My GF and me were in a long distance relationship. She broke up last night. Please help me to get her back.

FriedaCIaxton · 2017-10-03T13:38:38+00:00

Somehow you keep finding yourself alone with men you just met, and you don't think this is odd?

2017-10-03T13:44:09+00:00

LD relationships are terrible. If either of you are really committed one or both of you would have moved and shacked up together.

Johndeus1 · 2017-10-03T13:34:12+00:00

Hey man I dont really think her decision to leave you was due to any of the stories you mentioned. To be honest I did not read your text in details and just skipped through it. A girl would rarely leave a guy because she is afraid he will cheat on her. It happens that either she wont be with a guy for that reason or there will be days and months of drama before she actually thinks leaving you is the option. A sudden "hey I am afraid you will cheat on me" is not what is really going in her mind.

Lsn, relationships in general get really boring really fast, and long distance relationship have very little chance of survival, I am sorry, it is what it is.

I dont know how did your relationship go or the quality of the girl you are talking about, but I can assure you two things: 1- you will find better 2- the more you will fight for her, the more likely you will lose her for good.

There is no stronger turn off in this world than a guy "fighting" to get a girl back.

I am sorry I know it is hard to hear this, but just let it go.

Not just because it is definitely the better choice for you, not just because of the fact that you should NEVER EVER fight for someone who consciously chose to let you go, but because it is your best chance of getting her back.

When someone leaves, its either they come back on their own or you chase them further away.

Just let her go, don't fight for it, believe me I have been there and the only thing you will do is make a cringy fool out of yourself.

Best of luck dude

MarTweFah · 2017-10-03T15:04:54+00:00

Dude, she thinks you're into guys and you're bragging to her about how you pick up guys.

If a girl told you that she went over to a guys place at 4 AM and all she did was drink and play FIFA, would you believe her?

BestSC86 · 2017-10-03T15:51:33+00:00

"However, I can judge our relationship."

This is something I doubt completely as you are apparently unaware that you are allowing gay men to pick you up and take you home from bars? In fact, it is more than that you are actually giving off IOIs to gay men and allowing them to lead you thru a seduction to the point where you are going home with them or giving them your phone number?

Then you are also so socially clueless that you go bragging to your GF that you went home to fuck with a gay man before figuring out that he wanted sex?

So I am pretty certain that someone who doesn't know that they just accepted an invitation to a gay man's house to fuck really has no idea what the hell is going on with his relationship and this girl....just saying.

Now on to the point....you have dreaded this girl into think that you are gay, got angry when she rightly wondered what the hell was going on, she doesn't want to date a gay\bi dude and now want to build back some kind of trust?

Likely too late, you simply were too clueless about her concern and were stuck in your own....she does not want to deal with it any longer.

Step 1 Stop getting picked up by gay dudes
Step 2 Stop thinking that it is funny\normal\a joke
Step 3 Listen and consider what your GF is feeling toward your relationship, it isn't a joke or trivial as you found out.

PeperoParty · 2017-10-03T15:39:50+00:00

Sometimes people are too afraid of the consequences to face situations head on. To me it sounds like she just wants to be out of the relationship and is fixating on a problem which shouldn't really exist. If she loved you, she wouldn't break up with you.

Lambdal7 · 2017-10-03T18:15:06+00:00

LDRs suck and are not worth it. Get more girls and get a girlfriend that you can actually see when you want.

Title	My GF and me were in a long distance relationship. She broke up last night. Please help me to get her back.
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Date	October 3, 2017 1:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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