's happy babbling on about cooking shows and not being mean to anyone :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/15 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Week of 5/10: Weekly Goal Thread!Work on my crossstitch: just finished my mother's day gift, now onto finshing a bib for a friend's newborn Health: "burning week" just ended (similar to spring break?) so I need to work out a lot, eat healthy and take care of my skin to recover Study: I really should study more but it's sooo boring and I'm changing majors next year so I'm in a "why bother" mood when it comes to studying | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | A new study shows that while acceptance of premarital sex is at an all-time high, millennials (those born between 1982 and 1999) will have sex with about 8 different partners in their lifetime, behind Gen Xers with 10, and baby boomers with 12. Thoughts?Not vegans, those japanese dudes that are super weird, although they're probably vegans too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/15 10:15 AM |
| 0 | A new study shows that while acceptance of premarital sex is at an all-time high, millennials (those born between 1982 and 1999) will have sex with about 8 different partners in their lifetime, behind Gen Xers with 10, and baby boomers with 12. Thoughts?Not that kind, I explained myself wrong. I mean those kind of people, very common in Japan and increasingly common elsewhere that just opt out of this whole business. I heard them called that in an article a while back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/15 10:14 AM |
| 7 | A new study shows that while acceptance of premarital sex is at an all-time high, millennials (those born between 1982 and 1999) will have sex with about 8 different partners in their lifetime, behind Gen Xers with 10, and baby boomers with 12. Thoughts?I think this may be due to a very high amount of "herbivores" and extremely unnatractive people who are brnging down the average, compared to previous generations. That said I'm very surprised at those numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | single dad, seeking advice for teenage daughter"Please stop that" is just fine. And letting some guys act a certain way while shooing others for the same action isn't "unfair", as she may think, but perfectly normal. Example: I hug long time friends, guys or girls, especially in special occasions, but if anyone who isn't that close to me tries to hug me I'll step back | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/15 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Sending X rated pics to your SO. Do you Sext?I'm personally very distrusting of all sorts of those services. I just text naughty stuff and save the visuals for in person interactions | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/15 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Can Disabled Men Be Alpha?It depends on the disability. Specifically blind people could do just fine if everything else is on point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 09:15 AM |
| 0 | Sleeping in different beds.Consider pushing two ""single" beds together so you can sleep each in your own bed but still be close enough for cuddling | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity?Let me know if you need more ideas or anything else | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/15 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity?Feel free to ask me anything you need. I've had to quit one of my "internships" and have taken up meditation and needlework as my way to recover from all this draining. My bf is also helping out a lot by going out together more often so I can also help him relax from his stressful schoolwork. We've also had a ton of fun watching massage tutorials on Youtube and practicing in turns. It's relaxing, fun and so on :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/15 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity?I've had the same problem and am working to get over it. One thing you need to understand is if you're doing a ton of stuff and feel like it's never enough, you're not doing the right things for you, and that's ok. It looks like you're spreading yourself too thin! How is school, work, your friends, etc? Maybe you should cut back on the stuff that feels draining to you and start taking better care of yourself. It feels a bit selfish at times but it improves my mood greatly, like getting absorbed … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/15 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Red pill music for early 20 year olds?Having that same trouble I usually listen to instrumental stuff, like jazz or chillout/relax music, but I'd love to hear some good ideas | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | IRC channel reminder -- Please use your RPW username!Thank you! I haven't been able to chat in days because the other link (cloud) wants a password to let me in | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/15 08:53 PM |
| 7 | "Terrible 1980s dating advice for women" - actually pretty good!Acomplished? You mean like all my followers on Tumblr? No? I have to get up and do stuff? Stinking patriarchy! /s | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/15 08:50 PM |
| 7 | "Terrible 1980s dating advice for women" - actually pretty good!It has some silly and dated things but most of the advice is pretty solid: be approachable, put effort into your looks and personality, approach him first with a question or ask for advice if he doesn't approach you | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/15 08:49 PM |
| -1 | About self improvement and... the sidebar. [Meta]http://lmgtfy.com/?q=meditation+guides Why should anyone else do your work for you? Get cracking! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 09:16 AM |
| 16 | Ladies, my captain cheated on me and I'm not sure how to proceedIt's up to you to think whether this is acceptable to you, if you'll be able to forgive him, admire him and keep him as your capitain from now on. Whichever way you decide, think long and hard and stick to your decision. If I were in your shoes, I'd take some time to be alone, maybe running or hiking in the woods to think without family or friends or internet strangers trying to influence you. That said, if you'll ever hold this against him, you may as well next him now, there is no "half forgiv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Feminine fashion thread! Post your favorite places to shop, pieces, advice.I'm still finding myself when it comes to fashion and personal taste so I've adopted a uniform of sorts to help get dressed in the morning and stop buying stuff I won't wear. This idea alone has been very useful, I reccomend you do the same before shopping | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/15 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What are habits I should develop before I find my captain so I'm "prepared" for the relationship?Make it a point to learn how to control your temper and others'. I've learned this a bit late in life but it has still been tremendely useful, especially when you can help out an angry friend with something other than a pat on the back. A nice, calming demeanor and a copy of "how to win friends and influence people" will get you so far, and it's extra useful within you family | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/15 10:02 AM |
| 2 | How to find the best Gym.Start with bodyweight exercises, they can be very effective, until you can save up for home equipment. Search online for gently used ones bought last January. Try doing multiple sets of Neila Rey's workouts or something until you find a good gym/home eq. I found a good gym in a sports school near me (like a college specifically for athletes, personal trainers, sports coaches, etc) | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 07:07 PM |
| 3 | I'm 19F, Question about a guy I used to fuck.Next him, unless you like being the backup plate. You're this guy's last resort and willing to accept it? Go to /r/redpillwomen, improve yourself in whichever ways you need so you can get better and keep a worthwhile man instead of being a side-snack to a cheater | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Fitness as a form of self-improvement and being a RPW: what gets you through a workout, and what is your routine?I personally like tiny weights (0.5 lbs each) and more reps. I definitely notice that using weights, although my outside look barely changes at all, I can carry more stuff without get tired. You do whatever you like to stay in shape :) I hate running and train at home so weight training is definitely a space saver | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/15 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Look out for yourself. You'll never be happier.My life became so much better after I realised I was worrying about other people's problems. Tip: when you're feeling bad/ worried/ stressed/ whatever, think about whether it's REALLY your problem. Most of the time it's someone else's | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Fitness as a form of self-improvement and being a RPW: what gets you through a workout, and what is your routine?Right now I'm trying Ballet Beautiful videos on youtube. The exercises look very easy so it's encouraging, but I'm panting after the first set! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/15 10:28 AM |
| 0 | What is your daily makeup routine?I use a tinted lipbalm every day, and BB cream and mascara if I'm feeling fancy or wake up extra early. For special occasions I'll use lipstick and eyeshadow too. A good resourec for you would be lisa edridge's youtube channel. She has simple natural looks as well as more dramatic occasion looks so you can choose whichever you like | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Bachelor Nation - 70% of Men 20-34 Not Married (and what that means for RPW)Oh my goodness, I'm so glad I'm already on the good track. Just yesterday I went for coffee with some single friends and realized how good i have it :) Still, this is great inspiration to work out and treat my man well. It's not likely I'd find another one who'd want to marry and start a family, at least one this great ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to tell someone you have a boyfriendIt's ok, just learn from it and as tempting as it may be to repeat warnings, to him it's just more contact so: one warning, no replies | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Relationship HelpI understand exactly how you're feeling. But making an agreement with him about this is a good way to save yourselves both some pain in the butt It is! It's a club where you practice public speaking, and the audience is people that used to be in your place, so they'll understand | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Relationship HelpI've been in your shoes before but this is a good oportunity for you to do better. What makes you feel insecure? Use it as a starting point to improve yourself. I was insecure about my looks, but then I realized curling up in a ball feeling bad about myself is no help and started working on it. It looks like you're having trouble knowing whether you talk too much or too little. You can ask him to please tell you if you're being too quiet or too chatty. I did this and he agreed on the condition t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/15 09:49 AM |
| 3 | How to tell someone you have a boyfriendDo not mention your boyfriend framing him as "the problem". I've had a similar situation I college and the only thing I got for my trouble was this creepy guy poking around in our school system to find our schedules and meet me alone. Make sure you say it loud and clear but not rudely "I don't want you to contact me anymore, leave me alone". Make it public, even in social media and do not mention your boyfriend. It's YOU who doesn't want the contact, make sure he understands that. Also, stop res… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How to inspire "fun" in a RP relationshipTry some science toys. Those kits for kids to make a solar powered mini car or something. It's cerebral enough to be kind of serious, but it's basically a toy, so it leaves room for light hearted talk and some kinda serious fun, like races | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to inspire "fun" in a RP relationshipYou can start by planning fun stuff to do at home, like a theme night at home. I do that since my BF and I like to stay home more than going out and here are some ideas: ultra fancy night: dress up, make a fancy fancy dinner with drinks and deserts home cinema: make popcorn, dim the lights and watch a nice movie, with some extra snacks if you'd like japanese night: make some homemade sushi together and try to eat it with chopsticks or feed it to each other. The more messy, the more fun Make cook… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 05:21 PM |
| 3 | How to view a SO that smokes/vapes?My SO used to smoke when we started dating. I didn't like it, but it wasn't a deal-breaker, I bit my tongue. But when he mentioned he'd like to quit the first time I was really happy to help (I let him mention it, it didn't bother me that much). What turned out to really bother me was to try and help him quit and he'd "somke behind my back". So I confronted him about how stupid that was. If he wanted to quit, I'd help but if he wanted to be a smoker, I'm not his mom. So we agreed that he'd smoke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with "weekend widow" loneliness & how do you guys make friends?If there isn't a proper group for you to join, start one. Maybe start some sort of nice volunteer stuff or a book club | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Transferable skills – Repurpose your strengthsTry downloading calm.com for your phone. They have a 7 day introduction that'll teach you all that concentration and patience in leighman terms and without being overly new-age-y Give it a try | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pill Women: What do you believe?I'm fuzzy on the details but it was something about a comet and a NASA guy was interviewed after managing to land a probe and he was wearing a shirt with a pattern of naked girls. Regular people just found it a bit ugly maybe, but some people on the internet went crazy crazy about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pill Women: What do you believe?Men and women are different in nearly every way. For example is you measure earning power, men are going to come out on top, but if you measure EQ (emotional intelligence or the ability to percieve emotions in others without words) women will come out on top. Business wise: I don't find women in general better or worse than men in business. Specific individuals may be better or worse but I don't think being a woman has an impact, just whether you're a competent individual. That said, in some bus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pill Women: What do you believe?Philosophy wise I think the most important thing in the RPW concepts for me is taking responasibilty for all my actions and the state of my relationship, and acting accordingly. I am responsible for my happiness, not my boyfriend, my friends or society as a whole, so there's no one to blame for my unhappiness than myself. Questions: Women and men are different, which will be inferior depends on what you're "measuring" Meh. Although quality female polititians are harder to come by than male ones,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What if I'm just not pretty?Maybelline's Baby Lips in red, Labello lipbalm in Cherry or the Body Shop libalm in pomegranate (red) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 08:14 AM |
| 1 | What if I'm just not pretty?I also on the "no makeup train" but tinted lipbalm has gotten me many compliments. This website has helped me a lot, feel free to just explore around its depth, starting here. Is this you? http://www.thechicfashionista.com/oblong-face-shape.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/15 07:37 PM |
| 5 | What if I'm just not pretty?Why darn it? Now you know not to do stuff that elongates it more, like long thin earrings. And maybe you can consider a haircut with layers around the face to make it look wider. The way I look at it, these aren't flaws, just guidelines to look better. So now you know what haircuts, earrings and makeup will look good with your face shape. If you need more resources on that, let me know | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/15 10:58 AM |
| 13 | What if I'm just not pretty?Your looks shouldn't below a 5 even if you have an awful face (which I'm sure you don't), look here for help: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html As you can see, facial prettiness has a pretty low score and low controllability so you're better off focusing on more important things that you can control, like being in shape and dressing well. You can also watch good 1940s videos on youtube teaching girls how to present themselves well. If you look c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/15 11:30 PM |
| 5 | For the alpha woman, trying to shift our mindset.I'll likely make a post about this, I recently suffered an absolute burnout. I was in a high-paid, male odminated studies, taking double courseloads and all sorts of extra curriculars and all that jazz but I was pissy, sometimes even at my SO and wasn't happy. After nearly having a breakdown I've transfered to a less lucrative major that's more in line with what I like even though it's "not as good". I'm trying to focus less on being the overachiever type and being more the happy type, giving up… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm single, but making these few changes in my life have helped me significantly. And the men in my life have noticed.The modettes are awsome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/15 07:35 AM |
| 4 | Ten ways to make yourself more physically attractiveGo visit /r/frugal and /r/malefashionadvice to do this on really tight budget. I don't know where you live but there are often free events around my town like movie screenings and concerts | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 12:23 AM |
| 5 | I'm single, but making these few changes in my life have helped me significantly. And the men in my life have noticed.I'm sad this has to be removed, it's actually pretty good, can't the mods do something? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?You do you :) There's always us strangers of the internet too | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/15 02:54 AM |
| 2 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?Having a network of female friends you trust (even if it's just one or two) is very important to me so I'd urge you to find new friends more in line with your outlook on life. I do agree that in your situation that would be hard, but older women may be your best bet. I've made a post about having a hard time separating the wheat from the chaff myself (finding RPW minded girls in college is a needle in a haystack) and found it helped a lot. Let me know if I can help more finding you some worthy f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 05:20 PM |
| 6 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?That is pretty awsome :) Quick note, to me working out is about plenty more than pleasing my man, although that's a nice side effect. Working out is about staying nimble and caring for yourself, almost like bathing daily and making sure to eat | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 8 | What do you do when you and your SO have a disagreement and you both won't budge?I've had a similar "fight" when my boyfriend went to study abroad. But I gave in, not because it was the womanly thing to do but because it was the right thing to do. I don't want to be "the ol´ball and chain", I don't want him to look at me and think that I'd made him miss out on anything. you feel like you just have to put your foot down This phrase right here just ticks me off a bit. You put your foot down when kids are being unruly, impolte or doing dangerous stuff. It's not something you do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 10:44 AM |
| 2 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?Wow, how odd. I hope you have nicer friends who re happy for you now :) Where I live there is a fair bit of feminist/girl power stuff going on but people are mostly understanding of RPW behaviours, as long as you don't flat out criticize anything/one. This falls in line with that law of power "think as you will, but do as everyone else" | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 10:28 AM |
| 6 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?Also see "do you have a sister?" and "how about a cousin?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 12:54 AM |
| 3 | RPW, what are you struggling with?I would advise you to stop drinking, just try it for a few months and see how it goes. Most my friends drink and I'm now happier just being social with them and having a soda. This can turn pretty awsome if you agree to be the designated driver by default and now most of the time my friends pay for my sodas and on occasion dinner too :) I feel phisically much better and no embarrassing moments to account for, but still plenty of fun. A rule I've managed to keep this without being weird is only d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 12:46 AM |
| 4 | FAQ with a twist: What do people ask you most often?I remember once when my dad asked me if I thought he was smarter than me. He decided my bf was "approved" when I said there wasn't much of a point to date someone dumber than myself and got that Obama-not-bad face :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/15 12:40 AM |
| 2 | RPW, WHO ARE YOU and why are you anti-feminist? I want to find out what sort of women frequent this sub.I'm portuguese, 21, white I believe everyone should have equal access and oportunity, but not equal results. For example, as an engineer I notice in my field women complaining about less lucrative contracts. This happens usually because they choose less lucrative positions, with less travel time or something similar. So, equal access, sure. But equal results (cash) is only for people who do the same thing. So you can't expect to have a nice 9-5 in a lab and expect to earn the same than the fello… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/15 07:16 PM |
| 3 | FR: Biting yout tongue at workWhere I'm working, since it's a student company, we have very high rotativity (we take turns being the CEO) and I actually rather ike my job. I just happen not to like the people currently in the diectors board (on a personal level) and find them rather incompetent. It's like being managed by a bumblebee :p I often get criticism for failing tasks that weren't assigned to me in the first place and then I'm told I shouldn't have done the stuff I did (that was assigned to me) because I'm overreachi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/15 07:44 AM |
| 4 | Girl Game Help for a newbie?go for clothes that cannot be worn by both genders I've heard once that when I choose my outfit in the morning I should think "If a man was wearing this, would he be considered a cross-dresser?" or "Could a man wear this on the street without people gawking at him?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/15 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Fertility, Age, Feminists and Scams...I'll be finishing my masters at 25. If I wasn't already in a great LTR I'd be panicking right about now | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Read any good books lately?You accidentally a word! I understand your excitement though :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/15 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Read any good books lately?I'm currently reading Fahrenheit 451 but it sounds like you'd like something like /r/freeebooks for TONS of books, legal, for free :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/15 12:06 AM |
| 2 | RPW homemade goods/ crafting threadYou can try it both ways but it smells more cake-y with almond oil only and more neutrak«l with half olive oil. Make small containers until you figure out the one you like | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Hey how would you guys think about making a pod cast?I don't know how that would sound but I'm talking more accent-wise, I'm curious :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Hey how would you guys think about making a pod cast?I'd love to hear her voice and see if she sounds aything like I imagine :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/15 01:06 PM |
| 2 | RPW homemade goods/ crafting threadI make a non-girly scrub combining sugar and olive oil in an empty Nivea tin. It's awsome to rub backs and feet and it smells yummy without a distinct girly/manly smell, making it good for both of us. It has to be used in the shower or it'll make a sticky mess. For diferent smells I like almond oil and just a cap of vanilla extract to make us smell like cake. It also makes a nice gift if you make it in a fancy looking glass jar Another great gift is to find awsome smelling soap (it can be cheap … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/15 01:04 PM |
| 3 | What are your favorite RP friendly songs?Doris Day has lovely songs that i like to listen to uplift me. It's all about girly stuff and family so I find it always cheerful and cute. Favorites: Tea for two High hopes | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/15 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The pill is sitting in my mouth but there's one last thing. I've typed every combination into the search bar. Question about partner reciprocation.Aww thanks, I owe it to the great stuff I've read around here | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/15 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?It's awsome because you have constant company and support. Also, instead of being one of those people that rewards a good gym session with cake, we can have plenty of healthy (and free) rewards for each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/15 12:20 PM |
| 7 | The pill is sitting in my mouth but there's one last thing. I've typed every combination into the search bar. Question about partner reciprocation.I've been going through a rough time in school and he's always there for me, cheering me up every day until I can get through this. He says I deserve plenty more as I treat him wonderfully every chance I get. He's been taking me out for snacks and walks to cheer me up and that's this week alone. He regularly stays up chatting with me until I'm calm and happy to go to sleep and gives me backrubs when I'm looking stressed. I try to see this not as a tit-for-tat exchange but as a little batlle betw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?Not a very dramatic one but yes. Both me and my bf lost a little weight and work harder on our looks, fitness and try to do interesting stuff together. Before we were both lightly out of shape, a bit schlumpy and spent weekends on the computer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/15 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?I usually see this in pairs as in "he's a chump but she's no prize either" and they end up bringing out the best in each other and working together to be better people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Being a college aged RPW gets lonely - lets share ideas and tips to make worthwhile girl friendsI don't have that in my school, but we have a "settlement" with a nearby college in which we can use their gym and they can use our computer labs and study rooms (I'm in engineering, neighbouring the sports school). I never went but sounds like I should give it a try instead of working out at home! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Being a college aged RPW gets lonely - lets share ideas and tips to make worthwhile girl friendsGood call on that last bit. Once is chance, twice is a coincidence, three is a pattern, though. Not to say I haven't been a bit bad myself, but if someone is making out with strangers on a regular basis they may not be the best people for you to trust | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/15 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Being a college aged RPW gets lonely - lets share ideas and tips to make worthwhile girl friendsI guess it does. People usually care a lot about their image, even the ones that go to great lengths to pretend they don't, so it's usually a good way to gauge their personality somewhat | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Being a young straight white women is the easiest thing to be in the West in 2015Thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Being a young straight white women is the easiest thing to be in the West in 2015I have a pretty heavy courseload so I wouldn't be the best person to start that, but I get the gist of what you're saying. This nice girl in my class says the painting club at the local library is full of nice girls our age, I'll give it a shot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/15 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Being a young straight white women is the easiest thing to be in the West in 2015Making real, deep connections is incredibly hard for everyone, and I'm quite lucky to have the friends that I do. But I find it hard to forge casual friendships. It angers me to be in a conversation where another girl is complaining her boyfriend of a month or so won't commit and she's fucking three other people on the side. Unfortunately, I'm having a bad time finding worthwile women to have those casual friendships with. Everyone I meet at work or school around my age is only concerned with cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Being a young straight white women is the easiest thing to be in the West in 2015As a white woman I feel like my view would help. While all the victim-y bullshit runs rampant and tons of beta males want you, it isn't all a dream: both pursuing and not pursuing a career will get you judged juggling work and family duties is hard said hordes of men are usually "bottom feeders", not be harsh, but i wouldn't want those men as house servants, let alone husbands and the one i consider worst: making friends. men will either not want to be friends (understandably) or be too needy/cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/15 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Trying to find the balance between accepting his help and taking care of him. Advice neededI hope you have fun with it too like I do :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/15 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Trying to find the balance between accepting his help and taking care of him. Advice neededI completely understand where you're coming from. Just talk it out and you'll find the ways to express your love without stepping on each other's toes. One neat trick we use is whenever I feel like I "owe him one" I give him a nice backrub or footrub and vice-versa. This results in nearly daily or twice-daily rubs for the both of us, making us relaxed and eliminating the "I think you do too much work and I should do some too" problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/15 09:43 PM |
| 14 | Trying to find the balance between accepting his help and taking care of him. Advice neededTalk to him about it. You don't need to mention the sub or any books, just say exactly what you said here: "I'm conflicted between accepting your help and caring for you. This is my way of caring for you and I would feel bad if you had to take on chores after working so hard". Together you will come up with a good division of labor that works for your home. Ideally he will help out with the things you're bad at doing or weaker like carrying laundry baskets or taking out the trash. I think he's j… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/15 09:32 PM |
| 6 | A woman and a man get drunk and have sex, and that's rape.She's the one that got too drunk on her own, she is responsible for what happens. Don't get me wrong, it's an awful situation and she was definitely taken advantage of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/15 08:22 AM |
| 4 | A woman and a man get drunk and have sex, and that's rape.It's not rape. If a woman chose to get herself drunk to the point where she is unable to consent it's her own fault. The same is true for the man. It's a stupid thing to do, but not rape unless she was forced to drink against her will (like tied up and forced to chug) with intent to rape her, but I think that's a different crime altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/15 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Why should a woman marry early and give away her entire youth to one man if she isn't even sure whether that man is going to be for her during tough times or when she is not young anymore?AWALT is not a law written in stone. It's more of a general directive as in "all women will have a tendency to x": A lot of women will do x, most without understanding their underlying reasons Not all women will do x, especially those that understand that behaviour can be able to stop it The point is all women (or 99.99%) will have a tendency to do x or think about doing x in a certain situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/15 10:17 AM |
| 2 | 8 things most women just don't do anymore (but should)Thanks :) im glad you think that way :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/15 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Why should a woman marry early and give away her entire youth to one man if she isn't even sure whether that man is going to be for her during tough times or when she is not young anymore?Maybe? Isso have no idea whats going on in this sub sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/15 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Why should a woman marry early and give away her entire youth to one man if she isn't even sure whether that man is going to be for her during tough times or when she is not young anymore?It's running so fast it fell off: http://giphy.com/gifs/fail-hamster-wheel-ofTqoaj1HBjaw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 11:46 PM |
| 14 | Why should a woman marry early and give away her entire youth to one man if she isn't even sure whether that man is going to be for her during tough times or when she is not young anymore?Then the problem is the shallow man. There are bad people everywhere, not necessarily women or men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 10:56 PM |
| 27 | Why should a woman marry early and give away her entire youth to one man if she isn't even sure whether that man is going to be for her during tough times or when she is not young anymore?You need to give plenty more than just bring looks and youth into the table and expect so much more form him in return. Like u/m_rafay said: be worth keeping If you make yourself worthwhile, a man won't trade you for a younger model just because. If that were the case, no woman over 40 would be married. Think about all that a man brings into a relationship and all that the woman can bring. If those things are balanced, they will likely stay together. If all she brings is looks, when those fade, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 10:23 PM |
| 14 | Are ugly men and old men the only options a young woman has if she wants to get married?I get swollen and all bothered down there, it physically hurts and it makes me angry, it makes me cry I think what you need right now is a gynecologist, seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?Make sure you treat them both well :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?I didn't say that. Cooking is not the issue at hand here. Kids need both their parents but I personally believe that each hour of overtime at work has more impact on the home if it's the woman doing it rather than the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?You're lucky to have someone who helps you so much :) I don't think the actions themselves are what matters to the child, but the way it's done. I'm sure you're both patient and caring, but have a different "touch" even when doing the same task | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?A motherly feminine touch doesn't have to do with being girly, in the way I see things. It shows in how you hold your baby, speak kindly to him/her, taking patience when it's feeding time (kids can sure make a mess if they don't want something) and so on. Your femininity has nothing to do with which color lipstick you choose in the morning. It's more in being gentle and patient, caring and so on. You can do that even in the most unbecoming of looks (not that you would) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?I think it does: well adjusted children need good male and female examples in their lives, good feminine and masculine influence. I'm glad your man is good with the baby but you'll agree there's nothing like a mother's touch :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:47 PM |
| 8 | 8 things most women just don't do anymore (but should)You gilded me? Thank you so much! Just a heads up, the "f-word" (lol) no longer means what it used to, because of people mis-using it and doing/saying awful things in the name of "feminism". I would advise you to describe your personal beliefs in a more accurate way than using an umbrella term that ranges from fairly reasonable people to bat-crazy misandrists. Even if you don't agree with everything in here, I'm glad you managed to pick the things that do work for you and improve your life. No t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/15 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?No, I think you've understood what I meant to say and chose to misinterpret on purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?Where did you ever see that? I do not consider women to be inferior to men and I've never seen anything like that said in the RPW sub. Different and inferior aren't the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?That's not my point, cooking is just the easiest example, but hardly the best. The point is kids need mothering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?They can, but it's just not the same. Kids crave a feminine mothering touch that dads cannot give, in the same way that they crave attention from their dad that moms cannot give. I think both parents are very necessary for well adjusted children, but fathers can "stretch it" slightly more when it comes to working more hours. It may be because of years of influence saying so, or my personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:11 AM |
| 2 | 8 things most women just don't do anymore (but should)I learned something new today, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?I didn't say that and I don't think women are inferior, just different. If you have any questions for me I'd be happy to tell you more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?Of course, but that is especially notorious and more damaging in women in my opinion. If a man stays working late every now and again it has little impact on the home, but for a woman that easily turns into take-out, late dinners, late bedtime and cranky kids. I'm not saying a workaholic dad is good, but the "line" between working hard and working too much is farther away for men than for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?Oh no no, those particular people have a little history with the OP, it's not random bandwagoning or anything like that (if it were, don't you think more RPWs would have jumped in?). I thought you meant something about the things that red pill women defend scare you, and I'd be curious to find that out because nothing is less scary to me :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?There's no reason a woman can't work in an RP relationship. The most important thing is putting the family and the husband first and while being a housewife eliminates that "career-first" risk right in the bud, it's not necessary for a happy home life. The necessity is for the woman not to put her career ahead of her home, which puts a lot of strain on the man, the relationship and any kids that might be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?I think you're leaving out the most important point. I'll describe your first example as woman A and the second as woman B. These aren't any actual women, just averages. And while an average woman B is less likely to get divorced in a financially draining way, remember any Rper that advocates marriage will not marry an average woman A. I may be shooting myself in the foot here but the average woman A described will most likely have most of a "ho"'s flaws even with a low partner count, like being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 09:28 PM |
| 56 | 8 things most women just don't do anymore (but should)The nice thing is when you start doing these things you'll notice your man stepping it up too (at least I did) like dressing up to come have dinner with my parents, opening doors for me and offering hand or foot massages when I'm looking tense. So it's a two-way street, the more you do for him, the happier man you'll have, and happier men make better capitains and will care for you better too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What tricks/habits did you use when beginning RP?I'm glad you like it | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/15 09:59 AM |
| 5 | What tricks/habits did you use when beginning RP?I have a tiny frame on my bedside table and it used to have some pressed flowers on it. Ever since I started coming here, I regularly print a feminine encouraging or inspiring quote in a pretty font and put it there to see first thing in the morning. Previous ones include: Be wonderful, every single day Be the change you want to see Every day a little bit better I thought, I planned, I did it What would an angel do? (at a time when I noticed myself being a bit angry and caustic to people that ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/15 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?Thank you, I'll look into it more in depth when my finals are over | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/15 12:15 PM |
| 5 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?Yes, please :) I can help pick out posts (and have the list mod-approved before continuing to the book phase) or learn how to do the ebook thingy myself. thanks | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/15 11:53 AM |
| 2 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?I think it's perfectly legit, they can make whatever changes they want to their website, I'll just stop using it if it happens | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/15 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oqyrflOQFc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?I'm curious, what's scary about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?I'll share my two cents: Red Pill Women, do you not want equality? nope Why are you so opposed to feminism. As I understand it, feminism is about equality. It's about giving women equal rights, access to education, ability to live independent of men, and pursue their own education and careers. Why is any of that 'wrong'? That's not wrong, it's quite the beautiful intention. But these days, the word feminism in the western world has become a sort of umbrella-term for many other silly things and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Happy Ending to A Long Distance RelationshipCongratulations! I'm so glad to hear this and wish you both the best :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 10:12 PM |
| 2 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?I didn't notice that, sound awsome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 03:18 PM |
| 8 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?I don't think the content, the users or the comments are the risk factor but merely the name "Red Pill" on the banner is enough to put some people on edge. I think an RPW book would be a lovely read. I notice around here that even when people are criticizing others, they sound helpful, feminine and overall nice and pleasant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What are you doing for your SO on Valentines Day?We'll be on a small get-away at the time (unrelated) so we agreed to make it our only dinner out on the vacation (I'll be cooking the rest). But Valentines isn't a big deal over here, it's as much of a holiday as "pie day" or other similar days. The rest of the day we'll be exploring the small town we're in and just relax. I'll try to make a home-spa to give each other massages and such in our room, it should be fun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 10:16 AM |
| 5 | 'You make me happy'I love this! I'll make an effort to apply this and see what difference it will make in my relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/15 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Sex under false pretenses: rape, or harmless shenanigans?1) Sleazy/Wierd but not rape 2) Not rape but you're pretty dumb to keep going unless you want to risk having a kid with her 3) This is twice as dumb: see 2 and also don't stick it into crazy (lying about something that serious falls under crazy to me) 4) I'm pretty sure this is illegal but not rape. She consented to have sex, but did not consent to be recorded, different things 5) Odd but whatever 6) "And you both eagerly fuck" qualifies this as not rape 7) She's probably risking a kick to the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/15 09:27 AM |
| 1 | A good reminder: "not letting yourself go" isn't just about looksLooks like she won't be on the market for long :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/15 11:23 PM |
| 2 | A good reminder: "not letting yourself go" isn't just about looksI loled at that one, but seriously now, it's s a good reminder to go through in your mind when you take a breather if you're getting annoyed or angry at something. Just take a deep breath, go throught the 6 points while thinking about your next move. Even if it's not stellar, it'll be miles better than any knee-jerk response you would have come up with otherwise | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/15 08:13 PM |
| 5 | A good reminder: "not letting yourself go" isn't just about looksThat is so toughtful of you. I don't know if she's small enough for this but for a cousin of mine I used the "princess trick" since she already loved them. It was easier to teach her how to eat correctly, stand tall and so on after telling her that's what princesses do. It's also a great way to defuse a tantrum ("Now now, you don't see a princess kick up a fuss when she doesn't get her way do you?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/15 08:10 PM |
| 8 | A good reminder: "not letting yourself go" isn't just about looksSounds like you could benefit from ways of going around your usual bluntness and control yourself, instead of expecting a man to do it for you. A good man deserves a woman that can control herself (at least most of the time, like 90%) Try to read Camille's RPW 101, on the sidebar and apply the principles when you think you're being less that lovely. I found "RYSPEP" to be a helpful acronym to remember how I'm doing. R for receptive, Y for yielding, S for Supportive, P for Pleasant, E for empathe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/15 07:32 PM |
| 6 | rpwExperiment: Week 1 Notes (A Field Report of Sorts)I think the majority of men would prefer a partner who was a frequent and aggressive initiator (particularly if 'No' was still a safe answer) This might be the case for some men, but biologically speaking men are "wired" to be the pursuers and I think they enjoy it. So this is more of a safer way to let him pursue at will, just letting him know he'll be successful beforehand, to encourage him to just have fun with the process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 11:41 PM |
| 5 | rpwExperiment: Week 1 Notes (A Field Report of Sorts)I think you're getting next week's point, number 2, very wrong (not asking or initiating). You can initiate in a non-agressive manner. It looks like the point of that suggestion is for you to do things in a different manner and allow him to be the pursuer, not stop initiating entirely, that could even turn out to be hurtful. The other tasks sound good. The number 2 though bugs me. You can try ways to suggest you'd be open for initiation without doing it yourself. Stopping, especially all of a su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Should Low SMV men participate in nightlife? Or should they stay in and build up their SMV?Hour-for-hour it's way more productive to stay inside, work out, read and such. If you want to build up confidence and approaching, day-game may be a better option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | cute but warm sleepwear ideasFor cold weather I like something alike to male pajamas (pants and button shirt) but in a feminine cut, pattern and all that cuteness. They can be found in all sorts of fabric, and thick flannel is just the best for warmth. If it's cold in your area it shouldn't be hard to find this sort of model for sale. Some cute options (these are cotton, not as warm): * https://www.victoriassecret.com/sleepwear/pajamas/the-cotton-mayfair-pajama?ProductID=226538&CatalogueType=OLS * http://www.modcloth.com/sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/15 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Any Pill: Should men's SMV include fertility?Immediate SMV, no (unless the infertility also has other signs like an overall sickly look) Long term RMV (relationship), a resounding yes, unless the couple doesn't want children ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Is there a graceful red pill way to tell him that something really turns me off?You can try to hint or openly talk about other stuff that turns you on, or that you'd like to try and ask him what he thinks of it. Just talking about it, no pressure If he does open up about the subject, ask if he'd like anything new too (like a new position or location). Focusing on stuff that turns you both on can help you get through this difficulty without emasculating him. Mention things he already did that you liked best and how those things made you feel. Maybe ask him to name things he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Educated women have even more of an incentive to be RPWI get where you're coming from but it's maybe best explained in pictures. http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-VFe3ITTVlEw/TpCy1iR01mI/AAAAAAAAACo/yaTbFpBTrfU/s1600/Scarlett+Johansson+Comparison+2.JPG You don't have to look red carpet ready, just avoid "letting yourself go" and make an effort with your looks. Example: you don't need to wear a full face of makeup, sometimes bb cream or tinted lip balm do the trick. Clothes-wise I'd say give it a try to just dial it up a little from your usual, like a top wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/15 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Educated women have even more of an incentive to be RPWPrimping and looking good (not necessarily high maintenance) once you've secure a mate may be even more important than initial attraction. I'll give you a few of my reasonings when i'm feeling to lazy to dress up (I mean dress up as a catchall term to dressing nice, doing your hair, makeup, jewelry, etc): Don't you feel better/sexier when you're dressed up? Men like confident women like that, your man will like to see you confident like that Of course your man will say you're beautiful in your j… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/15 10:10 PM |
| 0 | SJW friend constantly posting fat acceptance posts on his facebook, while he has only dated skinny, attractive women.The way I see it, there is no excuse to neglet yourself to that point. The information is out there, the help is out there (like r/loseit) etc. It's a hard road, for sure (I had to lose about 20lbs as a teen and it was very hard, I can't imagine having to lose 200) and everyone is different and so on, but I can't help but to look down on people who give up on themselves | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | SJW friend constantly posting fat acceptance posts on his facebook, while he has only dated skinny, attractive women.There are all sorts of models (lingerie, catalog, runway, fitness) but my point remains the same: it is their job to look a certain way, and they dedicate a lot of time and energy to look that certain way. Time and energy that "regular people" won't have, but that's no excuse to be unhealthy, even though it's a perfectly good justification for not being as thin or muscular or etc as a model | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as WGTOW?In those examples, I'm speculating the woman giving up dating after she's had children. These cases are more common (I think) than women giving up on dating even though they've never been married, even though those exist too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as WGTOW?It's actually fairly common, but very harmful if they ever intend to "come back" to the dtaing scene, because the clock ticks against them. Imagine for example someone that decides to GTOW at 20, and get back in the dating scene at 25. While for a guy there may be a clear advantage, a woman is now at a disadvantage in relation to a similar 20 y-o. It can have some neat advantages if done on her teens years, if that time is used to learn useful skills and keep her number low instead of going to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/15 08:08 PM |
| 2 | SJW friend constantly posting fat acceptance posts on his facebook, while he has only dated skinny, attractive women.The clients I've had that started severely over weight and are more stable now I'm curious, what do you do? Nutritionist, weightloss coach or something like that? I'm completely agree with you on the model front. If it's their job to look like that, of course it'll be hard for other people, most of whom will have a job of their own, to look similar. Example: I saw on an interview once that VS models keep in shape by exercising something like 4 hours a day. Of course it's not realistic to think I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP MenI don't think that plays any role in sexual attraction. A man doesn't care, on a sexual level, about a woman's earning power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/15 09:30 AM |
| 1 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP MenThat first may be reason to keep heer around as a plate, but not to commit to her. Success as making a girl attractive? I don't get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/15 12:28 AM |
| 1 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP Meni)AWALT?: This refers to an innate nature of women, some instictive behaviours, like seeking out high value males and keeping beta orbiters around. Most of these things aren't conscious behaviour but rather a default one, that we can "fight" simply by being aware of it ii)Hypergamy? Same as before, it makes total sense biologically speaking, to seek the best possible mate iii)"Women can't love unconditionally?" The way I see it, men don't love unconditionally either, no one does. We love certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 11:11 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel about the trend of women marrying themselves?I can see this trend growing a bit, but never going full mainstream, it just screams "I gave up", even moreso than living with 10 cats. The way I see it, it's not so much about self-validation as it is about social validation (to parents, friends and the like). But for that I would love to see a far healthier trend of single women throwing parties not for self-weddings (and not for drunken escapades either) but just to be social, interact with friends and eventually marry "for real", by managing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 10:46 AM |
| 6 | You are not your childhood.Every day, a little better than yesterday I'm framing this on my nightstand | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/15 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Educated women have even more of an incentive to be RPWI keep noticing more and more how little of an effort the majority of women make to look good and be nice. It's kind of sad to see how low the bar is set, so to speak | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/15 09:02 PM |
| 23 | How do I explain red pill to a women? What should be goals, mindset etc. for a women?The simple answer is DON'T. If she comes to you asking for help, that's a whole 'nother subject, and IF she says she wants help, maybe directing her here to expose what she thinks is the problem would be best. If she doesn't want to be helped it doesn't matter how much you want to help, step back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/15 01:48 PM |
| 3 | So...can we just have a quick discussion?I hadn't seen this before but it's an incredibly thorough and helpful explanation. Thanks for putting it so eloquently :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/15 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Occasional... TransgressionsThose sound like great ideas. I'm not sure if this may be an out-of-place pitch but if you're feeling bad about this whole deal or are just feeling down or alone (it happens to everyone, but it's worse if you've recently ended a relationship) you can go to 7cupsoftea.com and you'll be connected with an anonymous listener, someone who's there just to hear you out and make you feel better. I go there when I'm having a rougher day or I'm bored/lonely. The listeners are really nice and calm, it make… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/15 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Educated women have even more of an incentive to be RPWI'll speak to my experience as an engineering student: at school the "don't be fat and don't be a bitch" motto is an absolute recipe for success. There are plenty girls in my school, from girl-heavy engineering types (chemical, management, etc) and still there are so many girl who dress badly, in sweatpants and sneakers, who don't make the slightest bit of effort and are actively abrasive (the "what-are-ya-lookin-at?" type). Just a light effort in the looks area puts you above average in an envi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Occasional... TransgressionsNot having outside support is a very common reason for women to stay in sub-par relationships. I'm here if you need to talk to someone anonymously but I reccomend you meet with someone you're sure has ultimately your best interest at heart, like your mom, an aunt or a long term friend. It can seem weird to try to reconnect with any of these people if you haven't been close in the past but surrounding yourself with positive influences and people who genuinely want you to be happy will do you good… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Did I make the right decision?On the bright side, these next weeks will be a great time to just take extra care of yourself. do something nice for you like a long bath or curling up with a good book. You'll be tempeted to "get back out there" but this is really a good oportunity to just care for yourself a little until you're ready to move on. Take up a new hobby or sign up for something fun (a friend of mine took up painting for example). Focus on building a better you first: you seem like you already have clearly defined e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What is RPW's view on female sex workers in general?The overall sentiment of RPW and also TRP is mostly along not caring what other people do with their lives (while working to improve their own) so I think you'll find a majority of neutral opinions on sex workers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Maybe I'm Going About This Wrong. CAWPlease update with how you're doing in about a week or so. PM if you don't want to make a post | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/15 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Maybe I'm Going About This Wrong. CAWI know it hurts, but you need to burn this bridge. Don't text him, erase his number from your phone, delete his facebook or whatever sites you may be friends in, everything. I know what you're thinking: "does it have to be everything? but what if [etc]" Yes, for your own sake, it needs to be everything. I understand you want to help and support him, but that would only work if he wanted to be helped and supported. Take your good intentions to people who want to be helped and for example voluntee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Do you honestly enjoy sex everytime?Is there any particular reason why you dread it? Pain, dryness or any more specific issue to be adressed? I'm always up for having sex, even if I'm not right away in the mood because I know I'll get in the mood like 5 minutes in. But sometimes if I've had a rough day or something it's harder to get to that relaxed receptive state. If that's the case, I can just say so and it's usually remedied with some low-key relaxing time together, like cuddling on the couch watching tv or taking a walk so wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Would like to introduce a family member to RP to save her marriage. What advice would you give?Suggest or gift RPW books that don't use complicated lingo or acronyms and just give simple advice. Anything by Dr. Laura is a winner. Do not give unsolicited advice in this situation. I don't know this woman but you "butting in" may have the opposite effect, make her press more on the issue and backfire completely. Unless she comes to you for advice, just make sure she has all the tools to make an informed choice and that's all you can do | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Coping with Hitting "The Wall"The reward is greater too. A fit girl in her twenties is a looker but retain the same level of fitness into your thirties and most people will be impressed. if you manage to keep it up through your forties you'll start noticing people staring in awe (ymmv depending on how abundant fit older girls are in your area) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/15 11:00 PM |
| 16 | Coping with Hitting "The Wall"You don't "gracefully accept your aging" in your mid-twenties, that sort of phrase is reserved for older women who refuse to believe they're not 20 anymore. What you need is a proverbial kick in the pants to get you back in the gorgeous shape you had: Don't like that you've gained weight? lose it Don't like your fine lines? Wear more sunscreen, see a derm, get a new cream (botox this young may backfire) Don't like your new haircut? Talk to your stylist and do it over Basically, if you don't like… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Maxims for the young RPW.To this I'd just add taking care of yourself in the best possible way. This includes eating well so you'll be healthy, take an interest in fitness or perhaps even a team sport and work on being a better person by taking lessons in stuff that interest you other than waste whole afternoons browsing your social media feeds. I think this mentality of constant self improvement is a big part of being RP, man or woman, by understanding you can always get better, improve your SMV even if just a tiny bit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/15 05:28 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill made me depressed. What did it do to you? Share your experience!No girl needs to be less than a 5, if you're objective about it: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html Check the link for numerical details and guides on how to raise your look to at least 5.5 (which is the absolute lowest for someone who is trying hard in the looks department) Personality wise you have a lot of work ahead of you but a happy marriage isn't out of the table if you work hard. Most men, when they find a worthy wife, will not trade you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/15 07:45 PM |
| 11 | "Send me a Selfie... No, a sexy one."This is usually a warning sign/next for me - if they don't respect me respecting myself, they're not worth my time. Right on the money! I personally dislike that sort of stuff and avoid even PG selfies (I like taking other people's picture but not mine) My advice would be to reserve that sort of fun to married or quasi-married relationships but I understand your frustration "Come on, everyone is doing it!" and so on. This pertains to that part of girl game that teaches you to tell apart men who … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Domestic Skills TV ProgrammePlease give the name of the series so we can look for it online and see the show too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Social Media, Marketing and ModestyI remember reading somewhere that modesty is more about how you act than how you dress (of course that's also important). So you can remain modest and demure, even when exposing a lot of skin http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2014/02/there-is-nothing-modest-about-loose.html I wear regular bikinis (triangle tops with wide straps, panty like bottoms) and keep a modest attitude, which I think can be way more impactful | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/15 10:15 AM |
| 2 | RP book recommendations for me and my SO?Ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationship Why men won't listen and women can't read maps (insight into studies of brainscans highlighting differences between men and women) /r/freeebooks will have tons of free ancient housekeeping books with good tips | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How to determine SMV for men and women?In my opinion this test fails to take many other personality traits in consideration, as well as past events like you mentioned, but it's still a nifty guideline. Furthermore, plenty of people manage to overcome the shortcomings that gave them those red flags in the first place (kids, slutty past, etc) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/15 09:29 PM |
| 2 | RPW with mental health issues. TL;DR: I'm batshit crazy and it's ruining my relationship. Has anyone successfully managed their mental health problems to have a happy red pill relationship?It's alright, everyone here is making progress in one way or another. Just think of how happy you can be with such a self-improvement journey ahead of you :) 7cupsoftea is an annonymous service. You can choose a listener you like (I'm GabiL, if you're interested) or be taken to a random one. You can also choose to make an account or remain an anonymous guest. The one thing I'd say turned my progress the most, going from entitled brat to better girlfriend was starting to take actual pleasure in d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How to determine SMV for men and women?There must be other smv tests out there, usually under the name "sex appeal test", since the keywords "smv test" will take you to youtube videos of auto-parts :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/15 08:27 PM |
| 3 | How to determine SMV for men and women?Chateau Heartiste's SMV test on the website can be a start in getting a notion for someone's SMV | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/15 06:21 PM |
| 5 | RPW with mental health issues. TL;DR: I'm batshit crazy and it's ruining my relationship. Has anyone successfully managed their mental health problems to have a happy red pill relationship?If you are unhappy with your therapist, look into getting a new one that understands what you want to acomplish and help you get there. I believe you can control your emotions or at least severely improve your state with the right tools and help. So look into taking the best possible care of yourself, with adequate diet, exercise and a therapist that is working WITH you, not against. It seems like whenever you're having a bad time, you rely solely on your man for support and he's a bit burned ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Dr Laura Schlessinger...Thanks for posting this! I'd heard of her but never knew she had a channel :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/15 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Marriage and Kids... How to do it the RP way?As an extroverted woman, I don't think it makes much of a difference as long as we are aware of how we're acting vs how we want to act and don't let the guard down on yourself. Finding a more than worthy man and being aware of my flaws allowed for enormous progress because every time I'm on the fence about doing something I have a) someone to inspire me to do things I find hard, b) someone who is worth doing those hard things to make sure he's as happy and well cared for as possible, c) someone … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Happy New Year!I'm planning a cozy night with the bf by the fireplace and I'll try making hot chocolate from scratch :) Resolutions are the same every time and I try not to attach much meaning to this day resolution wise, any day is a good time to start, or start over. I plan on keeping up with my daily small workouts, cook more, study harder and work on being more mindful so I can be calmer/softer/more feminine and take time to think about things instead of just reacting. I've installed a relaxation app on my… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women and interests (or lack of).There are women out there with actual interests (mostly crafts or other activities that one can do with other women) but they are rare-er every day. The average girl doesn't have any interests because she is "allowed" to do so, by either absent or uninterested parents during her childhood or a stream of idiots talking about how she's so interesting during adulthood. I'm pretty confident the day a guy she has the tingles for mentions how boring it is not to have any interests she will find one. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 11:15 AM |
| 2 | I was an orbited: Deprogramming time."the well cultured anonymous" would be a good place to start: http://ulrikbrask.dk/Media/The%20well-cultured%20anonymous.pdf | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 05:54 PM |
| 2 | How to get a careless girl to like meWhy would you want someone like that in your life at all? Next her | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:13 PM |
| 0 | RP Women Audio Podcasts/Book RequestJonas Jonasson has rekindled my love of reading with the hundred year old man who climbed out the window and disappeared. It's fun and teaches history a little | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | RP Women Audio Podcasts/Book RequestI think it'll be hard to find girl-game oriented podcasts specifically by searching "red pill". I'd suggest you look into other similr themes but since content may be scarce, look into other sorts of self improvement podcasts that relate to your goals. My personal example: I'm learning italian (4 years and counting) from CDs and I've just now started listening to a nutrition "podcast" to help me learn about the different kinds of nutrients. Another good tip is to look into tutorials and Youtube … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies sign your notes and cards?I still live at home so usually cards say Dadname, Momname and then he siblings by age order and then our last name. "Titles" like Mr or Mrs do not apply unless you're mentioning someone else (it would be rude to apply such a title on yourself) but we would use them if sending and english card. So for example: Dadname, Momname, Bigbrothername, Middlechildname and Babyname Lastname To the extent of my awareness, english manner says like someone else mentioned you should sign: Mr and Mrs Hisname L… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/14 08:02 AM |
| 1 | What are you getting your men for xmas?I wrapped them in paper, not like the fancy boxes depicted. If you ask a local pastry shop for plain white boxes, around here they'll give you some for free or charge 10 cents. They're great for wrapping odd shaped presents | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/14 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Marriage: "Stop Calling Me That!"I actually suffer a bit from the opposite: not minding at all and even enjoying being called his girlfriend but having a bit of an awkward time referring to him in the thrid person by my boyfriend, like I'm still in a bit of shocked disbelief :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/14 07:54 PM |
| 5 | A book about womenThank you for the book, maybe consider cross-posting it to /r/freeebooks too so more people can get a hold of it | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/14 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Discussion about naggingMy point exactly :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Graduating and moving back with parents next week. I have two questions regarding dating and home life.A good tip is to cook dinner but have your mom in the room, for company and possibly supervision while you try new recipes. Start with simple stuff, maybe on youtube so you can see the thing being made beforehand. Just last week I tried to make a shrimp curry I saw on youtube. I had never cooked shrimp, curry or rice before. My mom helped make sure I was watching both pots (shrimp curry and the rice) and tasted along the way to help season it. It turned out awsome and I can't wait to cook it aga… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/14 08:59 AM |
| 8 | Discussion about naggingA man who "needs" to be nagged makes for a poor capitain. The man in the post is irresponsible, not aware of safety concerns, does not care for the dog at all or for his things (washing pants with stuff in the pockets). He also seems to fail pretty big in taking responsability for things. As you've said, nagging is a sign you don't trust his ability to be a fully functional adult. So it's also a sign that girl needs to "next him". That said, #3 is a very important distinction. I think it comes d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/14 08:53 AM |
| 6 | Dipping my toes in the pool, unexpectedly seeing results *immediately*This gave me a great idea. I make my own frozen foods instead of buying so I can just microwave one dose when I'm in a hurry to lunch. I think my boyfriend would like to have some in his freezer too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/14 08:34 AM |
| 9 | What are you getting your men for xmas?I made a little "gift tower" with the bottom being books and the upper layers small treats like chocolate and other to fill out the shape of the tower, looking somewhat like this one: http://www.pinterest.com/pin/133841420151287217/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/14 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Those celebrating a long, happy marriage, what was the kicker to change the dynamic?One thing I have found very helpful is for you both to take a personality test at a place like 16personalities.com It helped us both understand underlying motivations for little things we do that annoy the other person. One little example is that I asked him to initiate more in asking me out: to dinner, to the movies, whatever. He didn't think much of it and I was a little hurt, like he didn't want to go out with me. Turns out that to his personality type, those things aren't important at all, w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/14 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating in the CityAnother one you may want to check out is my personal favorite to read whenever I feel frumpy or unsexy: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Casual Dating in the CityHe has a 30s game guide too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Casual Dating in the CityI'm assuming you're in your 20s: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/12/female-game-for-girls-in-their-20s.html If not, this blog has other girl-game guides for teens and 30-ish ladies too. It looks like you should learn how to filter men who are looking for commitment/ a good wife vs men who just want a ons | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Can't figure out whether I'm being fucked with or actually have a possible LTR candidateNow you're the one giving excuses. There is no good reason to keep giving this girl any attention if there is no return on it | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Can't figure out whether I'm being fucked with or actually have a possible LTR candidateYou're being an idiot pursuing a girl who won't fuck you, for no good reason. Next her, ignore her, go fuck other girls. If she comes around, fine, if she doesn't, even better. If she actually wanted to fuck you, you wouldn0t have heard any excuses | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I improve my social skills while I'm in Monk Mode?There are tons of good free ebooks for kindle on amazon (you can even get the kidle-for-pc app for free) to read and improve your social skills. The best would be, if you can get it, the one by dale carnegie As for practice, socialize with guys exclusively until you are confident in your skills or wish to leave "monk mode". These guys can turn out to be great friends, like gym buddies or something. Another grear idea is to join your local Toastmaster's club (from my experience there will be a lo… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Tinder unsuccessfulIf yout tinder is unsuccessful you either: aren't as hot as you think have too much text and come across as beta give the girl waaay to muc attention | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 05:46 PM |
| 6 | I need advice on a boyfriend who seems to be unwilling to commit.You don't. This man will not commit to you ever and will not make for a good husband even if he does. I'm sorry but it's in your best interrest to break contact with this man and find a better one for yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Internal struggle accepting RPW- please share your stories with me!We're not married but I was clearly starting to feel some strain in the relationship. Now I know it was due to my controlling streak and feelings of entitlement. My first epiphany was on one date when he said he'd like to see me in a certain dress and I bought it. It was something small but I felt the benefits of submitting to his will and trusting his judgement. Because if I didn't, what was th point of being in a relationship with a man whose judgement I didn't trust? I found the sub about a w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 01:12 PM |
| 8 | DAE have this "problem"? (Embarrassing... Please be nice)That's just sad... Try using a throwaway then. I (foolishly) use the same account for everything and only once it gave me trouble for posting in rpw :p As a subscriber to bbp I'll let you know of more benefits if you'd like. It's far easier to see them from the other side | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 11:17 PM |
| 28 | DAE have this "problem"? (Embarrassing... Please be nice)You could probably get more helpful answers at a fitness sub but there's no need to be upset about boob size, just make the best of yours, whatever their size is! Looking on the bright side, you can wear pretty sundresses without a bra and I think it looks super feminine/soft/cute with them tiny straps and deep backs. You can also wear backless stuff, which is also very feminine but in a less cute/more sexy way | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Not AWALT this is the proofAWALT: Some are better at controlling themselves than others | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Internal struggle accepting RPW- please share your stories with me!The shift in midset came easily to me because I was already in a relationship and it made perfect sense. But I understand it will seem weird until you find the right man. So it will only make sense for you to be a first mate when you find a good capitain. It makes perfect sense that you'd feel uneasy deferring to a man you don't trust or admire. I'm probably not the best person to ask questions about this because I agreed with everything the first time around and realized I was doing stuff wrong… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 01:02 PM |
| 2 | FR from my 4 months LDRWe have a whole day planned to make up for lost time (this is not the ideomatic expression I'm looking for but it's close enough) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | FR from my 4 months LDRThank you, you too! A fun thing to do when you're bored and he's busy is write up a nice list of things you like about him, no matter how silly (he'll probably like the silly ones) and send it online or on the mail. It can be a great uplift to read such a list after a dreary day | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 08:13 PM |
| 2 | FR from my 4 months LDROh my! I'm so flattered! Let me know if there is anything else I can/should write about! I'll have to add that the fact that me, my bf and a handful of his friends discuss RP stuff openly and it helped the process a lot, especially the first couple of months when I got teased at school that he was more likely than not cheating on me (haters gonna hate). We discussed this sort of thing in a very logical manner and they helped me keep my head on my shoulders instead of melting into an emotional me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Shouldn’t Marry Women Over 30The gorgeous I get but what's the point in aiming for a lawyer girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 03:02 PM |
| 5 | FR from my 4 months LDRA good idea would be to look for a charity you'd like to support and help them organize events and volunteer sometimes too. It gets you out of the house and doing some good, if you're into that kind of thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 02:51 PM |
| 2 | FR from my 4 months LDRThat is so cool :) We netflixed together but you made it into something memorable! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 02:49 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend suddenly... improvedDid you change in someway that would make her more attracted to you? This happened to me a while back when my bf found trp. He started working out and dressing better and I felt it wasn't fair that only he made an effort so I started reading up on fashion (like what clothes shapes look better) and makeup and such so we could both look better. It only made sense that if he made the effort, he more than deserved that I made an effort back too | /r/askTRP | 06/12/14 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.I'd say mixing sugar and cinammon makes for the perfect amount of spice. I make a mix in an old empty spice bottle and use it through the holiday season to put on everything | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.I find that cinnamon powder is very drying on top of truffles. It feels like you need to drink a gallon of water afterwards and it doesn't let you enjoy the flavours in the filling | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 09:44 PM |
| 9 | What about the single RP women?At therulesrevisited.com you have plenty of help according to your age bracket. He puts it quite simply, the female game at any age consists of three things: Looking your best (anything below a 6 is just you being lazy) Being approachable (smile a lot, he has some more tips there) Screen the guys who are worth it for an LTR and those who just want a one night stand This page is my favorite: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html But if you're a singl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What can one do to improve personality?I don't think it's much good to struggle against your type so just make the best of it. Overall we should strive for a feminine demeanor, nice and pleasant, which would fit into any profile | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.Nah, sugar and coconut are too light :) Maybe chocolate sprinkles, cocoa powder and cinnamon sugar? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.The good part about this one is that you can fix anything you don't like in store bought truffles like the filling (you choose what to out in) or, to me personally, the coating. Most of the time it feels kinda dusty in your mouth, I'd rather use normal sugar, coconut or chocolate sprinkles | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.Holiday secret: http://i.imgur.com/ByAi214.jpg Scroll to #5 to see a simple recipe for truffles you can customize to your taste. If you want to roll them in colorful sugar to serve them check this out: http://www.sweetsugarbelle.com/2012/01/make-your-own-sanding-sugar/ These are pretty cool cocktails to serve to kids or designated drivers: http://www.buzzfeed.com/ailbhemalone/no-booze-no-problem#2lvlo9d And also this beautiful idea I probably got from someone else here: every time there are a lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | A question about same sex relationshipsThe relationship between men and women have been extensively studied and there's plenty of scientific evidence on all the attraction factors and the like. Due to only recently same-sex relationships being an acceptable topic to discuss (unthinkable for example 15 years ago) there aren't many studies or research on all the stuff that goes on inside the brains of gay or bisexual people when they are attracted to someone | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/14 01:12 PM |
| 5 | How to overcome feelings of inadequacy?It s said often that men value actions more than words and to look at what he does instead of focusing on what he says. I think this also applies to gifts where men value the action of gifting more than the gift itself. I'd advise you to show your gratitude with actions too, doing good things for him, taking care of him (cook, clean, give backrubs), and even showing you gratitude in some more creative ways (wink wink). | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Question: How do you feel about "never say no?"I must try it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 10:23 AM |
| 13 | Question: How do you feel about "never say no?"The way I see this, it's just a correlary of the most important RPW ideal: choosing a good capitain. Choose a capitain so sexy you wouldn't dream of turning him down and that's it :) If I'm hurt, sore, sick or on "that week" we'll just do it some other way. And despite it being the oldest excuse in the book, sex is actually really good at curing headaches! I don't even remember the last time I had one so it may have preventive powers too | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/14 11:30 PM |
| 8 | Article on disdain for stay-at-home momsI'm going out on a limb and say no one who criticizes SAHM has ever had the luxury of experiencing it with their mom. No one who's been raised by a SAHM would say such a thing :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/14 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Ladies am I making something out of nothing?It's a mole hill. Focus on preparing the most awsomest Christmas ever :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/14 12:11 PM |
| 6 | What can one do to improve personality?try a personality report at 16personalities.com for a detailed overview of your inner working with friends, in romance, at work, etc. I recommend Camille's article "RPW 101" and anything tagged "girl game" at the redpillroom.com | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/14 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Happy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for?That is so cool :) I love it when we cook together too | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/14 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Happy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for?I'm going to out-cheese you on this one: I'm thankful for being with a man who understands me, who has all the great stuff I admire and who I love more than anything :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/14 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Feminine Beauty is Highly ControllableThis has to be my all time favorite "starred link" on my many folders. I've recommended it in comments time and time again and revisit it every time I decide my current SMV could use a boost. I'd advice you to focus on the "attention deserved" portion of the graphic and devote that much attention to each feature, which is easy to forget. I often worry about what color to do my nails when I should be working out ;p Another good thing to try are his appearance checklists which are very easy to fol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/14 09:52 PM |
| 3 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Could he be feeling slugginsh due to your recent changes and stress? I don't know much about this kind of stuff but I'll shoot some ideas: Change diet to something more healthy and libido boosting Do physical stuff together even if it's just walking around the block Don't pressure him about it Be supportive of his feelings, he sounds like he's "a bit down" from the usual self. Let him initiate. I'm not sure whether this can actually work but say/wear inviting stuff around the house Cuddle. It ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/14 10:42 PM |
| 2 | request for literature on traditional relationships, without the RP or christian jargonalan pease makes some great psycology books with his wife analizing all the attractive factors in men and women as well as the brainy stuff behind it. My favorites are "why women want love and men want sex" and "why men dont listen and women cant read maps" | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/14 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Long Distance RelationshipsThanks for lifting my spirits! I think it's still too much :) He's leaving again for january but I'm so glad you keep writing these little tips to help me along! In fact I love all your posts and seeing "by Camille" in the upper section always spikes my curiosity. Thanks for writting up so much great stuff! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/14 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Long Distance RelationshipsThank you so much for these tips! My LDR is almost over now, just one month to go before it turns back into a regular LTR! It's always nice to have a refresher on this sort of thing :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/14 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do men say they don't like make up on women?No, the pic your provided is subtle enough. You can definitely see it, as can I but most men who are uneducated about makeup will have trouble spotting that kind of makeup without the side by side before-amd-after | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/14 04:18 PM |
| 23 | Why do men say they don't like make up on women?I've heard of studies confirm that men prefer women who are wearing makeup subtle enough for them to not notice it. The way I see it, they prefer a makeup enhanced look as long as it's discreet enough for them not to be able to tell there is any makeup. I've recently started taking notice at the different makeup looks at magazine covers. Women's magazines feature red lips and bold lashes. The naked girls in men's magazines have brown-based looks, with a matte brown smokey eye being the boldest I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Helping my SO maintain frameAsk why, a lot. Help her understand where this feeling comes from. It may be something other girls said or did or something internal if she doesn't think x is good enough. Try to dissect this so she understands what the actual problem is. And then why is it a problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Helping my SO maintain frameIf she doesn't want to setlle for second best that is awsome! Help her improve even more with any way you can think of. You can help set goals and make sure she is on the right track and such | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/14 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Helping my SO maintain frameAs a woman in a LDR,my experience is that people are "against it". I'm often teased about it and even openly made fun of, because suposedly my SO is having fun cheating on me. I've taken notice on how these comments never come from people who are happy with themselves and their relationships. Those that are happy are usually supportive towards me and my BF. I'm usually thick skinned but I'm aware how much that sort of disrespect can hurt, especially when you're not near to help her out. other th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/14 12:22 PM |
| 2 | I just found my favourite book from when I was little, it has some RPW wisdom on boys and gorgeous sections on domestic and feminine things!I love this! I have a similar book (the book for audacious girls) covered in blue glitter that's a bit of a modern version of this. It tells stories of ancient queens and faraway cultures, teaches cursive and some crafts as well as children's games and other assorted girly stuff like how to dry flowers or make a girl club | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/14 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else here hate Sex and the City?Actually I love watching it as a sort of guilty pleasure. I curl up on my sofa when it's cold or I'm feeling sick and just laugh my butt off | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | New plate requests that I physically harm and abuse her, this is a little extreme for me, what would you do?Recomend therapy and run! There's just too much that could go wrong | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Help with severe PMS...I just wanted to second the efficacy of Valerian pills. I take them before big exams or when my skin is acting up to calm me from the inside out | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/14 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Improving your looks - What Not To Wear DVDThank you :) I wish I could sew to make my own clothes, especially wrap tops, they're always hard to find and for some reason, expensive. Is this the website? http://www.thesmallthingsblog.com/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/14 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Life through the eyes of a 10This was pretty entertaining but next time try suggesting points for discussion and giving your two cents about it too so there's a starting point for an interesting debate | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 12:13 PM |
| 8 | Hi there! Just a few questions from a new girl.This isn't the best place for your questions. Check out r/mensrights and similar subs for the answers you want | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 08:06 PM |
| 3 | It's non romantic, but I think a girl is trying to compete with me. How would you gracefully handle this?You already got some neat advice on how to conduct yourself so I'll help out in the other front! do you have a Kindle device? If you don't, install the program on your computer offered on amazon.com (like a free kindle but in your computer) so you can download ebooks. There are literally dozens of FREE books about networking, resume making, interviewing and the like. I've been reading a bunch and applying the tips with great results. Just pick the subject on amazon's sidebar and sort the books b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/14 03:43 PM |
| 1 | It's non romantic, but I think a girl is trying to compete with me. How would you gracefully handle this?I like this. Obliterating "enemies" through politeness is quite awsome, especially the look on their faces when there is nothing they can do but to do whatever you asked :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/14 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Hatin' on the housewivesA song comes to mind whenever this subject comes up: "I'm so good at talking about other people's lives/ There's always some advice to give for other people's lives" | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/14 03:32 PM |
| 1 | To all the race based posts that have been popping upI just don't know why place so much enphasis on a woman's race instead of other (controllable and useful) qualities | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:15 PM |
| 1 | To all the race based posts that have been popping upAs a white girl it seriously baffles me. I try my best to be a good woman and whatnot but all around me every girl so attention-seeking, and entitled and most of all, sooo noisy! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:15 PM |
| 10 | To all the race based posts that have been popping upI don't get what's so special about white women | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 02:35 PM |
| 11 | FR: She has LTR who cheated, I meet immovable LMRIt looks like she just gets off on all the attention you give her (orbit?). She's not leaving the bf and she's not giving you any. Draw your own conclusions | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Winter is comingIf I'd have to guess i'd say it has to do with how much of your shape is showing. If you're wearing a thick coat, a bow looks cute because it looks more feminine, if you're wearing a light summer dress your feminine shape is already obvious so if you pile a lot more stuff (ruffles, bows, etc) it can be too much look for one lady. I think that's the reason why "shapeless" clothes like straight-cut dresses work well in the summer but straight cut sweaters need something else to look good like a be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/14 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find women that are Red Pill Man worthy?Of course this isn't without it's drawbacks, it's still incredibly hard to find a girl with potential | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Where do you find women that are Red Pill Man worthy?This is a very recurring question and it has no easy answer, there are good and bad women everywhere. The way I see it, there aren't any good women lying around, they're married or commited so your best bet would be to find a girl with some potential and help "raise her" into a good woman for yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"That sounds a lot lovelier, like something you could put in a card :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/14 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"Interesting :) I heard somewhere on the blogosphere that women have great power over men but we should use it for good instead of evil. Women who use their powers over men for good have a well cared for, rested husband who usually does really well at work and has a nice family and a happy life. A woman who uses her powers over men for evil easily ruins that man's life as in being a mistress or turning her boyfriend into a whipped man. I found the new perspective interesting as we do have the pow… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/14 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"It looks like you already understood what I'm trying to say | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/14 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Winter is comingSki socks and tall leather boots (as in horseriding kind) to keep feet and calves warm Tights or long johns if it's ultra cold under tight pants Multiple layers in the torso like cotton camis or even thin thermal t-shirts under my regular clothes Lots of knitted wear, the air near you is a great insulator Double gloves and double scarves almost needed to be a thing last year Belted puffer coats are a thing and some look pretty cute too I do extra makeup and manis in the winter to keep up the gir… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/14 12:08 AM |
| 5 | What is RPW's opinion on body mods/short/alternative hair if your Captain approves?Everyone has different tastes and encouraging girls who are looking for a man not to get tatoos or piercings is so they'll remain attractive to a larger number of men, to increase their chances of finding a good one. In your situation the only man's tastes who matter are your husband's. Having a good attitude is the most important thing. And if you feel you look a bit masculine, you can add more feminine elements to your look that are in line with your tastes like shoes and hair accessories | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"No, I don't take my man's decisions for him, I help implement the decisions he already took | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"You're misunderstanding or I'm not explaining my idea well. By guiding I don't mean in a shepard-y way, I mean more in a supportive way in helping achieve his (our?) goals, helping him stay on the path he chooses and complementing his self discipline. Example: it would be much harder to learn a new language if your girlfriend keeps distracting you when it's study time. On the other hand, if she is supportive and makes you a nice snack for after study, you'll study more often than if you were by … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"That could also be a nice analogy | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Lesson learned, never discuss RP Theory and manhood in a place filled with women and beta men.Do not bring up these sorts of topics in public or make your opinion on them known, seriously. It can only bite you in the butt. In a situation like that, just walk away from the conversation or excuse yourself, no need to talk about it or try to "convert" someone else, it just doesn't work | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"I see it in a more helpful and supportive light like helping orient a man towards his goals for example going for a run together or cooking healthy meals if he wants to lose weight or leaving him alone while he's working on something important instead of distracting, and so on | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"Oh no, Not useless, but a woman's help can make a difference between a man getting what he wants and falling short of his goals by getting distracted | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Just heard: "The man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck"That was so insightful, thank you :) Let's all remind ourselves to guide our men into their goals and help instead of distract them | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. (X-post from TRP)imo it'll be super effective if you get to the root of what is making her jealous. I'll give you my personal experience on the topic: I used to be very jealous of grand displays of affection. My friend's boyfriends would give them jewelry and fancy dinners and talking about their respective weddings. Once this kind of thing happened in front of my boyfriend we had a talk and he made me realize I could only feel jealous of those PDAs if I felt something was lacking in our relationship. After that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/14 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. (X-post from TRP)Nice to hear from a fellow engineering student! My two cents on your questions: the fact that this guy did not reveal everything about himself doesnt mean he didnt care about her you show people you care about them with your actions, not by throwing money at them. Example: I don't treat my man to dinner, but give him backrubs, which is free and plenty fun filter out women who only want your wallet by being a "skittles guy". You don't need to spend money to have a good time together in my book it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. (X-post from TRP)This is an absolute trainwreck. Since when does marriage = access to each other's money? Since when is money the only benefit of marrying? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!Oh, sorry I didn't know. Feel free to remove the post if you'd like and I'll post again when I find content from a better source :p | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!It didn't seem so from what I read. Live and learn I guess | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!Feel free to help filtering by leaving the good ones linked in the comments. I'll be making a better post once I'm finished with work | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!Ouch, I never knew, thanks for the heads up! I guess I'll just post the good articles in a while once I've had time to filter them properly | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!So far the website seems like it has some pretty neat content. I'm all riled up aplying "25 ways to keep a good man" that is just a simplified list of all the things we like here such as supporting your man in his endeavors, be low maintenance/soft spot, initiate contact, and so on. On the other hand, not all the articles are good. But there's a lot that can be used :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Remember Susan Walsh? (Hooking up Smart) I just found her website!Maybe later when we've had time to filter the good articles from the bad ones. I've found a couple that are flat out inapropriate for RPW while others are lovely lists to live by | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 12:24 PM |
| 4 | This list made me a bit angry...'A "Divorced Man" Wrote These 20 Epic Marriage Advice He Wished He Could Have Had. A Must Read.'That was just stupid. How can someone be the head of a household when they're not even allowed to be the head of their own lives? Being vulnerable and tender and so on is a woman's job, let the women do it | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What do women on here think of short guys?Being short doesn't matter at all, only your global SMV does. My bf is 5ft2 and I'm 5ft tall so he's just the perfect height for me: tall enough to get his arm around my shoulder when we walk but not too tall so my face isnt in his belly when we hug :) Height is only one small part of your SMV, and not worth geting hung up on, it's probably the only one you can't change. Also, most of the short hate comes from the shorter men themselves, frustrated with what they cannot change. You'll also notic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/14 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Girls, I think I done fucked up.You can do this if you want to, but it will take an enourmous amount of work. One thing I did that may help (but it's fairly painful) is to take some paper and go point out everything you think is wrong with you from head to toes. You can then take the list and work on "fixing" one item on the list at a time. Some quick fixes to get you started on your progress: Go to calm.com and try a couple of sessions, you need to be calm before moving on Watch some videos on youtube and try some girly makeu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/14 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Protecting your little girls from sluttinessDo stuff with her and be a good example, take her out often to remain present in her life, anything from going to the park to going sightseeing in her own town | /r/RedPillParenting | 24/10/14 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Applying TRP to women who are realistically out of your league or just unattainable for you. How?Raise your SMV enough and any girl is on your league | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 06:49 AM |
| 1 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveI like how a bunch of the opposites in paranthesis are characteristics plenty desirable in women (soft, caring, attentive, friendly, etc) supporting the idea of men and women being desirable to each other when they are complementary, ie.: no woman will be attracted to a man with ladylike characteristics :) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 06:43 AM |
| 2 | The Military and RPWThanks for the "change back" reminder. I'm in a LDR right now and I must not forget to give back control when he comes back, even though I'm doing everything on my own now :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/14 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Are there any secret methods to conceal a double chin?Ask your doctor before doing anything, but there are videos out there of neck massages to help drain the fluid to other parts of your body (namely out) and cold/ice always helps reduce swelling. I'm not sure you can do this while recovering from surgery. Drinking tons of water could possibly help drain it out? Scarves are always a nice option, especially those fluffy ones that make you look tiny in comparison. Also, there are makeup tricks out there to make any area look leaner, but I'm not sure… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/14 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you ladies ever try to ease your girlfriends into RPW behaviour?If it's any consolation you are not alone. I know that feeling and many other people here do too. But there's not much you can do except expressing your concern and offering to help, while not expecting it do to much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/14 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Graph in /r/dataisbeautiful shows that % of women in computer science continues to decrease. Everyone blames the "patriarchy" for keeping women out instead of crediting women for their own decisions, despite exclusive access to assistance.My engineering school recently got a new director who mentioned some neat statistics in his start-out speech, namely that now nearly half of students are female. However, of these female students, half of them are in non-engineering courses available in the school, namely nutrition and communication networks. I was pleasantly surprised with the candor used when explaining these statistics: Girls tend to go to majors they'll "naturally" be better at. This means stuff like communication, education… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you ladies ever try to ease your girlfriends into RPW behaviour?If she's not seeing the problem you can't help fix it. As with everything else we wish to improve upon, the first stepis recognizing there is a problem. I'll give you some personal examples: I was a little overweight but didn't see it. Only when my doctor didn't use the usual "ideal range" but instead "meh, within normal" to describe my weight i saw that I had done a poor job at keeping my body well cared for and changed my ways I thought having a relatively hot body would help my dating pursuit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/14 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you ladies ever try to ease your girlfriends into RPW behaviour?You can't change anyone unless they want to change themselves so next time she whines you can ask "do you want to know what i think you should do?" and then if she wants to listen attentively, explain some stuff you think isn't working and why, and propose an alternative. Example: "You want a relationship right? But looking for it in a club isn't very productive. Look at the kind of men that are in most clubs, and most women. Do you think they go in there looking for a nice girl to take home for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/14 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Fit Friday.Sounds neat :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/14 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Fit Friday.I can't wait for fat friday, i'll share all my cakes and breads :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/14 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Fit Friday.I never even heard of it. Can you taste the mayo? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/14 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Fit Friday.1: How did you get moving this week? I walked quite a bit, since I was constantly late to school, missed my parking spot and needed to park in the next zipcode (not exagerating, about a mile away) and walk back. I also did some pushups here and there 2: What was your go-to healthy food item or meal? Bananas. They're usually the least awful looking fruit in the cafeteria and it's easy to carry in my pockets so bananas for breakfast, snacks, lunch and afternoon snacks. I went a bit crazy over them… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Fit Friday.I want your chocolate cake recipes, girls :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Meghan Trainor: Case study in how not to behaveThanks, i'll try it out | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/14 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Meghan Trainor: Case study in how not to behaveI'm kinda sad there are very few good role models for girls lately, especially in the music area. I feel like I can't listen to current music in my car because all the lyrics suck... Any ideas? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/14 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers: What do you object to in the Red Pill Women sub?thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/14 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers: What do you object to in the Red Pill Women sub?Hi, I was interested in reading those websites and bubhub and essential baby look like great resources for baby care but I can't find a CWA about homemaking-ish things. Could you specify or link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/14 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Having (gay) male friendsThe "couple" part is what jumped out at me. I find it quite ok, as you'd probably only join them in activities would could probably also do with a straight couple, eliminating the risky situations of having a male friend, like: spending time alone with a man seeking said man for emotional validation flirty games between you and the male friend etc To avoid most frowned upon scenarios just hang out with the couple (both), as well as adding more straight couples you could learn from, possibly arra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/14 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Self Respect and RPW are Not Mutually Exclusive! (rant)I actually found the title funny! RPW is what made me improve my self esteem and care better for myself in the first place and teaches women to respect themselves by choosing a worthy mate and working hard at every aspect of their lives from relationships to personal skills :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/14 06:51 AM |
| 1 | On "Manipulation" in TRP.I have no idea either, I hope OP replies soon | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How I Screwed Up Today: Fighting the me-centered mindsetSomeone once gave me this tip and I have used it more than once with great success: whenever you feel like wahwahwah and thinking bad, insecure thoughts, take a nap, even if it's just lying in bed for 5 minutes, but try to actually fall asleep. Imagine each bone in your body being turned into a fluffy cloud until all of you is just a fluffy cloud (other people like cotton candy or even honey or some other mushy stuff, try for yourself). You'll wake up from your rest a lot better and the first th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/14 06:24 AM |
| 2 | [x-post] from /r/thegirlsurvivalguide Claiming this article is vile. After taking TRP, I could say most of these sound like valid questionable behaviors that anyone in a relationship should be concerned about.I'm probably very biased as I still live with my parents. Since they are putting a roof over my head and food in my belly, what they say goes, even things my man would disapprove of. Also, the example in the link, school and such news are shared with parents first as they are paying for it. That said, my feelings on this will probably change once I move out but for now, even when I don't like it myself, their word goes, out of respect for what they are doing for me (I barely bring any money home… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | [x-post] from /r/thegirlsurvivalguide Claiming this article is vile. After taking TRP, I could say most of these sound like valid questionable behaviors that anyone in a relationship should be concerned about.Like with everything else, balance is key :) But I'll keep that in mind for when it's my turn: looks like it's very easy to over estimate how much time your kids need to spend with you and under estimate the attention you should devote to your man | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [x-post] from /r/thegirlsurvivalguide Claiming this article is vile. After taking TRP, I could say most of these sound like valid questionable behaviors that anyone in a relationship should be concerned about.Your kids need quality time too. I agree that letting the spouse take a back seat just so you can spend more time with the kids is wrong but I'm kind of torn on this one, everyone in your close family needs some quality time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 08:08 PM |
| 2 | [x-post] from /r/thegirlsurvivalguide Claiming this article is vile. After taking TRP, I could say most of these sound like valid questionable behaviors that anyone in a relationship should be concerned about.The only things I'd be on the fence about is 9 and 10: your spouse takes priority over your parents or kids. I'm guessing it would depend on the situation but your parents and your kids are so incredibly important in your life they share the number one spot at the top in a blurry top 3 kind of deal, no? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol and girls in the 18 to 20 year old age range.If you go to a bar and they buy the alcohol themselves you're not at fault :) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Looking for anecdotes and tips for first time housewives.Wow, thanks for the background/context :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | A stupid question.I'm keeping this in my "cheer up" files, along with some silly kitten pictures :) It reminds me of one time when my bf made a gun with his hands at me and I was just preplexed, what is this, what's he doing? He farted and pretended to shoot me. i know it's silly but I acted like I'd been shot and fell off the sofa. We both laughed until our sides hurt. Thanks for the reminder :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/14 11:35 AM |
| 2 | What is the standard for a successful women?To be fair, being a successful man isn't as black-and-white as you put it. But on to your question. To me being a successful woman is more about being happy with your choices than something others can dictate for you. It's a matter of choosing your goals, pursuing them and attaining them that brands you as successful. In my case that would mean finding a good balance between work life and home life. Of course that has to mean sacrificing some things on both sides. The ultimate luxury/success is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | He's driving me nuts, I'm probably driving him nuts. Halp!Has he ever been healthy? (food/exercise/weight) Your feelings are understandable but your attitude right now isn't one that will get you progress (nagging or forgoing exercise, etc). Instead take some time to meditate on how he sees this issue, it may be very different from yours. I don't know you or him but at the top of my head: Could he be seeing this as you trying to change him? Could he be seeing this as you not liking him anymore and trying to do better? (in fitness and husband?) Could he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/14 03:29 PM |
| 3 | A New Perspective on Maintaining BoundariesOh my Camille, this is incredible! As an engineering student with a boyfriend abroad you bet I've been in those shoes! Would he be saying this to me if bf was here? It's the best quick test of nice-or-too flirty ever! Thank you :) I never had troubles with this while he was in town, especially since all the guys knew him and we hung out together as a big group with lots of other girls too. But now that he's away, sometimes I feel like I'm getting inappropriate comments, but I'm never sure. Thank… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/14 08:03 PM |
| 7 | WE HIT 7500 SUBSCRIBERS!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come Out and Say HI!Hello! Congrats on what sounds like a lovely family! Just a little hint to tell you your emotions and anxiety should take priority over the other "feminine stuff". Your attitude with your home and family shapes your husband and kids, their moods and how their day goes. This can help you out next time you think you will get heated up: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2gceiq/rpw_101_cultivating_a_feminine_frame_of_mind/ So neat of you to learn all this new stuff (I wish I could plant … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Helping a Friend attain a "wife" personaThere is no helping someone who doesn't think they need it. As it's so often said in movies and such, the first step is admitting you have a problem. Until she sees the problem and asks you for help all you can do is watch from the sidelines. In your place (I've been there) I'd take a step back and hangout with her a lot less until she sees the problem or asks you what's wrong. You can then tell her you don't want to hang out because X. If it helps, I can tell my story. One of my friends was ver… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Sunday Secrets made me sad todayBeware, the other people think they understand the movie just fine and you can take your stupid subtitles and can them :) Seriously though, unsolicited RP advice is probably the worst thing you can say to a "normie" | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/14 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Sunday Secrets made me sad todayI'd be more concerned if I was married to a man who didn't think I was hot. That said, you better get used to that feeling, you're going to see a lot of clueless people hurting themselves and there isn't much you can do. It's almost like watching a foreign movie with subtitles for the first time if you've already seen it. It's touch and go, guessing what the characters are talking about but getting a fairly good grip on the whole movie. Then suddenly the subtitles change everything! "So that's w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/14 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Wife Game Failby the time I've finished working my butt off all day you can barely tell I've done a thing. I definitely have it stuck in my mind that the WHOLE house has to be spotless at once or I haven't done my job at all. Of course a clean home is important so it can be a nice "soft landing spot" for you and your man. But I think a cheerful wife is more important to the whole deal so, prioritize. It's always hard to lower your standarts in any situation but when you're tired and there's still stuff to do … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/14 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Wife Game FailAll I got is my quick tips to make the most of a really short time at home: Take some time to streamline your bathroom time. I've whittled it down to 20 min in the morning and 30 at night. In the morning I brush my teeth, put on BB cream and lipstick, sometimes liner or mascara if I'm running early. At night it's just quick shower and lotion on the body. This routine keeps me looking fine, but not fancy A good hack for hair in busy times is just to wear a ballerina bun (tight) in the morining. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/14 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Feminazis made consent panties and boxers ... I'm done.It looks like those are closer to what they were trying to achieve IMO: a flirty way to get conversation about sex flowing, not some "I may later cry rape" red flag in your panties | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/14 06:32 AM |
| 20 | Feminazis made consent panties and boxers ... I'm done.The "Ask me what I like" ones are pretty cute. It's the only pair I think meets what they wanted to do and what they're actually doing. It looks playful and conductive to the people involved starting to talk about their likes/dislikes in bed in a playful/pressure free way. The rest of the messages are just odd, you only see them when the girl is already half naked... | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Can you help me be a RPW from a distance?I'm sure your friends will be understanding :) Save the good news for your man so you can always answer the phone with a smile :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Can you help me be a RPW from a distance?The "soft place to land" concept is used around here to mean the environment you prepare for when your man comes home from work but since you can't, a soft chat would be the next best thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/14 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Packed lunches and other ways to look after your SOI go on /r/freeebooks and take my pick. There's usually tons of books about picnics and school lunches for children mostly. But just make the doses bigger and it's chock full of good ideas of stuff that won't spoil at room temperature so you can keep lunches varied and fun! Edit: if you won't be eating together a love note or funny cartoon make an extra special "I'm thinking of you" touch | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/14 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Can you help me be a RPW from a distance?Hi! I'm in a temporary LDR and this is what I've been doing: back off a little. My BF is away on a super fancy scholarship so it would be silly to waste the oportunity to talk to the best people in his field. Also, workload is far bigger than at home and he has now all the housestuff to do like laundry and cooking Keep my skype online on my phone all the time, but not talk. He'll call when he's free and I have a more flexible schedule anyways Look for TONS of interesting stuff to do. I've joined… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend has lost faith in the idea of marriage, and while I'm deeply saddened, I can't say I blame him. Not sure how to react.Look into finding a legal solution for marriage that he can agree with. I don't know much about pre-nups but where I live there's this "marriage with separation" thing, where the assets dont belong to the couple, but each thing to only one person. In case of divorce, unless kids are involved, possessions are split according to whose is it, no woman-bias or anti-man-bias possible by any court | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/14 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Losing AttractionI don't remember where but I have read of a similar (on the physical part) problem that was fixed by a visit to the doctor, I can't remember what was wrong with the woman reporting the same tearing and pain as you. Get yourself to a doctor as this could come from a number of easy to fix problems incluing changing your birth control, diet or you could even have a small harmless infection or a swelling in a nearby area that's causing all this (like something in your kidneys or intestine) Until the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 06:54 PM |
| 4 | [ALERT] Do not respond to PMs "researching" RPW or asking questions until you fully vet them.You know you have too much time on your hands when you're set on writing a book about something you disagree with on reddit :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Modern Mrs. Darcy: book recomendations and raising a family in the 21st centuryCompletely accidental. I figured the mods had done it :p | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 07:18 AM |
| 3 | [RPW 101] Cultivating A Feminine Frame of MindReceptive, Yielding, Suportive, Pleasant, Empathetic and Poised. The acronym makes it easier to remember all and check one by one until I'm sure I'm acting the best way I can | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 08:19 PM |
| 2 | [RPW 101] Cultivating A Feminine Frame of MindI've already recomended it to another user. The acronym is an easy way to take a break from a troubling situation and check if you're acting in the best way :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 3 | I Can't Stand How Entitled Feminists Are...Maybe a little prespective can help you out. Where I'm from, anger to housewives comes mainly from what you say: it's a luxury. I know about roughly 3 women who are stay-at-home moms. Only the wives of very rich husbands get to stay home, and even then they will usually hire nannies, which only inflates the anger of regular people, who are too tired to do fun stuff with their kids when the weekend comes around, who come home at 9pm after work and so on. Nearly every woman of working age I know h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How do RPW respond to cat-calling/"street harassment"?A nice/clean compliment deserves an honest thank you and then go on your merry way. If they are sexually lewd comments and obviously rude, just ignore it and pretend you didn't hear anything | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Help me RPWAre your panic attacks related to you not trusting your man? If they aren't you can try what I did. I sometimes get anxious if I'm not in control of things but I trust my BF fully. I just go up to him and say something like: "Situation x is making me a bit anxious, can we cuddle a little?" and no matter where we are I get a tight hug and a little hair scratch until I can calm down. If your panic is related to having trouble trusting him what I do is try to have him tell me his plan so I know wha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 11:12 AM |
| 5 | [RPW 101] Cultivating A Feminine Frame of MindThis has been a lovely read! I can't wait to see what else is coming! This has been extremely thorough and the specific points help recognize when I'm in the wrong and correct it quickly from now on. Every time an interaction seems to be taking a bad turn I can stop and think to myself: Wait, what am I doing wrong, let's check RYSPEP. Am I being receptive? And so on :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakeNext thing you know she has PTSD from the awful trauma of not going to the lake and it's all over the news the poor thing is trapped in an abusive relationship (eyeroll) | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Is asking for respect being a "feminist"?I find it would be best to be by yourself than with a man who is not a fit leader. So at the very least, she is best alone | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakeThanks for another/ different point of view, I didn't think of it that way. Still, does a woman with no control over herself like that deserve the kind of guy she wants him to be? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakeI don't think he did. Other uploaders of this video say he got divorced. Still, though, this is annoying as fuck. Even if it wasn't the most correct thing to do, the guy deserves kudos for remaining this calm. I don't think I could have. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakeSame. But she could fix herself up to look a lot better | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Is asking for respect being a "feminist"?Asking for respect is just flat out wrong, because if you need to ask, you alreday haven't got it or will get it (soon at least). That said, a guy with no consideration for you or your needs can never make a good capitain. Ditch him. I know this isn't a favorite phrase around here but "you can do better" | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/14 12:06 PM |
| 8 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakelol @ "attractive", poor girl | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Woman throws tantrum when husband doesn't take her to the lakeI had heard of women behaving like children before and recognized some stuff in my life too like pouting and other emotional manipulating but this was just too over the top for me to understand. I've seen babies with less tantrum-y tantrums! What concerns me most was near the end, when she suddenly regains composure and starts texting. I go from thinking she's just an awful overgrown spoiled brat who doesn't know better to "holy shitsnacks, she did this on purpose with full control and awareness… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Cleaning questions: any feedback on these methods to tackle stubborn food smells?I don't know much about this subject besides what you already listed. Try goodhousekeeping.com or realsimple.com for more tips | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/14 06:15 PM |
| 1 | About to start college as a transfer. I feel my SMV needs my full attention right now, but I also don't want to pass up the opportunity to build rapport with girls. Any advice?/r/skincareaddiction: its mostly full of girls but it's all solid advice with studies and such backing it up. Often will contradict "common sense" but it works Consider reading the 4-hour body for all the tips and tricks that will make you look your best. I'd concentrate more on making friends and being a social guy for now, girls can come or not, I wouldn't worry about it. But being social with both guys and girls, being seen as a friendly guy, it's priceless | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Stingray: "My Choice"Blergh. This isn't the team Woman train (wreck), it's team "Let's hate on everyone that looks even remotely content with themselves" train express, next stop "Let's insult cis-scum on the internet cause we sure aint got the guts to do it in real life" | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Stingray: "My Choice"I just can't understand this deep seated anger towards housewives. Don't like it? Don't be one, so easy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42We want everything and we want it now! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 03:32 PM |
| 15 | Saw this on /r/aww - Girlfriend decides she wants a cat when she knows her boyfriend is allergic to them. Ends up with two "as a compromise".That would be so rotten yet unsurprising | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Good sugar cookie?Sure: it's the crust from a chocolate pie: (metric) 115g sugar, 125g butter/margarine, 2 yolks, either lemon zest ir vanilla extract and mix it all together. Then add 250g flour and mix again. Let it rest for 10 minutes before rolling and doing whatever shapes you like. It should feel like weak/cheap playdough (more fluid and breaks if it's under 1mm thick) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 09:25 AM |
| 5 | I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42I think this is even more prevalent with younger people. At the first sign of trouble, they bail, especially girls | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Good sugar cookie?When I need something that holds shape well I use a recipe from a sweet pie crust. It's sweet and tasty and the dough doesn'r grown much or deform in the oven. I can give you my favorite if you want to | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 09:15 AM |
| 19 | Saw this on /r/aww - Girlfriend decides she wants a cat when she knows her boyfriend is allergic to them. Ends up with two "as a compromise".She doesn't respect him in any way, not even caring about his health. This is either over when he'd fed up with her further shitty behaviour (someone who doesn't care for his health will do worse in no time) or when she cheats on him with someone she actually respects | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 08:59 AM |
| 7 | New to redpill and love it. I could really use some [URGENT] advice about this situation I am in right now.No. Skipping class for ANY girl is quite dumb (you first, you second, you thrid, so on, women are like seventh or something). Also the giant-ass text... It's like you're begging for her approval, it should be the other way around! Just show her a good time when you're together, if it's fun, she will forget all about the awfulness her friends mentioned I don't know where I last read this but it went something like this: RP is more pro-woman than any feminist website, we trust women to be intellig… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Being pleasant/ improving your personalityRecognizing a flaw is the first step to make it better :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/14 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Being pleasant/ improving your personalityI remember this and it's super funny every time! Especially the bit with the fat overeducated wymyn (it's hard to believe they're under 25). That said, the standart of keeping the conversation that will be most pleasant to your company is pretty good advice :) And also, I much prefer talking about kittens than the gold standart! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/14 08:24 PM |
| 8 | I wish I had never met the red pill.This is unpleasant but it wears off. Do you really think someone who doesn't understand why women don't like him is happier? Isn't it better to know why and to be able to improve and work on it? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/14 12:07 PM |
| 7 | Thinking I'm smarter than RP was one of my dumbest moves yet...Thanks for sharing your story. It speaks to me in a lot of different ways. Just like you I used to be the smart kid in school, getting a masters in engineering and generally being a controlling person. I've worked a lot on this and I find it very hard to relinquish control but I've noticed a lot of improvement. I have used a small trick that can maybe work for you too: Decide beforehand a couple things you cannot/won't give up control on. For me , I started with my schedule (time for my man woul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Woman's life is more important than a man's life (serious)(society)The thinking that women's lives need more protecting came from so early on it probably doesn't have a date. It would make sense for early humans to keep the women at home and let the men hunt and possibly die in tribal fights and such. Imagine a tribe with 50 men and 50 women that is at war with another: Nearly everyone goes to war. Fifteen men die and 25 women die (their bodies just make them worse warrior). For the next year, the tribe can only bear 25 children tops. Only the men go to war. 20… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 09:17 AM |
| 15 | 11 Reasons Why Men Leave Their marriagesIt's sad to see how low the bar is set for this kind of thing. It's basically don't cheat, trust your man, don't be a jerk to him: all those wives could have kept their man (not very happy but just enough) by following those 3 things | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/14 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Home Cooking And The Left’s Resentment of EffortThis just struck a big cord with me as I'm learning to cook partially because it's getting tougher to afford take-out/freezer meals. To me cooking is so much more than an expectation from my family or society! It's my labour of love, my creative outlet, something I keep striving to be better at (and to spend less in), it keeps pushing me to learn new things about new foods and try them, I could go on for days! And for all that's good and holy, how can you preach independence if you can't even fe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/14 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Interesting take on feminism whining about objectification of womenI learned of the existence of this show yesterday and so far I'm liking it. The guy seems very agry but he makes plenty good points on that particular video, as well as in others | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Small ebook showing the evolution of the concept of manhood in different cultures through timeYou are absolutely right. I personally think every part of society benefits from the creation of male clubs, be it the boy scouts or country clubs. Gatherings of men focused on improving a group and working for a higher purpose (that may be as simple as building a fire or hosting a golf tournament) build important relationships and skills, especially in younger men and allow for rites of passage and building of a common ideal of manhood. Boys and girls alike suffer today from the lack of such pl… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Small ebook showing the evolution of the concept of manhood in different cultures through timeI'm not sure of what flair to use, ideas? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I am sure this has been posted here before but...Try to make it as extremely easy as you can for him. One example if my bf used to hate making the bed and often didnt make it. Since he moved, he got one of those only-pillow-and-duvet sets and he only needs to pull the duvet up when he wakes. Super easy, now it's always made! Suggestions for making thing extra easy for him: trashcans in every room. It makes it easier to not just keep trash around out of laziness. I did this for my bedroom/office because I kept a lot of paper there and I didnt w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I lead my man into making a few changes?The best way not to sound like that is to stop saying those things. You're sounding like those people saying "I'm no racist but" and then follow with something incredibly racist. This is not how we do things around here. You don't lead nothing, you're the wife. Your man leads, he's the husband. The other users already gave pretty good advice so I don't want to just repeat it. Some ideas for you: Start a gratitude journal. Pick up a notebook or something and before bed write stuff you're grateful… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Haters gonna hate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Thanks for your answer. Aparently there isn't an actual BP theory, just RP and anti-RP, as far as I can tell. From the looks of it, I suggest you read more into MGTOW as it may be of very good use to you without stepping on how to treat women (which seems to be the toes of a lot of people). It's pretty good stuff even anti-RP people can't disagree with :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 01:49 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?This is the answer I was looking for, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 11:06 AM |
| 0 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I do think being submissive is the best a woman can do for her relationship. And every reader I've met has taken steps and improved themselves, not just relationship wise but also in ways even anti-rp people can't deny it's improving. One thing that's especially prevalent (and I hope to get there too) is eating very healthy. I know this has nothing to do with anti-feminism but in my experience users who join start making small changes in their lives, then bigger and better ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 11:26 PM |
| 6 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?You don't sound like a very happy person. And your comment does nothing to answer my questions or contribute to debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 11:14 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?anti-feminism is more about the attitude and not the looks. While presenting yourself is always helpful, anti-feminism is more focused on letting the man of the couple be the leader, submit to him, make his life better in anyway you can, be the best wife/girlfriend you can, etc If it sounds obvious then it's because it is. This is what RPW helps subscribers do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I like your answer, pretty enlightening. Unlike TRP, there is a range of bluepill opinion. I'd like to add that as far as I've seen there is also a massive range of opinions inside both TRP and RPW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Feminist rape-culturists against new roofie detecting nail polishHi, if you're worried about your safety in a personal defence situation, amazon.com has free ebooks on the matter that can teach you the right moves to be safe and all the ordinary things you can use as weapons. Statistically speaking, you're more likely to get hurt with your own knife in a self defence scenario. These books taught me a lot of awsome tricks. My favorite one isn't available for free anymore but this one is: http://www.amazon.com/How-Protect-Yourself-Dangers-Precautions-ebook/dp/B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 09:46 PM |
| 5 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Wow, that's a pretty bleak view of the whole ordeal. This is going to sound counter productive but I think it's in the best interest of all girls to look into r/redpillwomen to learn how to choose the best possible man for themselves and then keeping him. I may be biased because the tips there have been great for me but most were just common sense: dress well, groom yourself, be nice and pleasant, look out for players who won't want to build a family with you. But this doesn't really answer my q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 09:00 PM |
| 8 | Mutual friend is also beta orbiter. Just got a bit awkward.It sounds like a good battle plan but I would take any chance to tell him you're not interested without sounding rude or conceited | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Sadly no. It was the unqualified women in the workplace. If you hadn't said unqualified I would have probably sent you a long winded report on why all that stuff you said was wrong :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I was actually writing up a thoughtful answer, explaining where you were wrong and halfway through realized no one could possibly be this dumb. But you had me well fooled! Attention: some people out there actually sound like this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 08:11 PM |
| 7 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?That's not very helpful arguing. But thanks for letting me know it's just a parody sub, I was being too serious about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 04:13 PM |
| 12 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?So you're telling me the whole point of the sub is to make fun of people you don't agree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 04:00 PM |
| 3 | I found this through randomSorry, I meant complementary. I never realized they were different words, TIL | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/14 05:35 PM |
| 3 | I found this through randomI'm glad you like it, I think it's a bit childish/silly but it really paints a picture for when people can't understand the capitain/first m. dynamic. Most people out of the loop think the first m. is inferior and don't see the complimentary-ity in it. Also everyone loves grilled cheese | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/14 02:05 PM |
| 12 | I found this through randomEqual wasn't a good choice of words. Try complimentary, it's my favorite! We're both in charge of different things and it's the whole reason why it works so well: man and woman as one single team instead of opposing teams. (we're not very good as opposing teams, especially team wymyn) Example: a grilled cheese sandwich. Bread or cheese alone aren't very awsome but together are super. But there's no saying the cheese or bread are more important, without either, the sandwich doesn't work. But sepa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/14 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm married, but I still worry about my looks all the time. Why?!/r/skincareaddiction Also, turning back time is pretty much impossible, the only thing you can do is stop the most damage you can so you'll look 25 for a longer time | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Long DistanceOh man that just hit me right in the feels. We're usually together daily for lunch and such and we text a lot but now he's studying abroad. We've agreed on a weekly phonecall on saturday afternoon and since we both have internet in college, internet texting (free) whenever we feel like it | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/14 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Okay, its not easy for a cat to take a pill!! ;) At any rate, my question, is it too late?It's never too late to improve yourself and your chances (so to speak). It won't be easy and your age will be quite the obstacle to finding a new man but I do believe there is a lot you can do to make yourself more desireable and raise your SMV. If it makes you feel any better, your BFB would probably dump you at the first obstacle he'd find. Better sooner than later I don't know much about the subject so I'll just stay in tune for what the other girls have to say (curious) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/14 09:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm married, but I still worry about my looks all the time. Why?!Have you considered factors other than your face? If your skin is good, these guesses that hurt your feelings can come from other places entirely like speech patterns, voice, posture, clothes and such. Not to rile you up, but I'm 21 and depending on what I'm wearing I've been guessed as low as 12 (mostly because I'm 5ft tall). And last year a kid in my school sucessfully spreaded the rumor I was actually 30. I was appalled! The guys didn't think much of it, but nearly all girls in that group cam… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/14 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Has red pill school been doxxed??? [XPOST]How very unpleasant. No wonder they're single | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 06:42 PM |
| 2 | What do you prepare you SO for lunch at work?You can make salty ones for lunch, like fill them with ham, cheese and a little mustard | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 09:26 AM |
| 3 | I need to know how to surrender to a man without having panic attacks.Keep up the looks front, don't quit as you get older The person you are professionally isn't the person you are at home. In the same way your resume doesn't list you make a mean chicken, your "wife resume" doesnt include your professional acomplishments Being aware of what the problem is is half the battle You need to work on your wife-ly qualities: what would you say about you would make a good wife? And would a good wife have that you're lacking? Reading the sidebar and top ranked posts will h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 09:26 AM |
| 2 | What to except from a RP man in a LTR?You can read plenty examples at theredpillroom.com, and as far as I can tell it works because the important RP things are there: she is loyal and supportive, she doesn't try to be the head of the household, all the stuff you'd expect from a good wife. While all the things you mentioned are very important in some relationships, they don't matter in others, as long as everything's in place where it counts: he's the capitain, she's the first mate, the other stuff usually falls into place, no matter… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 09:21 AM |
| 3 | What do you prepare you SO for lunch at work?Omolet sandwich (doesnt wilt, keeps well in the shade) Puff pastry, with anything you like inside | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 09:15 AM |
| 2 | This might be a stupid question, but can we talk about self exams? (Off topic)My family doctor gave my mom an infographic looking thing to hang up in the bathroom with pictures of how you should do it, something like: https://www.maxicare.com.ph/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/self-breast-exam-OCT.jpg Unless they are very big or there is a lot of fatty tissue you can usually feel the breast gland burrowed in the breast tissue. It feels rougher/harder and hurts a little if you press too hard on it. Other than the gland, the tissue should be soft. After all, it's mostly fat | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Choosing for Happiness - Dating instructional videoTo me it was a matter of realizing it was happening and stopping myself gradually. Being aware is half the battle | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Has red pill school been doxxed??? [XPOST]It makes me feel really unconfortable when they say those things like a plight for attention. It's like they're making fun of people with an actual serious mental illness. It makes me want to shake them "If you really have x disease, get yourself to a therapist, not some website!" | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Has red pill school been doxxed??? [XPOST]Do people seriously say "I'm feeling so triggered right now"? Asking out of ignorance | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/14 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so wrong to be and do feminine things?People have a hard time seeing things outside their limited experience/understandment and to these feminists you're holding everyone back! A lot of the people here (myself included) will tell you they're just jealous of your happiness and how they'll never have it. But I don't think those girls even understand what's going on and aren't in tune with what they really want. To these people, after so many years fighting for equality you're undermining their effort by refusing aforementioned equalit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/14 10:52 AM |
| 7 | Recent "lite" convert.... pleasantly surprised by the positive progress. Thanks, Ladies!Congratulations on a bunch of things: curiosity to actually read the opposing argument instead of bashing blindly open mided-ness to actually try it out humbleness to admit you weren't doing things in the best way for your family will power to change your ways level-headedness to understand you're not inferior for taking care of your man. We're suposed to take good care of the people we love, right? I hope you keep improving yourself and your family with awsome results, let us know if you need a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/14 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Motivation/Self improvementCo-workers, clubs, parties, friends of friends? If you learn the contents well enough even a stranger on the street will do | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Motivation/Self improvementThat's not the point. These books explain each topic quite well so you can take notes, do exercises, etc. It would be terrible to just memorize a tome that big | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 12:49 PM |
| 5 | What does TRP think of those stories about a couple that have been together for decades in an exclusive relationship?Even if they don't know about RP terms they are applying them naturally. It's what people used to do before children were lied to in every front. You'll notice these are older couples, back from when people had no qualms in telling each other how things are supposed to be: just take care of each other and everything will be alright. You didn't see any of these people caring more about themselves than their lover. They just took the best care they could of the other person, supporting them and su… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Motivation/Self improvementYour relationship with drinking isn't healthy. Would you consider giving up alcohol altogether until everything else is fixed? You need to take good care of yourself right now. A tip I've heard for people in your situation is "imagine what you'd do if your child came to you with this problem" or "what would your mom tell you to do". Probably to lay off the sauce, have some chicken soup, get some sleep and do better the next day I'd say it would be good for you to get your social confidence up by… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Conflicted. Does anyone else have this problem?Your attitude and looks will be most important so there's no need to give up your personal taste as long as you act and look feminine. Your personal taste (music, food, etc) is part of who you are and it would be odd to try to change it. You didn't mention any hobbies but I would encourage you to pursue them or find new ones The guy friends, not so much. This isn't part of who you are, it's a thing you do. I wouldn't say ditch your friends all together but limit the hangouts with the guys (phase… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/14 11:01 AM |
| 3 | How to find a LTR in college?I'm jealous of your college life just hearing about it :) what nice date ideas! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/14 10:51 AM |
| 5 | How to find a LTR in college?If looking for or dating an older man makes you unconfortable in any way (it never sat well with me) you can do the next best thing: look for a guy somewhat your age or just a little older but that acts older than his age. So, age non.withstanding, look for a man who's over the whole clubbing scene and goes to fancier bars or go to school clubs' events for things you think would interest your ideal man. Even if you don't meet the man of your dreams there, you'll make friends with guys who have t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/14 10:50 AM |
| 1 | LTR 11 months Getting Fit RPerTry the Seven App. It coaches you through small workouts and you can share each acomplishment in the way you choose, like Facebook or Skype or anything, really. I use it and send my man a text through this app after every finished workout. It's not like he's pressure me or anything but the fact that I know he gets the messages (and saying how many days you got in a row) it would now be embarrassing to stop | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/14 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to help a friend at the crossroads?This friend of yours has reached out to you for help with this? You can't (as much as you try) help someone who doesn't want to be helped or simply doesn't see a problem. If she has seen the problem and wants your help you can invite her (and her man) over as often as you'd like to have some nice booze-free fun at your home. You can have pic-nics, dinner parties, even teach her how to make some tasty mocktails! And be honest with her any time she wants your opinion on something or asks for help | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/14 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Well ladies, I tried.. and failed.Channel that negative energy into doing good stuff for yourself, like that stuff you always wanted to try but never did or some reason. Sign up for dance lessons or french classes or anything you like. The key is that you choose something that makes you excited, improves you and lets you mingle with other people to help you make more friends and get over it sooner | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Health and Diets.Lots of water Do small workouts with the Seven App (7 min of workout) Diet-wise: the rule is it can't come from a package/factory If I need an extra boost for a wedding or something I'll cut out carbs and guzzle as much water as I can Skincare: daily sunscreen and cleansing, using products made for babies (nicer smell and gentler) Hand and foot cream at night, I keep the bottle on my nightstand but forget sometimes | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 09:46 AM |
| 4 | On The Lighter Side: Flirting and PlayfulnessWe have plenty flirtacious fun in private and semi-private (like just going along the street or a mall or something) or if we're going to a party together or anything like that However we keep it mum in the school/workplace because we both consider it innapropriate to be like that in front of teachers and class/workmates, it's just unconfortable and unprofessional. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Let's try this again! Cornell's massive collection of Home Economics texts.This! Any ideas on movies with good examples? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Is there a rpw equivalent book on the market yet?I've heard "The feeding and caring of husbands" thrown around but I haven't found it or read it yet | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I could really use your support. This one's a doozy.This is a bit like trying to read a painting: two people will see two different things and none fully match the intended message :) I thought that albeit there were more comments about finances, the tone seemed fairly neutral and she shook off the parents concern, whereas the only time she mentioned the leadership thing, her tone seemed more bothered to me. Also, you are absolutely right, no mention of the sex life was a red flag in my book too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I could really use your support. This one's a doozy.I also liked your answer a lot but I had nothing to add on that front, nor any good advice to add to yours. Maybe it was just my reading of it but it sounded like she cared more about feeling led than the money | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I could really use your support. This one's a doozy.Glad I could help. Update soon! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 10:13 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, I could really use your support. This one's a doozy.Sounds like you have no isse with supporting your husband but fell odd about being "the decider" in your family while he's working at his dream. But this is what a first mate is all about, you are the decider when the capitain is unavailable (working at something else), but it sounds like your unconfortable in this role without some guidance. Try thinking what would it take for you to feel properly led and see if it's possible. For example, would you like his input while making a budget? Would y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 09:16 AM |
| 2 | A Good Wife Versus a Bad WifeYou can look into redpillroom.com, the guy writting it has been married for 20 something years and often writes about it when giving girls tips on how to be good wives | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/14 09:10 AM |
| 4 | Thank you post: I'm gearing up for this challenge, bf studying abroadI'm not going to be able to physically go but I have plans to spoil him rotten by mailing al sorts of treats. I've also working on making a "compliment envelope", a small envelope with tiny cards saying thinks I like about him so he call pull out a card any time he wants to. Thanks for the motivation. It's good to know other people have made it though and we just need to work at it, like we always have. I know the polite thing to do is to ignore haters but I wish I had some nice comebacks for th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Reconciling RP behavior with preferences for being submissive in bed?Do you mean in a dom/sub kind of way or on a "I'll just sprawl on the bed and you do whatever you want to me honey" kind of way? Because they second one can be reframed as she needing to work hard for your approval and worked into various role-playing type games | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How not to be miserable after realizing that my SMV is not enough to get a high quality manWhat is it about yourself that you think needs improvement? We can probably help you get your best SMV possible, even if it isn't as high as you'd like | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on hose?Personal choice. I like bare legs but will wear nude/transparent (not shiny or tan) hose if wearing closed toe shoes (to prevent stinkiness) or in that odd in between late spring weather where it's hot enough for dresses but not quite for bare legs | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Happiness is not a destination, it is a way of life!I have framed on my nightstand in pretty letters something along the lines of "You need to be your most wonderful every day" | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 12:32 PM |
| 1 | More on What MEN Think of Short Hair on Women--DON'T DO IT!I think the point is to keep a feminine cut and that can be achieved with a shorter length, it's just harder. It needs to be long enough not to ever bemistaken for a guy, that's for sure | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 12:30 PM |
| 11 | More on What MEN Think of Short Hair on Women--DON'T DO IT!I keep hearing this from a small yet constant percentage of males and I believe I have found the reason. They like short hair when the woman beneath it is hot. So they like a woman so pretty that she can look awsome DESPITE her short hair, not BECAUSE of it. This is often different from what they say but it's what I've found. Average cuteness girls can't pull off short hair so the girls that look good with it need extra cute and very feminine facial features to balance it and THAT is what these … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 12:28 PM |
| 1 | scary question, what do you anticipate the future 2 generation of feminists will be like?I think the more reasonable anti-feminazi feminists will gain steam and the anti-feminists after that. It's a bit cyclical, like everything else in society. Extreme views gain steam for a while, then the opposit extremists and then the whole issue dies out, and again and again | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 12:16 PM |
| 4 | Why are girls that are raised with no father figure generally crazy?Young girls turn to their fathers to what's an example of a good man and without said example they aren't good at screening male partners and they'll have lower standarts. This in turn leads to all sorts of trouble that makes her "crazy". They also look up to their moms as the example of how a good woman should behave. With no father figure in place she won't know how to correctly interact with males since the few examples she saw of that likely sucked (movies or friends' relationships) | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 10:31 AM |
| 1 | One year on TRP, back to the basicswell you can be more shy or something that the "traditional alpha" but like every other thing you mentioned, the social front is a learned behaviour. You're not fit because you're born fit, it's because you worked at it. The social stuff is just the same: you can learn it, like exercise, practice it, do better some days worse on others until you start seeing results after a couple weeks I can recomend some books to help with that | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 11:25 PM |
| 3 | How can I present a good social status via facebook?IMO you communicate awsomer status when you tell people you don't have a page. It's like saying "I'm opting out of your childish games, I'm too busy being awsome" | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Traditionally married women with a few respectful questions about TRP.I think the most RP thing to do, for men or women is to take a good look at yourself and decide what life do you want to live. And then just go get it, no matter how hard it is. For some people, for some reason or the other, they want plenty of casual sex, others just want a quiet life away from all this drama and others are actively seeking a worthy partner to start a family. So, whatever the life you want is, if you're bettering yourself and pursuing your life goals, that's RP in my book | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/14 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Wedding Planning, RPW style?Whenever he hasn't got the time for it, just jot down the question you had and ask a bunch when he does have time. This way you can keep working on the stuff he has helped decide and is set (for example: you guys have decided about the flowers so you can start calling florists) and just postpone the stuff you haven't decided yet until you have time to decide together. An infographic could be helpful here because there's usually a list of the stuff you need to do so you can just use it as a guide… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/14 10:24 AM |
| 3 | 25 things to do before turning 25 - RPW editionLearn a craft and make something for your home with it (embroidery, crochet, knitting, flower arranging, whatever) Plant something and watch it grow (a bean is super easy and grows fast) Take a class in a subject that interests you Devote one day to make yourself into your best, look wise: do your hair and makeup all extra fancy and give yourself a pedicure or whatever you like Do something nice for your parents like treat them to a nice dinner in your home or out | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/14 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Can any of you guys help me out to become a better woman?Cooking is the one that proves most useful even after lesson one. If you can sew just a little it's not very useful but if you can cook just one thing, it's instantly 1000x better than not knowing anything. It's also a very good "representative skill" as usually women that don't cook lack in other homely skills as well Here is stuff that's helped me: embroidery (super relaxing, even though I'm no very good yet) cooking (knowing only a couple of stuff, you can mix and match into so many dishes) b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/14 10:31 AM |
| 4 | Can any of you guys help me out to become a better woman?You can sort the posts here by "top" and "all time" for a better grasp of how a good girly attitude works in face of challanges and read the answers too. Appearance wise, I've found this extremely helpful: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html You can use the chart there to figure out how much time to spend in the things that matter most. If you're unhappy with your looks I suggest first getting a new haircut as it makes the most dramatic change for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/14 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Think I've found a unicornThis is the first time I've actually laughed aloud to something this offensive instead of just a light chuckle. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Asking for complimentsI think this would work much better if she's even MORE open and honest about what's really going on. Something like coming up to your man and saying "I'm feeling a little down, can you give me a hug?" is much more effective. You communicate your mood, make a small easy request and let him know he makes you feel better | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/14 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Housekeeping Appreciation Win!I compare it to the work it takes to improve your looks. Just because your man doesn't see the process or know how much effort it takes doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate the result :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/14 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Think I've found a unicornTry to imagine a friend come to you with this exact situation. You don't know the girl, it's just a random girl your buddy likes. What would you tell him to do? if you strike out, you're not getting any less sex so I'd give it a shot. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 06:02 PM |
| 7 | What does your RP marriage/LTR look like?I don't mean that either. Sex comes because you're attracted to the man, not because he did something good. But you can always tell him how much you liked something and do something extra nice | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/14 06:00 PM |
| 3 | What does your RP marriage/LTR look like?You can read great stuff in the marriage section at The Red Pill Room. It has all sorts of tips and techniques so you can be the best wife you can and help bring out the leader in your husband | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/14 05:49 PM |
| 6 | What does your RP marriage/LTR look like?I'd suggest ignoring bad behaviour and rewarding the good parts | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/14 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Think I've found a unicornThere are no unicorns. Just because this girl exhibits some desirable traits, don't forget everything you've learned so far. She's just another girl, act accordingly | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do women love being treated like dirt?Women don't love being treated badly, they are just attracted to the people who can "afford" to do so. By this I mean men who aren't oo-inh and aa-ing at her every move because they have choices (other girls). This shows the first woman he has sexual market value, possibly even higher than hers | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Romantic, sweet, or just plain pleasant songs to sing around the house?Anything by Doris Day is super cute. It actually inspires me to do better than just "getting it done" | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What should I be doing in my free time?Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 09:31 PM |
| 2 | 7 Things I Got Completely Wrong About Being A 'Good Wife'Notice how the things she got "wrong" are things most people here have gotten right. Like deferring to your man, his decision goes or do stuff to make your man happier. She kept trying to change him, no wonder they got divorced | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 07:14 PM |
| 2 | RPWomen truth: You can hold a full time job & still find time to clean & be productive at home. Hard Work doesn't stop when you leave the office!! [Rant about lazy women]I guess this is a matter of what is socially acceptable. Illness and mental problems aside, there is no excuse to be too lazy to pick up your own slack! But this comes from a chain of "I can't cook I'm so quirky, tee-hee" that quickly descended into "I can't be bothered to care for my own children" and in some extreme cases "can't be bothered to care for myself" I have met only two housewives (gradma aside) and they worked their butts off, with four kids each, driving them around, making the mea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Shy boyfriendIs there any underlying issue that makes him feel bad about his appearance? Even if you don't think much of the "thing/issue" if there is something you know is bothering him you can support him in overcoming it and offer to help in any way he needs | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 04:07 PM |
| 1 | A difficult announcement to make.Oh, check again later, they may have gone to a medical check up or something. They're fed and sleep in the pen so they should be back soon. Meanwhile you can check the other pens with puppies, penguins and even baby chickens | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Not sure how to title this post. I had a situation at a store with a cashier belittling me over me rubbing my husband's feet.You can write to the manager a light complaint on how you felt terrible at x store because of the way a saleslady treated you. It is in the best interest of the store to treat everyone professionally, no matter your personal opinion of the customer. Think, how would you act if another service industry person failed at their job towards you, like a hair in your food on a restaurant? Politely speak up that it is not an acceptable way to treat customers! Not to her, she's probably rude, but to her … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/14 10:51 PM |
| 2 | A difficult announcement to make.That was a wrong link, here you go: http://www.apl.tv/kittens.htm Let me know if I can share more cheery stuff like cutesy gifs or something to brigthen your day a little. Have you seen the feminist comic on imgur yesterday? I laughed so much: http://imgur.com/gallery/Vb9KF3E | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/14 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Ways to spoil my husband on days when we have limited interaction?You can leave made meals (dinner and breakfast) in the fridge ready for him as a treat, with possibly a set table waiting too. Another nice thought would be to leave an encouraging note on days that you see were tougher on him. You could also consider pre-making him night-snacks. There are plenty of tips on that on free ebooks and mommy blogs on how to pack meals and keep them nutritious and good looking | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/14 06:18 PM |
| 3 | A difficult announcement to make.Hi /u/fleetingwish, I'm not very good at this kind of stuff but I just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and I wish you the best. You're a wonderful example to everyone in here and I hope you come back soon and better than ever. Internet hugs and let me know if I can send you some cheer-up links or a live kitten cam (apl.com/kittens) or whatever way I can to help online. I know it's silly to think stuff like that would cheer you up a lot but I'm at loss about what else can I do and si… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/14 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Everything just HAS to be a feminist issue, huh?Such a wonderful back-handed compliment to give: "Oh my, you're so creative and hard-working! I bet (insert nice charity here) would love it if you gave them a hand with social media marketing and such!" (as opposed to just bitching about stuff for no good reason) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/14 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples you can think of that remind you what a great captain your SO is?I feel your pain. My boyfriend and I are also goign through grade school and he does much better than me (I'm barely scraping by). He helps a lot by being supportive and put things in perspective too | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/14 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How are you showing your appreciation for your men recently? Tell us the way you've been displaying your admiration for your husbands/SOs lately. Have y'all done anything special?:)Your username really adds to the joke here :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/14 10:53 PM |
| 4 | How are you showing your appreciation for your men recently? Tell us the way you've been displaying your admiration for your husbands/SOs lately. Have y'all done anything special?:)We don't live together so when I make a sweet treat for my family at home I make a point to save a portion to give him the next day. I often can't resist sending a pic too :) I also just made a very simple recipe book for him to use (he's going to study abroad til xmas) and I often give him back and foot rubs | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else annoyed by these "dresses"?I agree with you, these t-shirt dresses are very unflattering! I'd look into reading more about developing your personal style (I can PM you some links if you'd like) so you're not as dependent on trends. For example, this summer was mostly boxy crop tops, gaucho pants and ugly children's sandals, which kind of limits buying options When you cement a style of your own you can try incorporating a trend if you like it and just have more fun with fashion. Good choices for you right now is to stick … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/14 10:30 PM |
| 3 | How to treat men right: #14 Don’t bring a problem to him if you don’t want a solution.Binge reading the whole website, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/14 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Protecting your little girls from sluttinessHow would you do that? You canal controlo the home life but the minute you tell a girl she "cant hang out with X anymore" thats who shell be with at school, lunch, etc.ideas? | /r/RedPillParenting | 30/07/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on making friends as a couple (x-post from RPCouples)Sailing is a great place to meet similarly minded couples :) It is where I met many good examples of healthy relationships! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm a beta (or worse), and I want to get to RP level. Due to acute late onset seizures my comprehension has gone way down(I read the sidebar twice). Some helpful pointers please.Don't worry about meeting stereotypes or other people's vision of what is alpha. The goal is to take the old you and mold it into the best possible you so I'd say get better at the stuff you like. Ideas for new hobbies could be something other than sports like learning a language or a new instrument or even just reading good books (classics are always a safe option) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm a beta (or worse), and I want to get to RP level. Due to acute late onset seizures my comprehension has gone way down(I read the sidebar twice). Some helpful pointers please.Go do stuff that is good for yourself until you don't care about her anymore. Do you have any hobbies or something you always wanted to learn? Do something to improve yourself and soon you'll never think about her again | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on making friends as a couple (x-post from RPCouples)Yes indeed! Surround yourself with good people and you'll be all the better for it. I'm not sure if it "translates well" but there is a saying that to me sums up the whole RP world: tell me who you are with and I will tell you who you are Congratulations on finding good marriage rolemodels! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/14 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on making friends as a couple (x-post from RPCouples)So great for you on sticking together all the time :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/14 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Hallmarks of a RP WomanTakes pride in her grooming Has a level head on her shoulders Respects her body by keeping it fit and at least somewhat covered Has healthy family relationships Is nice/ kind/ caring low partner count: not as much about being "close to virgin" but more showing she respect herself, has standarts and only wants serious partners, no CC riding here submissive: not "I'll do anything you say" but more "what you say goes" with no talkback | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 01:13 PM |
| 2 | I need help with my 11 year old brother, i cant control him, /r/RedPillParenting is almost deserted.Have a talk with your mom to see where your limits stand as a discipliner since you're not his parent but she clearly needs a hand. But be firm and maintain frame with your mom after the agreement is in place, it's for her own good (if you find it hard to do that to your mom think that the kid may grow up to hurt her when you leave the house) There are many cases out there where the older brother is the man of the house but if you want to fix this you need to be the man of the house to the kid a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 12:35 PM |
| 8 | This video made me livid.Wouldn't harassment fall under the category of innapropriate touching, stalking, etc? Not a harmless whistle? Well, yes. But this is the same "gray area hamstering" as the non-rape-rape. As far as I think, it's watering down the seriousness of the issue and making light of victims, which I don't think was the goal but whatever. It's similar to what's happening to autism spectrum problems, bipolarism, attention deficit thingies and most of all OCD. Usually the people doing this fall under the cat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/14 08:59 AM |
| 3 | "Settling" - is it really such a bad thing?As long as he is a good capitain it would be smarter to marry him sooner rather than later. Also, the perfect man doesn't exist anymore than the perfect woman | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 12:23 PM |
| 4 | How do I teach my 10 year old step brother how to be a man?Involve him in the kid appropriate parts of your life. Ideas: Go on a smaller run than usual and bring him along Involve him in your hobbies (fishing/woodworking/whatever you're into) Encourage him to find his own hobbies Teach him easy bits of body language and have him point it out when people watching (reading people is an important skill and kids pick it up faster than adults) Encourage him to take the lead in other things in his life like joining a club he likes and taking initiative there … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:27 AM |
| 9 | Don't be unattractiveIf you're doing it for women, you're in the wrong. Do this stuff because you deserve to be the best you can. Women then come as bonus | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Don't be unattractiveDude, you have to make it not matter. Do everything else and believe me that some women barely care about faces as long as you're not horribly ugly. Some will even prefer you to "pretty boys." If you're that self conscious go to a good barber and ask for help styling some facial hair to get the look you want and replicate the look at home | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:18 AM |
| 5 | "I don't regret cheating on my boyfriend, it was something I needed to do for me"It's nice to see people online acting like their heads are screwed on straight :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 11:02 PM |
| 11 | "I don't regret cheating on my boyfriend, it was something I needed to do for me"This girl vs regular hamstering: http://i.imgur.com/bjMUfor.gif | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Red pill theory?Nope, unicorns don't exist. But she would still be a step up from the other women! The women's goal is to be as "valuable" as possible so she can get the best man (and make him worth his while so he won't trade for another). The man's goal is to become as valuable as possible so he can get as many great-value women as he can | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date (or marry) a woman who went to college or one who didn't?I think that at least highschool is good (not graduating highschool is a possible red flag). College-wise I think the degree/choices she made there are way more important than the college/no-college debate. Someone who went to Art History will be much better wife than someone who chose Women's Studies, suposedly. It all depends very much on the girl herself and if she slutted-it-up and all that than the level of education itself | /r/askTRP | 24/07/14 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Got a house, moving out to live on my own - tips/advice on maintaining cooking/cleaning?flylady.net is the pest place to learn cleaning, she'll help you make a schedule and everything | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | SAHD getting shit tested daily - need to know why and how to get it to stop.You may not be bringing in the bacon but make sure you are still the boss in every way, no shit tests possible, by planning ahead. Mommy blogs have good spreadsheets and helpful tips for this so you can decide beforehand what's for dinner and what you guys will do. Example: she gets home "what's for dinner?" you already have a chicken in the oven or something so you decided, you're the boss of the home and it stays that way. after dinner "what are we doing?" you have already chosen: you will wat… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 10:49 PM |
| -3 | Let's stop giving BP/White Knight Websites TrafficOh shit, are people really that stupid? At least go read the stuff other people wrote about them instead of funding those shitheads | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 09:02 PM |
| 1 | SO lack of confidenceIn his place I would feel a lot of pressure from myself and those who are close to me even if they meant well. So just a relaxing time to sort my ideas would be nice | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill: I need transformationTry it on a computer, the links and material in there are so worth it! There are tons of articles for you to read and lots of book suggestions. I personally like theredpillroom.com | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill: I need transformationHave you read the main sub sidebar? There's a reason why it's there you know | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | (20F) What can I do to demonstrate my LTR potential?you can try hanging out in their chatroom to ask questions and build up a good reputation with the mods | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 06:44 PM |
| 49 | Let's stop giving BP/White Knight Websites TrafficYes, this. I remember a similar PSA about the Westboro Baptist Church since hate traffic was just the same as any traffic for ad revenue and that was their primary means of support | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 06:15 PM |
| 5 | SO lack of confidenceOh no, my man lost frame, I must run to the club and grind with the douchiest man I can find or I'll self combust | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 06:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm not obligated to love you: an insight into the mind of a man with options.No one owes me anything :) Thanks for the reminder to keep doing my best at being lovely/kind/etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 04:43 PM |
| 5 | SO lack of confidenceDo you even hear yourself and how dumb that sounds? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 04:42 PM |
| 5 | SO lack of confidenceHe's probably feeling stressed and frustrated from both this job he hates and his own expectations (and yours). I would try dedicating a day or two to just taking care of him before talking about the issue. Take a weekend for example and make sure that for that time he doesn't have a care in the world. When he's relaxed ask if he wants to talk about it/what will he choose. Make sure he knows you love him/support him/etc but you're a bit concerned about his current outlook on things | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I incorporate TRP truths for a job interview?Don't. The whole point is to make yourself out to be a good little worker ant. You can use the parts from self improvement and confidence and whatnot but keep it VERY pc and "mainstream" Nobody needs to know what's on your mind | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 10:25 AM |
| 2 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?Lisa has a great vídeo in covering pimples and such | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 10:18 AM |
| 6 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?It looks like you have realized yourself this is a bit overkill! Looks help, of course but if they are the only reason a man likes you, you're not with a good man. That said, there are a ton of thing you can do: Do not wear makeup to bed, ever It's fine to wake up first and get ready before he wakes up. Just make sure you shed this "obssession" and it's just waking up earlier, no big deal Cute sleepwear can help you feel better without makeup in bed Try moisturizing a lot before bed, it makes yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a rainy-day savings?at r/freeebooks you can find tons of books to help him with job search, interviews, resumes and the like. Just click the non-fiction tab and take what you like, can´t hurt! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a rainy-day savings?Thanks, it looks like I'm gonna need it (it's taking longe than it's supposed to). Let me know if I can help with scrimping tips or something 1: Do not buy the textbooks ever! Most have old editions online for free, or at least a similar book on the subject that can be used instead :) Project gutenberg is a great source of super old editions and most stuff hasn't changed much (I did calculus with a book from 1961) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a rainy-day savings?Oh my! Tuition is 1G a year. I only got 3 years tops left (I reckon I can make it in 2) and a cushion for living expenses. Besides if we needed to dip into that money, I'd be looking for a big girl job ASAP (currently volunteering) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 08:32 PM |
| -1 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?I was thinking something more along the lines of cousins or co-workers or something like that | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Younger girl saying thanks and would love advice.Keep looking, I'm sure when you start keeping your eyes peeled someone will show. It won't be perfect, but someone you like x trait and someone you like y trait can add up to one good rolemodel | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Younger girl saying thanks and would love advice.It's normal for teens to have trouble seeing their parents as rolemodels. When you were a kid you looked up to her and she could do anything. Now you guys are starting to butt heads for the first time in your life and you now understand she's just a regular person and not some kind of mom superhero. It's a rough adjustment and that's why I didn't suggest her. When you become a full on adult yourself, it'll be easier to be friends with your mom and know she did the best she knew how for you. Do y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Younger girl saying thanks and would love advice.Of course drama would be just fine, try creative hobbies you enjoy! About the boys, unless they are making you unconfortable just take it playfully and stay friends About the bake sale, it's just an idea, you can raise money/awareness for any charity of your choice or do something else entirely. I just mentioned it because you're a bit young to babysit on your own and this is another way you can help local children. Another good tip that's helped me a lot is finding good rolemodels. Maybe a nice… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 11:39 AM |
| 1 | I have questionsStart with smaller steps, read up on various game stuff and just have fun with it at work, on the bus, whatever until you are confortable approaching women (not to get laid yet, just a relaxed talk, for practice) Do this for a while until you notice you're getting better, funnier, etc. Escalate but slow and steady. In a while you should be able to just grab a random girl in a club but until then, baby steps | /r/askTRP | 20/07/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Would guys day that a woman's boring conversation is a shit test?Kind of. If you're listening to some vapid shit about the latest nail polish fashions you have failed to lead the conversation. Try to pick up something from it (or not) and steer it towards something that interests you. It's just like dancing, if you do it right she'll follow and at the very least listen and take it in. If you're clumsy at it, you'll step on each other's toes. Try something both of you can find interesting until you practice more like taking about your respectiev home towns or … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/14 11:27 AM |
| -1 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?As long as they're not beta orbiters (vying for your attention and such) I don't see the harm. I'd also try inviting their girlfriends to your group activities so it's more like a big group instead of just you and some guys (which can be a red flag to some potential boyfriends). If they don't have girlfriends, encourage them to bring girl friends (and you do it too) to the group, so the other guys can meet girls outside their normal circle and etc. This is a win win situation when everyone makes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Younger girl saying thanks and would love advice.The way I see it you're far too young to worry about "sluting it up" just yet, or even serious relationships or boys for that matter. Things you can do for now to set a good basis: Helping others, not only teachers but also your classmates (so you're being helpful to everyone, not just sucking up to adults) Keep developing your creative side (dance and other stuff you like, maybe drawing or watercolors) Keep the boys in yor class as friends only and don't lead them on if you don't want a serious… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a rainy-day savings?I still live with my parents but I have enough tucked away in the bank to put me through college the remainder of the way if for some reason (god forbid) we need it. I've been saving up change and 10% of every allowance and cash gift ever and I also pay for my own bigger expenses like my new phone and soon my extra curricular classes. Money from summer jobs goes in that pit too, and I pay my own vacations from there as well | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Fictional books and films to inspire?About that newspaper: funny how everyone thinks it's ridiculous (hopefully because they should go without saying) but these days any girl who follows this is so much ahead of the competition! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Male asking gift advice.Instead of actual gifts try experiences that give her a small physical rush like something new she never tried. I don't know her tastes but mountain climbing, kart rides or even a tennis game keep her blood pumping in a positive environment Plan the whole deal with a meal before/after and you give the vibe of "I got everything under control" but also "I'm thoutful and wanted to give you a nice day out" | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Trying to help my dad deal with my mom.The 48 laws of power is simple and cuts to the chase. How to win friends and influence people would also be nice if he could use a push in the social area | /r/askTRP | 19/07/14 10:07 AM |
| 1 | When choosing a long-term partner, what would you value more, attractiveness or youthfulness?Models are not supposed to be the maximum sexual attractiveness to straigh males. The usually have very strong facial feautures and are very thin with nearly no womanly curves (and no, I don't mean a fat-ass) Unless you're thinking of models for swimsuit illustrated | /r/askTRP | 19/07/14 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Need a quick recipe for birthday brunch/potluck!! Any ideas?This is beautiful and so easy! I'm saving this idea for later, thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Another fine example for alpha fux, beta bux: experienced F wants husband to impersonate the abusive ex in bedfuck trophies sound like an "achievement unlocked" kinda thing. I know cant unsee the shew vs dumbass pokmon style battle. shrew used child extort, its super effective! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Another fine example for alpha fux, beta bux: experienced F wants husband to impersonate the abusive ex in bedAnother case of "don't stick it in the crazy". Poor guy, I hope he divorces soon, that's no way to live | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Need some Red Pill career adviceDepends on the way you look at it: you now have more girls to pump and dump with no guilt or shame, as they are super easy and there's less competition for decent women | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Need some Red Pill career adviceA gold digging slut won't like it because it means a) you're not loaded, b) you won't part with the cash easily But any woman worth her salt will like that rugged independent streak and the fact that you're not dependent on the parents | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Need some Red Pill career adviceNot so fast, a lot of the young men out there can't fend for themselves alone. As far as I know, that brave, hard-working, "putting myself through school" is more attractive (all else being equal) that a daddy-boy I'd argue a girl finds hotter n independent guy who provides for himself and then posssibly her than the guy who goes running to momma when his allowance money dries up | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 09:40 AM |
| 4 | I just wanted to tell you how happy I am to have found you all :)They either respect the way you chose to be happy or they are not your friends. But if they're not being mean or anything just let it go, it's usually mostly jealousy even if they don't recognize it themselves | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Strange request for my fellow RPW -- How to distance myself from feminism and its offshoots?National TV, BBc and r/worldnews. It's not perfectly unbiased but no feminazi-ism in sight | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 05:11 PM |
| 3 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?Get a notebook and since you like plans and orders, write them out yourself! Make a game plan, challanges and such with checkboxes and prizes and do it! I did this on my calendar and it's been working wonders. Ideas for challanges: dress and groom to my personal best 1 day/1 full week/1 full month doing a nice gesture for my man 1 day/1 week streak/1 month do something nice for yourself (do your nails or whatever) cook something extra nice/fancy make a cleaning routine and stick to it (flylady.n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Strange request for my fellow RPW -- How to distance myself from feminism and its offshoots?Just try to close your cultural input for a while until you can find humor in it and laugh at the sheer stupidity of it. Try reading actual news from reputable (ish?) sources instead of sites full of clickbait, read older books, seriously consider going off social media or at least severly decreasing your presence (I'm down to linkedIn and a blog only and I love it!) like only going once a week or something And remember this (said about the Westboro church but works here too): don't click on the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:15 PM |
| 2 | The hairy leg clubWell, regular darwinism isn't working anymore to weed out the stupid so some people feel it's their job to do it. I really think those are just as stupid, wasting energy and resources without getting any value in return | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:05 PM |
| 2 | The hairy leg clubClassic slacktivism: change the world by being lazy. Spoiler: nothing happens! On the other hand, our natural feromones are fine and even atractive to the oposite sex. The problem is no one can smell them if you reek of sweat! Also, some products, mainly anti perspirants have bad chemicals on them, but just choose wisely and everything should be fine | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The hairy leg clubI have no idea either | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The hairy leg clubIt's none of my business to decide what other people do with their pits. I think it's more hygienic and the few men I know who do this (professional swimmers) say that even a trim is better than nothing so deodorant goes on the skin and not the hair. But to each his own. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 01:37 PM |
| 5 | The hairy leg clubGo figure, whenever i think "who the fuck kind of feminazi had this brilliant idea?" it was 4chan... Haters gonna hate? More like stupid gonna stup (to the lowest common denominator) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:40 AM |
| 7 | Keeping hypergamy in check - Men's or women's job?I loved this, what a nice reminder for us to stay pleasant and good for our men :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:01 AM |
| 5 | The hairy leg clubWhat's next? I'll stop bathing and wearing deodorant because that's just the patriarchy oppressing us? That said, I leave my leg hair be all winter long but it's not nearly as thick as these girls. If it noticeable I'll get rid of it around christmas or something. But regarding pits, it's just more hygienic to take the hair out so it doesn't trap smells and deodorant works better | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:00 AM |
| 12 | Rpw way of dealing with your partner openly oggling other women?That happened to me too and I was devastated and feeling terrible. Even before the RP though, I had a really good idea: ask him what does he like about her. Don't make him embarrassed for looking or anything, but use it as a way of finding out what stuff catches his eye to work on that first. Maybe he likes red skirts or curly hair and people with that are just going to catch his eye. Just remember that even though he's looking, he chose you! He doesnt love the other woman at the mall with a nic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 10:54 AM |
| 10 | Mommy blogsI wouldn't call it an RP-blog but I like Real Simple: a magazine website full of neat little time saving tricks and management help with checklists and such to help women manage the home. Also flylady.net is a very good help in getting started to make your own routines and such to keep a good home. Talk to your wife about you both creating a good routine for the family, to keep the home and yourselves in tip top shape. While some women are naturally good at keeping everything organized and plan … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies feel about tattoos/muscles on a guy?I like muscled men but not those with "defined" bodies. This kind of goes against most girls but I find very low body fat kind of unatractive. Not sure, but it may be because I'm not into the whole gym-rat look so maybe I prefer looks where a man has bigger muscles and is strong but it looks like he hasn't tried on purpose to get them, it just happened as in doing farmwork or playing a favorite sport. Tatoo wise. I personally dislike them in general but if I liked someone, a couple of small ones… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/14 07:32 PM |
| 5 | My RP SO is not invited to my BP friends weddingThis is waaaaay worse than a breach of etiquette! It's not like they (groom and bride) would need to be with you guys more then two seconds if it came to that (Hi, thank you so much for coming! Gotta go say hi to everyone else, see you). These are not the actions of a loving friend. BP or not, as your friend she owes you better than this. I would go find friends that respect me enough to either not invite my man with a little bit of grace or invite him as a respect to me, even if they didn't eve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/14 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Two months in - changes so far...A lot of the stuff isn't one-size-fits-all. You just need to find a resource that works for you. Even when you don't like an RP blog very much, check their blogroll until you find something good for you | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Two months in - changes so far...Congratulations, sounds like a big improvement! Have you read marriedmansexlife.com or theredpillroom.com? They have tons of stuff for married people and you should see your marriage improve soon | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 04:52 PM |
| 64 | My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of TinderIt's not just that. In the eyes of those girls, you are giving those men "ideas" and they're afraid their men will leave them to follow your example if it looks like you're having more fun. The sad bit is that it would be super easy to stop these "ideas" in their tracks if they simply became better than the aforementioned tinderettes: sweet, kind, pleasant to be around. Instead they think it's easier to just keep their men away from these "ideas". Have you tried suggetsing them their guys won't … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there an 80/20 analysis of The Red Pill?The TRP sidebar for starters, and some endorsed good books. Posts by random users are usually hit-or-miss | /r/askTRP | 15/07/14 12:18 PM |
| 4 | A woman seeking advice . . .Bad idea, bad bad bad idea. Being promiscuous dimishes women's value VERY fast. Stay monogamous with him and make it worth his while so he wants to stay monogamous with you. That "live a little" shit is crap and almost ruined my life, it's not worth trying what it's like to be a vapid party slut. It sucks Wanting a man to argue with you is a bit odd but I understand your point. Be more submissive yourself and he'll step up. You then need to stand by him so he knows you have his back No tricks. I… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/14 11:42 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Is Confusing Me. Help me out?I'm sure you're fine. This is all a spectrum and everyone in here is different. If you believe/apply the main points, you're RP. Anything else is just your personal variant. Plenty people in here are pick up artists but you also have married guys and even girls looking to better themselves. There's people of all kinds in here, Main things: People judge you based on your SMV, there is no going around it Working to improve yourself is very important You are the most important person in your life D… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/14 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Lovely tips from Victorian era ladiesThis is lovely, thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/14 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Had this conversation on Tinder, still laughing.what the fuck did I just read? the college girl from that porn video is now worthy of respect because she managed to get a big fat payday? Ok, I'll just show myself out then | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | “Casual Sex Is Empowering” And 4 Other Feminist LiesGoodie then :) The first time I read it the comment were awful, no wonder those women were alone, who'd want a snarky for company? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/14 11:37 PM |
| 0 | “Casual Sex Is Empowering” And 4 Other Feminist LiesSo sad. I thought they were coming to their collective senses but now you've said it and maybe it's just to get angry feminazis clicking... And those cringe-y comments, oh god | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/14 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Help me out, TRP: I need advice on engagement rings.If she has said she doesn't like diamonds take the tip (it probably doesn't suit her well). Probably the fact that she is that kind of girl is attractive to you and if someone reading TRP is considering getting engaged I'm assuming she won't care much of having her friends fawn over an expensive ring and would rather have something you and her consider more special than what everyone else is doing My advice: go with something that fits her style. Something like a pearl ring or a stone in her fav… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What should I be doing in my free time?That would be super cool! English is my only non-native language in which I know how to talk about school stuff like lesson plans, units and modules because of it | /r/askTRP | 14/07/14 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Leg-beardsI dislike shopping online but my shopping havens can be adapted to your region: Zara when it's on sale. Beware some of it isn't discounted merchandise but sale pieces, that are and feel cheaper. Old lady-ish stores (also only on sale, they tend to be expensive) usually have thicker quality fabrics and good basics like cardigans, simple shoes and purses Flea markets and garage sales are a little hit or miss, best for bags and accessories Department stores have really big sales on some brands by t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/14 08:33 AM |
| 4 | “Casual Sex Is Empowering” And 4 Other Feminist LiesIs thought catalog giving in to RP principles? I keep seeing more and more links here! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/14 10:08 PM |
| 6 | 2 years of increasing smv.Congratulations on your progress. You seem to already have a grip in keeping aiming higher, have at it! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What should I be doing in my free time?I bet your mom would love it if you made something for her (again, spice rack idea) Consider starting out a new language after you flexed that japanese muscle: consider spanish or french (sexy and with tons of material online) | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Used to be on their team, but consistent downvoting of my comments in TRP is kinda turning me off to red pill guysI've had great sucess with this. There's no need to parade around "look at me I'm a girl" unless it's relevant to the convo or someone asks you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/14 07:19 PM |
| 3 | What should I be doing in my free time?What languages do you currently speak and which do you think would be most useful to you? You need motivation to keep at it like having a foreign community near you so you can speak to them or something that could benefit you professionally or just a culture you like and want to learn more of. There are infographics that can help you choose something "easy" based on your native tongue Other ideas I'm doing: exercising learning chinese and italian (almost finished italian) reading a backlog of bo… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 06:52 PM |
| 2 | What should I be doing in my free time?I have plenty more where that came from as all my friends are at work and I'm on vacation (they finished school while I'm getting a masters) so I'm well aware of your problem and doing some neta stuff to improve myself with this free time. Stuff you can do that's good fun on the cheap is watch classic movies online and take up a new language with FSI courses (used by the government to school diplomats) available for free on their website | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Fucking shit my condom just broke, need some advice from you guysA last resort would be asking your doctor for help or consider the "female condom" instead. It's much bigger but harder to find and a little more expensive (also ugly as fuck) | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Cute Lingerie - where do you buy yours?I buy my everyday panties at Oysho. Some patterns are kind of childsh (kittens and cupcakes come to mind) but I like the plainer ones in the 3-packs with dainty flowers/plain stripes. Example Comfy cotton with cute patterns, tiny bows and scalloped elastic are awsome for daily wear. For something a little more special I usually go to department stores or the outlet store for fancy brands | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/14 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Fucking shit my condom just broke, need some advice from you guysAsk for advice on this at a pharmacy. The usual places may not carry bigger sizes but pharmacies should know where they are if they don't carry it. If that also fails, a good sex shop should be able to help you find the stuff you need. If that is also a bust, ask over at r/bigdickproblems, the guys there should know where to find bigger condoms. They are the only way you can protect yourself and not depend on the girl who maybe forgot the pill just once or has some odd disease. Protect yourself! | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 05:20 PM |
| 6 | What should I be doing in my free time?You can practice body weight exercises and since you are the one with the most free time in your group, plan some outing for you to spend time with your friends. But reading and pursuing new hobbies is always a good bet. If money is a concern, the internet is full of awsome free resources for you to learn anything from being a master chess player to some neat magic tricks to win bets ar a bar. Only you know what kind of man do you want to be. What would that man be doing right now? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Swallowing TRP.I was "on the other side" but never a full blown feminist thanks to mostly my parents. Even though my mom works, thw house is kept spotless and she cooks almost daily and still holds an awsome job. My dad taught me from a very young age all the stuff about body language with books and stuff because I was a very awkward child and that would help me make friends and keep them. From learning that to studying RP principles in disguise was a tiny jump because those books had whole chapters dedicated … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/14 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Ashamed of desire to be a SAHM someday. RP SAHM, what do you do to go above and beyond?To those people it just feels like snarking back "Sure, because what you do with your life now is sooo valuable" | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/14 09:25 AM |
| 11 | Woman "stuck in a great marriage".I think she's unhappy because she feels unfulfilled being "just a mom" and has started to resent everything else more and more. Nothing looks like she should bolt (she didn't mention any abuse). I went over and suggested she did charity work to find a little more purpose/usefulness before seeking professional help. Other users have mentioned possible post partum depression and it's a possibility I think she's pretty lucky but can't see it due to all that pent up anger about feeling "stuck at hom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/14 09:19 AM |
| 2 | 50 Ways to Inspire Your HusbandThat said, if you're going to retain something from the list it would be that and it's always a good idea to initiate more great sex :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/14 05:09 PM |
| 8 | How to treat fat/ugly girls hitting on you?Let her down nicely. Show you're not interested but don't be mean or anything. You need to work with her and besides all sorts of good stuff can come from being distant yet nice to her like meeting her cute friends or getting a favor at work if you ever need. Basically, let her become your beta orbiter :) | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 03:51 PM |
| 3 | 50 Ways to Inspire Your HusbandJust remember to intiate great sex and everything will be fine :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/14 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Best Response to Cat-Calling?So much this! I ind it odd when girls try to come up with clever (and mean) stuff to say and I think there is absolutely no need! And if you aren't taken or don't want to share that, a nice quick "thanks" and keep going is fine too :) But to rude or lewd remarks the best answer is really to ignore the behaviour and not reward it with attention good or bad | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/14 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers in Sweden, wanna meet up?Interesting. I also heard that a lot of swedish guys are very shy/meek and overall bp. What's your take on this? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 08:13 AM |
| 2 | When women only date assholes and then claim that all men are pigs.Oh no, you're just super lucky (lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers in Sweden, wanna meet up?Glad to know that. Are they as pretty as TV makes it seem? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 11:04 PM |
| 3 | When women only date assholes and then claim that all men are pigs.I dont discuss this much with my family, but I've seen them responding well to my changes! Two of my uncles have told me they'd consider themselves lucky if their sons found a good girl like me :) Other than that I just notice my female colleagues hopping man to man while telling me how lucky I am to have a good man. I'm not lucky, I work at it, you dumb broads! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Is scumbag Steve the quintessential "Bad Boy Alpha?"Mostly he's just an asshole. While some assholes can be alpha and some alphas can be assholes, they don't necessarily overlap | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How can I get my wife reading and applying everything in RedPillWomen?Try to invite just one couple for a double date or something, to see if your wife befriends a good rolemodel. You can probably tell her you want to help her make friends outside of work so she'll suggest a couple that she thinks would make good friends | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I get my wife reading and applying everything in RedPillWomen?Can you find her some good rolemodels elsewhere? Maybe wives of your friends or a nice neighbour you can invite over? Any good woman will do. My mom once told me I should choose a couple of women I'd like to be when I grew up and spend time with them, like mentors. Maybe you can suggest that to your wife. I spent more time with my gradma after that and learned crochet, among other stuff. My best friend is a nurse and engages in very non.rp behaviours as do the other nurses (all single, go figure… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 10:06 PM |
| 2 | When women only date assholes and then claim that all men are pigs.I this these cliches all the time in the girls from my circle and also my little sister (I feel you). It's an odd mix of funny and sad because you can predict what will happen but in most cases you can't protect them or even give a heads up. In my case I'm usually greeted with an eyeroll and "This isn't the 50s, gradma" :( I've got plenty of stories, from the first comment that got me thinking "maybe those sexist pigs are on to something" to all the funny/sad snippets about my friends and other … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How can I get my wife reading and applying everything in RedPillWomen?I would be really interested in what the other ladies have to say. A friend of mine had this same problem and asked me to help steer his girlfriend here. It was going well last time i saw them. Do you/her have any female friends you have as a good example? I do believe that when working on yourself and your relationship there will be a point any wife would do these rpw things, even if she never read anything about it. I advise you to read married game at marriedmansexlife.com and theredpillroom.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers in Sweden, wanna meet up?If you can, I'm sure a lot of people would like to hear about the current situation in Sweden, sex market wise. There many myths about swedish girls and guys and I for one would love to hear someone's inside perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What are you working on?This is a good one, I'm gonna start doing that :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | 11 Old-Fashioned Relationship Habits We Should Bring BackLovely :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Few More Items Knocked Off List Of Desirable Traits In Partner As Woman Turns Year Older | The OnionIt's sad that she could look really pretty with a little effort and a smile | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:25 PM |
| 3 | The Hamster In Action (XPost from RPW)The whole thing was just cringe-y | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Don't be this woman,I'm ebarrassed for her :( What is she going to say when she finds out he doesn't want her as his wife anymore? I know this is oversimplified but a lot of keeping your man happy is pretty straighforward: look like someone he'd like to sex up, sex him up. The other wifely duties sure are important but they come after sex, the way I see it. A man can be happy if the couple's sex life is good even if the woman doesn't cook that well or the house gets messy sometimes or whatever. But not the other wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 05:55 PM |
| 3 | The Hamster In Action (XPost from RPW)You're right, I was just pointing out they had amazing oportunities to save face and chose to decline them! Playing dumb is usually the first play in all sorts of similar situations, as in the classic "oops, I thought this was the ladies room" you see in movies | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 05:47 PM |
| 13 | The Hamster In Action (XPost from RPW)It's so odd that they've had more than one oportunity to save face here and insisted on being jerks bout the whole thing! When he first said the stuff was theirs. Especially with canopies this happens sometimes. You go for a walk, come back to what you think is your spot and someone has the exact same canopy and you go "oh sorry, I have this same canopy, I thought this was my spot" And then again and again when the man is clearly trying to make them go away but letting them save face a little... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsThanks, I didn't know that :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 05:24 PM |
| 24 | Girlfriend on vacation. Warning signs to watch for?Dude, no. You're safe, trip wise but there are other red flags in here! Namely the facetiming and the texting. Who's initiating this behaviour? Also, stop lying to yourself, you're super insecure. Work on it | /r/askTRP | 09/07/14 10:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsI know, I just figured you could put the plastic between the canvas layers. I don't know much about it so I'm just throwing ideas around | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 10:04 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsMaybe you can look for flat ones. I say this because children with foot problems around here use corrective booties, which are a selection of flat ankle booties that can recieve the inserts and then the inserts. They were pretty inconspicuous. Can you wear riding boots? They're usually pretty tough but still look sexy with skinny pants If you can wear those canvas senakers that wrap up your ankle so the inserts wouls be hidden, you can try a pair with a feminine pattern like paisley or flowers | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsGo to imgur.com and even without an account you can click the "upload" button to the right. They'll give you intructions after that. Cab't wait to see those pictures! I'm also going after that Zara dress. I'm also tiny but I hope the buckle looks good in person! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsThis is quite inspiring, it makes me want to clean out my closet and go shopping! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsAnkles booties can be very cute, can you wear those? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Feminine clothing shopping spree resultsTake pictures, upload them to imgur (they give you an option to uplaod as a gallery) and then share the resulting link here | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you ladies balance working out and maintaining your appearance?You could go to the gym after work and keep your hair in a wet ponytail until you can wash it | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/14 09:05 AM |
| 4 | What do you ladies do when you just don't want sex?If I'm not feeling up to it like I'm tired or grumpy or whatever I just tell him I'd like some extra cuddles before. So we do something fun together to get my mood up to neutral and he knows how turn me on from then onward. The key for you it seems is getting yourself up to neutral so you guys can take it from there. Try giving each other footrubs, taking a relaxing bath together or just watching some funnies on youtube. Try to loosen up your mood a little in a non-sexual way if "going from 0 to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/14 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Camping like a lady boss.It's amazing how these days just "being fun" sets you apart from other women. It's not even hard work, just having fun! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/14 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Quitting smoking.Try to get a habit that relaxes you. i don't smoke but i flame up easily. When that happens I try to take a walk outside until i'm no longer fuming or listen to some nature sounds online if i can't go outside. donothingfortwoominutes.com is nice because it forces you to stop a bit and just breathe, if you move anything on your computer you have to start over. Consider keeping in your wallet a post it with some reasons why you're doing this too like "smoking makes wrinkles appear sooner" or "toba… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/14 06:41 AM |
| 31 | If AWALT and if marriage is not RP, how do you end up with a family and children?Nope. I you want to get married and have a family, you'll just have to work at it to make it work just like with everything else thus far: Find a good woman. The perfect unicorn does not exist, just look for a good one Apply married game, be a good husband (ie: lead the household well), make her into a good wife. She may need a little guidance on this one Have kids and raise them together this is waaay over simplified but theredpilrrom.com has some points on family and marriage you could check o… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 08:30 PM |
| 7 | 50 Ways to be a WomanIt's sad really that the term self-worth has been twisted into this... And I agree that women need to cultivate humility and leave entitlement at the door. But I do believe this particular line comes from a good place and directed at people who are in harmful or toxic relationships and believe they aren't good enough to make it alone or find another mate. The key is accurate self worth. I'm no princess that deserves a man bringing me breakfast in bed (it would be cool though, and appropriately r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/14 06:51 PM |
| 4 | 50 Ways to be a WomanSorry about your neighbour and her (his?) crummy parenting. Some of these points are perfectly valid if you've got a good head on your shoulders: Example: Understand your self worth and never settle for less than what you deserve: this is an unpopular one because so many girls out there think they deserve somthing special but the point is not settling for less than you really deserve. That said, most people out there think they deserve plenty more than they do because of an inflated sense of sel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | 50 Ways to be a WomanThere were definitely some points you need to take with a grain of salt but my favorite has to be the "be an example" one: be the kind of woman you want your daughter to grow up into, the kind you'd want your son to date. Even if you don't have/want kids, the advice stands true :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/14 06:38 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Dating a girl close to wall, unsure of what to doOnce you get some you'll be happier about it | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 03:07 PM |
| 6 | [UPDATE] Dating a girl close to wall, unsure of what to doIf she's breakup testing there's absolutely no reason to stay. whatever you decide, update. But i recomend nexting her and getting a bunch of younger fun plates | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 11:37 AM |
| 26 | [UPDATE] Dating a girl close to wall, unsure of what to dored flags all over the place: ditching her mom for the ex, all fucking day long? How are you still with her if you pretty much have nothing in common and then this happens? Sounds like it's not worth the trouble even as a plate if the sex isn't great and you make it sound like you don't have fun | /r/askTRP | 07/07/14 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Facial hair? Clean shaven/stubble/beardI found them on Alan Pease's book "Why men want sex and women need love" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 07:49 AM |
| 1 | My personality and TRP - What way to go?I don't think so, because the "fakeness" of it ultimately shines through. It sounds like your personality isn't harming your smv, what else is there to it? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 09:41 PM |
| 3 | My personality and TRP - What way to go?Dude, sidebar: Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals. Basically just be your normal self if it's getting the results you want. If it isn't, find out why and change that one thing that's setting you back | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Facial hair? Clean shaven/stubble/beardStudies show that "3 day stubble" (long enough not to be prickly but still short) is the one that's more attractive to women on a primal/hormonal level. However it largely comes to your face and culture. If you have an irregular beard or a very defined jawline, you probably look best clean shaven. A light stubble can give off that "don't care" vibe but it doesn't work with some people. It's not an RP/BP issue at all, or at least I don't see it, unless you want to grow a beard but shave daily bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Why are Women initiating 70% divorces?It would be interesting to see some real statistics on this one. Feel free to share if you do find these figures on a reputable source, I'd be curious | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 08:24 PM |
| 3 | How can I be a better wife?I'll tell you what deep down you already know about being a good wife: work your looks to your personal best, lose weight if you need it, do your hair all fancy, dress nice for your man at home, etc be good to him, initiating sex, saying good things, giving him backrubs and cooking nice meals are all welcome. You know him better than I do, just do his favorite stuff often be second in command. this means that you're in charge of everything he doesnt do and letting nothing fall through the cracks… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 06:36 PM |
| 3 | What sort of hobbies/interests does your SO have? Do you share any of them?We working on the classics right now and lending books back and forth so by now we've read similar books and can compare them/authors/time /etc but read few actually the same title. It looks like eventually we will have read lots of the same books as far as classics go. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Good Veggie-Free Recipes?Try to make the carb layer thinner given he's not having vegetables. But I'm not very good with nutrition so ask your doctor what to do on this: keep up usual carbs, eat less of everything or get more carbs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 06:16 PM |
| 4 | What sort of hobbies/interests does your SO have? Do you share any of them?We mostly have separate interests except for reading | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Good Veggie-Free Recipes?It's not super healthy but a good back up for busy days: puff pastry and whatever meat/fish leftover you have. They always turn out good :) But your healthy meals should now be an adequate lean protein (chicken, turkey, etc) and a little bit of a carb like rice or pasta, less than usual because there are no veggies to balance it out. To remain healthy just get little carbs and more protein. You can also ask his doctor for diet advice. Check if mushrooms are ok. they're the meat-stand-in for a lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my entire social network is turning on meSounds like you would benefit wonderfully from "the well cultured anonymous" (free, search and go read it). I'll be short on this one, all the stuff you need to hear has been said: subscribe to r/getdisciplined get a job, any job finish school get your own interests/culture and pursue them make new friends | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 10:13 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on?I'm working on not being annoyed :) I do understand it's sweet but I'm doing stuff for him to be the leader and it's a bit frustrating to see him asking me for stuff/permissions and such. This has improved quite a bit since I showed him trp. I'm not sure whether it was a good idea but so far i'd say yes | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Help me become a man. How to go about improving and becoming who I want to be.What you can do is read only a paragraph or something and then do it, right away, drop everything and go. These kinds of books aren't meant to be read in one sitting anyway so... Example: chapter x - jobs: bla bla bla bla updated resume bla bla. Do you have an updated resume? Then drop everything and go do it! It's weird because you only read one line but you're gonna forget it when you get to the next chapter or end of the book. Same with fitness regimens and social techniques, do not move on u… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/14 09:57 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on?I'm not mad or anything, I just get a little pouty but thanks for that :) It's a bit of a first world problem as far as relationships go | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/14 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Redditor gives great advice in "why did you get divorced thread" and doesn't get the best responsesMaybe mention the comments you saw on the post (edit) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Redditor gives great advice in "why did you get divorced thread" and doesn't get the best responsesMaybe something has changes but i don't see it. Comments I saw answering that one: So much this You're the only reasonable person here It seems good advice Thank you So at least four people got their heads screwed in right :) Not to say you're not right but reasonable comments rose to the top and I didn't see the meanies | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you say it's "enough" and punch a "friend"You know this dude and your friends better than no one but consider maybe a warning or manipulating the situation to having him hit you first and look like both an asshole and dumb. That should prevent your mutual friends from inviting him to stuff | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What are you working on?So far yes, he says he feels better like this. I've been trying not to let my voice change when he's undecided and say something nice like "forget everything else, what are you in the mood for right now?" and it's usually something fun like ice cream so I cheer along! I'm yet to come to the phase where he decides the whole process alone and just invites me to go along but time to time :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 08:56 PM |
| 2 | At what point do you say it's "enough" and punch a "friend"You both now you could beat him, but don't you think flying off the handle would lose you some respect from your other friends? I always try to reason with myself by imagining the other person as a child. Would you smack a child for doing what he did? Or just be the bigger person? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 08:45 PM |
| 3 | At what point do you say it's "enough" and punch a "friend"Snapping into violence is breaking frame. This person is not your friend, if you cannot avoid him, treat him like a child/girl tactics should keep him in his place. Above all else, maintain frame/respect and the more he tries hard to poke at you, the worse and childish he'll look for it and become "that guy". Do not buy into his tactics, I know it's annoying but picture all the ways you're "winning at life" where this guy is clearly a loser (I know it's a childish tactic but it helps me not snap… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 08:29 PM |
| 4 | When you're accused of being sexist, is "agree and amplify" something you can use?In a casual environment you can use A&A but just make sure it's really ridiculous so people will get the point, completely out of proportion ridiculous. Of course of this is an accusation of the sort that may give you trouble (company HR, mother-in-law, etc) you better look into diffusing the situation in a different way | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 08:25 PM |
| 8 | What are you working on?I'm having trouble not being annoyed when my so falls into "beta-isms". He's mostly quiet and keeps to himself and has improved on that stuff ever since i started coming here and most of all after he found TRP. Small things like asking me out to dinner and then I ask "where?". He used to be all "I don't know, whatever you want" even after i said i wanted him to decide. Just yesterday he took me out to a place I like! But I still fume up a little when he's undecided or wishy-washy about a decisio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Help me become a man. How to go about improving and becoming who I want to be.I'll suggest some stuff to read: the well cultured anonymous (on giving up gaming, getting a regular job and generally transitioning from pc to real life) what every body is saying (body language) r/becomeaman (several topics) how to win friends and influence people (self explainatory) All this is for free out there. The best way for you to make money right now is to go "pound a cold door" which is contacting firms and people in your area, asking if they don't need anything. No interships or shi… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I need to cut off my ex financially ... but she has some dirt on me, threatening suicide, etc.Does she have any family close by? Her housing, job and such is not your responsability in any way and you'd probably be better off reporting her threats of self harm to an institution. She doesn't get to bribe you for a free ride, you've done more than enough. If she talks, she probably will not be believed (being mentally unstable and institutionalized after threats of suicide puts a damper in her credibility) and you can still beat her to it and own up to those mistakes yourself to whoever sh… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Studying abroad. Hooked up with three girls from the program. Being persecuted.You're seeing it on the wrong prism. You can play the foreigner card! Every college aged girl everywhere speak at least remedial english They would be thrilled to practice their english with you You've got the perfect opener for every situation (ask them for a word you don't know) They'll likely be excited to teach you Let them "work" by planning stuff for you to have fun, you'll get pretty girls escorting you to the best restaurants and clubs! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Studying abroad. Hooked up with three girls from the program. Being persecuted.It sounds like it's not worth it as it would be less trouble to get other girls in this new country rather than "recover" the mad ones | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Studying abroad. Hooked up with three girls from the program. Being persecuted.If she's cool with it, it's your call. From your post I assumed all three were mad at you (not worth "dealing with"). But I'm not sure how much it would endear you to the other girls. One girl's behaviour is fairly easy to predict but inter-female dynamics are odd. They could start liking you or "expell her" from the group and hate you more or get jealous and all girls would start vyying for your attention or a whole different situation. I'm notoriously bad at predicting female group behaviour, … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Studying abroad. Hooked up with three girls from the program. Being persecuted.You kind of shot yourself in the foot here as they'll likely intice other girls against you. Do not pursue any further action with these girls and get others (from OUTSIDE the program). Basically, next 'em and the whole program (girl wise) Other than that you should have no reason to worry, unless they want to prank you or something. But if you can pull three girls in a week I'm pretty sure you can "take them". | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Humbly looking for guidance..The grass is greener where you water it If that's not an RP principle to live by, I don't know what is! Not just in terms of relationships, but also friends, jobs and all sorts of other things in life. I'm replacing my bedside frame with this! (I know says "Be wonderful every day") Thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 03:44 PM |
| 3 | I'm not sure of my attractiveness... I get hit on by gay guys and fat girls A LOT.You can turn this situation in your favor! Have you read books in the lines of body language, salesmanship, etc? You can use these people approaching you as practice in good conversation skills, while letting them know you're not interested but appreciate the attention. With a little practice you'll get them introducing you to their hot girl friends as "my friend from the gym". Everything is an oportunity! Also, it's always good to be friendly with everyone, and not just for girls. You never kno… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/14 08:12 AM |
| 2 | JOURNAL: I'm Young and Need AdviceThank you for this. I'm currently in college and studying salesmanship on the side with books like "The Personal MBA" and the "How to win friends..." as well as some other stuff I think I need to be a well rounded person. It's always good to have someone note the steps you're taking as advice, it makes me feel like I'm doing good at digging this path for myself | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 11:14 PM |
| 1 | 4 Years into my first LTR, currently forcing TRP down my throat, been on TBP for at least 3 of these years. Can I recover this relationship?The first thing you need to do is ask yourself one essential thing: do you want to keep this relationship? If not, dump her and start over. If you do, you've got some work ahead of you and about a 50/50 shot of being successful at it if your girlfriend is more or less the average girl | /r/askTRP | 03/07/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What solution does TRP suggest to women in regards to riding the CC that is win/win for both gender?I say let them fool themselves and deal with the consequences later. I for one make an effort to define my goals in life and work towards them. Just the other day a girl came to R/asktrp asking if it was ok that she didn't want a relationship and was happy with casual sex and intended to keep at it her whole life until she was like 50 or something and just "do her own thing", I don't remember the exact words. On the other side of things, a girl that wants to get married to a good man (by that I … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What solution does TRP suggest to women in regards to riding the CC that is win/win for both gender?The CC is only bad for women if they intend to land a good man to marry and start a family with. If that's nowhere near what they want, there's no harm in doing is for as long as she can | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent of TRP? What true statement precedes 'AMALT'?r/redpillwomen has plenty on that subject | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What does RPW have to say about #FreeTheNipple?It's now my go-to to shut up people that bring this crap to me. "You know who could use someone with such spunk for activism? Amnesty International, Doctors Without Borders and such" Try it. One girl I know not only quit that silliness but started working in the local food bank. She's a bit annoying asking for donations, but at least she's standing up for a good cause :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 08:21 PM |
| 7 | New here, need some guidance.One very good advice that worked for me: whenever you think "what about me?" think about what you actually want. Take a deep breath and think about what you want and ask "why?" again and again. It will usually be a circle of you wanting to be happy and have a happy family. It just turns out that path requires some sacrifices in the short term to get what you really want in the short term. You know the saying "happy wife, happy life"? It works the other way around too :) On another point, you tal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Another possible reason for less dress wearersI mostly wear pants due to two reasons, one that's only sort-of and feels like a bit of an excuse: I only have summer dresses and have trouble finding winter dresses I like that are casual Pants are mandatory in the labs, as are closed shoes and other safe gear. But I could only wear pants on lab days and truth is I don't Fortunately my "sorority uniform" (long story) is a skirt suit so try to wear mostly that in the winter. I also try to keep my look feminine with other stuff that not skirts li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Pet NamesWe come up with pet names as we go, use them for a while and then drop them until the next inside joke/pet names come up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I need some advice please!From the text it sounded like you saw a problem in getting fewer words of affection than you'd like. But it really doesn't look like you have a problem at all. You understand what's going on and that your man makes an effort to please you. All you can do is tell him how much you appreciate it when he does say nice things. I wouldn't flat out ask him for more because it looks like he's already making an effort. You're fine, relax | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I need some advice please!Yes, if he knows how much she values nice words, he would make an effort to be good to her and vice versa. But given that it looks like only she sees a problem, it's now "her job" to do something to fix it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Wow. I'm amazed at how threatened some women are by other women's femininity [x-post from /r/pics]Even if it is, where is my "moral high horse" to judge a person I don't know based on her boobs? It wasn't the best example due to all that reality show crap and whatnot but I think it gets my point across. It would be better to point out that stream of hate saying Kate Upton was fat when she landed a magazine conver | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 06:41 AM |
| 10 | Wow. I'm amazed at how threatened some women are by other women's femininity [x-post from /r/pics]I had a "Clarity Clarence" moment now. Is this where all the celebrity bashing comes from? From Ms. Paltrow's (can't spell the name) cooking to Kim (West?)'s body I suddenly saw a pattern. People bash celebrities on points that make them stand out, making the basher feel inadequate! It's funny how I'm used to seeing it in regular folk but have only now seen this side of it. Maybe because in school my mom used to told me "don't listen to x, they're just jealous" | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice from mothers...If you'll be staying at home, tell your partner about this so you guys can establish a system as follows: when you're overwhelmed and tired, he takes over and you take a short nap. Even if you don't actually sleep, the down time should help you relax and come back to business refreshed. Trusting your capitain with the baby and having everything run smoothly should also be very relaxing and reassuring Source: not a mother but my mom used to take naps all the time to stave off grumpiness and snapp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I need some advice please!You're welcome. I feel you because I'm a mix of words/touch while my man is pretty much touch only. An easy way I found around this is to talk about touch-y thing when we're apart and text what we should do when we get together. Talking about touch isn't a replacement but it helps when touch is not an option. Let me know if you need ideas for productive hobbies | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 03:41 PM |
| 1 | [Off topic] I need home help.Leave the windows open for as long as possible. Example: leave the bedroom windows open when you're in the kitchen and vice versa. When my family moved it took about a week to get rid of the brand new paint and construction work smell These are all very nice solutions to make your house smell nice but to rid yourself of the lurking bad odor below there's nothing like deep cleaning and fresh air | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I need some advice please!Have you heard about the "Languages of Love"? It sounds a bit new-age-y but it has a kernel of truth. Everyone communicates love differently and sometimes things get misunderstood when two people aren't speaking the same language. Your man is a touch person. He expresses how he loves you through touch and hence will expect you touch him to show your love in return. And you are a words person. I can see you express your love to your man by saying nice things but given this is your language of lov… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 03:30 PM |
| 5 | How many cocks is too many in a LTR?It's ok. This girl has made a ton of sacrifices just to keep you happy. She's putting off school, missed her sister's bachlorette, etc. She obviously cares a lot about you and looks like a win win situation for you. If you say she was a great girlfriend, why would an arbitrary number change that? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/14 08:43 AM |
| 5 | Plate turned prostitute.I would be taking all the necessary precautions Does this mean you aren't already? Get yourself checked. I wouldn't keep her, all the mental unstable business, there's so many other good plates out there, etc. On another topic, she did it before and quit. Where did the money go? Up her nose, between her toes? And what is the money for now? Her being attatched to you is also a negative point, sounds like you could soon be in trouble with pimps for getting stuff for free or involved in other shady… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/14 08:40 PM |
| 1 | "I think people associate me as somebody who only wants sex and doesn’t want commitment," says bewildered 19YO pornstarThe same goes, except you can find a man to look up to | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 08:51 AM |
| 1 | "I think people associate me as somebody who only wants sex and doesn’t want commitment," says bewildered 19YO pornstarThe best thing you can do for yourself is to find some adult women you look up to and spend time with them, no matter if your mom, aunt, neighbour or grade school teacher. The internet is super but there's nothing like actually spending time with people you want to learn from | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Which way do you cook?I follow recipes on things I more unconfortable with (new stuff) and with old favorites (I know some by heart now). When something new is made a couple of times I start experimenting and tweaking to make my own. I'll also just throw some stuff in a pan if it's just a quick lunch/dinner | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/14 09:29 AM |
| 3 | RPW getting ready for the weekend... 6/27No holiday here, but it's my dad's birthday and we'll be entertaining his side of the family. I'll be making thin cookies, the cake is done (needs to sit in the fridge for a while) and I'm excited to make the rest of the stuff too (like dips and appetizers) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Moving to big city and going to university, ADVICE PLEASE.You can read from the resources bit on the sidebar to see most of the advie anyone will give you. It boils down so something very simple: define what you want (a diploma, husband, kids, house, apartment, up to you), research and list what you need to get it, go get it and be careful not to do stuff that will hinder your chances. If you have more specific questions, lets hear them :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Teaching my daughterMe too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Woman/WomenDamn, learn something every day | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Woman/WomenGame on, you forgot about looses too (holy crap, to, too and two!)´ ´ Do I get double score for that one? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Woman/WomenAnd their cousins, their, they're and there | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Finding Troubles Posting TRP Articles/Beliefs To FacebookThis! I haven't used it for years now so I only watched the "selfie movement" take off via internet "viral news". Depending on the OPs current status (college, hopefully single by now), it may help to have a FB page and learn some e-game to engage with girls his age | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How to dress my age?I know right? Usually modest stuff is either matronly or vintage wear and I'm not really leaving the house in either, no matter how cute it looks online | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Finding Troubles Posting TRP Articles/Beliefs To FacebookYou can post questions at r/asktrp until you get a better grip on this. That said, you done fucked up, in every way. I'd say you need to read more You had an argument with a cheating girlfriend? She's still in the picture? This girl is poison, cut her loose You don't "advertise" your beliefs, this is no mission to convert other people. Just shut up and do instead of talk Female friends aren't a good idea in general. Don't kid yourself telling me you or those girls are special little snowflakes. … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 02:31 PM |
| 3 | What are some songs that give a good representation of the inherent beauty of femininity and masculinity in their true form? (as in not glorifying sluts like Lady Gaga or Beta wimps like Bruno Mars)Doris Day. In fact, the further you go back the better, usually | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 10:08 AM |
| 1 | And she wonders why none of the males in our friend group take her seriously. [slight rant]I really don't see how the poster needs protection from this girl or how I disregarded her interests. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 07:48 AM |
| 1 | What are you currently DIY'ing?Currently nothing but exams are over I'll be working in some watercolors for my parents' bedroom. I made somthing with dry flowers when we moved but they're detatching from the frame. Learned my lession about pacience and waiting for them to dry all the way through | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 07:47 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with shit tests coming from my sister?YMMV. It worked pretty great for me, if I'm already doing something, with that "The grown ups are busy, go play outside" face. But silly looks pretty effective too | /r/askTRP | 27/06/14 07:39 AM |
| 13 | What does RPW have to say about #FreeTheNipple?This "slacktivist campaign" is ridiculous and sounds like a desperate cry for attention. Look at us, we're doing stuffs! Why cant these people just rest? I believe in equality up to a point. Right now it looks like every battle is won: we vote, we drive, we have jobs. It looks like they are actively seeking new "battles" where there are none (like the nipple case). What I say to those people? If you want to fight for a cause, there are plenty important, worthy causes needing your support and act… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 11:59 PM |
| 13 | How to deal with shit tests coming from my sister?I have a sister like that too and made a similar post not long ago. Here's my take on what you can do: Give her the woman-child treatment. When shit comes out of her mouth just do the "zip it" thing with your hand and return to what you were doing, hopefully something important like reading smart books to discourage her from interrupting again Consider reading some parenting blogs and look up tricks to deal with rude children. It's kind of embarrassing how well it works Note what weaknesses make… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/14 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How to dress my age?I know what you mean, I found her blog when I was 18. The straw was when I was a bit lost in a hotel and maid asked me if I needed help finding my mommy. Now I notice I only get carded when I get lazy and dress down and forget makeup. It has it's perks. I went to the hospital recently and no one is supposed to go in with the pacients but they let my mom come in :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on tattoos?You can just overlook them if you're looking for a plate or ons. But consider it a red flag if you're looking for a girl to settle down with | /r/askTRP | 26/06/14 10:59 PM |
| 5 | How to dress my age?Have you read extrapetite.com? She's an asian girl and looks about 12 in her before pictures. She has plenty of makeup and fashion advice to look grown up and modest. Her looks may be a little too office-y for someone your age but the tips are good anyway. Her style is very feminine and modest, you can get some pointers if nothing else | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Teaching my daughterThank you notes are covered in boths books :) Am I glad I bought them on clearance at the supermarket Can you believe it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Field report: My first two weeks after taking TRPHaterade is really catchy, mind if I use it too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Teaching my daughterYou can also try "dangerous book for girls", I'm not sure of the english title. It's blue and full of glitter and it's full of "girls are strong but in a different way from boys" messages. It's chock-full of activities to do with friends, parents and stories to read alone. At the top of my head: write with neat letters, make a flower crown, short biography of ancient queens, make your own scooter, camp in the yard, some yoga poses and karate It's made for kids but I only got it at 16. I still do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Teaching my daughterI'm not remembering any books right now but at around her age I bought my first etiquette book from "the princess diaries franchise". I still have it on my nightstand. It's bright pink with a white crown saying "Princess Lessons" and it covers everything from basic grooming, dresses and party etiquette. It's supposed to be written by the princess' gradma in black but the young princess adds funny comments in pink, I'm reminded especially of the clothes section where grandma says you need skirt s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Can I still be a whore after swallowing the Red Pill?It looks like your lifestyle and actions are in line with your goals and you understand the consequences of both. As long as you are in understanding of the whole process/dynamic and act in a way that furthers your goals, you must be doing fine. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Can I still be a whore after swallowing the Red Pill?Well, if that's what you want, I guess you can ride CC for as long as you want, or can. But please don't kid yourself by saying you don't do it for validation. A need to feel sexually desirable is a basic need for any adult and having sex with others fills that need by confirming that yes, you are desirable for sex. I don't see nothing inherently wrong with that, though. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/14 08:48 PM |
| 2 | According to Verizon, women aren't engineers because fathers tell their daughters to be careful with power drills.It is a heavily feminine major (world wide, I think it's about 70-80% women in publicity and marketing) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | According to Verizon, women aren't engineers because fathers tell their daughters to be careful with power drills.I know about advertizing and ever since the 70s there's been more money to take from women but what kind of market study would come up with these results? On the other hand being surrounded by woman engineers probably skews my perception of what most other women "respond to" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How do You Celebrate Your SO's Accomplishments?It's basically what you said. I take the night absolutely just for him, with backrubs, good food, a cocktail waiting, fancy clothes and underwear and let him just sit back and enjoy :) You can also extend the celebration by inviting some of his friends over to celebrate on a different day with cocktails and tapas | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 07:01 PM |
| 3 | According to Verizon, women aren't engineers because fathers tell their daughters to be careful with power drills.Being carefull with drills is what allowed me to be alive long enough to go to college! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Breaking news: Life isn't FairWhy do people keep insisting on equality but only on some things? I for one am happy to fetch a beer, cook dinner and clean all the time, especially when it means no one's ever going to ask me to take out the trash, change oil or lightbulbs, etc It only makes sense that each half of the couple does what they're best/most efficient at, it saves time to the both of them, to be used for fun together :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | According to Verizon, women aren't engineers because fathers tell their daughters to be careful with power drills.Who even comes up with these things? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | This is an excellent tool for saving recipes from *any* site in one place! (x/post from getfeminine)go to the link on your browser and get it from there | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | 13 Things A Woman Can Do To Be More Attractive Towards MenFigures. It's funny how despite him noting the most common resposnses and why you should avoid them (ad hominem, nawalt, etc) people only reached for those exact answers/comments. Kind of makes me lose faith in education | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Dad wears short shorts to teach daughter what she wears is everybody’s business and everybody’s approval proves her great worth.That's the whole point. What I wear is everyone's business because everyone is looking :) Nice lesson imo | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:34 AM |
| 1 | I am having difficulties letting go of bad blood between my father and II'd say cut them out of your life for a while until you figure out this stuff for yourself. You cannot depend on someone else's actions in any way to be a better happier person. Work out these feelings with your therapist until you can move past the issues with your dad, not because he deserves forgiving but because you deserve that inner peace that comes with letting go. Get him out of your life until you're ready to forgive and perhaps then you can have a better relationship with both your par… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 09:29 AM |
| 0 | 13 Things A Woman Can Do To Be More Attractive Towards MenI'm so surprised at the source of this! It was the first TC thing I didn't roll my eyes at. I was going to read the comments but I gave up after the first couple of 'em | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:19 AM |
| 2 | 13 Things A Woman Can Do To Be More Attractive Towards MenThe way I see it it's more of a "she can pull her own weight" kind of trait. She can find a job and make money or she can save the household money by working at home (cleaning and such) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:17 AM |
| 1 | I am having difficulties letting go of bad blood between my father and Iare you leaving at your parents' home? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Dad wears short shorts to teach daughter what she wears is everybody’s business and everybody’s approval proves her great worth.I'm pretty sure she learned her lesson well :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | This is an excellent tool for saving recipes from *any* site in one place! (x/post from getfeminine)Same | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | This is an excellent tool for saving recipes from *any* site in one place! (x/post from getfeminine)it kinda is, I think. At least there's a picture of a cell phone at the bottom saying it works across devices | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | DIY Degreerelevant reading: http://www.artofmanliness.com/2014/01/14/testing-out-how-to-moneyball-your-way-to-a-debt-free-college-degree/ | /r/askTRP | 25/06/14 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Parody of "Fancy": "I'm So Married"It probably looks odd if you try to wear stuff like pastel ruffles and tiny darling prints. Make good use of it, my taste is more fit for striking beauties (bold colors, simple cuts) but my looks and personality are more cute than serious | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Whenever summer comes around I either look like a stripper or a grandmaIf it's a faux wrap you can sew the neckline in place | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Whenever summer comes around I either look like a stripper or a grandmaWear a plain tank under it | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Flair UpgradesI do try, but that's my point, I'm not sure of how good I'm at right now nd whether it's good enough for flair. I'll let the modettes decide. I saw someone else say modettes here and i just find it adorable. And thanks for reading my stuff | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Flair UpgradesAww thanks. I'm kind of insecure about whether my advice is "good RP-ing" so this means a lot to me :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Flair UpgradesI'd love to get a flair but I'm not sure as to whether I deserve one, especially if there is more than one. Is there something in the lines of "in training" or something? I've been here for 4 months and I'm applying principles in real life with great results but I'm unsure of whether my advice is useful/quality. I try, though, so suggestions are welcome | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Parody of "Fancy": "I'm So Married"Oh, you have the now called resting bitchface? I'm sure you look striking beautiful, instead of cute. I read somewhere there's 4 kinds of beauty for girls and trying to fight yours doesn't make you look good. Cute (bubbly, fresh and cheery types) Romantic (shy, flowy soft types) Fiery (don't know how to describe this, you just see it, outgoing, often too honest, energetic women) Striking (I think this is you, with a more serious look, more organized and in control) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Parody of "Fancy": "I'm So Married"That's the point. It's poking fun at "the others" | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Parody of "Fancy": "I'm So Married"Why don't you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle your guy's unhealthy/destructive behaviors?It's important that you keep making your man into a better one. Not as in bossing him around or anything but making sure you're taking the best care of him and he's rowing in the same direction you are (taking good care of himself) I got my man to quit smoking when we first got serious about being together. We talked about it and he told me he wanted to quit but had never been successful at it. So I tried to support him as best I could as he could talk to me every time he felt like smoking or he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Another new face has a questionMy motivation is mostly two fold: I feel guilty for not taking the best care of myself, be it with food or nice hair treatments. It's like an impending cloud above your head with a "I know you can do better than this" sign My man deserves the best i can possibly look/be/act. And I just love feeling so sexy when he can't get his eyes/hands/etc off of me I know this last one is just plain "wrong" but if I'm feeling particularly slumpy/awful I try to think of a girl I don't like. We all have that s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 09:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you ladies keep your nails?I keep them short (2mm away from the pink bit tops) but mostly because I like them best that way. I pain them about weekly and leave them natural every once in a while too. When they chip I take the whole thing off and leave them natural until I have time to give myself a mani | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 08:49 AM |
| 1 | "I think people associate me as somebody who only wants sex and doesn’t want commitment," says bewildered 19YO pornstarSo true. Although you can always come a little closer to what you wanted with effort and hard work. It'll never be the same, but it can be pretty close. In your example, this C student can work hard and still go to a pretty good college, even if it isn't Harvard and work his butt off to get a job at a small firm, where he'll work hard and get promoted and possibly go work for his dream job in his early 30s. It's never the same, but if you stop wallowing in your own misery and get working, you ca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Pua for women?there's a sub for that r/fpua but i'm willing to bet that's not the life you want for your sister. It's exactly what it sounds like: picking up men Is she's "fishing for a husband" go to r/redpillwomen and the materials on the sidebar should help | /r/askTRP | 24/06/14 09:45 PM |
| 2 | "I think people associate me as somebody who only wants sex and doesn’t want commitment," says bewildered 19YO pornstarIt's a bit late now, I figure. Just remember to watch out for the teens girls and young adults in your life. They look all grown up but so many are still kids inside and need adult orientation, no matter how much they claim otherwise | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 06:24 PM |
| 3 | What womanly advice will you give your daughter/future daughter?Sure! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 02:39 PM |
| 5 | What womanly advice will you give your daughter/future daughter?This belongs in rp parenting :) And about dressing right, some children (including myself back then) tend to see adults telling them what to wear as opressive. Given the whole "rebel against everything" mentality early teens have, it's helpful to frame it less as an issue of being appropriate (more incentive to rebel against norms) but as a way of respecting yourself. Anecdote: a cousin of mine is at tha age where she begs mom to do whatever the other girls in her class do. And her mom mostly le… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 02:15 PM |
| 8 | "I think people associate me as somebody who only wants sex and doesn’t want commitment," says bewildered 19YO pornstarI kind of feel sorry for this girl. She is a legal adult and will have to deal with the consequences of her actions but she just sounds like a clueless little girl way in over her head. She wants an actual career after she graduates. In this competitive job market where even your facebook needs to be squeaky clean... What does she think will pop when a prospective employer googles her name? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Why we persistently try to get women to look to their own behavior rather than harp on her man's behavior no matter what the problem isWell said. And if you don't mind, I'll add a shameless plug to r/femininearts It's pretty much dormant but it looks like it has potential | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Happy to be a new RPW member~!Watch out for the meanies then | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Happy to be a new RPW member~!You're welcome :) It's great to see more ladies joining! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | FR: I found that reminding "angry feminists" of who are the real victims is an effective way of shuting them upI don't what is it, but definitely something a bit wonky in there. But I'm not sure they're after desire. Men are so gross, ew ew ew | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Growing old gracefullyThe worst the the snow-white roots. If you're willing to commit the time and money, my bf's mother got all the hair super white in her late thirties and dyes it dark red weekly ever since becaus if the roots ever show the slightest, it looks terrible. The hairdresser keeps her using the adequate products to care for her weakened hair and everytime I see her it looks super nice It's all about your taste and hair. Evaluate your options and possibly ask your hairdresser's opinion | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Growing old gracefullyI'm personally a fan of the natural gray look unless you're all white hair by 35 (it just looks odd). My gradma has had white-as-snow hair since her 60s but it looks good as long as she cares for it. White hair is frail and porous so it's worth investing in deep conditioning and regular salon appointments (like once a month or so) My mom has a couple of grays (she's in her 40s) but doesn't fuss over them. I frankly can barely tell unless I'm looking for them. If for some reason on hair is partic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm losing my marbles over here!If you have some free time yourself, consider reading up on nutrition a bit. And I second the binder idea, but since you already have cards, you can just stick to that. Health-wise just make your usual dishes with a side of veggies. You get a bigger serving of veggies and a tiny dose of potatoes with a normal sized protein serving and little to no gravy. Hubs gets helf anf half Consider choosing a couple of days a week for a small dinner (sunday and another one) so you can just whip up a tasty s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | FR: I found that reminding "angry feminists" of who are the real victims is an effective way of shuting them upI try my best. Thanks for the heads up | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | FR: I found that reminding "angry feminists" of who are the real victims is an effective way of shuting them upI understand why there's a need for that rule. I just wanted to reward the people who've helped me a lot today | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Dress for the man you want.I tend to wear very simple outfits so I have a post-it on my bulletin board to remind myself to add a little something before I walk out the door: nice looking shoes (I'll trade if I had frumpy ones on) makeup (I often forget but make the effort to wear mascara and tinted gloss) scarf sunglasses belt jewelry (ring, earrings, necklace: pick two) It's amazing how much better you can look with just little tweaks | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | FR: I found that reminding "angry feminists" of who are the real victims is an effective way of shuting them upI didn't understand that bit, sorry. I though we were supposed to give those out to well written and thought out answers but didn't realise I needed to get some myself before. Should I take them back? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Some charming snippets from a 1938 ladies' book- I know you'll all appreciate them here!That's not the one I meant. I've translated a couple of chapters from this old book I found. The link was a gem I found for kindle, easy to share with everyone :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/14 09:25 PM |
| 1 | FR: I found that reminding "angry feminists" of who are the real victims is an effective way of shuting them upI love it when people try to deny biology. Excuse me, miss, would you care to show me the study that backs up your finds? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Some charming snippets from a 1938 ladies' book- I know you'll all appreciate them here!I've been sharing a 1961 manners book at r/femininearts, look into it and maybe post your book there too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/14 08:10 PM |
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