How to get rid of my lack of self confidence because of my height

gabrielshang · 2017-12-06T09:27:50+00:00

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2017-12-06T15:55:19+00:00

"Wear your insecurities as armor, so that they may never be used against you"

Everyone's got something wrong with them. I'm too fat, others are too skinny, and even the bodybuilders with six pack abs look at themselves and think "I'm not good enough"

We don't feel better when we achieve those impossible goals because... well they're impossible. We achieve them when we move the goalposts to reasonable levels. This is even easier for you since you can't change your height.You can only learn to accept it.

When approaching girls they don't care if you're short, they care if you're insecure about being short. You could be 4'0, but if you're confident and don't give a fuck about it, then they'll learn to not care either. Crack jokes about your height, bring it up intentionally if they seem affected by it ("I'm 5'6 on a good day, but don't worry. Good things come in small packages,"), and overall just don't care. This works especially well if you bring up your height first, since they can't attack something you've already acknowledged you don't care about.

At the end of the day there's nothing you can do about it, so don't worry and focus on improving in areas you can manage (a 5'6 guy with good physique and nice clothes looks 10x better than a 6'0 neckbeard, trust me)

gabrielshang · 2017-12-06T16:27:06+00:00

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DirkDieGurke · 2017-12-06T17:18:43+00:00

5'6" isn't short. Do your feet reach the ground? Find another excuse.

Title	How to get rid of my lack of self confidence because of my height
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Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	December 6, 2017 5:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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