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I'm in a very strange situation. I'm relatively new to dating (having dated 5-6 women in the past year) and I've always landed a second date. I'm 22/M/ if that matters.

On my most recent "first date", I actually really liked the girl (physically and intellectually), more so than any of the other people that I've dated. However, during our first date (short 1 hour coffee date), she mentioned that recently, she had seen a few different guys but that nothing turned into anything serious (which she wanted something serious). She even said that she got ghosted by a guy that she liked.

Here's my question/problem: since I am quite attracted to her, I feel like I need to win her over somehow. I'm also at a stage in my life where I'm just aiming to get more dating experience. I've had a few other dates recently and I'm planning more as we speak.

Could it ever be a good idea to mention that I'm dating other women? I'd almost rather be truthful with her and say that she's the best first date that I've had, but then I would sound clingy/desperate and I'd probably lose my chance at a third date. I'm sort of in a dilemma - I'm interested in this girl so much that I almost want to make her chase me rather than me chasing her (which is what I feel is going on).

I mean at the end of the day, if the second date goes bad, then so be it, there's plenty of fish in the sea. I think I'm just trying to find the best way to make her attracted to me (which may not be something that I should be trying to do).

Thoughts?