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[–]cutesnappingturtle 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Man I gotta start cold approaching at school!! You are right I'm going to start taking advantage. Thank you.
[–]kfudgingdodd 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I got kicked out in grade 12. It was like getting kneecapped. So much easier in highscool and you got another 2 years to enjoy. Kill it.
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[–]cutesnappingturtle 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These videos recommended were very helpful. Thank you!
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At 16? Not really. Unless you're involved in a lot of co-ed activities outside of school.
Maybe get a part time/weekend job at a movie theater or some place that draws a young crowd and workforce.
I'm sure you have friends who have a sister. Start talking to her and her friends.
Very good idea. I like it thanks!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Go to a fucking all boys school... What's next?
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh you mean that YOU go to an all boys school.
Your phrasing was ordering us to GO to an all boys school, and I was like, NO, I don't want to.
But as to your apparent question here: You have to find ways to socialize normally around mixed groups of boys and girls. There are clubs you can be involved with. I'd say that there is also an activity that would allow you to socialize in this way, while also developing game to a degree that most guys never reach:
Social partner dancing, like West coast swing (1, 2), Salsa, Argentine Tango (1, 2), Lindy Hop. Such communities allow minors to attend. I know a number of dudes and gals who started out when they were in middle school or high school. The dudes benefited because they learned how to become more socially aware and how to be comfortable around girls, touching girls, and also to be aware of whether the girls wanted any of that or not.
[–]nyeqaz 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm not sure how good of an idea this is, but it's worked out pretty good for me so far. I go on Omegle, which is a site where you mean random people, and when I finally find girls my age (beware the bots) I flirt a bit and try to get there snapchats. Don't be discouraged this takes a bit of time. When I finally do I talk to them and flirt with them. This helps you get better at flirting without getting all of the girls in your school thinking that you flirt with everyone. Then when you are confident in your skills find someone at school, and if you like them try it out. This helps you get experience without making it look like you are flirting with everyone.
[–]cutesnappingturtle 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LOL I never thought i'd hear this but I dig the idea. What tags do you put i'm gonna try it out?
[–]nyeqaz 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the tags that work the best for me are: chat, bored, and since I'm also 16 I use 15, 16, 17 pretty much all the ages you are interested in. Don't use tags like instagram, and snapchat, since all the bots use those. EDIT: I forgot to mention that this worked for me, but I kinda messed it up. I fell in love with some girl I met on Omegle, and she lives close to me and now we're dating, (I know she's real I met with her irl a bunch of times, although I wouldn't recommend this because you could get kidnapped or something)
[–]MalcolmRome 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am an ok looking guy at 23 ,but at 15/16 I was ridiculousy good looking. I had flawless skin and ottermode ripped and tall. I basically got hit on a lot at malls,local theme parks,grocery stores,walmart,and parties.I feel like when you are in high school you can hit on girls anywhere.They are mostly single ,in meaningless relationships,or are looking for bfs. When you my age you have to be worried if they are married,have kids,or have had abusive relationships and trust issues. Enjoy being young bro,and remember you still have time to game.
[–]Ecurbnon 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Party's, school sport events like basketball games, football games, volleyball games are great. The mall is also great.
[–]Im_whale 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reading through the comments I feel like none of them are actually advice you can use. In fact pretty much all of are useless.How to expand social circle and get a gf? just meet more people. Yea thanks if it was that easy everybody in the mothers would be a social god. First let me just say I was in the exact same position you're in and it took me a while to figure this shit out. None of the comments seem to mention something called "demographics" which is by far the most important factor in dating(stole it from Models by Mark Manson). Let's say you're a nerdy guy who enjoys books and academics, you enjoy talking about physics and politics. You don't play any sports but you hit the gym few times a week to stay healthy. Maybe you join a club or two after school but these are mostly nerdy clubs. Well, that's who you are and the cruelty of reality is that unless you find a chick has similar interests with you, you're gonna fail A LOT. Just by talking to more people, the relationship you create are gonna be surface level friendship at most. It's pretty much impossible to create deep meaningful relationship/friendship because interests differ too much. Other people are hanging out with people that have similar interests with them. The quality of time they spent together is just going to be higher than spent with you. The sporty girl is going to have a better relationship with the sports guys, the theater girl is gonna have a better relationship with theater guys. It just ends up hurting even more at the end of the day because you invested all these time and energy all you get is a shallow network of people you know, they're not real friends. The solution is to know who you are and what type of girl is going to click well with YOU. In fact, if a girl is in your demographic you don't even need "game". So this is not going to be an easy thing to solve, it takes time but I wish you the best of luck.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THE MALL. Teen girl central, why do you think THEY are there, looking for teen boys.
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