Hello everyone, long time lurker, first time poster (throwaway).

I've discovered TRP about 2 months ago. Ever since then I broke up with my LTR of 3 months (not because of TRP), read lots and lots of material (sidebar, Rational Male, Book of Pook, etc...) and did a little cold approaching in various circumstances.

I feel like I've made a major change internally, ceased to be that beta bux orbiter that would get friendzoned time after time and wasn't able to escalate with anyone. I got rid of most of those traits prior to discovering TRP, and lost my virginity not long ago, yet still wasn't satisfied with my sexual/social status and realized I'm not seizing all the opportunities I could get.

I want to get out there, make new friends, meet new women, and put those changes I feel like I've made into the reality test. As much as I got the theory in my head, it's worth nothing without the actual experience, and that's where I'm lacking.

You see, being an ever-changing person gone from a dorky beta to maybe-alpha (yet to find out haha), made me lose a lot of friends that I stopped making contact with as soon as I realized I was surrounded by losers. I'm currently left with 2 good friends, one lives near and the other lives pretty far away and we rarely meet these days, and when we do meet it's mostly for chilling and smoking pot and almost never going out and meeting new people.

As much as I love those friends of mine, I don't get to experience new things, new places and meet new people and broaden my social and sexual world. I feel like I'm stuck where I am because I'm not under the right circumstances that allow me to apply those changes to myself and live the life I truly want.

I don't live in a place like the United States, where there's a wide variety of places you could go that match every person's mind. I'm a music-lover and a musician, I kinda like pubs (as long as they're not too loud to speak in), hate clubs & parties and I also tend to be an introvert. I can't seem to find like-minded places I could go and socialize on the regular. I already thought of going out solo but let's face it, for someone that comes from my background it will never feel natural to step alone inside a place and start cold-approaching people, the fact that I'm alone and they may be able to tell will most definitely hurt my confidence & awake my anxieties.

I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read & reply.