Dad was a narcissist and micromanager, I had to tiptoe around him for over a decade, now I'm have a hard time second guessing people even when they're obviously wrong (I notice a lot of times when people say "use your common sense" they men "Follow whatever needlessly complicated solution to the letter or else.)" How do I recover from this so I don't have to let these people manage the rest of my life? I my brain completely shuts down sometimes.