Risk of accidentally hitting on an underage or younger girl during cold approaches

2017-09-03T08:21:26+00:00

16 is age of consent in most states. So who cares.

Last I checked fucking them was illegal. Not talking to them.

There is no risk. If you find out she is underage, just stop talking to her.

Twobithatter · 2017-09-03T07:36:34+00:00

When in doubt back out

2017-09-03T08:36:56+00:00

They might let you know from their reaction, or won't you quickly figure out of they are at university just by talking?

Notarandomencounter · 2017-09-03T09:15:07+00:00

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH TALKING! Approaching is risk-free in that regard. Just no kino, and dont kiss-close if you are in doubt about their age. Better safe than sorry. Age of consent in my country is 16, so i dont worry but i dont want to act on it either. Feels weird man. I usually get a number, build rapport and wait a year or two.

As age-finding tactics go, try discussing topics or places with an age-restriction. Having a drivers-license, higher-education, nightclubs etc. Or assume the wrong thing. My campus has alot of small girls. I all assume they are too young for me and i tell them. I exaggerate, how boring and old i feel (im 26) and really lay it on by describing a really boring thing i did recently. Its usually funny in an ironic way and it becomes natural to compare age and fluff on that topic after that because they often say things like ''you are only two years older than me!' Or ''thats not that old im 19, and i only did x and x in the weekend''

Notarandomencounter · 2017-09-03T09:20:30+00:00

About cold-approaching. Dont be afraid of approaching colds you think are older than you. I find women a bit older than me to be more confident in their wit and sexuallity and thus make for much more interesting pick-ups. One of the things you learn from approaching is the ability to build rapport with people. This can basically be practiced with anayone of your interest. So dont restrict yourself because then you wont surprise yourself and have no fear, because if you are nice and clean to look at, they will enjoy the pleasantness of your attention.

TheGreatestGaine · 2017-09-03T14:15:02+00:00

Before people give you the wrong idea here. In the United States, certain states allow the age of consent to be 16 years of age. HOWEVER, this consent can have it's limitations, such as in Arkansas, where the age of consent is 16, but it is illegal for a minor (under 18 years of age) to have sexual relations with someone who is over 4 years older than them.

Just check your local laws.

2017-09-03T17:25:38+00:00

It should come out in the conversation. The moment she starts talking about stuff she is doing in highschool is your sign to say thanks and move on.

Title	Risk of accidentally hitting on an underage or younger girl during cold approaches
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Date	September 3, 2017 6:59 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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