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[–]alonzoriley 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think so at all. Most of what seduction and pickup teaches is to be a decent conversationalist and to get better at listening and being present. Basically, most men are self centered egoists all the time. Women are attracted or at least open to the possibility of romance until the men open their mouths. This stuff lets your actual personality get out and into the world so that you can have better connections and be a better human being.
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing can make you a psychopath. You either are, or aren't a psychopath. Let's call it a pre-existing condition.
[–]WannaChangeMyLife4ev 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would advise to you as you get better with women you put the same amount of work on yourself. Focus on yourself and women will make you more attractive to women.That's the ultimate goal of pickup.
[–]SocietalEngineering -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You will definitely be focused on the pickup, and not the women, which is an awesome thing.
Don't make the women important. They're not. What's important is your own personal journey.
[–]Ragondux 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don't make the women important. They're not.
They kinda are, though. I mean, you don't want to seduce women as part of the journey to become a man capable of seducing, you want to seduce women because women are nice to be with, right?
[–]SocietalEngineering 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
....I don't know if this post is being sarcastic or not, but no, I don't want to seduce women because they are "nice to be with".
I want to seduce them because it is a part of my journey of becoming a man capable of seducing.
I don't seduce women because they are important to me; I seduce women because I am important to me.
[–]Ragondux 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It wasn't sarcastic. I don't know how to say this without seeming aggressive but I think you're might be missing something important about life.
[–]SocietalEngineering 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I might not have everyone's life figured out, but I certainly have mine figured out.
Everyone's goals are different - just because you want something, that doesn't mean everyone else does. Don't let my or anyone else's desires affect what it is that you really want.
[–]salamanderheli 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If seducing women is integral to your journey of "becoming a man..." then they're important to you.
Having a chip on your shoulder is never attractive to anyone.
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