Am I out of the "BROTHER" zone? What do you thunk if this?

DigitalLover · 2017-06-22T13:33:40+00:00

Simply escalate when you hang out. Snuggle with her like "brothers and sisters" do it. She will notice quickly that you're not her brother anymore.

2017-06-22T12:18:04+00:00

Well it's not impossible that she changed her mind. Unlikely, but we've seen much more unlikely scenarios happen before. That wouldn't be the weirdest thing I've seen.

There is also a chance that she keeps you as an orbiter. Then again, we don't know her, we don't know if she already has quite a few of those already or not.

You're faced with two options: you do nothing and it remains platonic, or you head towards building attraction, slowly but steadily.

The latter, at worst, should bring you nothing more than a no, unless you push the envellope after receiving that clear "no". If you get nothing clear, consider it as typical ASD, or LMR if that happens just before things get wild. Always remain smooth when facing LMR, this is key to cracking it.

At best, we don't need to explain, you already know.

chachaChad · 2017-06-22T13:43:45+00:00

She's going to continue to treat you like a brother as long as you let her. You need to let her know somehow that you want something different if you do, in fact, want something different.

Honestly, if you have feelings for her or whatever, I would talk about it before you go. If she thinks you're coming as a friend and you try to escalate when you get there, she's going to be creeped out in a "Why is my brother trying to fuck me?" way.

I don't think having a direct conversation is the best way to go but it is one way. You could also talk to her on the phone and flirt with her. You do know how to flirt, right?

Honestly, my response to "You're like a brother to me" would be "If feel the same way, you're like a sister... I want to fuck".

enkae7317 · 2017-06-22T22:46:44+00:00

Ask her if she's open to incest.

2017-06-22T14:46:07+00:00

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Woujo · 2017-06-22T11:41:10+00:00

99% chance you are still in the friendzone.

Stop trying to fuck this girl and go find somebody else. You sound like you are still in a scarcity mentality.

And next time, stop pretending to be friends with people you really just want to fuck.

Title	Am I out of the "BROTHER" zone? What do you thunk if this?
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Date	June 22, 2017 8:38 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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