How do I initiate a threesome with a plate and her roommate?

gqtrees · 2014-11-09T17:33:13+00:00

how old are you?

the roomate might just be validating you to the girl you are fucking....girls do that all the time. Sometimes they validate for friends or just straight out cockblock.

if you still want to bring it up, maybe you can jokingly suggest it or hint at it when you and the girl are having sexy time or getting intimate? But be warned. Either you get the luck of the draw or you end up losing the plate.

fnordsnord · 2014-11-09T19:01:07+00:00

First - this is almost certainly a shit test. You're probably being set up to cheat with the room mate. If you make an unambiguous move, she'll almost certainly reject you and run and tell your plate, and you'll lose the plate.

Second, I've been chasing skirts for damn neat 40 years. I'm no Cassanova, but I've done okay, and I'm here to tell you that threesomes are HARD to set up. I've managed a total of FOUR, and those where in an open marriage and involved two bisexual submissives.

You're probably not gonna manage a threesome out of this. The best I think u can hope for is to maintain your current plate and get some practice gaming the roommate. Subtly. Not overtly.

I think your best play is to game the room moate in the most subtle, ambiguous manner possible. When it comes back to you from the plate, and it will, you mark my words, turn it around. For example:

"She said you kissed her!"

"What? I kissed her goodbye on the cheek. Are you that insecure?"

If you really want to try for a threesome, be prepared for disaster.

stillnoturday · 2014-11-09T18:58:45+00:00

good luck may the odds be ever in your favor.

[deleted] · 2014-11-09T20:13:27+00:00

Have absolutely no experience in this, but from what I read in Sex God Method, fantasy is a good way to introduce a girl to a certain deviant act. Read the book if you haven't already, the part about threesome fantasies. Author says it's a good way to introduce the idea to her. Hope this helps.

oldredder · 2014-11-10T07:32:03+00:00

Just frame it. Be open, be bold. Run it by the 1st girl you're fucking already. If she gives the no-go it might be because the other girl will give a no-go and she knows better. You can ask, being bold again.

Look at it this way. Is this girl very firmly attached to her boyfriend? For all you know the pair of girls are DTF 3-way with that other guy, maybe already have.

You don't know what you don't know.

The last thing a girl wants is to go for it with a guy who's acting try-hard, desperate or like he's chasing a dream - your boldness should be tempered with the cold, cool demeanor of a man who would enjoy it yet also appears as if he's already had this good luck enough times not to care if there's no interest.

I didn't push my boundaries when I had the chance and I have myself to blame. Had 2 hotel rooms side by side. Yes, SIDE BY SIDE. I blew it. One girl not interested in me but IS interested in the other girl. Other girl: I'm fucking her daily and 2x/day. Would be 3 but she worked long hours so that's all the time we had. That girl: likes the 1st one.

All I had to do was let them spend time in one room while I spend some time chillin' in another, then pop back in. Any excuse would be fine, like "oh, I'm going to the store, be back with some pop / chips in 15" or whatever. Make it clear to the girl I am fucking that the other girl is into her and let it be.

Also since both rooms are my rooms I get to keep all the room keys so no way I get locked out. I paid for both, it's my call.

Ya... I didn't. Don't miss a chance when it's so easy, so there. Nothing's guaranteed but I see no reason the girl you're fucking will blow you off for being bold yet confident in proposing this encounter.

Sure, I still got laid, laid real good & decently high going between both rooms. That also is the problem: if I cared less about getting high with each girl separately and cared more about sex with the pair than sex with just the one (which was guaranteed) I'd have had that 3-way. Almost 100% sure. Give it... 98% sureness. And if no I still get to lay the one girl I'm already laying.

Take the chance. Be bold.

RedHeimdall · 2014-11-13T17:26:33+00:00

I agree with the other guys who said go for it. You're probably not going to have that many threesomes in your life so I say take every shot you get.

You don't really even run any risk if you bring it up to your plate the right way in my experience. When you're in bed with her at their place, after sex, say something like "that was hot... you know what would make it even hotter, next time we should grab your roommate, bring her in here and throw her into the mix." With a sly smile.

The worst I've ever gotten back is a playful shit test along the lines of "oh so I'm not good enough for you now?" said with a smile.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-11-09T17:32:04+00:00

They're testing you. If the room mate is texting you like that, the plate knows.

They probably want to see if you'll cheat on her. It's possible they want to tag team you tho. Go for it man. Bring it up while you're being adventuresome.

Also, be sassy and suggestive with the roomie, but show strong preference for the plate.

Title	How do I initiate a threesome with a plate and her roommate?
Author	plateroommate
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Date	November 9, 2014 5:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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