Texting a girl that gets a lot of attention from guys?

Woujo · 2017-06-26T16:19:59+00:00

don't text her. just invite her out to shit. don't become text buddies with girls.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-06-27T02:13:18+00:00

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Recently hooked up with this good looking girl..... She's really fucking cool we stayed up until 8am talking about the universe and life and shit.

This, is relevant.

She gets quite a lot of guys texting her every day.

This is not relevant.

This is fear. What worries you really, is that you hooked up with the kind of girl who connects fast, and she's in communication with other guys, which means there's a chance she might also connect with one of them. And let's be real, you're probably coming off like the same sort of person to her.

Deal with your fear and enjoy this interaction for what it is, while it's there, OR move on now.

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I last saw her 2 days ago and haven't texted her since then. Should I even bother texting? Should I just message her an inside joke we have to spark her emotions again??

Couple things here.

You haven't texted her, and you want to complain that other guys might communicate with her? Do you see the issue there?
If you connected with her, you shouldn't need to spark and respark her "emotions" all the time. If you connected, then she's been wondering why you went dark when she thought you guys connected. You're shooting yourself in the foot with fear, man.

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P.S. She works 8am-5pm monday to friday.....so she doesnt have a lot of time during the week.

This doesn't make a whole lot of sense. People on a daytime schedule have time after work. Anyone on a full-time schedule has time after work. Even on a weekday. People eat, drink, see movies, and so on. And they continue to do those things during the work week.

You're making this needlessly complicated. Stop it. Just invite her out for Wednesday or Thursday. Why not?

AlwaysWinning1 · 2017-06-26T21:00:38+00:00

Feed her high caliber bread crumbs. https://youtu.be/E26FSI5ac5I

recyclablebanthas · 2017-06-27T02:13:49+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

SinSlayer · 2017-06-26T16:17:46+00:00

Hey cutie. Hows work? Wanna play a game?

Title	Texting a girl that gets a lot of attention from guys?
Author	Formal123
Upvotes	1
Comments	28
Date	June 26, 2017 4:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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