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[–]Runway_ho 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is an awesome idea! Keeping close track of what you do is really important and this removes the rose-tinted glasses from it. I'd recommend going the ol' fashioned way and writing down how your night went when you're clubbing. This, along with setting yourself clear goals like solving your sticking points when going out, are probably the most important points when it comes to getting far in seduction.
Oh, and you could probably put the recording on here when something funny happens.
[–]Mr_0range 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is brilliant. You should start posting the audio.
[–]erikhun 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I did this! It's indeed cringy and full of lessons to listen afterwards. Here is one of my recording: https://soundcloud.com/i76war/game-001
Context: first convo of the day, I was about to meet up with some wings and I talked to her while waiting. Feedback is highly appreciated!
[–]Brohsah 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Come on man, I sat threw seven minutes of ur convo so you could not ask for her number? Ok heres a few pointers, The girl was into you, so the rule that you need to talk all the time at the start, didn't apply. You needed to talk less at the start, you were cutting her off to much. You had some good breaking rapport comments, but you need to pair that with qualification, after she qualifies herself to you. You also needed to go for the number, she obviously wanted to give it to you but you just didn't ask. Your tonality was a bit off at times, but thats a minor point. Another point is that when you talk to a girl about fashion, just tell her a girl told it to you when she asks. It's a perfect time to self qualify without it appearing to be self qualifying. final note, good job, your set wasn't perfect, but none of them ever are, the main thing was she was into you, so you only real mistake in the convo was not asking for the number. Good luck!
[–]erikhun 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks! Yes, I wasn't really present. This was my first attempt on recording and when I thought about asking for contact it just put me into my head that I'd need to get my phone out (that I was recording with) while the recording is going on so I just chickened out (I guess, this is just a theory.). And I have other rationalizations as well, like I was about to meet up some friends and I didn't really like her. Chickenshit, haha! Thanks for the feedback!! If you also have recording I'd like to have a listen.
[–]SquigglyTheSquiggle 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man. What device do you use for this? I'm trying to find a device that I can use in my pocket without the friction of my pocket creating huge interference. I've found iphone microphones work really well, but I don't want to record using my phone and exchange numbers. I also don't want to buy an entire new iphone
[–]Chichachachi 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Self qualifying states? What's that mean?
[–]Brohsah1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
typo, I meant statements, cheers for picking it up.
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