Girls think I'm gay and cute (in a platonic way). What can I do to change this?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-21T05:43:47+00:00

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I've been told by like five girls I work with that I'm cute but they all seem to mean it in a platonic way.

How many of these girls are you interested in?

If the answer is zero, then this doesn't fucking matter if they see you in a platonic way.
If the answer is one or more, then how many have you asked to hang out with you, one on one? If the answer to this is none, then THIS is part of the problem.

I'm going to go ahead and assume that you haven't tried any of them.

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I also recently realized that they were all trying to figre out if I was gay. This isn't new. It's been a theme for a while now. I tried asking one of the girls why they thought I was gay and they said I didn't "act a fool" around girls like most guys.

Food for thought: girls often start talking about whether a guy is gay because they are interested in that guy and trying to figure out a reason for why he hasn't been picking up their attempted cues for that guy to come at them.

Translation: Some girls have to come up with a reason like, "he's gay," so they don't feel unattractive.

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The same girl told me that they thought I was cute because I'm awkward and don't seem to understand social cues,

Translation: "Why the fuck isn't this guy picking up on all the signals she (or one of her friends) has been sending you to come and get her?"

You don't understand cues as much as you think you do.

ambiguousmango · 2017-11-21T05:10:28+00:00

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DirkDieGurke · 2017-11-21T05:33:56+00:00

You're probably really young??? Sit down and study the art of manliness. Change your demeanor and style. Don't try and please everybody. Pick out some guys you know that are really manly, and model yourself after them. Read No More Mr Nice Guy. Read Models by Mark Manson. Good luck.

pbgswd · 2017-11-21T05:13:27+00:00

stop being so damned nice. Dont feel bad you came off as an asshole. Work on getting a woman alone and doing things. That makes sense.

Title	Girls think I'm gay and cute (in a platonic way). What can I do to change this?
Author	ambiguousmango
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	November 21, 2017 3:54 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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