I feel like this is my Achilles heel right now. After improving almost everything else about myself, I've come to realize or believe that humor as well as charisma is probably THE most important part of having game.

I try to explore with not being so serious quite often but I think my jokes sometimes go overhead or are a bit too sarcastic or maybe literally just not used properly. Honestly I'm almost certain I've been too afraid of telling a joke and not getting a laugh previously.

How would you go about improving this? Is it as simple as I'm thinking, literally make more attempts and try to understand where my fear of telling a joke without laughter comes from? Attempting stand up comedy seems a bit extreme for working on such a thing...

I would love to be more charismatic, without getting into my life story... I must admit I'm probably not the most pleasant person to be around.

Also, I don't mean to derail the topic but it may be relevant.... Hearing about Louie C K's situation blew my mind. I was already thinking most, if not all stand-up comedians were getting laid pretty easily. My hunch is that internet porn has warped his mind, but that is just my speculation.