Girl seems interested in me and then brings up other guys

daygamer0911 · 2017-11-27T08:46:38+00:00

You haven't even kissed and you're worried about dudes. Stop putting the cart before the horse

2017-11-27T09:01:43+00:00

[permanently deleted]

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-27T14:28:37+00:00

____1____

we exchange photos on snapchat regularly but not too much to make myself seem clingy.

First mistake. You've liked this girl for a while, apparently, and all you've apparently done is exchange pictures? This is kind of worthless.

Social media doesn't replace in person time, man. If you like a girl, you HAVE to invite her to spend time with you, one on one.

____2____

Nothing really happened though because people were around, but I regret not asking if she'd like to take a walk or something.

Hindsight's 20/20.

____3____

I met up with her another day and we went for a walk with another one of her friends and she mentioned some other guy and how he was her 'new best friend'.

Best friend. If that's all you have, it's not necessarily anything.

She didn't say fucking. She didn't say anything about being into him. Nothing about wanting to bang him or date him.

And she's hanging with YOU at the time. So what the hell are you worried about? This isn't worth "talking about." There's nothing to talk about. If you try to talk to her about it, you might as well forget your chances, because putting your insecurity on display like that will be awkward as fuck. Handle this insecurity internally. Don't drag her into something that you need to be able to handle yourself.

Make a move already. invite her out for a walk or whatever, just you guys.

StrawberryKiss2559 · 2017-11-27T10:09:30+00:00

Are you sure she's into you? Seems like she thinks of you as a friend.

Title	Girl seems interested in me and then brings up other guys
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	November 27, 2017 7:45 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7ftkbe/girl_seems_interested_in_me_and_then_brings_up/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/girl-seems-interested-in-me-and-then-brings-up.1437533 https://theredarchive.com/post/1437533

Comments