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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The excuse is that you are two humans thrown together a hostile world, you can share a moment of social contact to make a human connection, this makes the cruelties of life go away for a few moments.
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
whoa
[–]Atheist_Utopia 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just for a moment.
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There have been moments like that, when lives have changed forever.
[–]Atheist_Utopia 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't doubt it. I should probably go out and meet them.
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Meeting new people, having an interesting conversation, doing somebody a favor, etc...
You don't need an "excuse." She knows why you are approaching. Embrace it.
[–]barca947 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Check out RSDMAX on youtube.....he uses natural game, very easy.....watch a ton of his videos and he'll teach you how to hit on girls the natural way. By natural way I mean no pickup lines, no memorised bullshit, etc. Best RSD pickup artist IMO. What I've learnt from his videos have really helped me understand how girls think. Also, go out and meet people etc.
Thanks! I'll look him up.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
i wonder why youre saying that to begin with...its not that good of an opener. its a great opener to grease the newbie wheels, but you can say rather calmly, "hi i saw you from over there and i didnt know if i should say hi. I have an appointment to get to soon enough, but... " then go into a short story that increases your chances of her wanting to find out more about you. I've notice the guys who are absolute lay magnets have openers that are easily forgotten. anyone else notice that? I picked apart a few things like this and more and i totally noticed my game was like full on porn star mode. I mean i'd find myself in like these cheesy interactions that before you know it, your inside of her, and she's moaning, and your like what happened??? how'd we get here lmaoo
[–]kozios 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Your problem is not even with women. You need to be genuinely interested in people and how they live their lives. Compliment her dress/ask her where she's headed to, actually be genuinely curious about her.
[–]Atheist_Utopia 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Which is exactly my issue. What reason do I have to approach a random girl out of the blue to compliment on her dress and be genuinely curious about her? It just seems bloody random on the receiving side.
[–]andrewgore96 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you never go around your day to day life (including nights out) and see a woman and think to yourself, "Damn. I'd like to get to know her."?
If you're mentally in a position where you're curious about whether they'd be a good fit in your life or not, the above question should come naturally.
So far as that goes, if you're curious about them no excuse is needed. It's human nature to seek answers for something we don't know about. It's normal, hell, it's probably less natural to not answer your curiosity.
[–]kozios 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed with Andrew here.
Point 1 of yours: Definitely, but only because she looks hot.
Point 2: Logically I'd only think about whether they'd be a good fit in my life or not, AFTER I have met them.
Point 3: Ofcourse, and I wouldn't find it weird if I'm genuinely curious.
You're really thinking very logically and being robotic about it. It's only human to be curious about the people around us. I feel you're suppressing your curiosity in some way, possibly in fear. Is there a logical reason to explain love or lust? Is there a logical way to describe emotions? We can try but we'll be going around in circles if we even begin to answer the question. Start going out and finding reasons as to what makes the people and women around you interesting to YOU
[–]kozios 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But I am a very logical person (o_o)
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