Gentlemen, (and any rp ladies who care to share)

I’ve been dating a woman for about 6 weeks with the hopes of turning it into a LTR. She has met ALL my criteria minus one area: sex. When we starting dating she told me right off that she suffers from a sexual dysfunction that can be overcome with physical therapy (vulvodynia). Meanwhile she’s totally open to anything other than vaginal sex since it causes pain and her physician has asked that she abstain from sex for now. Because of our connection I’m willing to support her and not put any pressure on her. She’s totally open to other sexual experiences like oral and anal. But here’s the problem… I rocked her world orally Saturday night and left her in a quivering mess. She even told me that she hasn’t been that turned on in a long time, if ever. And she was too tired to reciprocate. So we went to sleep and I nodded off feeling a bit frustrated. That morning I awoke and told her I was turned on and needed some help, again she tells me she’s too tired. So I let her sleep and I left the apt and went to get coffee. When I returned she told me she felt abandoned and started crying. So, we work through her feelings and she gets all excited and wants to give me a BJ but we’re both already late for other engagements (seriously I know – who doesn’t have 10 minutes but I really didn’t). I leave with plans to visit later in the week. She calls me that night and asks If I’d like to come over and I say yes (expecting that we’d pick up where we left off). As I’m driving to her place with an overnight bag she calls and tells me that she’s tired and wants to just sleep when I get there. So, I get to her place and after a bit of conversation I’m feeling tired too so I just crawl into her bed and go to sleep. She comes to bed shortly after. No sexy times. I leave early in the morning to work frustrated out of my mind.

So here’s my plan, I want to send her a text (or even a phone call) and let her know plain and simple. I’m frustrated and need to put my cock in your mouth. Obviously I’d do this in a way that doesn’t offend but is perfectly clear. If I get one more rejection I’m nexting her. Thoughts?