I don't know what happened, but since I started to apply high status behavior everywhere people seem to find it hard to talk to me. Some guys like me a lot and want to hang out together more, but when it comes to girls it's completely opposite.

Pros: Im never getting friendzoned

Cons: Most girls find it hard to initiate a chat with me

Some girl told me recently while looking pretty serious (I don't feel that I understand you). I wouldn't pay attention but since then it seems that she lost interest and had a hard time talking to me. It's like that with most of people that I meet.

I find it hard to find a golden mean between these two. Can someone help me to figure this out?

To be more specific when Im using high status behavior I act more calm, don't talk a lot and express less emotions. It seems that people of my age (20) are looking for the energy I've been always having, but now I don't seem to express something interesting to them.. I don't seem.. open enough? Tbh Im still not sure why girls initiate a chat with a high status guy and what does he have that I haven't adopted yet. It's hard to tell, Im not a smiley/positive type of high status guy. At least I cannot mix these two together