Neil Strauss has a bit on this, but I can’t remember how it goes and didn’t turn it up in search.

The objection is along the lines of her not wanting to have fun with you if it’s only going to be for one night.

In my situation, I’m a traveler and am predicting this objection from a girl I know. Even though all the signs of attraction are there.

Anyone have suggestions on anecdotes or objection handling for this problem? I’ll need to get past whatever potential idealization she has in her head and focus on the carpe diem versus missed experience.