When it involves approaching women, what are your mistakes ?

What are your challenges?

Here are the 10 Mistakes I have noticed in my 10 years in the game.

I've been aiming to figure out exactly how to successfully approach women for 10 years now. And it was a huge challenge for me and I've been interacting with men for a lot of years now, many men, all the way from completely hopeless to incredibly good and everything in between. And here are the 10 problems that I have noticed and I 'd like you to just kind of think about them, put them in your mind, see if most of them ring true.

Number 1. You don't know what to expect.You don't know what to expect if you walk up to a woman in a situation and you play a particular gambit or you try a particular approach. You aren't sure what's going to happen.

Number 2 You care what other people think. Or what they might think if you approached.

Number 3 You hate rejection. There's something about the concept of this word we call rejection or this concept where you go engage another person and they don't want to be your friend. The don't want you around. They want you away from them.

Number 4 You don't know what to do or say. You've got an insecurity around the idea that you just don't know what to do. You see her there you know that walking over and talking to her-- nothing bad is really going to happen it's a pretty safe environment, you know you're a decent person, she is nice, the whole deal, you've psyched yourself up-- you just have no idea what to do. You have no idea.

Number 5 This pickup stuff doesn’t work. For probably 20 years of my life I carried around this kind of inner core belief that it was essentially impossible to just walk up to any woman in any situation and start a conversation and have it "work". It's like the I don't believe it could work virus-- it just keeps coming back and mutating.

Number 6You don't want to bother her or her group. You don't want her friends to not like you.

Number 7 It seems unnatural for a man to just walk up to a woman in any situation and start a conversation with her. It seems unnatural. And by the way there are many cultures where it is culturally just not the right thing to do-- it's wrong. Our Western culture, at the moment I'm speaking from America, there's a little bit of that taboo but it's usually pretty well accepted when it happens in my experience.

Number 8 You have a poor self-image, low self confidence or low self-esteem. It's an inner issue.

Number 9 You make it too meaningful. You make it mean something about yourself. In other words you put too much importance on the moment with a woman who you will more then likely never see again in life LOL.

Number 10 You can't control the fears that stop you. You want to control them. It seems logical that you'll be able to control them. When you go back and remember it after the moment happens you go "I could control this", but then you enter the situation again and they turn up for you.

You can't control it and that fear leads to bigger fears. And it makes you afraid of other things that makes you afraid. You realize that at times you can't control your fears and that stops you from pushing yourself or even approaching at all.

Those are the 10 things that I have personally experience in the past from my 10 years in the game and coaching guys to be successful in this area of life. I hope this will help you identify some things you need to improve upon.

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Wishing you much success with women and dating.