I just don't get it

thedessertplanet · 2017-10-01T14:02:06+00:00

Gets better with experience. Just force yourself to practice.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-01T19:30:24+00:00

You're trying to make it work. You're playing not to win, but to not lose. Be willing to fuck it up, it's the only way. By the way, as you already noticed, studying this shit won't get you better, only worse. Even though you think you can do it, when I tell you to do it you get nervous and you can't. It's like studying back flips. If you study the dynamics of backflips really hard and know everything about it, you still can't do it, it's as if you didn't study anything. If you spend an afternoon practicing it really hard, by the night you'll know how to do it whenever you want. Same with game, except it's not an afternoon, it's a month or two.

LeftAndRed · 2017-10-01T14:14:22+00:00

Open with a plan to exit before closing. (I just wanted to compliment you. We were just walking the same way so it's a random conversation. You looked bored and so was I.)

When I started all my nerves came from focusing too much on close that I fucked up rapport. Now you need to focus solely on rapport for a while. No closing unless it falls into your lap and she won't take no for an answer.

MIERDAPORQUE · 2017-10-01T19:16:00+00:00

I’d say stay in school and college will be fun if you like making chick friends. Networking is where it’s at seriously.

Buuuuuuuut, I’ve learned so much about people skillls and persuasion when I sold cable door to door. This might seem like a bad idea, but if you do this for like a month. Holy shit you’ll be able to talk to anyone especially chicks. Although it might make you view any type of conversation as a sales pitch

_valtiel_ · 2017-10-01T19:45:45+00:00

Keep at it. This is a learning experience. Sooner or later you won't get tongue tied as long as you keep throwing yourself in the deep end.

Title	I just don't get it
Author	GolfballEnthusiast
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	October 1, 2017 1:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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