So I have two situations that have me confused af.

Situation #1: I met a girl during my job and my aim was to just go on a simple coffee date. So I get her number, I texted, she responded and I waited to call her back. The day I called her she didn’t respond but she called me during class so I flirted a little and told her that I’ll call later. I called her during the afternoon bc I wanted to set a meetup date but she didn’t respond. I waited a day to call her back and she just texted me to wait to call. When she called me it was 1am and I was at a party so I told her I’ll call her later and I that really wanted to setup a date. I called her and what a surprise she didn’t pickup, I just left a text. My plan rn is to just wait a week and if nothing then move on. Any advice? I personally didn’t like how she doesn’t pickup my calls but I pickup hers. I honestly really liked this girl and I felt she did too but the whole ghosting thing was just weird.

Situation #2: After class I talk with this one girl and got to know her better after class. I wasn’t really into her but I wanted to push my seduction skills so I told her I’ll drive her home. So we’re talking and I’m being a little flirty. I noticed she constantly kept asking for validation and once in a while she tried bugging me about something which I just played off. At some point we’re near her house so I get extra flirty, she tells me “most my friends want to fuck me but I’m just not that type of girl.”. She said that a lot mind you and I just responded with okays. I ask if anyone’s home and she’s free and she tells me she could hang for an extra 30 min. So ask a good place to pull up that was empty and she took me to this alleyway. And I tried escalating by getting my closer, letting her know it’s okay to touch, and I tried going for a kiss. She stopped me and told me she had a bf that she cared about and I said that’s ok and I let her know how I was feeling. She then asked me what I thought of her female friends while I was touching her flirtatiously. Eventually I just backed away because she wasn’t reciprocating and we just ended it right there. Any advice? I’ll say 90% of the girls I hit up and are super attractive have boyfriends and I want to know the best move.

Thanks for reading all of this if you did!