I've been dating her for about 2 months. 22yo

In the beginning her libido was super high, she'd pull me from places and bring to my room to fuck me. And she would moan and scream. She'd often tell me "our sex is the best i've ever had". she says I'm the most attractive person she's ever dated and i can get any girl. I work out a lot, and I'm pretty lean @ 195lb. so I dont my physical attractiveness is the problem.

anyway, a couple weeks into our relationship she got on the pill and her libido noticeably decreased. she wouldn't initiate often. when we did have sex, it was always amazing .. ie, her legs would be shaking for a couple minutes after we were done... but i'd always do the initiating, and she wasnt very flirty outside the bedroom like she used to be (for example, whereas before i'd squeeze her ass and she'd turn around and kiss and rub my cock over my jeans and sorta wink at me, this time she wouldn't pay attention to it whatsoever). when i sexted or her something she'd just kind of shrug it off.

anyway i said i couldnt deal with her new sex drive and asked her to get off the pill and she did. she was very hesitant but she agreed (also - to add to that - she's been in a really bad mood since she got on the pill and i told her she'd probably experience a mood lift as most girls do when they come off).

yesterday was the first day having sex off the pill (she stopped on sunday). she seemed into it, then i decided to put on the condom. we started having sex and by the look on her face she seemed to be enjoying it, then we went to switch positions and she kind of just pushed me off and told me to take off the condom because she didn't like it. so i was like okay? .. so i did, and then she started giving me a blowjob.

i didnt want a fucking blowjob though i wanted to fuck her. so i let her suck me off for like 30 seconds before i pulled her on top of me and said i didnt want a blowjob i just wanted to fuck. i went to stick it inside her and then she shut her legs and said something like "im just not in the mood, im trying to work my way up. the condom killed the mood". i was like wtf ... im still hard, but she shut her legs. i'm not one to rape my GF hoping she likes it. she offered to keep sucking my cock but i didn't want that. i looked at the time and noticed she'd miss her hourly bus (which happens pretty often, its not that big a deal) that she planned to take if we didnt leave right away. so we both got dressed and i walked her to her bus stop. we didnt talk. im pretty sure she was bullshitting about the condom because she wants me to hate her being off BC

i didnt text her that night, but at 2am i got a text "goodnight, i love you"... i texted her back about an hour later saying "we need to talk tomorrow. i love you too"

now its tomorrow, and originally i was going to say how our sex drives don't match and its a problem, but i really feel demasculinated that she wouldn't let me fuck her when i wanted it (despite her saying, numerous times "my legs are always open for you"). thing is, her sex drive might improve within the next few weeks off BC, so it may not be true. but i really dont want her to get away with rejecting me like that. it pisses me off.

[b]TL;DR: GF used to be horny, took the pill, stopped being horny. i asked her to come off the pill, she did, hesitantly. next time we had sex with a condom, she said the condom turned her off so she rejected me mid-sex (although she insisted she blew me instead, which i didnt want). how do i deal with this ?[/b]