I had a really solid chance with this girl a few months ago, but messed it up before I found TRP. I was being extremely needy and probably came off as a total bitch. I've since been swallowing the pill, focusing on myself, and haven't talked to her much since, except occasionally during the class we have together.
Fast forward to Saturday, she hits me up looking for a party. I was already at one so I told her to come by. She shows up with her roommates, being really flirty (slapped my ass when I walked by while talking to another girl, giving me the "kiss me" signs before looking away, etc) and then we eventually wound up dancing. I said (also, whatdyall think about this?) "Hey for the record, sorry I fucked it up a few months ago. I wasn't the same then as I am now."
She responds with "You didn't fuck it up" She then got really into the grinding, so I turned her around and we started making out.
Cops busted the party, we left, and as we were leaving she goes "Hey, I don't want anything from you." I asked her what she meant and she said she didn't want me to be "collateral damage." I was confused so I asked her what she meant and she reaffirmed that she wanted nothing, so I over exaggerated my response, saying "OHHHHHH!" (while covering my mouth, like you do when you see someone get hurt, but its kinda funny) and then just walked away. Wound up meeting another girl and getting her number later, so not a total loss, I'd just like to know what was going through her head and if there's anything I could have done.
Thanks fellas.