Is it bad that only fat, low-quality women find me even remotely attractive and Im just not content with that any longer?

Jack__Knife · 2017-06-14T17:43:39+00:00

I have no interest in continuing the stereotype of tall skinny black dudes walking around with fat white women on their arm like Im just not.

Are white girls your focus, or the ones responding to your Tinder profile?

Pluglord · 2017-06-14T20:24:23+00:00

Go for black girls

2017-06-15T04:33:22+00:00

For all but the tall, young and white men tinder is an app to fuck ugly and/or fat women. It's not a place to score a gf unless you're very attractive or have really low standards.

Turn off your phone. Live an interesting life. Ask a woman out on a date in real life or just hang out with one and get to know her. You'll be surprised at quality of women you can attract with a little effort once you delete the app. Sure not all women are attracted to black guys w a fucked up hairline ( or white guys/asian etc ), move on to the next. Unfortunately apps like tinder make quality men question themselves. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't ever even think being black is holding you back. Just go after what you want in real life and eventually you'll score an awesome girlfriend.

accountrel · 2017-06-14T19:44:53+00:00

We all have emotional baggage. It's the way people deal with it that is important though. Sounds like the women you've dated haven't learned to deal with emotions or past well.

As you know from lifting, people can change their bodies including girls. Have you seen r/progresspics? :)

ApollosSin · 2017-06-15T04:42:38+00:00

Get big. Keep lifting. Testosterone fills out your jaw line. It actually makes it wider. Work on your hairline then. Find a hairstyle that suits you. Most important part is make sure your lined up. Work on your personality more than you work on those gainz. Stop dating fat girls man. Avoid them. It's better to be single than to be dating someone less than you deserve. Also, always dress like you're gonna be meeting some HB10s.

Source: 19 year old black guy that was struggling with the same shit. I used to not give a fuck about my hairstyle or fashion. Took a couple months to figure it out and trust me it's a huge change. I got women at my work eye-fucking me on the regular. Only problem is I can't escalate. Or rather don't know how to. I'm not a very good conversationalist unless we have the same interests

dash_weh_ting · 2017-06-14T17:23:59+00:00

Are you going after the girls that you want? I've started to maintain friendships with a few of the girls I find attractive and actually rate. They tend to have friends as equally or even more attractive that are usually thrilled to know a person their friends consider cool. This in turn, the social backing, gives you a wider access to other girls who are more likely to be receptive to your approaches.

Maschalismos · 2017-06-14T18:07:42+00:00

Did you mean neckbeard? If not, what the hell is a neckbear?

Title	Is it bad that only fat, low-quality women find me even remotely attractive and Im just not content with that any longer?
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Upvotes	2
Comments	31
Date	June 14, 2017 5:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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