Hey guys,

I am going on my second date with one girl I met this week.

The thing is I am not sure should I pay for her or not. On our first date I paid for coffees but tomorrow we are going to grab some food and obviously it is going to cost me more than coffee.

She isn't my gf yet and I didn't kiss her yet since she indirectly said that she needs more time for that.

I guess I shouldn't because we didn't have any intimacy but I don't know how to subtly indicate that she should pay for herself?

What do you guys think?