How you guys plan to go and pickup?

Hector_Castillo · 2017-10-02T20:01:09+00:00

I'd start with doing exactly that. Wandering around. Scope out shops and get a feel for a location. Get really into the experience. See what it's like to walk around and realize how little people actually pay attention to you, or if they do, how quickly they forget about you.

Also, learn to spot girls who are interested. Girls will give out signals whether you approach them or not. Walk around and see what kind of signals girls give out. Not just about you but in general. Observe how they interact with their surroundings.

I'd advise at least saying hello to women as they pass by you or complimenting them in passing. You don't have to do a full on cold approach, but seeing the ease of speaking words to a passing woman will help build you up to the confidence to straight up approach a chick.

One of the biggest realizations I've had is that if you're not yet that guy who picks up chicks, you have to at least acknowledge that there are men out there who do. And then you have to ask yourself why THEY don't see it as something weird. I mean, at some point in their life, they had to consider that it was weird to approach women. Or at least that it was scary, right? They're human.

Nonetheless, they did it.

If they can, why not you.

It's only weird if you make it weird. We're men, designed to fuck women. That we think it's weird to approach women is the strangest trick that society has ever played on men (we played it on ourselves, if you think about it).

LogixSL · 2017-10-02T19:32:04+00:00

There's going to be differences of opinion here. Yes it will feel weird, as that's part of coming out of your comfort zone.

You're goal is to try and internalize the feeling of success. This is important. This might involve several smaller goals but in the big picture, you want to internalize the feeling of success.

With that said, yes, just wander around and do what you want. Talk to women you find appealing. Ask them about something you're interested in buying, like a new shirt, or new pair of shoes. Women love shoes.

Zoidberg22 · 2017-10-02T22:50:39+00:00

For me I only really do it with a common setting of some kind. The street is the only place I haven't talked to a stranger that's a girl before.

Title	How you guys plan to go and pickup?
Author	teacher1065
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	October 2, 2017 3:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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