Male 25.

Will be visiting a college friend for his wedding. A lot of other college friends will be there including a girl (i used to like but she was getting fucked by some guy on Tinder) who eventually friendzoned me 4 years ago.

Before we proceed, I must clearly state that I have absolutely no emotional attachment with this girl. The reason I am mentioning her in this post is because she'd be a good fuck for this Destination Wedding of my friend.

So this leads me to the fundamental question of attracting girls who have previously (badly or rudely) rejected you. I don't contact them for anything and move into improving my status in life this ensures that these petty heartbreaks become milestones in this journey.

But at the same time, I wouldn't want to miss an opportunity to bang such girls if it comes to it (and they are also up for it) because why not. Therefore, I seek guidance from the esteemed members of this community as to how should I go about attracting such girls.

In my humble understanding, I can't consider them 'acquaintances' or random girls because we have shared an emotional connect.

Would be grateful for your views 🙏