How Women's Tastes in Men Change as They Age

Confusion99 · 2017-12-16T09:50:35+00:00

And what about women who have hit 30/30's, what is usually their opinion on men of the same age?

What are women looking for then? Looks? Security? Maturity?

I ask as I still see "women" at that age go after the wrong guy, usually guys with next to no prospects etc.

2017-12-17T20:37:20+00:00

Women don't really change. They will always like a man who makes them feel feminine, sexy, protected and loved.

2017-12-15T20:29:50+00:00

Hey gents,

I think you'll find this article interesting, especially if you're having trouble with a particular age group of women.

Here's some snippets:

Women’s tastes in men, on the other hand, go through some major evolutions as they age. From between a girl’s late teens to her mid-30s, she shifts her tastes often dramatically.

Talk to most single women in their 30s about younger women and you’ll hear such women pan younger women’s standards in men. “Young women have the worst taste in men,” they’ll tell you. “The guys they go for are assholes with attitude. They have no taste.”

Male pundits normally regard this as a way for an older woman to make herself look more valuable in the dating market (i.e., she is more ‘refined’ than ignorant younger women) in order to make up for some of the lost value of her faded youth. And this “younger women are silly and foolish” frame does help older women do that. But there is a deeper reason so many single women in their 30s feel this way about those younger versions of themselves on the dating scene.

Before we talk about that though, we’ll talk about the different sorts of men women at different ages are most drawn toward. As always, game and fundamentals play a huge role here – the better yours are, the less you need to worry about fitting a certain template, and the better you’ll do even within that template.

Note that the age ranges we’ll discuss below are generalities. Some women may be more or less ‘mature’ than their ages (we’ll talk about that a bit below too). But in general, for the majority of women, you should find these age ranges fairly accurate.

UNDER 21: BAD BOYS, OMG! SO DREAMY! ❤ ❤ ❤

Women under 21 love the bad boy. All girls love bad boys, but if she’s 21 or under he is her ideal. Different women have different standards for ‘bad boy’ of course. A girl from a broken home who’s done drugs and tattooed and pierced herself and dyed her hair lime green since she was 15 has a very different idea of who is the ‘ideal bad boy’ than a girl from a stable two-parent family raised with religious ideals and who is a relatively conservative person by nature herself.

The tattooed drug-using girl’s ideal bad boy will usually be too dangerous/wild for the traditional girl. And the traditional girl’s ideal bad boy will usually be too milquetoast for the tattooed drug-using girl. Each girl has an upper bound and a lower bound for how ‘risky’ her ideal should be (even most tattooed drug-using girls won’t want to date a guy who lives on the street because fuck the system, for instance). The important point is that the guy each of these girls is into most is one who feels to them like an exciting, risqué male.

One nice advantage of getting older is if you’re a sexy guy and you’re outside the ‘acceptable’ age range for a younger girl, that alone can make you enough of a ‘bad boy’ to hook up with. This is a big part of why most self-improving older men find younger women are easier for them in their late 20s, their 30s, and their 40s than they were when these men were the same age as these girls. If you’re in the under-21 age range yourself and you want to do well with girls in your age range, you must cultivate enough of an asshole persona. Do that (mixed with tight fundamentals and game), and you become the dreamboat jerk she adores.

There are a few reasons under-21 women love bad boys to such a high degree. A review of the scientific literature on this came up with a few key factors [read: links to the social psychology papers are in the original article]:

Successful first dates are key to dating success, and bad boys do better on their first dates (more experienced so they know what to do more, more flirtatious and thus more fun/interesting, etc.)

Nice men are positioned as men women ‘should’ want to date (which makes them kind of boring, plain, and vanilla), while bad boys are men they ‘should not’ want to date but who are fun and sexy and can still position themselves as viable-enough dating options that a girl can excuse herself for dating them (which makes them the risky, exciting options who are still just inside the range of acceptability)

Younger women in general are in search of more excitement and often less lasting/serious commitments... which the bad boy can offer (nicer men often want to be with their gals forever)

gregory2112 · 2017-12-16T16:32:32+00:00

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